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It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in? (link)
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how about: HAGS (have a great summer), this year rocked, can't wait for ______ grade!!!
cat
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it's not that i'm a shy person, but I often get stage fright. sometimes when I have to perform a play or skit, or when I have to go in front of my whole class and all attention is on me, my body starts to get really hot and like my face, chest, and arms will turn red. I just wanted to kno if other people are experiencing that too.. and how can I prevent this from happening??
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No, Im sorry, you can't really prevent this from happening. It happens to everyone at least one time in their life! Try thinking of something relaxing or funny while you doing it (I know it sound corny...but try to imagine everyone it their underwear...works for me!!!)...maby you'll feel better after that.
Hope I helped!
Cat
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ok so 2 of my best friends are mad at me because i keep hanging out with my best guy friend. The one friend told my friend melanie that i always talk about him and the only person i ever hang out with is him and i dont care about anything else but him. And that's not true. Am i doing anything wrong by spending so much time with him? (link)
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Maby you should start spending less time with him and more time with your friends. It's probably hurting their fealings you're not spending as much time with them as with your guy friend.
Hope I helped!
Cat
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I swear something is wrong with me. This happened last time and it's happing again. After like the first 2 days of going out with a guy, I don't want to go out with them anymore. I don't know why. I just stop liking them as much as before when we weren't going out. I almost made an excuse not to hang out with my boyfriend today but then my other guy friend (B) wanted to come along and I wanted to hang out with him so I went and hung out with them. Supposably "B" likes me. Before me and my boyfriend were going out, B said he would go out with me if he knew I liked him. At the time I thought of his as a close friend, but now I think I like him instead. I just kept denying that I liked him. We've been friends for a bit and dated way back in the day, kind of. well not really... it was one of those stupid little kid relationships where you barely even talk to your significant other.
Anyways, I don't know what to do! We've only been going out for 4 days and I'm already wanting to break up with him. This always happens to me. I hate breaking up with people and I don't know if I should. Ughhhh. I can never make up my mind.
This Friday my whole grade is going on this trip and we are going on this romantic night cruise. It'd be fun to share it with someone I actually like-like, and I think that may be "B" and not my boyfriend. Arrgghhhh. My goddddd.
What should I do? I'm not sure if I like him anymore and I'm not even sure how to tell anymore if I do. Has this happened to anyone else? (link)
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I think you have sumthin like when you are shoping. You love crushig on this one thing, but when you actually get it, you like wanting to have it more. Mayby you should try not having a bf for a while, so maby you will change.
hope i halped,
cat
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I always get sidetracked and daydream in class. like i dont pay attention [i still get A's and B's somehow]. sometimes i will space out when people talk to me and they get mad sometimes. My friend always says "pay attention" or "i think u have ADD" .. this is botherin me now that someone pointed it out to me. Is this ADD.. if it matters 13/f (link)
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The same exact thing happens to me ALL the time. Don't worry, it's not ADD, it's normal! You just probably have a bigger imagination then everyone else. But if you're still not sure, try trivia game. I know it sounds weird, but they really help you concentrate and think more. But whatever you do, DON'T BE WORRIED!!! There is nothing to worry about at all!!!
Bye,
Cat
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im having an upcoming birthday party at water conutry in june and there are these 3 girls who arent very nice to me at times but they are sometimes and i was wondering should i invite them here and there storys are please tell me yea or no
( lets call this girl mary ) okay mary she doesnt like me that much and every day when i was standing next to my friend she said to my friend she doesnt like me so why should i invite her if she doesnt like me
( lets call this girl sue ) sue talks to me mostly but only when we go out somewhere or on the phone when i call her in school she barely talks to me and at my school we still ahve recess even there we in the 7th grade and were 13 and at recess she dont eevn say hi to me so why should i invite her to my party if she dont talk to me
( lets call this girl cindy ) well cindy theres inst much wrong with her the only thing is she doesnt talk ot me all the time its different everyday and one day she is my best friend and the next she is my worst enemy so why should i invite her if she is two faced
well those are all my storys please answer them with a yes or no thanks so much for taking the time to read this and keep in mind that when these 3 are together or even just 2 of them they are so mean to evryone and total bitches i rate HIGH if you give me a reasonable answer
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Well...it halfly depends on what you want.
What I would do is:
I would invite them, because if you invite other people and not them, well then they might feel left out and not talk to you any more.
1. Look at what I would do, and if you like it, then why not do it? You can get more presents...(haha)
2. It's really up to you. Do you really like thease girls? If you really hate them, don't invite them. But if you're like half-friends with them, why not invite them?
Good luck with your party,
Cat
P.S. Happy Birthday!
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well i have been depressed lately well since last year and i have cut myself all the time. sometimes even more then one time a day. i have so many scars and my mom knows i did but she thinks i stopped. and i am stressed and i haven't eaten because lately i think im fat, i think i am going anorexic. i need help because lately i'm different. (link)
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No offence to you, but I really think you need to go into therepy. Cutting is a really serious problem, and I know from experience. Luckily I stopped before I killed myself! I stopped because I know that people out there did love me and they would start soing something like I did if I didnt stop. I really think you should go somewhere to help yourself.
Good Luck and I hope you feel less depressed!
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hey i recently got spacers and one of them came out the next day, and so we put it back in but it did the same thing it did the first time and came back out again. is this normal? will it delay my braces? thanks. (link)
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Yes, it is normal, and it will not affect your brases at all. When I got spacers, the dentist told me not to worry if they fall out, and not to put them back in. The only thing that will happen is that it will hurt a tiny bit more when they put your brases in. But dont worry about the hurting part, the same this happened to me and it hurt a little bit. Good Luck with Brases!!!
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