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I've been going out with this guy for eight and a half months. i really care about him, and as far as i know it's mutual. Recently i've been having serious issues with jealousy. There's this one girl he's always either talking to, or about. And she's the same way about him. I know he doesn't mean anything by it, but i'm beginning to think that she has a thing for him. i don't know what to do. i'm not the kind of person who can just sit back, watch and trust him to take care of it. i trust him not to cheat on me, but i don't think it would be beyond him to dump me for her. he has so many classes with her, and he seems to get along with her so well. I've told him about it, and all he ever does is assure me he's not attracted to her. That's not enough. Deep down i want him to just have nothing to do with her, but i would never ask him to do that, it would make him unhappy. but i don't know what to do right now, because i'm unhappy. (link)
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You're being such a good girlfriend by not telling him to be around her. That would be veryveryveryveryvery mean!:)
Your happiness is important too! If you can't trust him then that's not a relationship.
Without trust you don't have a relationship, you have sex:) (which isn't that bad!). But you if you can't trust him, then the relationship is pointless.
I understand when you really like someone, but you can't do anything! Just remember if you don't trust him, then he's not worth it.
MERRRRRRRRRRRY CHRISTMAS:)
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i really LOVE this guy. and its not just puppy love, its real love. we went out before, but we broke up and hes going out with another girl at the time. i have a feeling that they're going to break up soon, so when they do, i want to ask him out. not him ask me out, I WANT TO. cause im pretty sure he'll say yes.
how do i ask him out? in the sweetest way possible?
i really do love this kid and i wished we never broke up in the first place.
thank youu. :] (link)
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First of all you should wait before they break up, it would be pretty bad if you just broke them up!
I think the best way to ask him out would be to do anything normal. Try like getting coffee, and then make it into something bigger. Be like, "Oh man, it's pretty cold. I could really go for some hot chocolate [I really dont' like coffee]." AND THAT'S WHERE THE MAGIC STARTS!
If you're in a coffee house with newspapers you could check the movie times! Find a movie you like and say, "Uh, i've been dieing to see this!"
:) very suttle, very cool.
HAVE A VERY GOOD CHRISTMAS!
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i want to try and scrunch my hair but how do you do it? like what are you suppose to put in it and what do you recommend someone with straight semi-thick dirty blonde hair?
http://www.wigsontop.com/images/services/small/image-15.jpg -- here is a pic incase you dont know what im talking about (link)
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It's so much easier than it looks. That's how my hair looks and it takes me ten minutes.
Wet your hair, and then put it up in a towel. Let it dry four about 4 minutes.
After, braid your hair into two separate braids and let it dry braided for five minutes without the towel.
Then the top of your hair has dried a little but the bottom is still wet. Put some gel into it, about two quarter sizes. GOOD TO GO!
Good luckkkkkkkkk. HAPPYYYYYY HOLIDAYS:)
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a few weeks ago, a nurse told me that if you get your period after you've had sex that it doesn't mean you aren't pregnant. she said it might just be spotting. can i get any confirmations on this? i did get my period, but i usually get really really bad cramps and this month i still have them, but not as bad as usual. and i had sex with this guy a few weeks ago, so...any ideas???? (link)
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Well it's hard to tell, considering i don't know you so well! But i think you're just faking yourself out. I'm sure you were dwelling on it, and thought that it really doesn't hurt, but maybe it was just like the thought of it.
If you don't get what i mean i'll give you an example. Doctors test out pills by giving to types. One is a sugar pill and the other is an allergy pill. You tell both patients that they are allergy pills. Many who take the sugar pills tell the doctory they feel better because they thought they were really taking an allergy pill.
I feel like that is what you've done to yourself. Now i'm not positive! I would buy a pregnancy test, but those aren't always 100% right, but just check.
Don't dwell on it, and don't worry!
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this question is mainly directed towards guys, but girls could help too.
if your parents didn't want you to date the girl you like due to religious differences, would you listen? what would your reaction be?
thanks. (link)
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I'm a girl, and I have the same problem!
My father wants me to have a Jewish boyfriend! But that's impossible because the only Jewish males are highly unattractive in my school.
ANYWAYS! I talked to him, he knows that when i go out with someone it doesn't mean i'm going to marry them, and even if i did it's a sacrafice one of us is going to have to make if it is really love.
I dont' listen, i mean he knows who i go out with, and it doesn't seem to bother him anymore!
At first when my dad told be he really wanted me to stick with the same faith i was totally surprised! We celebrate christmas and eat bacon!
I really hope everything turns out good! Seriously it's fine, just talk to your parents.
Sorry if it's too long, good luck!
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gender: F
age : 13
ok so i am a christian and i know that the Bible talks about how you should not be jealous... but i can't help it.
between me and my step-sister, dont get me wrong we get along most of the time, but she has so much more than me. She gets hollister, american eagle A&&F... you name it and she gets it when ever she wants... a HUGE walk in closet of it too.
when i have a coat rack (because my step mom has the walk in closet and my dad has my closet)... ( i am only at my dad's every other weekend)
back to the topic.... i dont have that much... its not that i dont mind it... its just that my step mom always tells me that me and my step-sister should get treated fairly. (but she gets so much more).
sometimes my step mom asks me what i think about living with them... but i dont really want to.... but my point is is that they think that they shouldn't buy me any other closes because that is what "child support is for"
HELP ME what should i do (link)
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I know what you're talking about. Everybody in my family loves my brother more! I hate it!
Anyways, back to you! It would be hard to talk to your step mom, or step sister. The easiest thing to do is to talk to your dad. They always understand, and if i talked to my dad he would say i'm imagining things. Show him, bring him into your rooms! It's the only way.
Good luck!!
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I need to buy this guy a Christmas present. no, he is not my boyfriend. we've been friends for as long as i can remember. he's truly like an older brother to me. he's really athletic, being in cross country, basket ball, and track (he is good at all of them). he likes South Pole stuff, but i'm on a budget. he likes rap music. He is a junior in High School. any suggestions are greatly appreciated!!! (link)
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i would buy him a nice basketball or a giftcard to a sporting store. You could buy him one to Dick's Sporting Goods, or Sporths Authority!
I would buy him a cd, or something to do with rap. Maybe an itunes giftcard? I would put it with the basketball!
http://www.sportsauthority.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2542608&cp=711651.1801468&parentPage=category!
An affordable basketball!
Happy shopping!
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if youre logged onto your myspace is there a way to see your password? my friend logged me into my myspace she made me but i forget the password completely, and i cnt get in touch with her, and ts her email so idk her password to get it. is ther ea place to find it? (link)
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no you can't. maybe if you leave a message for myspace and say that your email got cancelled or something lame they'll do something. maybe they'll give you a new one. JUST TRY IT.
Most likely you'll need to make a new password.
Uhhh i'm sorry!
HOPE YOU FIGURE OUT YOUR PASSWORD!
Happy holdays:), hope you get good gifts.
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14/f Ive never had a boyfriend. I want to have a guy that I can just be with we dont need to have the boyfriend girlfriend title. Im not extremely talkative but to those I really know I am. What could I do to put myself more out there, and to get noticed more and not be nervous about having a relationship? (link)
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I wouldn't dwell on having a boyfriend! Try and just be friends first! Having guy friends always impresses other guys!! I had this same problem, but talk to them just like you would talk to your normal friends! Just think about having fun, and make corny jokes, because honestly those are the best!
HOPEEEEEE YOU FIND A BOYFRIEND.
happpppppy holidays:)
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we have a big sister little sister program in my school.
my big sister is a junior. what should i get her for christmas? please give any suggestions you have!! (link)
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it's so hard to buy gifts for someone you don't know that well!
I wouldn't get clothes, it's just to hard to tell what size she is! What if you get something too big for her, it'll make her feel so bad!
Maybe a giftcard?
Hollister has great hats and scarves, for about $25! They're great, and they only come in one size, so you really can't mess that one up.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12601_-1_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12632_-1_12552
but please don't get the brown scarf, PLEASE!
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what should i get my dad for christmas? he loves soccer, is a buissness man, and likes comedy (link)
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What about a soccer ball with maybe a little note from you to him on it, like written on the soccer ball! Make sure it's in sharpie!!
Also, you know the show The Office? Omggggg hilarious! Try buying him the latest season, it's so funny!
Have you ever tried the store Things Remembered? It's great, and they have pen holders for the desks! http://www.thingsremembered.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10001_10001_521071_-1_353
*Hope I Helped*
&& Good Luck :)
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
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theres one teacher who yells at kids for fun. when i stood up to him with out being rude because he yelled at me and my friends for no reason (seriously) he said he would send me to the principals office. and he is a bad teacher. how can i avoid this guy even though hes my teacher? (link)
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Oh, i'm so sorry! I had this same problem! What i would do is talk to your conselor. That's what they're there for. This gym teacher kept yelling at everybody during volleyball, what a mess! My friends and i went to the guidance conselour and talked to her.
She asked us if we wanted to bring in the gym teacher, but we didn't want the gym teacher to know we were talking about her! So the counselor just talked to her without mentioning names!
Avoiding teachers is hard! I would treat him like any other teacher, with respect! Pretend like he's every other teacher, and maybe talk to him about anything!
If I were you, i'd buy him a christmas gift! It always makes them feel good! Make sure you don't tell your friends you bought a gift for him though, you don't want them to think you're sucking up to him! Even though you are!!
HOPEEEE I HELPED!
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how can you boost your metabolism?
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Fasting is not a way to do it! But i asked my doctor this question before! He said that most people should eat five meals a day. The portions have to be small! It's not like the big three meals a day. It's important for your stomach to be continuously digesting!
It may be hard if you're in school, but bring crackers or something and eat during class! Make sure you ask your teacher if that's ok!
Just remember 4-5 small meals!
*Hope I helped*
Happy holidays!
:)
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