My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?
People definitely change and moving doesn't help any. Your best friend seems to have changed a LOT. There's probably not much you can do for him. Maybe you can talk some sense into him and try to set him on the right track. Maybe you can call and talk to his parents or something. Otherwise, he's moved on now. Look on the bright side, at least you knew him while you did and you had your good memories. Even though friends don't last forever, you'll still always have good memories. Also, he's teaching you a valuable lesson...He's an example of what you shouldn't become.
hi my name is em ,
what do you do when you like a boy and he likes you but you are afraid 2 go out like he has asked u out but u just feel uncomfetable wat should you do ?
ps how did u make ur advice column ?
Hello Em,
How old are you? Age might have to do with you feeling uncomfortable. If you think you're still a little too young to be ready for a boyfriend, that's okay...don't rush!
I was in the same situation recently. Maybe my story will help you out. lol.
A guy asked me out one day and the question made me feel really good, but still very uncomfortable. I told him I'd think about it and get back to him later. I avoided him for a whole week until he brought it back up again. I told him that I thought the two of us should hang out, get to know each other better, and see how it goes. Ever since then we've been hanging out together a lot. Now I'm more comfortable around him and I feel the same way he feels about me. I'm going to give it until Christmas and then tell him we should try going out.
So maybe you should tell him you like him, but you think you two should get to know each other better before you go out to make you feel more comfortable with it. If he does like you he'll understand and wait for you. If he doesn't you'll know he wasn't the right one. Take your time, use your instincts, and good luck! Be sure to contact me some time and tell me how it goes.
As for your PS, you can get an Advice Column by registering at http://www.advicenators.com/register.php
I was on AIM the last night and some guy IMed me from my school and started harrassing me calling me a slut and a bitch... stupid stuff like that. My friend's dad is a cop and I asked him what I should do since this was not the first nor the second time it has happened to me. He told me that I could find out his IP address. If I didn't know who he was, there was nothing they could do about it unless I knew who he was. Does anyone know how I can find out who this guy is and how I find his IP? Thank you so much if you can help!
If he has blocked you you won't be able to IM him or see when he logs on or off. It's like he's offline. You could get a new SN and then add him to your buddylist.
my best friend is popular and all of these guys like her and shes really pretty and has alot of friends and is really outgoing and is a really good dancer so sometimes i cant help being jealous of her. i want to be more like her but i cant. like i want to be more outgoing and be a better dancer and stuff. what should i do?
There'll always be someone better at something than ourselves. But the good thing about that is YOU are better than someone at something also. Just find out what you love to do and keep on doing them. You can't be just like her, because you are YOU. Be your own person...I'm sure you're an awesome one. Join some clubs, say hello, learn something new. It'll definitely help. Try not to "be just like her" because that'll only make you compare yourself with her. Try something new that she hasn't done or can't do. That way you won't be able to compare yourself with her.
Well, i have an xanga, but whenever i type a new entry, its always in that gross default faunt *times new roman* and its like 12 pt. sick. how do i change it without going platinum?
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Go to http://xanga.com/private and click on Look and Feel or you can just go straight to http://xanga.com/claf . There you will have options to edit fonts, sizes, colors, and etc. Do what you want and then click Save Changes.
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I know alot of people have asked this question..but what are some good haloween costumes? I don't want anything "hot or sexy or sluttish" nothing like that cuz I'm going with some 7th graders..something original..and I don't want to spend too much money..plus I don't have too much at home..any ideas? I have to go to a party TONIGHT! Thanks!
A bit late to look for a halloween costume...I'm sure the stores are either completely packed or sold out by now. If you can find something from the stores, you're a lucky ducky. Otherwise you'll have to make do with what you have. Some ideas: You could try being a geek...throw on some dorky clothes and some glasses lol. My teacher came to school looking like she just woke up...lol her hair was in curls under a plastic cap, her face had green facial mask stuff, she wore a robe, slippers, etc. You could also try dressing up like a guy. Borrow some guy clothes or go out and buy some =P There are plenty of other ideas...trying searching it on google. "Homemade costumes" or something. Good luck!
I woke up this morning with a pimple. I NEVER get them, and I just have to get one on Halloween weekend. I dont have time to go to the store, and toothpaste doesnt work..But I do have this Neutrigina orange crap that helps but I dont know if its gonna go away by tonnight or tomorrow night. Help!
Pimples are so evil...especially when they come right before a special day. Toothpaste might work if you use the nongelly kind. You have some orange crap? lol. Maybe that'll work? lol. Most likely the pimple won't go away, I hate to say it. You'll have to ignore the pimple. Most people won't even notice it unless you actually point it out. Pimples look huge and noticable on your own face, but to other people it's not big deal. Self esteem and confidence is good =D Be sure to wash your face often! It helps prevent more pimples from coming.
I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :)
Gee...a year and a half isn't that much, lol. Enjoy being single while you can. In fact, my brother is 22 and he has never gone on a date. SAD, don't you think? But at least that fact will make you feel better, haha. If you really want to find a guy now though...they're everywhere so take your pick...and go after him! ;) lol. Clubs...that's a nice way to meet someone since you both have the same interests. There are plenty of other places to meet nice guys. They're everywhere (except for girls' ballet or something =P)!
i like this one guy since last year but i dont get to ever see him anymore since were not in any of the same classes this year like last year. I still like him and think about him every night. We just have so much in common. I see him sometimes after school when walking my dog and then i walk with him for a while. He sits at the popular table at lunch. I think he liked or likes me! should i tell him? should i have a friend tell him? or wait for him to come around? help!
That's happened to me a lot. My old crushes don't turn popular, lol, but after a year or two we have different classes and drift apart. The easiest thing to do is try to forget about him and maybe search around for a new crush. That's what I usually do. It'll pass. Crushes come and go.
If you have some courage and think something might work out, you should definitely talk to him. Not a friend, YOU. Tell him you like him and maybe you guys can meet up after school or something. If you're too chicken to talk to him (lol =P) you could always give him a note. If you have his number you could always call him. Telling him through a friend or online is wussy and whatnot, lol. Best of luck!
i am a freshmen ... and a senior is hitting on me ... it is now September ... but this has been going on for about a year. He is a Lifeguard at a pool i was at during the winter, and he IMed me and told me that he really likes me and that im pretty and stuff and he wants to go out with me. He seems nice but my parents will NEVER go for it .... but he still talks to me and stuff ... at times he can be gross ... but hes pretty nice ... i never see him tho .. he goes to a different high school..... im just SO CONFUSED !!!!
He might want to use you maybe? Just a thought. If that's not the case, there are still other problems.
I know "age shouldn't matter", and that is true, but it can be a big obstacle. You'll have to deal with friends and family and crap. After his senior year he'll probably be off to college. You'll still be in highschool for another three years. Do you think you can handle that? Think about the future. That would really suck to disobey your parents and lose their trust and then a while later break up with the guy because it just didn't work out. Think about the future and the consequences. Also, he goes to another highschool and you said you never see him. It kinda sucks, don't you agree? You wouldn't get much time with him and who knows...he might have some other girl back at his highschool.
Whatever your choice is, I wish you luck.
hi i was wondering does any 1 know where to get online hugs? like there is this thing wher eu clik and says give _ mor ehugs and i think its really cool! can some1 plz tell me where i can get it ? thx bunches and mods plz dont delete
You can get online hugs at http://hugz.org and http://www.toxin.org/cgi-bin/gethugs.cgi =)
hey how do i put in a background??like have a background but a dif. side bar color...? Thanks! by
Go to Column Settings. If you want to change the color, enter a color or hex code here where it says "Sidebar background color:"
If you want an image as your background, put the URL where it says "Sidebar background image (URL):"
That should work.
I notice that people always write at the end of there entrys. well where do you go to see your overall ratings? not that i would have any lol i would just like to know thanks!!! yeah im a newbie at this sorry haha
Click on your Advice Column. Scroll down the column until you see "Average Rating:" You should see your average rating after that. It might take a while for it to get up to date. If you want to see individual ratings, click on "View Feedback"
See I have a coulmn and I keep trying to upload a pic of me , but it won't let me. How can I get my pic size 15k??? need help fast
You will need to crop and/or resize the picture. You can try Paint if you like, but it's pretty crappy. You might want to try looking up a "resizing program" or something like that on google.
Does anyone know a good place to get your own website on the net....FOR FREE? I found a whole bunch of cool little knick knacks and I want to show them off on my website! But I can't find a website that is good like that! The website is either dumb or it isn't free. Please help me!
http://www.angeltowns.com is good.
http://www.geocities.com =/
http://statichost.co.uk for advanced.
http://galaxy-webhosting.com also for advanced.
http://1asphost.com
Help!
I cant get the colour on the sidebar of my advice column to change.
Any ideas?
Go to Column Settings. If you want to change the color, enter a color or hex code here where it says "Sidebar background color:"
If you want an image as your background, put the URL where it says "Sidebar background image (URL):"
That should work. Perhaps you're typing the wrong URL. You need a full URL. "/img/bg/bg158.jpg" won't work. You need something like "http://domain.com/pics/background.jpg"
What's an OOC? I keep seeing everywhere on journal site's and message boards that so and so belongs to an OOC and that it's fake, but what it is?
Usually on fanfiction and role plays it means Out of Character.
If you wanted to pretend to be your favorite character in a movie (role playing), you would want to act just like the real character. You know, do what they would do if you were them. That's In Character.
If you're not acting exactly like they would, but you are still pretending to be the character, that would be out of character. Hopefully you got that...I'm bad at explaining sometimes, lol.
However, I'm not sure what it means, the way you're using it. So and So can't belong to an OOC (Out of Character)...lol. Maybe YOU're interpreting how people use "OCC" wrong. If you're not, I'm stumped. lol.
does anybody out there know any good role play sites? like for lotr or anything? thanx bunches
I don't know any that are specifically based on lotr, but http://cluster.gaiaonline.com/index.php?referral=422844 is an AWESOME roleplaying community. It has a lot of Anime roleplaying, but there are plenty that aren't about Anime. Some are about other books and tv shows and movies and etc. If you're lucky you can find lotr, or even make your own post.
If you want to join, do me a favor and join by clicking that link. Thank you very much!
does anyone know of any good websites with aim icons that are cute...not the dolls or original gay ones but cute ones??
http://www.imbuddy.net/
http://www.aimaddict.com/
http://www.ieatpaint.com/aim/
I know a really cute one, but I can't find the URL! I KNOW I bookmarked it, but it's hidden under the bazillions of bookmarks I have, lmao. Rawr, I'm mad at myself. I liked that link too. Oh well, enough of my ranting, lol =P So those links up there are substitutes. Sorry if they are "cute" =P
Ok, I need to change my cursor for my advice column but I can't find any cute, small ones. The website http://www.starlightmks.com has no good ones. I'm looking for maybe cute, small, and animated star cursors. Does any one know any good cursor websites? Thanks
Perhaps http://www.soup-faerie.com has some you might like? If not, you could always do a google search for free cursors =)
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