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I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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Okay, so i'm having surgury sunday (this sunday) and my school is letting us out tue-fri. So i will be at home alot. But the thing is i am not aloud outside cause of the cold So what are some fun ways to pass time in my room? (link)
get a bunch of interesting movies that just came out or that came out a long time ago and just enjoy yourself or you could go on your computer and just surf the net also drawing and reading will pass the time so will listening to music and talking to friends on the phone even have some of your friends over and watch movies with them trust me you wont get bored if you do all this.


I'm in 7th grade! Last year, I had a lot of friends. We kind of hung out in a group. There was this one girl named Kiara that we talked about. This year Kiara forgived me and we became friends. Then I lost all my friends and Kiara was still my friend. One day, something happened and i felt like Kiara betrayed me. She lost all her friends and I went back to my old friends that had been previously talking about me. Then I lost them again and Kiara felt like I used her and now I don't have any friends! What should I do at school when I am sitting there all alone with nobody to talk to and everyone else is with there friends talking and laughing? (link)
you should get up and make new friends if your old friends wont treat you right and be your friends again then the only thing to do is to introduce yourself to new people im sure once people get to know you they will want to be your friend i know its harder to do then to say but you have to try because sitting by yourself isnt going to be any fun you could also become friends with people in a different grade 7 class.


ok so i am doing an internship with this gallery curator... i am not paid or anything but i need it to graduate. I am freaking out because i am not sure if i meet the standard of professionalism that the manager requires. I have to fill in 180 hours... i am supposed to do stuff that include website design and supervision of projects (like if they gallery has something on video i have to deal with the finalcut technician guy and tell him how the gallery wants it) what if my way of doing things or my style doesn't meet hers? what if she doesn't like my work! i don't want to end up not passing this or worse be shunned upon or something! she has major contacts and i feel i don't have the least bit experience!!! help (link)
you'll be fine obviously you have a little experience because you go the internship so just calm down you can only do great things if you believe you can other wise you wont so just trust your instincts and do what feels right and you should be fine if you have trouble on your first assignment ask for some opinions from the people around you they will most likely help you.


So my 22 bday is coming soon and I wanted to do something different in nyc with my boyfriend and friends. Any ideas?? Btw im a female :) (link)
you could go out to a club and have a few drinks first and then get a bunch of friends and head down to a restaurant for dinner or you could have a dance party at your house and just drink and dance and just hang out.


I am about to fuck up my computer.

Something happened and everything started going wrong. Pop-ups are showing up. But I have a good pop-up blocker. These things are popping up without an internet browser, so whatever the fuck this is, it is on my hard drive now. My computer is getting slow and fucking up. I went to system restore and every restore date is gone except 15 minutes ago and that one says, "Last Known Good Configuration."

I'm scared to use it, because now I really think I will fuck up my computer. What is going on? Somebody help me. ASAP.

P.S. I am not signing into any e-mails or anything, until I get to the bottom of this. (link)
its most likely a virus you should take it in to get repaired because sometimes even turning on your computer can infect other people on your msn with it so i would get it fixed asap.


this question is about new years. Im european and close to my family. My gradfather is not well but not dying. He's got a bad leg with circulation problems. Anyway....my mom wants to go down and spend new years with them, and being that im close to the family i feel obligated to go. thing is i gots a boyfriend i would rather spend new years with because with my family we'll be at home celebrating. What should i do? whats the RIGHT thing to do? thanks in advance (link)
the right this to do is to go see your grandfather because even though he isnt dying he is sick and im sure he would want you there and if you dont go and something happens then you will end up feeling guilty so ya you should definitly go and you and your bf could celebrate before or after and just make it special for yourself so that you will still have your special new years like you planned just on a different day.


okay. so i'm 16. just started highschool. I'm sure tht i'm not ugly, because all the guys used to stare and stuff at the beginning of the year. and everything. And i used to talk to so many of them. and then i started getting back to my shy self after settling in. Now its so hard for me to talk to guys. I don't know what to say to them or anything. so I just don't say anything practically. I think i mite be socially retarded. But anyway. The guys that used to look at me and smile at each other don't even do that anymore. And this kid called me an ogre. then yesterday, this other kid made fun of me. I don't know what to do. what do you guys think about this? (link)
I think thats mean you need to stand up for yourself and you need to be able to tell the people who say things to you to back off because if you let people bother you now then they alway will i know its harder to do then to say but trust me it will save you a lifetime of pain.


when is the average time to start im 12 some of my frinds have but im wondering when the average age is (link)
mostly around 14-16 some who are early bloomers get it sooner but 14-16 are the most commom not many girls get it at 1 so your friends might be really early bloomers ask you mom what age she got her's at because some girls follow there moms pattern and get it at the same age as them good luck i hope i helped.


hi, i need some help finding some good books

im 16/f and i really love mysteries and crime books, but i also love an occasional good series.

i read a really good book a few months back, the doctor's wife. i really really loveeeed that book. does anyone know any books similar to that?

i also read a book called bones, which was another good book. im currently reading this book called on off, and another book called high crimes.

the problem is i read good books too quick, and i cant find any real good ones on my own.

anyone wanna help me?

the only series i liked was the twilight one, which i was into way before the craze started because of the movie.

i also liked this series called cirque du freak, but theres 12 of them, i stopped at the fifth of sixth because they didnt have the next one at any bookstore around me, and im not about to order it online.

i need a really good series or a good book to read during boring school, thanks!

also, dont say janet evanovich or whatever, i tried to read one of those and it got annoying (link)
go to this website http://www.kidsreads.com/series/index.asp
it has a bunch of series that are mysterious and crime related good luck.


Hi, I am 14/F

I am a veryyyyyy confident person. I hang out with guys allllll the time, which is part of the reason I am currently single. (I swear they think I am one of the boys. Plus they are intimidated by me being Student Body President) ANyways, I act completely chill around all of them, except for a certain boy named Don. I have had the biggest crush on him for 2 years. I get really nervous around him and I can't think of anything to say. His friend, however, is also someone I like. I have known him since 4th grade. We have been best friends ever since. I have a HUGE crush on him, and I don't get weird around him at all.

I guess my question(s) are:
1. Why am I nervous around Don and not his friend?
2. What can I do to not be as nervous?
3. Do guys really find being Student Body President that intimidating??

Please help me woth any of these questions.
Thanks,
Lys (link)
I think the reason your more nervous around Don is because you like him more and dont want him to think your stupid so you dont say much or act confident when your around him and your not nervous around his friend because you have known him better and you probably talk to him like everyday and don it just someone you dont get to say a lot to.

Well to stop being nervous you have to make yourself believe that you really like DOn and just start talking to him more treat him like you treat your guy friends at first and then start making him realize that you like him and treat him like you would treat a special person in your life so basically talking and hanging out with him is the key to getting confident around him.

And lastly most guys dont care but some do get intimidated because they feel that a student body president is a little more tough and smart and so that kind of makes them feel a little less confident compared to you but im sure that your guy friends will stop feeling that way once they get use to the idea that you are student body president.


okay im 14/f about to be 15 soon. and well i dateed this guy kyle for 4 months and we had a messy break up. i havent stoped likeing him i was with him for so long. kinda. but im in high shcool and hes in middel school. but he still likes me and we hook up when we hang out. but he got his fone taken away by his mom. so i stoped talking to him like for 2 months and i started to talk to my other ex who goes to a diffrent school but hes older then me. but we hooked up and all i could do is think of kyle and patrick could tell because he said i did something weird when we were hooking up.patrick was my everything the only guy i said i loved you to. but it feels weird being with him like that when kyle thinks im waiting for him till next year. patrick got mad at me when i told him why i was feeling like i was he wont talk to me now. so i cant talk to kyle or patrick. so i started to tell my freind brandon whos been my best freind for ever. well he told me hes been in love with me sence 6th graade what am i supposed to say to that bc i know i use to like him but i didnt want to cross the line of friendship. so now brandon calls me and walks me to my classes. and everyone thinks were dateing but were not and at my games hes all ways there(i cheer) and hes allways texting me asking me how my day is and at night he texts and says good night (link)
well i think you should try going out with brandon and just forget your ex's and the plus side to this is brandon knoes everything about your past so when you feel like you miss your ex's he will help you feel better and since he's already acting like a bf it wont feel wierd and dont worry about crossing the friendship line at all because if you two are truly good friends then nothing will happened if you break up because things didnt work out but from my experience relationships with guy friends last longer and are better in many ways so just give him a shot. good luck :)


okay my boyfriend teases me a lot and i wanna know how i can tease him back. I have no idea how to though.
guys what really drives you crazy and makes you want her more or girls what do you do to drive your guys crazy?
any help appreciated (link)
I tease my bf by saying how certain guys look so hot and he gets all jelous but of course he acts like it doesnt bother him i also poke him and stuff just to annoy him and he finds that really cute anyways you should basically be cute but annoying at the same time because thats what get them all crazy about you.


Hey guys I'm try to lose weight but the main problem is my STOMACH. That is literally where all of my fat is and it bothers me so much. It makes me so self conscious. So what im asking is if you could find me what to eat and exercises to make the stomach become as flat as possible. Thank you so much! (link)
sit ups work a lot better then any other exercise also any other exercise that involves your stomach will work like crunches but of course exercise alone wont help you need to cut down on the fatty and sugury food and concentrate on the fruits and vegetables. You can pretty much incorparate them into anything you eat so just give it a try for about 2-3 months and you should see some results in the first week or two and once you do your gonna wanna keep going . good luck=)


But in white?

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=6755145 (link)
most fabric stores have them just try going to some if not there then dollar stores will definitly have them. Good luck:)


In my moms dream i was beheaded in a car accident.Their was lots of blood.I looked it up and it means death in going to happen
does this mean im going to die
i know it sounds stupid
but the whole thing kinda scared me (link)
your not gonna die bad dreams dont matter there just something that is scaring a person and keeps coming up in creative and scary ways like your mom might be scared to lose you so her dreams come out as nightmares nothing is going to happen to you.


how can i get rid of my acne. its not because i have a dirty face or anything like that. i only get them the week before im about to start my period (link)
Use proactive i used to get a lot of acne before and then when i started using proactive daily the acne stoped you could order it over the phone or only or you can get it from the mall too just go to the people who do the hall sales theres always a stand that says proactive and its only 20 bucks so its not that expensive but if you dont find proactive then try any clean and clear products they work good too. good luck :)


Do you have to be 18 to buy diet pills from like wallgreens or somewhere like that?
and can you take them if your on birth control?????
THNAKSSSS (link)
yes you have to be 18 and no you cant take them while on birth control.:)


so i'm taking supplements because i'm one of those people who's motabolism is really fast, so its hard to gain weight. I heard that you have to work out like lift weights, i was wondering is i can dance instead of working out? would this work too? bcuz i can't really go to the gym to lift weights. (link)
ya dancing is considered working out as long as you sweat a little and are getting hot you should be fine.


i have pro-active and i absolutely love the refining mask it works so good on my skin but it only comes in the mail once...is their any way to keep subscribing so they send it to you with the package? (link)
You would have to contact them through mail or phone and ask them sometimes they will but you can get proactive cheap at the mall they sell it at the little stand things that are infront of the stores and stuff but ya I would call them and ask and you dont want to leave it on all night trust me ive tried it and my pillow turned all sticky and it was hard to get it off in the morning just spend the 10 mins good luck :)


me and my boyfriend have been going out since march
and hes in college and im still in highschool. yeah i know its stupid and no one stays together when they go to college. but theres just something different about us. whenever were together its perfect. but lately we barely talk. and its just like boring. and im ALWAYS the one who has to text him. and like he just doesnt seem like interested in me. but then he will tell me he loves me and stuff. and ill like try to talk about us and like stuff and he will just get mad. i was like you really dont seem like you wanna be with me anymore and hes like i do and if you ask that one more time then we are through. hes been a complete dick to me lately and im scared if i do say the wrong thing he is gonna leave me. i just talked to him right now since yesterday and hes like whats wrng and im like i miss you. and hes like if you did you have texted me sometime throughout the day. and im like sorry. i took a nap when i got home from school and just woke up cause i didnt feel good. and hes like ok. and then hes like im studying ill talk to you later. and it makes me soo mad cause hes always "studying" so im just like you dont wanna be with anymore i know you dont. i cry everyday. we never tlak anymore and nothings the same so just tell me. and he didnt text me back. i really fell for him and i hate that i did. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. but i know hes not like that. he doesnt party and i really dont think he would cheat on me.
i dont know waht to do. i try talking about it but it doesnt get anywhere.
i need something to say to him because lately its been getting to me. and i dont let things get to me and i really fell for him.hellllp! (link)
K obviously your bf isnt a very talkative person but you need to get your feelings out or things wont work out talk to him and tell him you know that he will probably break up with you because your talking about something he didnt want to but tell him that you love him and how you feel im sure once he hears you out he wont want to break up with you i hope you get what im saying good luck:)




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