how much is over protective when it comes to your bf. mines lives 15 mints away, but different schools different friends, i love him and trust him! but i know he used to be a player, and some of his friends dont like me because i actully broke his ways, i know he wouldnt cheat, but when i talk to some of his friends that are girls online i just get unconfrotable and feel bad when i hear things that he didnt wanna talk to me about, am i over reacting if im just not confortable when he talks to other women?
I'd be careful with this guy. An old player hmm? If they have done it before, they can do it again. If you trust him though, that's good. People DO change and people DO need second chances. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable or jealous. If it keeps bugging you, talk to him and tell him it's important to you that you two talk. If you are uncomfortable when he talks to other girls, you should try and give him some space. I mean, you can talk to guys without cheating on your boyfriend right? So your boyfriend can talk to girls without cheating on your also. Give him a chance and talk it out.
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ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!
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Ok, so from what I got from that post if yours, you're a bit of a homophob (in this case a biphob lol). You're thirteen...perhaps you haven't matured enough to understand bisexuals and homosexuals. I'm sure over time, you'll get used to the idea. You don't have to be bi yourself, you just need a little respect for them. If he harrasses you, that doesn't sound too good. If it goes too far, I'd tell an adult about the situation. They'll straighten it out. Otherwise, you should talk to him (Yes, in the same room...not a mile away) and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you're not interested in guys and that you'd like to have some space. Please don't say anything harsh that might hurt the guy. We all have feelings...whether we're straight, gay, or bi =)
okay. i have a super-creepy stalker, and i talked about it at work and after that my friend called him and told him to leave me the hell alone because i told him to. the thing is.. i never said that. then my stalker got real mad and said " mind your own f-ing buisness a-hole!" and now im really afraid... for both myself and my friend. now i have to go back to school in a month and i have to see him everyday. im so worried that he is going to hurt me because he really doesnt respect authority at all. and i dont really want to talk to him at all because thats how this whole stalking thing began-- with me being nice to him. im so confused and everytime i see him i start shaking and my heart pumps really fast. do i need therapy or something? help me
Try to ignore him. Don't drag your friends into it...they may make it worse, as you've already experienced. Ignoring should do the trick. If he doesn't stop, talk to him about it...if you talk to him in person, make sure you have someone by your side so that you're safe. If he still doesn't back off, and you're really worried/bothered by this, you should definitely seek an adult's help. Tell your parents, a teacher, anyone you trust.
I have a friend who i know would always stick up for me in the worst situations, but it seems whenever i do something wrong or get her angry she doesnt want to talk to me anymore and says she hates me. She says this is because she is a very emotional friend, but i'm not sure if that is completley true. She always sticks up for me whenver someone makes fun of my voice because it sounds like a cartoons and she always wants to talk to me, but when we get into fights some of the things she says can be very hurtful. Like just the other day she said on the phone she didnt wanna talk to me so i said then hang up cuz ur wasting my minutesand she got really mad and started accusing me of stealing the guy she liked away from her. She said she hated me and that i was some stupid hoe and many more mean things like that. The next day she said she was sorry for getting all emotional and asked if i would forgive her, but deep down i wanted to say NO i dont forgive you, but if i was to do that i know that the friendship would be over forever and i dont want it to end for some strange reason. I dont know what it is inside of me that makes me keep wanting to be friends with her, but all i do know is that when i start to think about not being friends anymore i get so sad and think about how bad of a friend i am and i just dont know what to do......plz someone give me some good advice on this one! Thanks
Let me tell you this...you are NOT a bad friend! From what you described, it looks like SHE is being the bad friend. Wow, she is really emotional isn't she? That's really nice of her sticking up to you and apologizing, but those are really hurtful things she said to you. I don't think anyone should EVER EVER say they hate someone ESPECIALLY if they don't mean it. Hate is such a strong word...don't you agree? Explain to her exactly how you feel. Be sure to mention about when you didn't want to forgive her. Be gentle with her...since she's really emotional. Perhaps you both need some time apart for a little bit. Let things cool off. If, in the end, your gut still doesn't want to forgive her, I'd say to believe your gut. Her feelings matter, but remember...yours do too.
I have been going to the same Christian school all my life. Now Im entering high school and I have the choice to go to the public highschool near my house. Im worried about not making friends or getting into trouble in the public school. Its my choice but I cant decide. Which on should I go to and why? Please help! I know its a stupid question but please .. Thanks!
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Well, choosing which school you should go to is completely up to you. Let me tell you that a public highschool isn't as bad as you're making it sound. If you're friendly and try to talk to people, you'll make lots of new friends! Be a good student and you won't get into any trouble. Steer clear of people who look like trouble. Good luck on deciding!
im stressed out all cuz schools coming ^ soon wut can i do to make me less stressed out?!?! i still have tons uf stuff i wunna do before i go to school. lol. like clean my room buy some stuff i need for school and all this other stuff and i dk. im so stressed i cant even remember the rest!! help!!
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First thing to do is...BREATHE! lol. Thinking about being stressed will make you even more stressed =P If you have a lot of things you plan on doing before school starts you should start doing them now. Better now than piling them all up later the day before school haha. Go do some shopping...you'll feel a lot better. Think of the new stuff you get! =)
hey im 16 f i was just wondering wehat r some websites for online hournals. I wanna have an online journal but i dont know any websites. please tell me some thanx
I suggest http://www.diaryland.com. It's really great because it puts NO ads at all on your site. You can customize your website however you like. I use it myself (kimmie4ever.diaryland.com).
0k well 2morrow i`m going to my crush`s house with a couple of other people and i`m pretty sure we are going to ho0k up but there`s one problem! I have a huge pimple like really close to my lip and i dont want him to be like grossed out or anything! How do i get rid of it and fast?!
Hmm...I don't know of any quick pimple solutions, but I know a couple of things that might work. Proactiv Solution is a pimple solution that works wonders. If you don't have it, I probably wouldn't go out and buy it though. I heard using toothpaste and putting it on over night will dry out the pimple. Be sure to wash your face with soap. If it's not better or gone by tomorrow, you should try and use a concealor.
By the way, acting normal and acting like it's not there will help =) self confidence! Maybe it's not as big as you think. If he likes you for who you are, he won't care about one pimple that will go away later.
my bff likes this boy and i dun think he likes her but i like him too b/c i feel like he turns me on in a way but idk wat to do...Help Me!!
For one thing, you don't KNOW if he doesn't like her. If I were you, I'd just let it go. Sure, this guy might "turn you on" but that doesn't mean he's your soul mate or anything.
i liked this *casey* like a month before school ended. and then when it did end i barely saw him or talked to him cuz he was on vacation alot. he would call me sometimes and would talk to him on the computer. i just couldnt like him that much anymore cuz i barely saw him. i found out like mayb a month ago he did like me but i dunno if it waz true or not. then i saw him last friday at the mall n we were talkin n all this stuff. i realized dat i still like him alot. i found out that he did still like me. this girl *danielle* likes casey too. basically shes obsessed wit him. i told her if he did ask me out i wuldnt b/c of how much she likes him. i realize now that was a big mistake and i told casey i liked him last night.. n now hes gonna ask me out and i really wanna say yes but i alredy told danielle i wuldnt.. wat shuld i do.. sorry so long
Giving a girl your word is important. You shouldn't go out and break it. It'll crush her, and not to mention crush you because she'll probably hate you. I'm not saying you shouldn't go out with him though. Your feelings are important too! Talk to Danielle first. Tell her your feelings. Be honest. By the way, how do you KNOW he's going to ask you out? Anyway...tell Danielle you really like him and he really likes you too. Tell her you can't hold back your feelings. Ask her to understand what you're going through. If she is really a good person, she'll understand. If she doesn't, she's really being selfish.
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