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i have curly hair, when i ever scrunch it and put moose in it it gets very curly at like end and all the way up to my ears its very curly, but above that the hair is pretty much just stuck to my head flat, how can i get more volume near my scalp (link)
i also have hair like this :) dont use a lot of conditioner at the roots. the product will just weigh ur hair down. if ur scrunching it, flip your head over and do it. this way, curls stay in and they keep their volume. if you want, go out and buy some volumizing hair products. they dont always work but you can give it a try! hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


I am 13/f and REALLY skinny, but I have somewhat big hips and very long legs. I need maybe a size triple 0 with a 34" inseam and size 1 in hips! Does anyone know how to get very long, slim, flare jeans with big hips? Thank you in advance!!! (link)
abercrombie jeans are great for thin and tall people. remember that you can get your jeans tailored. good luck shopping! hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


Hello. Well tommarow is my first day of school! I'm so excited!! I have first period with this boy..I don't like him like him, but he is really cute and I want to sit next to him, but I don't want like him to come in and then me be like hey! cxome sit next to me! you know? Does anyone have any seggustions as to how I can get him to sit next to me. Or me to sit next to him? Please answer back before 7 tommarow morning. Thank you :) (link)
start talking to him tomorrow morning and let him put his stuff down and put yours down next to his. dont do it so it looks like u planned it. keep talking to him until class starts. when you put your stuff down and sit, keep talking! it will seem a little more natural. and the conversation before will make it less awkward. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do? (link)
talk to both of them about this individually. ask them if anything is going on. they may say yes or no. if you want to, tell them that you don't want this to go on and that it is unacceptable for them to be flirting with each other. he is in a relationship and he has made a commitment. she is one of your best friends and shouldnt be acting this way around your guy. he is your boyfriend and if she wants to flirt, go find another guy. be honest with each of them and dont jump to conclusions about them having an attraction, but dont let the entire thing go. do what your heart tells you. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn


On tuesday i am going to go get my eyebrows waxed for the first time. i need to know a few things: how bad does it hurt? Will that area be really red wednesday morning for school? if so how do i make it less red? Do they ask you how you want your eyebrows waxed or do they already have a certain way they doe everyones eyebrows?

thank you
-also i cant change they day im going to a different day i have to go on tuesday. (link)
it will hurt for the first few times, but only for a second. if the area turns red, wrap ice in a paper towel and place it there. hope this helps!
♥ arlyn


ok i have this friend and her and i are both going to a new school. shes in my class but i dont like her that much and shes very clingy and gross like seriously she foams at the mouth. she doesnt know anyone so i know shes going to cling to me, how do i like get away from her??? (link)
get her to do a club or something that will give her a chance to make new friends. having someone with you for a new school can make the transition easier, but sometimes awkward. do a club of your own or hang out with other people. dont neglect her, but dont give her too much attention. if you have to, sit her down and tell her that you want to be her friend but you also want to make new friends. it may be hard or awkward, but dont hide how you feel about your friendship. its not good for anyone.


i got my period (not my first) two days before school starts and now my face just broke out i use proactiv and i had been using it once a day because it was drying so can i go to twice a day just for the time that i have my period? (link)
overtreatment can make the problem worse, so dont use it more than you're supposed to
Hope this helps!
♥ Arlyn


hey i just started musical theater and i dont know anyone else whos doig it...and im soo terrifyed.i wanted to do musical theater cause its my passion...i love it but im so afraid that no one will like me or somthing..how can i get rid of this fear? (link)
musical theater is also my passion and this has happened to me before. you are doing this because you have a passion for it, not for people to like you. dont let anyone else get to you and im sure someone will like you. you share a common interest, so there will definately be something to talk about. try not to be scared and relax. show your confidence and talent. compliment some other people to get a conversation started. even if they are kinda bad at performing, tell them you like their outfit. if they dont respond and start talking to you, dont sweat it. its their loss. im sure someone will want to be friends with you. call someone or ask if they want to hang out after rehearsal or go over lines with you. ask multiple people and maybe invite one of your friends from school to come along. if you have someone there, it will possibly be less awkward. just be confident about it and dont let anything bring you down


I have three spots on my face that have huge pimples, but they're scabs. Like scabby zits. It's impossible to cover them up, otherwise..I wouldn't even be asking this question. Does anyone know any ways to get the scabs down/in better condition, at least so I can cover them a little bit? (link)
dissolve some aspirin in water to make a paste. apply it on the spots before you go to sleep. this should help the spots go away. also, try wrapping a bag of ice in a paper towel and place it on the spots. this will help them go down if they are raised bumps. Hope this helps!
♥ arlyn




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