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This is really embarrasing but..
Whenever I'm with my boyfriendd and we play around with each other I get really wet down there..and its so badd that when we have sex I wet the sheets I don't know what to do but is this normal? (link)
its normal, there's nothing you can do about.


I live in massachusetts and I have such bad problems at my highschool thhat I just cannot go back (dnt tell me to suck it up lol) and I want to go to another school in a different town. I called the next town overs highschool and they won't let me='( ..are they jus saying tat? Ks there ANY way I can get into that school without living in that town?!?!
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it depends what school district you life in. you must live too far from that Highschool.


hey im 18/f and my dr. just called and said my pap smear came back abnormal. She said that she found cells that were abnormal i cant really remember what she called them. but she told me that they were the type of cells that are found when you cant have children. She said they're also from having sex with more than one partner, i've only had sex with 2. She said not to worry about it and that i need another pap smearn next year which i already know and she said hopefully they're gone before next year. But now im freaking out because i may not be able to have kids :( can somebody please help me. Like tell me if they know or they personally have had a doctor tell them that and everything was fine. Anything would be helpful! thanks very much

-Ashley (link)
well they do tests with whatever was done. thats how they can tell. its nothing to worry about, its not life threatening. im sorry about this though. :/


i used to be a 34B but now all of my bras are too small for me...i like push ups so would i be a 34C? or a 32C? like is the number a smaller c? cause i tried on a 34C and the cup was a little too big, i like my bras tight so i'd want just one step above a 34B...can someone help me out? (link)
your bra size in a normal bra is the same in a push up.


Today I found some old toys of mine from a while ago and I realized that most of them all come from the same collections but I can't remember what they are called?
I looked at the bottom and they say 'Kid Kore 2000 China'.
They are purebred dogs that have a grown up dog with the identical puppy. (ex. weinerweimer, poodle, dalmation, Pointer).
Also, I think that whatever they were called had the word 'Champion' in it and that they usually came with a trophy.
I used to get mine at the drug store here and at super store.
Any ideas?
Thanks. (link)
i had one! i think theyre discontunied unless you check toys r us.

*no sorry, i dont. :[


there is this boy i really really like at my school and he knows i like him but every time i speek to him on msn he never reply's how can i get him to like me? lots of people have said to just tell him how you feel about him but i am scared he will just laugh at me. wot should i do ? (link)
get to know him in real life, not over the computer. talk and be friendly. when you feel comfortable, tell him how you feel.


i have got a sony ericson k510i phone and i have lost the lead to conect my phone to my laptop to trasfer photos onto my laptop does any one no how to do it without a lead (link)
remove the memory card and insert in into the SD/MMC slot on your laptop.


f/16 Ontario/Canada

Okay well last night (or should I say this morning at 5am), I went downstairs to get a glass of water and my stairs is nearly in front of my front door (with a lacey curtain in the front) and I saw someone in front of my house. At first I thought it was a random person that was going to ring my doorbell for something but when he didn't, I just stood there on the stairs and I saw him touching our car door.

I didn't want him to see me but I wanted to know what he was doing so I sat down on the stairs to watch him and he was trying to open every door of the car! I was deciding whether or not to go grab my camera to report it to the police or use the video version but I couldn't see his face so it would be no use since the police can't do anything without proof.

Eventually he gave up because the doors were locked and he walked away. I quickly walked to the window and carefully moved a bit of the curtain and he continued to walk but didn't go to my neighbour's car. Which is incredibly freaky. And I couldn't help myself since my mom wakes up 30 mins later for work and I told her to check her car for anything. And at first she thought I had a dream or something (I always have dreams that tell me this and that) but I assured her that it wasn't a dream and I regret telling her about it because she was so scared.

Am I overreacting? Should I talk to the police about it anyways? Our street is RIGHT beside my elementary school so I thought that this would be a safe street but obviously not and I'm scared because there are so many kids that live in this neighbourhood too. Also, Someone broke into our house two years ago and the police told us that they/he broke in at the right time so they were probably watching us from afar, which makes me think that maybe it's the same guy because he came to our house 30 mins before my mom wakes up for work.

What do you think? I need advice. And knowing myself, I'll probably go downstairs since I'll constantly think about this so I'll probably get ready to record a video or take a picture in case he does come again. What do I do if he does come again? Am I overreacting or is this probably a normal thing for car jackers/breakers do at night, only that I didn't know about it? (That's why they tell you to lock your car doors right?)

Thanks in advance! I know this was long! (link)
the police should be contacted for attempted robbery. they can dust for finger prints and whatnot.


okay so when I was younger I was overweight. Now, I'm thin. The only problem is..I got stretch marks due to being overweight when I was younger.
my quesitons are:

do guys care if you have stretch marks? like a boyfriend or something?

and

will they ever go away! ive been using bio oil on them for 2 days so far hoping it works eventually.

thanks in advance to anyone woh answers (link)
use plamers. its a big pump bottle and has a pregnant lady on it, but it works well.


so i saw this shirt at the mall today and i liked it because it's striped magenta and navy, so basically i just grabbed it and bought it without even trying it on. when i got home, i realized it had this little green design on it, which kind of kills the shirt... it just looks really out of place. i can't return it because it was on sale, but i don't really wanna give it away or throw it away or anything because of one imperfection, since i still like it... but THAT GREEN THING, ugh. it just kills it. the thing is, it's not part of the fabric. it's that stuff that kinda fades away after a really really really long time. i was wondering if there was any way i could speed that up and take that stupid design thing off WITHOUT ruining the shirt...? (link)
get some duel power spray and wash, it works like magic on most stains and is good on colors.


I'm pretty sure photoshop cs4 is the newest edition.
If it's not, please correct me.
Anyway. I'm going to be buying this is a few weeks.
I was hoping to try and find it in target or walmart?
Do they carry photoshop?
Anyway. About how much IS it in stores? (link)
target and walmart, i dont think carry photoshop. i know CS3 extended was about $650. i know for sure, a staples store carries all types of photo editing programs.


what are popular songs nowadays that you can dance to
(slow dancing or fast, upbeat works)
any ideas would be great (:

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slow - 1,2,3,4 by plain white ts

fast - just dance by lady gaga


what if i never get a peroid? (link)
if you dont get one by the time you're 16, that's a medical problem you need to go to a doctor about.


i just bought an ipod touch, and i was wondering if anyone could give me some helpful information about it, like experiences you had with it, and things i should be careful and stuff, i know the basics, but yeah, i just want to know any helpful information you have, about apps, itunes, ipod touch, etc. :)

thanks! (link)
i have the iphone, the itouch is similar materical wise. its very sturdy. i've dropped it a couple times and it was fine, but i keep it in a thick rubber case. i love mine. there's a lot of fun apps to buy, also.


ok, i was overstock.com because i want to get an ipod touch, and i heard they are cheaper on there, well it is, but it says its refurbished, does that mean it was used? should i get it? or get one from target or something instead? its like 40 dollars cheaper.. so its a pretty good deal. but i don't want something that isn't going to work well. i am going to get the contract thingy, but yeah.. what should i do? what does refurbished mean? (link)
it was used and Apple had fixed it up. Almost like certified used cars, all the bad parts were fixed.


14/f
So every once in a while I will just be sitting around and them muscles in my body will start twitching. It happens when I walk around to, after walking around for a while when i sit down, and usually at night. It won't be like my leg completely moves, but its like a wave of my muscle under my skin. It really freaks me out and I want to know if its normal, maybe if im growing? Or if I need to go to the doctor. It happens on the side of my leg near my calf, and on my thigh, on my face around my eyes, on my lips. Sometimes on my face above my nose inbetween my eyes, it feels like the muscles are pulling towards the center of my face.

Please and thank you!

Lyssa (link)
youre fine. i get that too. maybes its too much caffine in your diet.


how do i put a password or upgrade it to get wireless internet (link)
call your internet provider.


i have a gateway laptop model m-1625
how do i get wifi
i turned on a switch but i still dont see any connections on my network should i get my laptop fixed or how do i get wifi (link)
do you have a router? you need one. if you have one and its still not working you need to put a password on it, or upgrade it to support your laptop.

i think i have an M1532, i had this problem.


I keep hearing about Michael Jackson's doctor prescribing propofol to him before he died and that the doctor may have overdosed him. Just curious, I guess, but what in the world is propofol? Is it prescribe for pain or something since Michael Jackson had all of those facial operations? I've never heard of this drug before. (link)
propfol is used in operating rooms to make pepole go into a very heavy sleep, almost unconcious. michael was using it to sleep at night.


I'm 17/f and about to start my senior year in high school. My older sister just turned 21 and still lives in the house with the family. My mother has diabetes and this causes her not to be able to do things around the house as well. Well my sister has a habit of rolling her eyes, stomping around and whining when she is asked to do something. So of course my mom gets mad, but she holds it in. This instigating (as i call it) keeps happening. My sister will say something then my mom gets mad. Then whilst my sister seems act like she's the angel, she'll blame me for something and mom completely blows her top on me! I'm so tired of getting yelled at when my lazy sister gets off scott free!

What do I do?

Thanks,
Tired (link)
video tape her while she does something. then show your mom after she says it was you.

she's 21. why is she so childish?




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