hey,im 15 and im a girl. i hav this friend(also 15 and female) and she thinks me and her are like really close but i dont really like her and we like the same guy(hes 15 too), only she doesnt kno i like him and i like him alott. me and him hooked up a few times and she has no idea and he says he likes me but he doesn't want a girl friend rite now and stuff but he said he will soon , im not sure wht that means tho? but wht if he asks me out bcs then my friend will prob get really mad and ill feel really badd so wht shud i do shud i like stop talking to her or stop being involved with the guy ??
Well, you said that you didn't really like her, so does it matter how she feels about it? If the guy wants to be with you then he will, she shouldn't get mad just because he chose you. You can't make someone love you and that's a lesson everone should learn. Good Luck
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hi well i'm known as star freak. So yah i have a couple questions like there is this guy jacob who me n him almost hooked up then this girl lindsey came in the picture now that they are completely over i think he is starting to like me again. should i wait for him or move on? thanks bunches
Ask him how he feels about you. Don't just sit around and wait forever. If you want this boy you have to work to get him. Good luck to you.
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well you see i have liked this guy from my school since october 13 2003 and i have fallen in love with him within about 1 month and i still love him till this very day and we happen to be dating again but he doesn't exactly treat me how i would like to be treated..he talks to other girls on the phone and he talks to his ex's even..i get so upset cuz i would never do that to him but i still love him..i do things to myself like cut myself cuz of this..can you help me on this?
I think. Tell him how you feel and tell him how you would LIKE to be treated. If he says he'll treat you whatever way he wants..tell him you're not gonna stand for it, that you deserve to be treated with respect as his GIRLFRIEND. Don't cut yourself. I've known a few people that have done that and I talked about it in group therapy. It doesn't only hurt yourself...it hurts the people around you. Seriously, do you know what it would be like for your friends and family if you accidentally slipped and cut too deep? People would miss you. If you feel like hurting yourself, call a psychiatric unit. They really can help.
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Ok. I have liked this kid (and were in 8th grade) for a long time. When i stopped liking him he finally liked me. Then i told him i liked him and he acted all funny around me. He wouldnt talk as much and didnt IM me when i got online. So i asked him why he hadnt been talking to me and he said "i love u"...twice. My friends also said that we play eye tag and he watches me to see if i laugh at his jokes. Do you think he likes me, secretly?
Yes, it sounds like he likes you. You can't just go on what I say though.Just keep being his friend, let him make the first move.
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hey,ok im like in the early stages of likeing someone .... seems pointless to ask but yeah ..... i go to alot of the varisty basketball games n there is a guy in my grade who goes to every single one.. everytime i see him he makes one of those wierd smiles at me haha n then quickly turns around or just looks at me for a long time until one of us looks away..../well sometiems he makes up a stupid question to come sit besode me n then goes bak and sits with his friends....over the break i asked for his screen name n he said he didnt want to give it to me b/c it was old n silly n i would make fun of it instead he took my cell number n said he would call....now he hasnt called yet but it is only christmas so i dont expect a call yet but...y wouldnt he give me his s/n do u think he dosent want me to bug him r somthin .. hope u can help...**mixed signals**
I don't know. It sounds like he likes you. Maybe he was telling the truth, maybe he is just embarassed about his old sn. Guys always keep girls guessing, don't worry...he'll call.
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Ok well i am the girl that asked how do you know if he really loves you. Sorry i forgot to add this. Now i know in relationships have problems like fighting, and somehow people get really hurt. I still don't understand it but girls in most relationships take it worse than the guys do... i mean you should know this by now they just lay back and act like it dont hurt them see girls can't hide that they are hurt but guys can. But yeah like do you know why loved ones hurt us the most purposely sometimes just to get back at you for doing one lil thing wrong? Because me and my guy just had a huge fight about something so lil and he was ignoring me and all i wanted to do is try to talk to him and fix things a lil but he just kept ignoring me. And at that point when the fight gets to me really bad i'm litteraly in tears by then. Maybe its because we care about them more than like just your normal friends but i didn't know love can hurt so badd. So my question is why do loved ones hurt us most? And why do mainly *guyz* not care as much... Because bout now its getting on my nerves lol i just want him for ONCE to feel what i feel when we are fighting.. ya know?
Quote* Shannen
It's not that they don't care..it's just that they just don't know how to show their emotions. Loved ones hurt us most because if you don't love someone..you can't hurt from them. That's why it hurts the most. Tell him how you feel about it, let him know what you're thinking
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How do you know when someone really loves you? Because my boyyfriend said *i love you* about the first time we were goin* out but in the summer like in June sometime we started to talk and all and he told me when he first asked me out "which was in August sometime" that he started to really like me whenever we first started to talk to each other. We have been going out for about five months now *obviously* it sounds like he really means it whenever he says it though. But i just want to make sure if he really does. Its not that big of a deal but yeah i would like you to help me figure that out..
Of course he loves you..its been like 5 months! If it sounds like it, then he definitely does. Good luck
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Ewwwwwwwww cradle robber cradle robber !!
SoOoOo f'in nassssssssssssssssty!!!
This is the last time I'm answering this fucking shit. I told you if you have something to say to me then say it to my face you nasty ass whore. Go suck on a goat dick you immature peice of shit.
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For the record, Daniel is a real loser. robbin the cradle does make ahim a loser
You know what, FUCK YOU. I've had about enough of this. If you don't like it, IGNORE IT. He's not robbing the cradle thank you, we're LEGAL. If you have a problem with me and Danny, say it to my face bitch.
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Alright well, here it goes. (I hope this doesn't sound like I'm complaining or anything, but it's how I feel and some of the things he does, just makes me feel like shit.)
On weeknights my boyfriend always drives over. He'll come around 9 and stay for like ever. It's a time where we can just be together and hang out. It's great.. We were on the phone that day, and he was going with his brother and friend, but he'd be back and it wouldn't be too late. He told me just to wait up for him cause he'd be up. Well I waited.. and waited.. I finally went to bed at 1:30 A.M. No call from him at all.. The next morning he calls and tells me he got home around 9:30 and went straight to bed. Made me feel great no phone calls, no nothing. I tell him how it makes me feel.. Feels like he just forgets all about me. Am I over-reacting.. Sometimes I feel like I should just break up with him and he'd realize how much it hurts me. But then I'm scared he won't come back. We've been going out for a long time, and we both love each other. I know that but it just hurts. Other times he'll tell me he'll call, I'll wait around and no call. Or he'll come up and he won't.. Stuff like that just bothers me because I wouldn't do that to him.. I guess maybe that's cause I know how it feels.
He knows how I feel about it because I tell him, I just don't know if he listens sometimes. Today on the phone I completely lost it with him, I was screaming and crying and everything. Then he brought up about when I went on vaca with my family (and i told him I'd call him everyday, which I was only gone for 3 days.) I tell him over and over the first night we got there my cousin wouldn't let me use her cell cause she was expecting a phone call, the next night I called from a payphone but no answer, then I called him about 8 times the next day and he wasn't home but I talked to family members...
I just completely lost it with him and I hate that, I love him w/all my heart it's just so hard sometimes.. but we got off the phone and we weren't fighting he told me he'd call me later but i've heard that before..
please help me talk to me or something , i'm losing it i hate feeling like this i just wish things with us could go back to normal..
thank you ..
*lost and sad*
Alright, well if he tells you he got home at 9:30 and then went to bed, he probably did. If you know he loves you than you shouldn't have any doubt in your mind about it. If you have trust issues, maybe you two need to work them out. One missed phone call isn't the end of the world. I get mad when my boyfriend does it but I at least believe him when he said he was busy or tired or something. Have a little faith in your man and good luck.
Becca
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my friend rebecca is dating this daniel dignazio loser. how can i get her away from this jackass?
No possible way. Sorry, but I love him. He's not a loser or a jackass, i don't know who you are but fuck you anyways. If you have beef with Danny take it up with him, he's here so feel free to respond.
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hey, ok so my bestfriend is goin out with this guy who has his own house and me my best friend and her boyfriend always use to chill there and then one day her boyfriend's friend moved in with him, and since i was always there we started talking and then it started to get sexual we had sex all the time but we werent going out and of corse i fell for him real hard and he would want me to come over like every night and i did until like 6 and then he would bring me home just in time to get ready for schoool and stuff, but my best friend was there one night and i wasnt and she told me he brought home a girl (( i have REALLLY low self esteeem so it hurt me alot)) of corse she told me i was alot prettier and better then her, and she said he treated her like complete shit, and hes super sweeet to me he'll do any thing, but then like a month later he decide hes goin to move back in with his mom so she will get him a new car and he did and now we never talk...i call him all the time, but from a private # n change my voice...what do i do i miss him ALOTT and its pretty sad that i have to call him private n pretend im some one else to talk to him (( i am a 16 female and hes 19 ))
Well, it kinda sounds like he just wanted a peice of ass. Maybe you should try to get over him. It IS pretty sad that you would even think to call him from a private number and change your voice. You shouldn't stoop that low for a guy. You can find someone better. *If something doesn't work out between you and someone else, it means there's someone out there who loves you MoRe*
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Hey, i like this guy and went out for like a month and one week and he now is goin out iwth someone else and he is like i dont hate you were still friends but he told my sister he hates me so i dont know whta to do and i am goin out with one of his friends. but him and his g/f broke up waht should i do?
Tell him how you feel. That's all you have to do. Then, ask him how he feels. Go from there
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ok there is this guy at school that i lyk and he lyked me too but then he met my friend and now he stoped talking to me and now talks with my best friend all the time. Now he doesnt lyk me nomore, he now lyks her and now she lyks him. she knows that i lyk him and stuff but i dont think she understands wat i feel for him to be lyking her and not me....wat should i do?....ooyeah i am 15 and female
Tell her and him how you feel about it. Never shut your emotions up. Sorry it's short but that sums it up right there. Good luck to you.
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Hey ok me and my b/f were dating for 3 months and our relationship was GREAT until school started up where his x girlfriend went and they dated for like 2 years but he was a JERK! But when I first met him he was reallly sweet guy anywho I heard they made out do but I also heard he said " shes a hott girl that i can have sex with" I kinda of believe it cuz I heard he is trying to get with another girl to have sex with . We didn`t have sex then we eventually broke up. Do you think he was trying to use me?
It sounds like it. You never know though, guys are weird. I wouldn't worry too much about it..what's done is done. Good luck to you.
Becca
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Hey,
Alright this may sound like a stupid question.. but I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I love him like no other, and he feels exactly the same towards me. So it's great, right? Well for Christmas he already said sort of what he wants to get me and that he's going to. Well it's like $200.00.. and I love him for wanting to spend that much on me. But what's really bothering me is, I don't have the money to spend that much on him. So it feels like I can't compare.. I told him that but he said, I want to do this for you, I don't even care if I get anything for Christmas as long as I have you. That's all I need. And believe me that makes me feel great.. But I want to get him so much stuff, it's just I can't. He's going to get me a lot of nice stuff for Christmas, and I just want to get him the same.. What should I do, I hate this feeling that I can't get my boyfriend nice things like he can get me:-/?
That's how I feel because my boyfriend is spending more money on me than I am on him. Because of my gay parents lol. If he loves you and wants to buy it for you, let him. There's nothing really that you can do except find some really awesome cheap stuff. I only get 50 bucks to spend on my boyfriend but there's a lot of nice things out there for $50. You just have to know where to look and come up with ideas of things he'd like. Good luck to you.
Becca
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ok...I am 15 years old and am a female and have been with my boyfriend almost 5 months...i never have really done ne thing with ne of my other boyfriends before except kiss...now since i have been with this guy...i dont know we have been doing stuff that i have never done before...i mean he makes me do stuff to him and he does stuff to me that i have never had happened to me before...we also had sex a week or so ago...i feel like i am being pressured into doing stuff with him and having sex with him...because i am afraid if i dont let him do things to me and if i dont do the things he wants me to he will get mad at me and might break up with me...is that a good sign or a bad sign? and how can i prevent from feeling pressured into doing things? how can i stop them without having him hate me or break up with me?
Just say no and tell him you're not ready. If he can't understand that then he's not worth it. It's wrong for him to pressure you into things. It's also not good to just do stuff with him because you're afraid he'll break up with you. It's not right. He has to respect you, if he doesn't, then he's not worth it.
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whats tantric sex ? when you finally get an orgasm it'd be nice to keep it , how would u ride it out for like an hr. or so, so u have multiple orgasms?
wow...well, it has been said that an orgasm can last for up to an hour but its not real likely to happen. Here's what I found for tantric sex :
What Is Tantra?
Tantra is the total surrender, or letting go of all mental, emotional and cultural conditioning, so that universal life energy may flow through you like a river without any effort. It is a letting go to a universal oneness...to love. When fear is removed, Tantra remains. The word "Tantra" has many definitions, and perhaps its real meaning has been lost to antiquity.
Some say it comes from the Sanskrit or Hindi word for fabric or tapestry, meaning that it is woven into one's life. Others say that it comes from two Sanskrit words, Tanoti and Trayati Tanoti means to expand consciousness, and Trayati means to liberate consciousness. One might then say that Tantra expands and liberates consciousness.
The highest possible synthesis between love and meditation, Tantra is also the connection between the third dimension and other planes of existence beyond mere materiality. While not a religious philosophy, Tantra embraces a deep spiritual understanding of life, and an ancient art of living in harmony with existence. It is treating sexual energy as a friend, rather than something to be suppressed or talked about in low tones. It does not deny sex, or consider sex a hindrance to enlightenment or Heavenly Grace. To the contrary, Tantra is the only spiritual path which says that sex is sacred and not a sin. Tantrikas are God-loving rather than God-fearing.
There is a most beautiful word for sex in the Sanskrit language, and that is Kama which means sex/love together, undivided and indivisible. Most everyone is familiar with the classic Kama Sutra, the 7th Century Tantric scripture. Kama is also the name for the Hindu Goddess of love... and love is what Tantra encourages -- total love, including the mind, the spirit, and the body.
Let It All Go!
Tantra doesn't tell you to control your sexual urges to reach God, but rather the opposite. It supports the development of this vital energy to achieve union with Divinity. The essence of Tantra is the full expression of existence... a merging with, rather than a withdrawing from. It is the ultimate yoga which is Sanskrit for union. In Tantra, sexual energy is used as ignition for firing the Kundalini energy, the body's biological energy system, merging it/you with universal energy.
Unlike Taoism (which actually stemmed from ancient Tantra), that says bring your energy inside, Tantra says let it go...let it all go. There is no reason to hang on to anything if eternity and infinity exist.
In Tantra, sex is used as the cosmic union of opposites to create the polarity charge that connects with the primordial energy from which everything arises in the universe...the totality of All. We dance with the electromagnetic force field of our partner, and the dance leads to God/Cosmic Oneness.
The basic difference between unenlightened sexuality and Tantra is that Tantra declares "the kingdom of God is within your heart." In Sanskrit, it is called Punde So Brahmande, "the physical body is the temple of God, and the body is the replica or representation of the entire Cosmos."
Tantra says we can celebrate life when the idea of separation, or otherness, disappears from the body and mind, allowing people to meet on all levels of consciousness -- physical, vital, mental, intellectual, and spiritual. Sex becomes sacred and divine when you approach it from your heart and body, rather than from your mind. When that energy comes from a space deep within you -- your essential self -- it connects you to God/Goddess/All That Is... moving you into the realm of spirit!
I hope that helped you out.
Good luck,
Becca
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y is it a greater chance 4 a girl to get an orgasm from bein fingered than from havin sex?
I'm not real sure. It's fingering and oral..but I'm not sure why. Go to www.talksexwithsue.com The answer will prolly be on there.
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hi.
im 15 yrs old n i've been w/this guy for about a yr now. i luv him w/all my heart n idk where i'd be w/out him. he's made my life so wonderful. i kno he luvs me, in love u can jus tell. i dont have to ? him on it or anything. but at times hes the hardest person to try n talk to, n it makes me wonder if i should be w/him. i try talkin to him bout things n he cares but at the same time it feels like he dont. other times i'll do so much to get to spend the day w/him n something will come up in his agenda . and times he wont return my fone calls. am i over reacting or wat? n wat do u think i should do?
xox
Maybe he's just busy. I'm sure he loves you, otherwise he wouldn't stay with you for that long. It's hard for boys that age to open up to someone, especially a girl. Just keep trying to talk to him and let him know that it's alright to talk to you about things, because you love him. Good luck to you.
Becca
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