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...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.






Gender: Female
Location: CA
Occupation: student
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Member Since: December 1, 2003
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Last Update: May 28, 2007
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I CANT GO TO ANOTHER WARD THAT EASILY FOR WHAT I WAS EXCOMMUNICATED FOR WAS BASICALLY IM LIVING WITH A GUY THAT IM NOT MARRIED TO AND YOU KNOW HOW THEY ARE ABOUT THAT I DO WANNA GET BACK BUT MY LIFE IS A MESS RIGHT NOW IM TRYING TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT WISH ME LUCK (link)
No, I do not know what you are talking about, Ive never heard of someone being excommunicated from the LDS church. Did you not read what I wrote when I said, a knew stake? Go to a different building.


My 'friend' Danielle is so bitching. We were talking on the phone one night and the conversation went like this:
"Everytime I go out with you, I don't meet anyone."
I say:
"It's not my fault and if you want to meet someone than you should talk to them.Look what happened with chris he might have got with you but neither of you really talked to each other cause you both were too shy.You act like your the most straight forward person in the world."
"Yeah but...,(to herself)who can I talk too?"
"About what,me?"
"You won't understand. Who can I talk too?"
"Camille,Ketia,"
"No they won't understand"
"Tell me"
"No, see that's why they were saying in 6th period that--"
" Who was saying what"

For the rest of the coversation I kept pressuring her to tell me till I got upset and hung up on her.
The next days she wouldnt talk to me so I'm not talking to that yellow-ass bitch either.
I'm very mad that she's mad at me. another girl in our group gets on her nerves so after about 2 days she just jumps back into her life and jumps out (Danielle). I hope she doesn't think that she could do that to me(it's been more than 2 days so maybe she wasn't going to anyway.) also every time I call to find out why she's mad, they say she's in the "shower".Dawleen say's that dani said I'm annoying but Shantell says that she's mad cause i'm a hypocrite and she repeated our conversation. I'm always ignoring her because I don't want to feel like she's playing me. I don't know what to do to be her friend again but i don't want her to have the last say.How do i become friends with a stubborn girl without losing the fight. (link)
I am just like you, I cant handle loseing an arguement, but at the same time I want to remain friends with that person. You need to pretend that none of it happened and go up to her at school and talk. If she acts weird about you just going up to her randomly, ask her if you two can stay friends while forgeting about the arguement.


that is the church i was excommunicated from and i do know it is the right church that is why i wanna get back to it so badly (link)
That is very weird. Try going to another ward or stake, and see what happens then. Fill me in ;-)


i recently have been excommunicated out of a great church due to not following their rules i was happy there part of me wants it back but part of me wants to live the way i want to live how do i get it all to mesh together so i can be happy all the time i loved the church i really still do i miss it all what should i do if you need more details please let me know but i warn you it is long well if anyone can help let me know (link)
If your church wont accept you, it must not be the right church for you. Look into being mormon, they will accept you and it is the right church.


I have a boyfriend that i've been going out with for almost 3 months now, and he is slowly making him way to making me feel comfortable with him "sexualy". I love my boyfriend, and i would hate to lose him, and I want to but I was taught to wait until you have sex. What should I do? (link)
You shouldnt have sex with him. 3 months is way too early.


I have a boyfriend that i love alot but he hits me.But he say he sorry and he won't do it again but he keeps doing it. He said if I leave him then he will kill me.I'm so scared that he's telling the truth .He's already put me in the hospital 2 times I don't know what to do.So I need help ASAP if anyone can help me please.My life is on the line!

Love Apple (link)
Tell an adult! This is not a good situation to be handeling yourself. Tell a counsiler or your parents as soon as possible. They will know how to handle it.


do u no of any other advice sites please right back
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Go to a search that says, get advice, etc. I personaly like yahoo the best.


is masturbation a sin? what do you think of it. (link)
Well.. I dont think highly of it


My hair looks good when I first wash and dry it, but over the course of the day it just goes really flat and looses all its sexy waviness and body. I've tried switching shampoos, using mouse or gel, all sorts of things, but nothing seems to work. What's the trick here? (link)
Dont use more gel! That just weighs your hair down and almost causes the problem. Try using less things for your hair to make it light. I use vo5 and my hair is very nice throughout the day. Give it a try


HEY "shay" hahaha AKA JENNAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA heeehee (link)
okay.... My name is shay, is this that one person that thinks my name is Jenna, because its not. Now leave me alone you freak


hello i have written times and have received some good advice so i hope i get some again
here is the problem i wash everyday but i want to smell wonderful all the time i am an overweight person i use soap deodorant and some perfume but there are times i could smell better can anyone tell me some secrets to smelling good all the time this really bugs me especially in the warm weather i would like to smell shower fresh all the time i am working on the weight if anyone knows of any good products i would appreciate it thanks (link)
Its this thing I like to call, deoderant :-)


Is it bad to have wet dreams? (link)
yes, that means you are going to pee, Duh


Hey, I noticed you were from Cali and was wondering if you knew anything about CalArts university. I'm looking at it for a college and would like to know more about it. I mean, I've been to the web page and all. I need to figure out a way to convince my mom to let me go there...I'm not sure if you can help, but I figured I'd ask. If you can, thank you LOADS. If not, thanks anyway. (link)
Well, I dont know a whole lot about that university, infact Ive never even heard of it. I know how to comvince your mom though. You should tell her that you really wan to go there and you will still be getting a college degree {or whatever you are going for}. At least you're going to college right? PS- maybe my sister can help you out with that, but Im not sure. I'll get back to you if she knows anything.


oops i did it again
i got tangled up
in the computer cord
oh no, oh no

oops i think that im stuck
and im getting bored
ya
im not that innocent

yoyoyoyoyo. yoyoyoyoyoyo.
oh, that isnt the cordstuck to me is it?
yes, its all tangled up just to annoy me!
awww... that sucks.

i'm still just sitting down here
got nothin to do
got nowhere to go
oh baby baby

oops i got tangled up
lost in the
computer game
and now im stuck here... (link)
Hey! Dont make fun of Britney Spears! She rocks.


Chingy's hot!
Whose with me...and those of you who say no he isnt or whatever..don't bother answering this question because why would you waste your time???
Mwah chingy! lol (link)
chingys not hot, Andy Roddick, now hes HOT!!!


Not sure if it goes under "injuries"...but whatever...it just hurts.

Today when i woke up, my chin just had some kind of pain i never felt before. it feels as if a "bump" grew or something. whenever i touch it, my chin hurts.

i might not be able to go to the doctors...my parents don't have the money. And Because of that, I don't have money.

It might be those random things...sometimes my knee hurts, and it stop in a few minutes...
kind of like...when you leg gets numb...only with a pain.

help? (link)
Then dont touch it.... Dont think about it and it will go away. Im just like you, I think that somethings wrong with me all the time, but really nothings wrong. Maybe tell your parents?


ok we get our yearbooks on the last few days of school i really want to know what a good thing to say to everyone in their yearbook i need good ideas like not the simple ones like have a great summer i want mine to stand out so can you people give me some good ideas please i reaslyl need them



please help thanks yearbook girl (link)
Well dont say, "have a good summer see you next year". I hate that! I get like a million of those! Write something original like, "wow this year was great, remember when..." Something like that. No worries!


whatis love? (link)
love is when I loved you,
Go on,
once more you open the door...

Do you like Celien Dion? Anyways to the question. Its like when you would practically do anything for that person and like everything about them. Its different for different people. You'll know when you're in love. "Its like fireworks!"


how do you ask a guy out if you are a shy girl when it comes to asking guys out (or friends out) (link)
Well does the guy like you? Maybe ask him to go to the dance with you or something first to see what hes like. Well you could write him a note or casually bring the subject up wile talking. No worries.


QUIT GIVING ADVICE, YOUR ANSWERS SUCK!!! (link)
Thanks, I love you too.




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