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Hello, i'm Susan. i live in Georgia. I'm young, but i know how to give great advice. i've been through a lot, trust me. i have some problems, and i may need your help. be there for me?
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E-mail: sns_lacy@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama.
Occupation: straight.
Age: 13
MSN: chasitynjoshmybff@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 24, 2009
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I know a lot of girls think that their vaginas smell kinda funky but I actually heard that guys like the smell and taste. Also, i always have like white kinda chunky stuff on the sides of my vagina where the labina minoras are(i think) and it smells really bad. any idea what that is? it doesnt hurt or itch or anything. any comments/advice is appreciated. thanks (link)
it's most likley discharge. nothing to worry about. it's normal. i heard they dislike the taste and smell? i'm not quite sure.
he don't itch or hurt, just there=)


My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude? (link)
it's normal.
he's being rude.
don't listen to him.
porn isn't my thing, but it is for everybody.


i wanna start using tampons. how do i know what size i should buy? (link)
i suggest you start off with the mini's.
they're much more comfortable. speacially if your a virgin.


Hi, i am a 26 yr old guy seeking advice from you all.

I am quite hairy on my bums and my abdoment part and also all over body. do girls like it, is it a turn on or turn off, am quite concerned about this. (link)
really it's differnt on everybody. I personally hate it. and much rather have the guy have no hair.


my boyfriend of so far 2 years wants to get married really bad because hes a marine overseas and he wants that relationship before he goes out to war. but the thing is since i dont see him alot, i dont know how he would act in everyday communication. my dad puts my mom down everyday throws things at her and fights with her every moment, but tells her he loves her.im afraid of getting into one of those relationships. what do i do? (link)
honestly, my parents used to be the same way, and the word "marrage" scares me.
uhh, don't do anything you'll regret. in my oppinion, i doubt he'll do anything oversea's.
it's really a type of trust thing.


whats the best position to go in for sex for people who are just starting out who may not be that experienced? (link)
uhm..... i do agree with the other persons advice. the girl on guy, and guy on girl thing. but try to start it off old school, haha. i mean guy on girl first, it'd be best. and like they said, you both are going to be nervous. and, don't make it all cheesey, unless your into that type of thing. haha:) uhh.... don't try doggy style. it's unhealthy. you can rip your hole. and have eternal/internal bleeding. don't do it i advise you.
:)
i hope this helped!


I dumped my ex because of HIS mistake. his DUMB mistake. I see him everywhere and he always tries to get me back and compliment me blah blah, but I don't want him; he's weak.


I want to know a song that talks about a female singing about his guilt/regret for messing up. Do you know any?

thaaaaank you! =) (link)
haha, chill sweetie, everybody makes mistakes.
i would have to go with "we belong together by Mariah carey"
all though if you we're being mean about it, it's not descripting what you want, but its called "give you hell" i'm not quite sure about whom sings it. but it's about seeing your ex, and when you and he/she she each other, it pisses them off, and makes them feel bad.
haha:) just a suggestion.
good luck!
:)


So, I'm pretty weird. I don't really like going out in the daytime. But I want a day time job. So, what are some dim lit or dark stores? Like there was this one place that used to be at a mall near me, that had like all kinds of austrailian things. It was called Urban something. Oh, and the shoe store Journey's is pretty dark. But I'm not going to work at either of those. So what are some more? I'm 17/f if that helps. (link)
hottopic, seriously.
good luck!


okay so im going to do this "diet" where for 2 weeks all you eat is vegetables. well i was wondering because you're not getting very many calories because vegetables don't have many, would it be okay if i had maybe every other day a "bad food" item. only one? like maybe have a brownie one day or a hamburger from burger king one day or somethig like that? will i still lose weight? (link)
i suggest not to, like the other person whom commented this.....
i agree.
you shouldn't eat a brownie or anything.
Keep up the diet though!
good luck.

(fruit are wonderful to add to your diet also)


my best friend has been going out with her boyfriend for about 2 months. this is her first serious boyfriend - shes 16, and im happy for her. only thing is, she is head over heels for him, but its really obvious he doesn't like her like that. i am NOT jealous, i would never date a guy in the same species as this one, haha, but im not the only one who has noticed the apathy on his part. she sets up all the dates, she asked him out, and he doesnt even hug her when they say goodbye! theyve kissed but to me it seems like a formality on his part. -i a really intrapersonal person, i can pick up others' feelings easily, but even my other friends notice-

also, she invites him everywhere when we have girl time. like, when its just her & me, its normal, but whenever she invites a handful of friends over, all girls, he has to come, too. i dont mind once in a while but its getting rediculous. he's obviously never had a girlfriend before (not to be mean but hes really nerdy and quiet, im not prejudiced against that type of guy 'cause i like shy guys haha but quite honestly he's just... boring) and is just riding the wave.

even worse, she kinda acts different around him. i mean obv girls act dif around their boyfriends but when all her girl friends are hanging out and he happens to be around, her attitude completely changes and shes not as fun anymore.

i dont know what to do. if i brought up the whole not inviting him places things, she might get mad at me, (i wouldnt blame her). also i do not want to be the one to tell her [and i dont think i should tell her... even though if anyone should, it would be me] he doesnt like her and break her heart. should i just stay out of this? if it was me, though, i'd want her to tell me.

opinions? thanks so much. (link)
hello, i'm susan. yeah, i've pretty much been in this perdicument. Well, i'd tell her. gently explain to her though, don't have a attitude or anything. and definatly, make sure she is calm. and is not already in a bad mood. i wish you the best of luck!




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