Ok well one of my friends is like the hugest flirt ever, and her parents are stricter then ever and she still hooks up with guys. I am starting to get really annoyed because she likes a new guy everyday. See what i dont understand is my parents dont care if i have a boy friend but i dont!! I am soo shy to anybody i like, But i am not shy at all to guys i only like as friends. I just want to be more flirty and have the perfect guy. Any suggestions?
ok flirting is soo easy all you have to do is be confident. dont beat yourself up over your flaws, but think about what your good at. dont waste your time flirting with guys who are self-
centered or dont give you respect.know what kind of guy you want {it helps}. go for it, dont stress over anything, including making the first move with a guy. after all the worst he can say is no-and if he does you can laugh about it and move on. my number 1 rule is catch he's eye!the best way of flirting with a guy is to have eye contact.
hope this helps.
luv ya lots!
sincerly, taylor
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hey tay tay just wanted to say hi even though this isnt a question
love ya
by gorgeous love brittany
hey britt dont do that again just e-mail me next time
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my parents just got an devorise what do i do
just remember that you still have to parents that love you very much. and know that whatever you heard you are not the cause of it.
dont get stuck in the middle. advoid taking sides and talking bad about another parent to the other. call or e-mail the parent that you dont live with regularly so they know you still care. relize its normal and important for your parents to date other people. your parent may seem like there in thier own world but this is a difficult time, so give them some time. trust me they will come around.
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor
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ok i am 13!i like my ex but he cheated on me when we went out but i have tried sooooooo hard to git over him but i just cant seem to git over him what do i do?????
you can't doo anything all you can do is calm down cause right now your crush is just a crush. if he cheated on you he oviously doesnt care what you think. my advice to you is go out and do somthin that would get your mind off of him, cause no offense but he's sleeping at night. don't worry you will find someone stop stressing ocer him.
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor
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ok so my boyfriend abuses me what should i do
you can stop it heres how:
1: be safe. until you can end the relationshi you may want to screen he's calles or agree to hang out with him in a public place.
2: get support. many abusive guys try to isolate you from friends, teachers, parents, or counselors.
3: demand respect. tell your boyfriend how he hurts you and encourage him to get help so he doesn't hurt anyone else in the future.
4: find help. it send your boyfriend the message that abuse is serious and you deserve better.
hope this helps see ya
luv ya lots
sincerly, taylor
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ok so i am onley 13. i have three friends and they all smoke. i wasn't going to say anything at first, but then today they came over my house and they asked me for a piece of gum i said how come your just gonna come over my house for a piece of gum. they smelled like smoke to,they said they had to cover thier breath from thier parents. i just shut the door.
if you dont wont to be a part of it you dont have to. you dont have to tell on them eather cause then they will get mad at you and if you want to keep thier friendship then all you can do is tell them how you feel about it. you cant control them they get to do want to do. all you CAN do is confense them that they should stop.
sry i couldnt help alot
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor.
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ok my boyfriend called me and asked for my best friends number. He said it was to get her boyfriends number. The next thing I knew was that saturday they went to the skating ring together but y boyfriend never got her boyfriends number. I dont understand what is going on. Do they like each other. I Dont even think that her boyfriend even likes her. What do i do? Am i just am i just taking it the wrong way? Is my friend a good friend? I am confused.
Please help me!!!!
don't jump to conclusions. if i were you i would talk to your friend cause if she is a good friend then she would tell you the truth. if you don't believe her answer, then ask your boyfriend. he might be cheating on you, but don't you think he would be stupid to call and ask for her number first, instead of asking you if you knew her boyfriends number.
look i hope you get this figured out.
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor.
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I love and believe in God and have my whole life. I come from a religious family but recently it's been really hard to believe. In the past month, I've lost my Aunt and my best friend's Dad to cancer.
My Aunt was just about the best person I've ever met. Honestly, sometimes I can't stand my extended family but she was different. She was always sweet, energetic (when she wasn't in the hospital) and optimistic.
My dad is always working so I almost never get to see him except on Sundays. My best friend and her family live next door so I was always around them and her father. He was such a great man and acted like a great father figure to me considering I don't have any older brothers and my dad is always working or busy with clients.
It's not fair that they get sick and die when there are murderers and such running around everywhere. It's not fair that God does this to me, my family, and my friend's family. My Aunt and her dad were great people and it's not fair that God takes them from us like that. I want to still believe that it all happens for a reason and that God loves me, and he know what he's doing, but I can't. I don't know what to do.
look i have never seen god in my life but i do know that god isn't doing anything to you. or at least he's not meaning to. it is right that every thing happens for a reason. see it was there time to go. there time to finaly meet god. and i promise you that they dont want you to cry or get mad about them being gone. trust me they are sooo happy rigt now. but i guess noone can really understand untill they die, but please do not turn you back on god.
your in my prayers.
sincerly, taylor
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First off i'll give 5's for anyone even considering to read my dream :]
KSO I had a dream about this guy I like.
The guy that i'm i like with came over to my house and helped me babysit my siblings. But i've never even talked to him before and even at my house we still didn't talk. But we kept on looking at each other and smiling and just staring at each others eyes. Then we went to the living room and sat next to each other and watched the tv. Then I started playing the piano and he was watching me and I told him "im not very good at this so don't be surprised when it's bad." and he said "That's ok with me." But before i could even start to play my brother interupts me. Then before i start to play again my sister interupts me. When this is happening he starts laughing and smiling and so do I. Then after them 2 leave before i start to play again, he says to me "Well I better get going now..." He gets up and walks over to me and then gives me a big hug and whispers in my ear "I love you.. Maybe we should hang out more often and see where this is going because i dont want to stay just best friends with you." But we're not even best friends. So I say back, with tears in my eyes, "I love you too and dido." Then he gets up and starts walking to the door and i say "don't say that we're not gonna be just friends we're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend." and he just smiles and says alright and walks on out.
After that i felt verrry happy and in love, then extremely nervous and then i felt a strange tranquility wash over me.
I had a heart drawn on my hand and i just looked at it and smile and then my alarm went off and my dream ended.
What could all this mean? Please help!! 16female if that helps any..
ok im no expert but i do think that it means that any time you try to have a good relatinship someone wiil get in the way. you will try to ignore it at first but sooner or later it will catch up to you. my advice to you is to slow down. look at what is around you. if there IS something you dont like dont ignore it, and dont wait. you got to take care of it right away or all or relationships will not work out.
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor
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well i want to lose weight on my legs thighs especially and i want to do it quickly any ideas please help. my self esteem is lowering as we speak because people say im fat and i know i am but its killing me inside and i need help with losing the weight exercizing or i might just not eat. ill rate 5's.
i have no clue about any exercises or anything but here are some tips to keep your self esteem high.
*dont measure by pounds-measure by how your clothes fit.
*be realistic and more loving o yourself.
*dont compare yourself to these impossibly thin figures.
*make it a personal missionto respect and honor your body.
*remember the three P'S pure foods, portion control and planning your meals.
*skipping meals will only make you hungrier and more likely to pig out later.
hope this helps.
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor.
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I am the type of person who cannot express their feelings. My boyfriend hates it, and I try my best to open up but it seems impossible. Even my mom says I'm like a closed book. It is too hard for me to show when I've been hurt, or when I'm angry...I just close up and act icy towards whoever has bugged me. Also I can't talk to them about how I'm feeling (its just too hard), and I find myself sending emails saying the things that should be said in person. I want to be able to express my feelings!!! I'm being torn up inside from everything that's being held in!
ok all you CAN do is talk o someone i know it will be hard but you got to be calm, cool, and collected. look, just calm down and relax cause there is nothin wrong with being scared to talk about your feelings. but if you keep it in for a long time than you WILL explode.
i hope you get to figure this out.
luv ya lots!!!
sincerly, taylor!!!
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At the moment i just dont get on withh my parents at all, my mum in particuallar.
I used to think i didnt care, if we had an argument i would either lock myself in my room and play loud music or ignore them and not talk, as a sort of revenge type thing.
I thought i just wanted to get away from them. But now ive realised that i dont, that i want to be close to them, i want it to be like it used to be, when we got on well and had fun.
I cry sometimes because of this and its really getting me down.
Im 13/f.
How can i be closer to my parents and have a better relationship with them?
ok hun. first you need to talk to them. you seem like over the past years youve been breaking apart from your parents. so instead of talking to your parents like usually, get to know them more ask them questions. it doesnt matter if the questions sound dumb they want care, there your parents. make sure they get to know you more. its normal to argue with your parents and disagree with them cause your a teen you have your own opinions now. but instead of argueing with them try to talk about your problems. NOT trying to sound kidnergarden or nothing, but it does work. tommorrow do every thing they tell you to do without argueing just try it for one day. see if it works.
Luv ya lots!!!
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my friend hates me what should i do
Will i can't really answer that question cause I don't know why she hates you, but if she hates you cause she just wants to be in drama, than shes not a good friend anyway. But if you did somthing to make her get mad than say sorry. If she doesn't care what you have to say than forget about her, because good friends care what you have to say. Give her a chance to forgive you, cause THATS what good friends do.
Luv ya lots!!!
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hey im a christain but one of my good friends isnt i dont know what to do.
ok i guess you could talk to her but if she doesn't seem interested than i would stop cause its not worth you friendship and if she is as close to her religion as you are yours than i would forget about it. All you can do is pray for her.
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i think becomeing a cheerleader makes you popular. does it?
well although the short skirts probably grab all the guys' attention, the main reason cheerleaders are so popular is because they're very involved, outgoing energetic. plus, there's an entertainment value. and why do cheerleaders seem so darn confident? when there cheering all eyes are on them. thats why all the celebs always seem confident. I hooked you up with some pros and cons of being a cheerleader and the rest is up to you.
pros:
1}being part of a team.
2}great exercise!
3}confidence booster.
4}school involvement
cons:
1}super-competitive
2}pressure from parents and teammates
3}stereotypes
4}injuries
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Ok..my teacher and I are very close. He teaches art. Well..we have a very good teacher and student relationship. But..lately it seems like we're getting closer..like over the student and teacher boundary. I kno im falling for him..its difficult not to..hes soo smart and talented. He's 24..im 17..and..i think we both "know"..these feelings are real...is this wrong? and have u heard of a situation similar? HELP
ok, nothin is wierd about this. you cant help it if you fall for someone. so dont worry about that. i wouldnt go with him cause that WOULD be just a little wierd. if you think about him often do somthing. do somthing this weekend. something that would get your mind off of him. and on monday i wouldnt look at him like you usually do or talk to him as much as you do. dont change yourself just dont get any more closer than him than you allready are. before you make a mistake that you will regrete.
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hi! i just turn 17 on may 4... and my question is that me and my boyfriend been having sex the last time we had sex was after my birthday... and he said he came inside of me like three time.. i have my period...why im noy pregnant?
look have you had a pregnacy test? if you did and it said negetive mabey you should wait a while and try the test again. if it says negetive again than if i where you i would go to the doctor..........
i hope you get this figured out
you in my prayers
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one day this boy came up to and said i was spoiled and said i was like paris hilton. everyone started laughing at me and i dont know why. plz help.
so whats wrong with paris hilton i would wont to be like her. i mean hellow thats so stupid that they where laughing over that. look heres my quick fix
1}dont worry about it by tomorrow no one will remember
2}when your looking in the mirrior dont think about paris hilton think about you
last but not least
3}think of all the things you do diffrent than paris hilton.
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today was our 8th grade trip to chicago. i was told that i wasnt alowed to go. so i couldnt go and all of my friends went and then they called me on my best friends cell phone and it sounded like they were having a blast.
hey!!! its ok. you're gonna be sad, your friends and your crush are having fun with out you!!! Nobody likes being left out!! There's absolutely nothing wrong with you!!!!!! while your friends are gone, have fun. Go do something you wouldnt do normally. Get your mind off them. That will probably keep you from crying. remember, even though your friends are having fun and your not there, that doesnt mean that you cant have fun by yourself or with your family!!!
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at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much...
hey! if he just up and left you then
a: he didnt really like you that much after all
b: he had to leave for some really really important reason
either way, dont be afraid to get another boyfriend. But, remember its easier to remember him and be a little sad about it, than to pretend he never existed.
I hope you can go on with your life not having to cry about him. I hope my advice gave you an answer, I tried my best
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