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I've been having chest pain since September. I told my mom about it at the end of September and we decided it was a pulled muscle and nothing to worry about. So I believed it, and after about two weeks the pain went away. Then in the beginning of November I began feeling it again. I was worried that it was something more serious, I told my mom, we decided to see if it would go away again...well it didnt. In the beginning of December I told my mom I wanted a doctors appointment to find out what was wrong and she agreed. Well it is now the end of December and still no appointment. I reminded her again in the middle of the month and she said "oh its still there?", again a couple days later with the same reaction. I've been reminding her every four days now and she still says the same thing. In the meantime, I am being more freaked out about these pains in my chest to the point where I just dont want to go to sleep anymore I'm afraid I'll never wake up! I dont know what to do to get her to schedule this appointment she either "forgets" or "doesnt have time". I would do it myself except I dont know when she'd be available to get off work so its up to her. I try telling her but she doesnt care it seems and I'm going crazy thinking I'm going to die.

So how can I get her to schedule this appointment!? (link)
I'm not sure... My mom is like that as well. But.. is your mom a bit distracted?

Make sure she's listening to you.

Otherwise, you should probably talk to a friend's mom and ask her to take you to the doctor.


This is embarasing but I have pretty hairy arms. All my friends shave theirs and stuff but I heard that makes it grow back darker and stuff. I obviously don't want to get the lazer treatment done or anything crazy like that. Does anyone know any ideas of how to solve my problem? (link)
I shave my arms and it doesn't grow back darker.


So I saw this magazine and it said
Mary Kate .. anorexic. 80 pounds.

So.. does that make me anorexic too or what?

Is 80 pounds anorexic?

I thought 70 pounds was anorexic.

I eat a lot. I weight around 80 pounds and I'm 5 feet tall. But if 80 pounds is an anorexic number or whatever, would I get the automatic label of anorexic from doctors?

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Pfft. No.

You can't be labeled as such unless people are aware that you think you're ugly as fuck AND that you are avoiding them foods.



hey does anyone know where i can get this layout??
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=75217113 (link)
Well.. in the top left it says ©Holy shit lyts [http://www.myspace.com/myspizzacelayouts]





hey im 15/f i was wondering if anybody could tell me what are some ways to get my butt "flatter" like what exercises should i do and what foods should i stay away from? Thanks alot i will rate 5s! (link)
Foods that have much fat... like french fries?


Me and and four other friends want to go to Six Flags for my birthday. Of course since there's a lot of us, my parents don't have enough room in the car to take them all and they don't want to have to take 2 cars. What are some ways me and 4 other people could go to Six Flags without my parents thinking it's too much work? And how much would the transportation or whatever cost? And my parents don't want to have to rent a limo just for one day. Please Help! (link)
Eh..? How about one of you sit on the other's lap?


does anyone know how to delete songs and pictures... mostly i need to know how to delete pictures... ?? any advise will help !!

love k (link)
For photos-- you have to take them out of your folder and update it on iTunes.. (I think just pressing the OK button when you get into the Photos tab.)


ive had itunes since like january and it hasnt been opening but yestrday it opened.. and today it didnt so idecided to reinstall it but now it STILL wont open.. what should i do?! (link)
I'm not sure..

But I've been searching for solutions through google and on the Apple forum.

People say to disable Norton--if you have it.


i have an iPod video 30 gb, and i was wondering how you get photos into the ipod, i have seen people with like 100 pictures in there ipod and slideshows, i dont know where to load them on the itunes screen since there is no folder in itunes that says photos just on the actual iPod. someone help? or give a website with instructions (link)
I think you have to create a folder on your computer and put all the photos in there... Then go in iTunes. Go to Preferences-> Ipod and then the Photo tab.


is it posible for someone who once fat and lost all the weight can be a model?? (link)
Well.. why not?


ok this is how it all started out
i have liked this dude for about 3 years
we just started going out in march
we broke up in april for 4 days due to.. the fact he didnt like me as much as i liked him
he said he thought about me for the 4 days.
and threw those 4 days i cryed and trained myself not to put to much emotion in to anything i love b.c im afraid of being hurt.. now we go back out.. and he loves me alot. like ALOT and i feel like i dont love him as much b.c when we broke up i trained myself to not put any emotion in to anyone or anything.. and now when he says i love you i dont believe him and i want to sooo bad.. i really love him.. its just i dont want to be hurt im scared. and what not... soo does this mean i dont love him...??? b.c i know i do.. its just im scared.. he tells me everynight he loves me.. i know he does.. its just ... im scared of being hurt...
and now im really sad i have been having a bad week and when we are together i dont talk and he thinks he has made me mad but he didnt... he asks me 5 times am i mad at him im like no...

what should i do..
i really love him..
just.. scared


ILL RATE HIGH!! (link)
I think it'd be best if you'd just talk to him about it. If anything, he'd want to know why you're unhappy.

It's quite understandable on how you trained yourself.

Get interested in things, get closer to him, and you should probably get some space---not break up.

Do some sport, or something else to take your mind off your insecurities.

But I think he really does love you.

"You don't know what you've got until it's gone."
He seems to have realized how much you mean to him.

If you don't believe him, I think that's fine for now. (I don't really believe my boyfriend when he says it either.) I don't know him personally so I can't really tell much. Is he the type of guy to lie frequently? But anyways, you should try to believe him.

Is all I can think of right now--if you want you could talk to me / ask more questions.





i really like this guy in my class and i think he likes me. but i'm not sure. my friends say its so obvious that he does but i'm really not sure about it. should i tell him i like him? i'm just really scared he'll say well i have a girlfriend or something then go tell all his friends. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! =( (link)
If you want to tell him, go for it. If it turns out he doesn't like you, and you get anxious about it... then you could say you were just kidding.

...

But anyways how often do you talk to him?

You could also possibly ask other people (his friends?) if he likes someone.




i feel like love doesnt work for me. i've went out with alotta guys this year but i feel like none of them are rght for me and i think im about to give up? i need sum advice of how to be better in relationships that way i wont give up on boys so easily
i rate high! (link)
First, how old are you?

And second, you shouldn't give up already.

I'm pretty sure this won't help much but...
Why do you feel like none of them are right? What do you like in a guy?



13.f

can anyone diagnose what's wrong with me?

sore throat, popped ears, abrnomaly heavy discharge, feeling extremely tired.

could this just be because im expecting my period any day now? im not sure since ive only had it for a year and a half. any advice apreciated. (link)
It could be that.
Maybe a cold as well.
Any other symptons?


Okay does anyone know how to get Smiley Central off my aim?!? It is KILLING me! I tried to delete my aim then redownload, and I also went to add/remove programs and it didn't even shop up there...it is bothering me so much! I asked this question a while ago but I didn't get many responses...so I will rate a 5 for ANY input. PLEASE HELP ME! =D thanks (link)
Have you tried searching for keywords in your computer's registry?

In the Add/Remove programs--- Could it possibly be under a different name?



this is going to be my first valentines day with my very special boyfriend. he's not a romantic type of guy. he's in to rock music. This one band he likes released a new cd and i was wondering if that was a good gift for valentines day besides a valentines day card and rose? (link)
I would think so..




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