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Q: Hello a few months ago i had to paint some things around the house, and i was wearing my pants, that was pretty good pants, but i thought i was never going to wear them again, but now, i want to wear them, and i've got alot of paint marks all on them, and the paint is white.

does anyone know if i can get this off or not? and if i can, how?
thanks alot!

this might some weird

but some places you can buy pants with paint on them

so if you splatter some more paint other places toomaybe it will loke fash'n'able

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Q: every night my EX IMs me and talks about us having sex and what we would do if we were alone and how great our sex was.. the thing is he has a gf now.. would that in anyway be cheating? its not like were really doing anything were just talking about doing shit..

yes i somehow relate that to sexual relations

p.s. please do not curse in questions

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Q: if i work very very hard.. workout. eat very little and avoid starches fats n sugar can i lose 10-15 lbs in 2 weeks?

nope

the MAXIMUM that you can loose in a week is 4.5 pounds... unless you have surgery

sorry

but you could in a month

Q: my name is kristin and i have not made out or kissed anyone yet and i am planing to go to the movies with this guy and he wants to make out and i want to too. i told him that i have made out b4 too. how do you make out? and also is it okay to make out with my retainer in because if i take it out i have a missing tooth HELP!!!!

ok... for one thing..... you are NOT allowed to label something "PLEASE HELP ME"

people will not help you if you do that

and the other thing

you shouldn't lie to people
you should have no ttold that person that you have made out before..... if he cant except you the way you are then find another dude.

i hope this helps kristin

Q: i didnt know what category to place this.
but tomorrow im going swimming and i shaved my legs and pubic area today and got really bad razor burn is there anyway to make it go away by tomorrow? or will it go away but tomorrow on its own?

ohhh... i hate it when that happens

well... try putting mostirizing lotion.... stuff that also smells nice

that is what i do

so try lotoin one befroe you go to bed, one when you wake up and one before you go swimming

hope this helps

p.s. i give better advice with lots of ratings and commens... lol

Q: 13/f ( I NEED HELP, NOW!, and this is the same girl that asked about ur cute column)

So recently my friends dyed their hair pink, they thought it was like a temp. 6-8 washes will get it out sort of thing. They found out it was permanent..and that they would have to grow it out, or cut it to get the pink out.

I really wanted to dye my hair pink..but now i'm deciding between Pink and Blue..i have a dirty blonde/brown hair color. My mom wants me to get highlights. Plz tell me your opionion..and if i should TEMP or PERMANENTLY dye my hair

THANKS SOOO MUCH!

OMG

i think that we have SOOOO much in common

I have a permanet streak of pink hair on the left side.

have you ever seen avril lavigne on the cover of her new CD ( The best dam thing?) well that is how my hair looks but I have light brown hair.

OMG.. I love it... although perment is called permanet but it last about 5-6 months.. i think that you should do that

get a pink streak in only the front!!!

i hope that this helps you and i hope that you keep in contact

please do!!!

from,
your fan and advice giver

p.s. go to the top screen on the right... and there will be this thing where it says "Be the frist to answer these:

do you see the one where it says.... "Is it true?"
well that is mine... please give me advice

Q: ok so i like this boy his name is andy, and well m ysister went all balls ou tand got in the middle of it becasue he is gonna be 20 in october and i just turned 16 in april. he likes me alot and i liek him, he was an eagle scout in boyscouts and works a good job hes very clean cut not abd hes a virgin which i find adoribale and yeah well i dnt know what to do. she told em mom we were dating which we arnt and never were so im not even aloud to hangout with him now. which blows. but we talk and stuff still it just really stinks because i want to see him. i dont understand my moom lets me hangout with my friend blake who is 21 and she has no problem with it hes way worse tehn andy any day so why not andy?? i dnt understand help pleasee? 16/f

Ok... let me put this in as nice way as perfect

find a guy YOU OWN AGE!!!

16 vs. 20 is 4 years.... WOW

that is like a 4 year old going out with a 8 years old

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

you need to seperate....
you should find a guy your own age and he should find a girl his own age

hope that helps

Q: ok were would a 14/f find a job..i really need some advice on wear to loook for a job because i cannot find a job ..

P.S. any ideas would be really appreciated thanx!

BABYSIT

ok.... there are a thing called CHILD LABOR LAWS... you a barly a teen

so your only way is to:
babysit
dog washer/walker
try making things,,, such as candles or desserts!!!

Q: HEY! your colum is really cute. I was wondering how i could make mine like as cute as yours. How do you get your things to be like Q and A or something..or have your info be in a dif spot. I'm good at this kinda stuff..but i'm new to advicenators..so i have no clue how their HTML works

PLZ HELP ME!

well... thank you for the compliment on my column. But i am brand new too but let me see if i remember how to do it.Do you see on the very left side and it says welcome, *and then your name*
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well... go to column setting and profile setting and then you have to click on a color.... thank you so much for the compilment agian... please kepe ijn touvh

Q: I'm 13, and most of my friends have had a boyfriend, or had their first kiss. I just can't get boys to like me, well like i can but i can never make them say " WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME!?". No ones EVER asked me out. I like this guy really really a lot right now, and i want to go out with him

any advice??!
=)thanks

yes i do have advice.....

and i am honored that you came to me for it!
well anyway... everyone expirences their first kiss and different boyfriends at different times. Yoou can't rush these things. But yeah i can understabd how you feel. I am 13 and just got my first bf this year, i mean official 4 month bf. You should totally be yourself. although it may seem like no one wants to go out with you right now but maybe they want to but are just scared. Mayve you tell tell this guy that you like them... i mean what do you have to loose??? either you tell him and get it off your chest! It's either he doesn't like you right at the moment or he really does like you but wont admit it to you! I really hope that I have helped you!!
p.s. i am a new member to this and i was wondering how do you email people on this??

Q: 14/m... So there's this friend I have who is a girl and she knows I like her because my other friends are telling her. Anyways, we're always talking on aim and stuff and sometimes we end up talking about the fact that I like her. Well, she doesn't like anyone right now, but she says she doesn't like me like that. Does anyone want to tell me how I can get her attention and get her to want to go out with me? It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

n a nice way... you have to respect women matbe she has a reason for not wanting to go out.

if she doesnt want to go out then she doesnt have to go out

Q: yea...btw how is she not acting like a good friend? and whats your last name b/c i cant add you in myspace because they wont let me

law.. thats my last name

Q: hey I like to try different hairstyles. does anyone have any pics of Emily Osment hairstyles or how to do them. by the way, I'm looking for pics from hannah montana since Emily always wears cool, different hairstyles on that show.

here are some links...

and i do my hair like hers sometimes

http://www.emilyosment.org/

http://www.teenidols4you.com/thumb/Actors/emily_osment/emily_osment_1179347377.jpg

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Q: ic ic oh and the last she said to me in myspace was "life's unfair, it's complicated, it works in was we wish it didnt. but don't be sad, i can feel you trying to drift away....makes parting away easier, but then could u really stand the fact of separating knowing htat you guys are distant or parting knowin u guys had last good memories together? but makes going away harder.... " that was it we stoppped talking after this and she asked me why i was avoiding her and stuff she knew i was avoiding her because she was moving and i think she did the same thing...= / what do you think about this? sorry if i annoy you with my questions = /
PS:she knew that i was avoiding her and she was saying" you dont wanna get close to me because im moving huh?" and she said"how come you dont talk to me? its like we're distant friends" and i keep saying"no your just thinking too much" and stuff = /

ohh ic.... i am sorry.. i didn't know about that part

well.... loosing someone is hard... but once she calms down about moving she should talk to you again. well... thats how i believe.... i am sorry

and know you are not bugging me... lol

i am just speechless.... she is not acting like a good friend.. but if you guys were really close friends she will not forget you and i bet that you guys will be talking soon! You should leave her a myspace comment saying how you feel

also i have myspace.... what is your username for myspace??

mine is "daydreaming" without the "" its set to private and my email is mariah0731@hotmail.com

Q: she left already = / and i havent talk to her since last day of school which is last month do you think we're still friends?

yes... i believe you still are friends....even though things might be hard right now... she must be having a heartache just like you... i mean just think if you were in her place... she is leaving her old house, her old school, and even her friends... yes she will have a new house,school and friends but you can never be replaced. never

Q: my friend is moving soon and i avoided her for a while because i was really sad that shes moving but when we talk a little and when i say bye i hug her so tight like shes leaving tommrow and she says"dont worry im not going anywhere yet...." and next day i talked to her a lil bit and i was gonna hug her like as we always do but she just turned around and refused to hug me and slowly stopped talking to me after this what do you guys think about this situation?

thank you for answering my question but before i IMed her but she didnt respond me or anything so i gave up try talking to her and usually we always talk on AIM when im online but since i avoided her and everything we dont anymore and i havent talk to her for a month now...it hurts = / what do you think about this? = /

awww... i am soooo sorry abou this

but you just have to let her know that it may be a while before you see her again and that you want to spend the last days better than ever.... once you start talking to her again you should take her to do something amazingly fun

Q: I don't know why, but my discharge has blood in it. It's not anything like my period is usually, and im not expecting my period for about a week, anyway. I'm really worried about it, though. I've been really tired lately, and i'm just paranoid that the bleeding might have something to do with it. Every once in a while I feel a pain down there, too. I'm worried, what could be wrong?

well.... i am sorry that you are worried. but it sounds just normal.... i know it may sound weird but it sounds like it is just the beginning of your new period about to happen.....
for example say if you start your period on July 31 at 2:39 in the afternoon...

that doesn't mean that it will happen EXACTLY then.... it sounds like you are just about to start your period

but if you are to worried then you should go to a doctor but make sure that you ask for a girl... well unless if you are comfortable on letting a guy look at it... lol

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i hope my advice works

Q: Okay , me and my boyfriend love eachother sooo much and we're totally commited.Problem is , my parents are spliting up and I have to move to Newfoundland [I live in Ontario now] and we're going to try to stay together.I will be coming to Ontario 1-3 times a year and I'll see him everytime.Okay so also , I'm 13 and he's gonna be 15 in January.He's not a virgin [he did it 1 time that's it] and I am a virgin but I am thinking about doing something like that...please if you're going to lecture me give me an answer to.I want to give him something soo sentimental , but I don't have anymoney.AND if I am going to give him my viginity then it will be cuz I was thinking about it anyways , not just cuz I'm leaving !! THANKSS IN ADVANCE !!!!!!

13/female

If you are going to give him your virginity make sure that he really loves you and that you really love him. And dont think of this as a lecture because I encourage you to give him something. However if you do give away your virginity then make sure that it is really romantic (candles, silk, roses) kinda thing. Well the roses are a little extreme but you should totally make it a suprise for him.... but tell him to be ready for a big suprise... he will totally love it!

Please rate and leave comments... thank you

p.s. dont feel bad about long distance relationships but try talking to your parents becuase I have had to move but after i told my parents how much i loved this kid then they relized that they should do what sright for me and him!!! You should try it... what do you have to loose :) I hope that my advice works and email me back saying what you decide please

Q: I'm making a CD for my boyfriend before I go to college. What are some good missing you songs, i love you songs, and leaving (going off to college) songs? Thanks!

I looked on google....

try going to this site:

http://www.lyred.com/search.php?song=miss%20you

It has a lot of good "miss you" songs on it

or

A moment like this~ kelly clarkson

i hope that these helped.. please rate me and leave me a comment... thank you

Q: Sombody asked me to babysit for her son on next monday,tuesday,wendnesday for $15 each day but my aunt wants me to go with her to wisconsin dells those days should i stay or should i go?

Actually I think that you should go to wisconsin becuase even if you did stay and babysit to me 15 dollars a day is not that much.

although even though you should be dedicated to your job I believe that family always comes first

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Hello,

I am 13 and am in 8th grade! I love giving advice. I also love it when people rate and comment me! I am 110% dedicated to the Lord! I am a christian!!! I am also in love with someone right now!! *You know who you are*