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I was raised a Catholic, but I'm feeling more agnostic now.

Can anyone give me some scientific proof that God is real? And don't give me that, "I have a friend that claims he saw 'him'" crap. That's not PROOF to me.

No links please.
And why do the God-worshippers refer to God as *Him* with capitalized letter on the H, astricts, and all? Uh, it's not necessary.

Thanks in advance too! (link)
okay im same as you raised cathloic but i also feel agnostic sometimes. like if god is everywhere why do we have to go to church to worship him? and just stuff like that. but in religion like we'd read the bible things just make sense. and id if you heard this one but i guess theres this ragg or soemthing that was discovered that jesus wipped his face with and it has is face imprinted on it and like you can jsut tell its him. but idk if you ever get the chance read some storys out of the bible it actually come together a little.


I just got orthodontic rubber bands the other day. Does anybody know approximately how long I'll have to have them for? I forgot to ask my dentist =P

I don't know if everyone needs them for a different amount of time, or if there's a standard amount.

I got my braces a year ago and am scheduled to get them off in December, if it helps. Thanks in advance (link)
everyones diffferent, i had mine for 2 months and then they said i didnt need them anymore but i still have my braces on. but my friend had hers until she got hers off and i dont remember how long exactly it was.


Ok so I've seen a couple people wearing like kinda dressy shirts that are longer than a regular shirt but shorter than a dress and they wear leggings under it and it looks soo cute! I was wondering if anybody knows where I can get shirts like that? And I don't want them to look too dressy, but not too plain. Just something thats cute and stylish. Thanks so much! (link)
i think i no what your talking about and american eagle and aero have them

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?catId=cat1320034&productId=1393_9908

http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2583890&cp=2284058.2183135&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family


i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy? (link)
personally it would piss me off but i dont think i would consider it 'cheating'.

but okay. switch the situation. what if you saw him holding hands with another girl.


ok so im 15/f and im not what you would call fat, but im not what you would call skinny either. i weigh 120 pounds and i want to lose 15, and i kind of want abs. the problem is i have really bad asthma and i cant go running for 2 minutes without like hyperventelating(sp?). and running is supposed to keep you in shape, yet i can't seem to do that. well i was wondering if there was any plans that i could go on without having to pay or sign up for anything. because i have no clue on how to lose 15 pounds. people on tv losing weight, like made, make it look so easy, and i always wonder how. i just want to get in shape so i can feel good, not to starve myself. and i was wondering what are some really good exercises to build up abs, and arm and legs pretty much, so that i dont have as much fat on them. thanks for reading and hopefully you can help :] (link)
ok i no this is gonna sound really werid butt try kickboxing. im 14/f and like theres a place right down the street from me that does and all female kickboxing class and it getts you in AMAZING shape but like you dont get out of breathe. and you get SICKKK! abs. soo i think what you shoudl do is look around at local gyms and stuff. and see if they offer a female kickboxing class or if you cant find a female one just go co/ed i think its alottt of funn and it puts you in such good shape bc it works your entire body.


ok well saturday night my mom was really really REALLY drunk coming home with her friend. i know this because my friend was watching the car pull in and noticed they were both drunk. they ended up leaving while drinking so i called my mom and told her to get her a** back! welll her and her friend went upstairs and were at it. they both were loud and um yeah so now i havn't talked to my mom since saturday night. what should i dooo?! it's so awkward ! (link)
i dontt agree with the person below me. i think she can do that stuff. but it was completely inapporpriate that she did it while you were home. and that you could hear it.

butt i think you should talk to her even though ino its gonnna be superr akward and hard. just be like mom i understand your a grown women and can do what you want. its just i dont want to no what you do or hear it.


I know this sounds totally stupid, and i feel like really dumb for saying this but whatever, okay so im like a 34a getting to a b-cup but i don't have clevege, how can i do this? people joke around with me sometimes, and then i see other girls who have it, how do they do it? and dont say like "you dont need to" or anything, is it a push-up bra or something? tape? or i have no idea. but help, because my friends need this to haha. [[ also i have no idea what catagorey to put this in ]] (link)
you can try a water bra.. there basically a pushup bra.


Ok well my dog Adrian died and its really hard for me and i keep thinking about her....And i WONT ever forget her though....And i like loved her and i still do and shes buried in the backyard so i can see her...And it just makes it harder....Please Help... (link)
aw, babee i no how you feel i got my first dog when i was 2 and im 14 now and he jsut diedd like this pastt febuary. and i was soo sad i cryed like every day for 2 weeks. but dontt forget him cherish every memorey you two hadd together. and the ppl that said get a new pet, dont bc then it feels like your replacing them bc my mom did and now i like hattee the new dog bc i feeel like hes just a replace ment so just always keep him and your heart and the griving will get better.


I am totally in love with my boyfriend right now. The happiest I've been in my whole life. Does anyone know any really cute quotes about being in love? Thanks (link)
& it just happened.
no discussion needed.
we just both knew that
very moment we wanted
to be together

You're the closest to heaven, that I'll ever be.


she may be confused about
a lot of thingss. but she knos
that the only time she's truley
happy is when she is with him


okay well i cant exactly read
i have ADD or something!
so i am not going to read the new harry potter book: harry potter and the deathly hallows
since i have only read the chamber of secrets

okay so this is the question that everybody is asking
this is to people who have already read the book:
WHO DIES?!

thanks in advance! (link)
um my momms reading it (yeah i no shes pretty gay) hahha but yeah she said that that one guy with the crazy eye i forgot his name but yeah he dies.


I have the BIGGEST day of my life in two weeks! and i have this stomach and i need to get rid of it! its not big its small but is there any WAY i can get it to go away in 2 weeks! il work extra hard on anythin and like do 300 situps if i need to but i need to loose it in atleast 2 weeks!!so please any ways i can loose it in 2 weeks i will love you forever! haha and ill rate highh! to any advice please please im beggeg! and also if its like completely impossible then when is the shortest time i can get abs other then 2 weeks? Im hoping 2 weeks is a good enough time =] Thank you soo much in advance!!! (link)
okay first off all situps do nothing but tone the muscles in your stomach they do nothing with weight loss.if you really wanna loseee it you need to excerise! like runn or something. in order to lose weight you need to do a cardio excerise. anddd for food eat like salads and fruits and veggies andd pasta. like stay toward the bottom of the food pyrimad. alsooo drink waterrrrrrrrrr. i did not change any of my eating habits or my excerise i just drunk ONLY water and i lost 5 lbs in a week. okay last tip is every time your gonna go to eat think am i really hungry orrr am i eating bc im bored or stressed or something like that..


okay so my dad is a drug addict.
and everyone yells at my mom and tells her to divorce him and everything,
but what tey dont get is that hes a good guy.
just not when hes on drugs.
i remember one time he ran me and my mom out of the house and we camp back like an hour later and we walked in the door and the lights were off and he had thrown everything all over the floor,he was sitting on the couch and he looked so mean and angry.i was so scared.and when he does dugs it makes me feel like im not good enough for him and he needs drugs to like make him happy or something.i just want him to stop and i tll him that but he never listens and just says whatever.and he already has a brain tumor and a tumor on his hip,but he wont go get them check out.they just keep getting bigger.and i try to stay strong for my mom because she has way more to worry about like paying bills and not having enough money and everything like that.and i know that i shouldnt make it seem like my life is soo bad because theres people who have it way worse.
and i know that.
i guess my question is,
how do i get him to stop?
&&should i be worried about?
what should i do? (link)
im sorry. babe i no thats gotta be absoultly terriable for you to have to live through. but you cant gett him to stop on your own he needs counseling or somethingg.

okay in school they gave us these little things that have emergency numbers heres a very numbers that might be helpful for you
Addiction & abuse 24 hour helpline - 1800-222-0828
and if he ever abuses you
1-800-342-3720 (just incasee)

dontt be afraid to call hun your father needs helpp.


Thank you

The only problem is is that I'm using Microsoft OfficeLive for designing my website, and you can't switch the hosting if you want to keep the domain. On OfficeLive, there aren't really any teen-friendly backgrounds, and I don't think that you can import your own background either, but I'm gonna contact support and see if I can and how.

Is there anything that I should do besides change the background and layout? (link)
ummm no i actually really like the site alot. i think its a site like a step up from advicenators its just more for teens. i like it alot i actually just became a memeber hahah =]


I need some help with my website, which is for teenagers.

Can you please look at it and see if there is anything that I can change, because for some reason, when most people visit the website, they leave right away, and I want to know why and how I can make my website better.

Here's the link: http://byteens4teens.net

Thank You :)
Mariah (link)
okay i can tell you right now what the numero uno problem is, you need a funn background like when i first went on there i was like wait is this right, you neeed like a background thats moree teeny, like you no what im saying?


Ok so im 14, and i'm going to high school..
What's some stuff i SHOULD do and SHOULDN'T do
Like i need advice on making more friends


If it Helps:
*I'm friends with a few sophmores and juniors
*My school is very clique-y
*I'm friends with ALOT of people ranging from the "popular" people to "ghetto" people to "nerds"
srry I HATE using labels but i couldnt describe them any better (link)
haha you must go to whitesboro haha jp okay im gonna be a freshman too and my schoool, whitesboro what i said before ahaha is also VERYYYY clique like to the extreme and my brother is gonna be a senior so him and all his friends are constantly telling me things i should and shouldnt do.

ok
-dont call your self a freshie he said bc it just makes you sound retarded
-dont try and act like your BEST FRIENDS with all the upperclass man bc it will annoy them
-be friendly but dont try too hard.
-dont talkkk back to the upperclassman, thats like rule number one he said
-if you no people that have a baddd rep like (slut, hoe,someones dirty like steals crap and stuff) if you hang out with them you will get that rep, thats just high school.

and thats all i could think of right now. hope i helped


i dont no but this is how it went me and b.f were hanging out the hole day and it was fun nothing was wrong untill this evening this feeling came over me like i didnt care about what happend to me ..im 14/f and it was really weird cuz my b.f kept asking are you ok and all i cant say is yea i was smilling walking i dont no what was happening and he asked what am i thinking about and i answered " how lucky i am to have you " he said something but i wasnt paying attention ..im sroyy if its to long but i no it has nothing to do with him i just dont knoe why i was acting like that and when we came home i went upstairs and went on the computer and then i got to my normal self like i was asking my slef wat was wrong with me??? and my b.f spent like 30 minutes sitting outside just staring on the street ...i dont no wat it was plz help !!!


sorry if it was to long but i will really appreiciate all the answers ..thanx !!! (link)
okay like this might sound werid but do you have or are you getting your period soon, bc thats actually what happens to me when im starting to get mine like i just lose intrest in like life like i stop caringg about stuff that i use to be really passionate about. so maybe thats what it is.


i ended my period july 8th and then i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time 3 days later. he was a virgin too, he used a condom. what are the chances of getting pregnant? cus im really scared, but i doubt that i am. (link)
not gonna lie these question get kindof old, not to sound like a bitch or anything. okay but if he wore it correctly and it didnt break or anything there slim to none chance of you being pregnat


I need a good soccer name for my team!!! We are Under-16 Rec Division Soccer Girls. Just a few would be great! (link)
umm my girls hockey team was the lady herricanes (it was spelled her instead of hur bc we were girls .. )


um this is a sort of personal question but i have to have an opinion on this.my boyfriend has been like my bestfriend since i we started really talking.we were friends before we got together and i was going out with other guys.when i wasnt talking to them or my bff/sister,i was talking to him.and i had one really bad break up & i cherished him for truely being there for me.it took a while for him to ask me but i ended up dating my bestfriend.we did have some times where things were sketchy but we never argued,since we were friends we had no problem telling eachother what was up.now we have been together for seven months.im going to a different school and im may be moving too.i told him and he almost cried and i did.(very girl-like of me,i know) so if i do have to leave him i wanted give him something important and precious to me.and this would be of my own will.we have talked about sex and he said it was entirely up to me.i just want to know how to make sure this is something i won't regret one day.i know he respects and loves me but how can i be sure this is the right thing? (link)
you didnt mention your age. but yes if you really do love him, not saying hes the one your gonna marrry, but if you love him and he really does mean somethign to you then go for it.


I am going into 8th grade. The first and last time my mom actually bought me a bra was in the beginning of 6th grade. That bra is a 34 A and i'm sorry it's old, sweaty and my boobs got way bigger from then. I'm not exagerrating. I know what you are thinking: ask your mom to get you a new one, stupid. My mom is SOO IMMATURE when it comes to stuff like that. Today we were in old navy and OH MY GOSH! PRAISE THE LORD! MOM ASKED IF I NEEDED A BRA. I was about to say yes but she was like giggling and gesturing to her boobs and smiling. So I said no and turned red and walked away. I know I should buy my own, but I buy alot of my other stuff that my mom won't buy. It takes me a while to even earn 60 dollars from babysitting, and I don't want to buy a bra because it gets me really mad that my mom could buy one for me if she was a little more mature. Everytime I try to get myself to buy my own, I picture how much money i'm losing. Don't think my mom buys all my other stuff, she doesn't. I do. And i'm NOT COMPLAINING, because I think that teaches me well when I buy my own stuff. But A BRA. THE LAST time she bought me one was when I was 11. I'm realy embarrased to ask her. Should I get up the courage and ask, and have the next few days be awkward, or go to the mall this week and use my own 20 dollars? (link)
okay i no exactly what your talking about bc thats JUST how my mom is. like trying to tell her i need pads or tampons is like hell. hahahah but if your just like mom i need a bra like woah. and just get it out there its like 100x easier dont waste your money.




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