i just would like to say to all you people that rate me like one.. im really not that bad at advice and i do take it seriously most of the time... i have a different way of looking at things to most people doesnt mean im trying to be harsh on you.. try to understand what i type! there is no hope left for the human race after the stupidity in most of these questions anyway. were all going to die. one day. im 16 female from the wonderfull land of OZ and i listen to the beatles.
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alright, please read this, it'll be pretty lnog but i need advice bad
several months ago, i found out that a good friend of mine liked me. this threw me off seeing as how i was at the time trying to woo this other girl. i spent time thinkin about it and the other found out about mny friend and dumped me before anything got started. then my friend decided i took too long and hasnt said anything about it since.
now i like my other friend, happens to be the first ones best friend, that i dont think lieks me. friend 1 flirts but is rude and i think she is going to tell friend 2 prematurely, thus ruining another great, this time lifelong, friendship
funny how teenage life is like a soap opera
any advice? (link)
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there are girls to have sex with and girls to be friends with, know the difference
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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition? (link)
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what competition.. take them out i dunno u know them think for yourself
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Ok so here's the deal... everytime my boyfriend fingers me it makes me have to go pee even if I went right before that! does anybody know why?!? (link)
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see if a doctor can do anything about it
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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am. (link)
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as soon as you feel ready to do anything is the right age. i was 14 and 2 days when i lost my virginity so i dont reccoment rushing things, and there are a lot of problems that come with sex. try oral sex or fingering or something like that have fun lol
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I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend?? (link)
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go to parties meet heaps of people have a good time be outgoing and let them know what you want be a big flirt
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I made my desicion but I dont know what to do I want to do I want to get put on the pill just to be safe but I dont want my mom to know about it I mean should I fake that I am sick and say I have to talk to the doctor privately what do I do I need help some one out there PLEASE HELP (link)
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its easiest just to tell your mum, tell her that you just want them to regulate your periods or something
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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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stonecoldmystery (link)
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why would people look down on your for having sex? if you want and your ready go for it, you will eventually anyway. Dont do it for any other reason apart from that you want and that your ready. you will only regret it if you dont use protection or like.. you get caught or something. i bet heaps of the kids in your school arnt virgins, why would look differently at you? more importantly why do they need to know?
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how do ya mastrubate?? (link)
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errr... im going to take a wild guess that your a girl? fingering yourself is masturbation feeling around to see what feels good, or with sex toys like dildos..
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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
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shes crying out for help or attention if she told you she did it. dont ditch her cuts are only skin deep the reason people cut is because they just want to hurt themselves to feel physical pain instead of emotional pain. Pot isnt a big deal, i bet ur parents smoked up in high school, only start to worry if she has cones every single day or always seems to be stoned.. why wouldnt you be friends with her because of that? it hardly has anything to do with you, its like not being friends with someone coz they r fat or ugly
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Well, I am 13 going on 14, and I would like to have a party. My parents are strict..and for the past years my party has been just a sleepover with 2-3 girls. Wth, I know. That is certainly NOT a party. So, my problem is..I have so many friends, and I'm tired of narrowing down to 2-3 for a sleepover. I'm thinking of inviting around 10 people, maximum, because my parents will probably be pissssed. Ahaha. So, does anyone have an idea of what we can do? I don't want to go bowling..or golfing, OR see a movie, really. I wanna have a cool party, a fun one. My birthday's January 9th, but my party's not until later. (2 weeks maybe) So, does anyone have an idea what to do..something OTHER than a sleepover? Thanks. (link)
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hey, your parents would be more likely to let you have a party if its during the day you should do that, oh do you know whats absolutely awesome.. if u live near a beach hav a beach party, if its not at your house then how can they object to how many people go!?
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Ok i only want answers from someone who cuts/ used to cut. Why do you do it? I cut so often and I'm really depressed and it just makes me feel so good. But what specifically for you was it that made you want to cut? I think getting ideas from others would help me. Thank you. (link)
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err anyway
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Sorry for the length. Yes, I know that weed is bad for you, but I kind of got pressured into smoking a ganga(sp?) today. It was like a crash burn type of thing, I took two hits, but on both of them I messed up, I sucked in, held it, swallowed but only a little swallow, then blew, so I didn't really get anything. I was wondering, if I had gotten something, what are the chances of getting hurt on the 1st try? Can you die from the first try of weed. I think next week my friends wanted me to try a black and mild (the one's that smell really good) I know it's illegal and all that, I just wanted to know the chances of like dying or passing out, or blacking out on the first try, and only one or two hits. I know this kid at our school who had extesy, and about 30 of something, but he was like forced it or something, and he blacked out and when someone else woke up, the kid (Winston) had no pulse and had died from OD. Can you OD off of only no more than 3 hits of weed? What are some consequences besides death, or like consequences and how long it takes for those consequences to come in effect. I know it's a dumb question, and I could probably google it or something, but I'd rather ask it here. Thanks. (link)
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you cant OD of weed. You cant die from smoking weed unless you do something stupid. you can black out if you smoke too much, you can green out (throw up) weed is the safest recreational drug. if you took 30 hits of E you would b killed 28 times over, unless ur experienced with it you can definitely die off 2 hits, and probaly off one. if your getting pressured to smoke weed and theres no way out have rules, like avoid hydroponic weed stick to bush and mix in a lot of tabacco in it its real weak that way, then fake being stoned or something for your friends. Drug abusing weed only has long termm damage such as paranoia, ipotance, lung cancer (although its safer then ciggarettes)its not that big of a deal but dont have too much. to say no isnt that a big deal you would b surprised how much no one cares if u do or dont
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ok, i have stretch marks on the the sides or my butt..is that normal n if so what can i do 2 fix it? (link)
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oh by the way everyone u get stretch marks from growing quickly, n i have stretch marks because i got tall very quickly. you can never get rid of them tho. its caused by fast growing fast either upways or outways
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