what if like ur really good friends with some guy but then u start to like him and he doesnt like you he likes some other chick and yeah i was jw thank you
miikela says:
read what i told the person below youu.
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well i really dont know how to explain this but..like what if you really like this guy..but he likes another girl..and that girl can be your firend...and what if she likes him back..and it hurt you so bad that you just feel like sitting there all day and like crying and blaming everything on you..saying like..that you knew he didnt like a girl like you..and that you always told your self..that yall will never be and yeah..well i was jw..thanks for your time..bye now!!
miikela says:
"any1 who would makes you cry isnt worth your tears. because the person that is worth your tears would never make you cry"
That is the perfect quote for your problem. If your friend likes another girl. yeah i can see how it would hurt you but if your friend likes your friend it would be a total slutty thing to do to interfere. but that doesnt mean "oh no one would like you". all it means is hes not the one for you. there are other fish in the sea who dont like your friend and are crazy about you. just keep looking! even if you cant exsperience love with him let him exsperience it with soem1 eles.
it can be hard.
i hope i helped.
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Yea thx u really did
-should i love or shouldnt
miikela says:
thats what im here for
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i like this kid but i dont know how to tell him and no if he would like me bakk!! what sould i do or how should i tell him my feelings witout breaking my heart and his???
-should i love or should i not?
miikela says:
well. if it were me. i wouldnt tell him. that way if he said no you wouldnt get your heartbroken. i would ask his friend who he liked. but the meanwhile i would talk to him and try to get closer. if his friend says he liked you just go for it. if he doesnt. just keep talking to him and get closer. that way u could either be a friend or a lover
i hope i helped!
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ok. my friend and i are like really close. were like sisters. and we always used to hang out. but then she got a boyfriend and everythign changed. i mean she had them before but it was just differant. ok anyways, she never wants to hang out anymore, and i know its not cause im annoying her because we rarley ever hang out. i call her everynow and thena and usually she cant do anything. but even when she can, all she EVER talks about is her boyfriend. its really annoying and i want my friend back!!!! help...? help!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
miikela says:
yeah that has happened to me be4. its not cool at all! i suggest you talk to your friend. i know no one ever wants to just come out and talk about their problems but trust me. its the best way to go. Call her up and invite her over and be like heyy dude i havnt seen you in a long time why dont you just come over and hang out. say something what will get her to come over. then when shes there just be honest and be like heyy ya know what i dont feel as close with you anymore and is it because im annoying or because of your boyfriend. if she says its becuase ur annoying just lay off for a while. give her her space. thats what i always do.
i hope i helped
i have aim if ya need mee
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thanks mikela... you helped out A LOT!! :)
miikela says:
your very welcome. =))
hey from now on can yall like sign the questions with like. names that relate to the problem that way if u ever give me a thank you letter liek this i know who i helped.
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ok mikela... im just like that girl below.. but yeah... mymom is ALWAYS mean to me!! i cant remember 1 day when we got along with out fighting! i mean sure she seems nice and all in front of my friends and on the phone.. but thats because she changes totally!! and i mean shes only mean to my best friend too because shes use to her! ughh.. ahhhh! and i dont even know what im doing wrong.. im always pbeying her rules.. and everything idk what i do.. am i a bad kid or something? im like totally pissed off!! i dont wanna go on with my life everyday being mad at my mom.. because one day shell leave and the last thing we did was fight!!.. I NEED SERIOUS HELP!
miikela says:
YOUR MOTHER LOVES YOU !
if you want to solve your problem that is the first step. realizing your mother loves you. parents are weird maybe you dont think you're doing something wrong but maybe in your mothers eyes you are. as for fighting.
DONT FIGHT BACK !
let your mother yell at you. Just nodd and do whatever she says. your mother is just mean she isnt just picking on you. shes probally on her period. you know how bitchey people get where they're on it. and it doesnt even have to be that. maybe shes just really stressed out from work or kids or her husbend. just talk to your and tell her
" mom i feel like...(da da da da da)" your mom will listin. they have to theyre parents. and if that doesnt work out tell your dad about.
after reading this say this out loud a couple of time.
"MY MOTHER LOVES ME BECAUSE MIIKELA SAYS SO" and its the truth
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ok mikela well..im not getting along with my mom at all..she freakin yells at me FOR NO REASON..and she like saw me in tears and jus looked away like she didnt even notice me..and like god i really HATE her..everytime i try to do somthing she starts yelling at me..what do i do..
miikela says:
your mother does not hate you. you might feel like it at the time but she doesnt. the reason why she turned away when she saw you crying is because she either couldnt stand the look of her daughter crying or because she thought you were over reacting. either way your mother will and always love you. as for the yelling. just go in your room and wait for her to calm down. wait for this all to pass and im sure it will be fine tomorro
i hope i helped
i always have aim if you did to take it deeper
tell me if it works out
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ok mikela i was going to sonic today and i was really hungry and normally i would just get a kids meal bc like ive always had thoose there like my favorite ever and i mean u even get a little toy too! but i was real hungrey like more than usual and so i was gonna get like a bid kids meal like a #3 and i did and it was good real good i liked it betteer than kids meal and lkei felt bad bc i was like cheating on them and so i felt bad bc kids meals to me are like sex but the #3 was like a really good sex witrh a abercrombie modle waht should i do i love em both
miikela says:
well. ur getting older. your growing out of your little kids meal fetish. Try new things . Leave the kids meal for awhile then if u start to miss it go back and have some as like a treat or reliving an old memorie!
food is sex
sex is good.
better sex = better food!
lol
i hope i helped
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ahh..first i just wanna say i love you mikela!! :) but anywho..i want blonde-ish highlights cause my hairs like brownish and my mom wont let me get hy-lights and i use like blonde shampoo and i put lemon juice in my hair when im in the sun but like ugh its not working [this isnt too important --but hey its a question =)]
miikela says:
HAIR QUESTIONS ARE MY FAVORITEE!!
personally what i think you should do "anonymouse" friend is tell you mom that your getting older and getting highlights is like a mark of adultness. but when all eles fails. Spend a day laying out in the sun. not hang out but laying..like on a beach chair. apply ALOT of lemon juice..( i have a whole tree in my back yard )sit out there for an hour. reading books painting nails. w.e . make sure ur doing this on a rather hott day! after that it doesnt work. i would suggest serching other ways online..but i tried that..it didnt work out. lol but you should try anyways. but be4 you go through all that trouble i think you should work on convensing you mom. its easier.
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my father has alway been picking on me ever since i was small.. he denys he hits me. but aftr he does he says ssorry. i mean.. if he`s really that sorry why`d he do it. My friend is coming down from the states into canada for 2 weeks. She knows about him and stuff. just hopefully he doesnt do anyhting stupid. i ant her to have a good time here. any advise on how i can just calm down and think positive. i took walks. but im still paranoid. maybe this is just a fear right? o well thanks anywayz
Honestly. there is no way changing your dad or what happened with your dad. There is no real way of getting your self to calm down. I had a problem ALOT like that. My dad was a physco. My friend knew all about him and HATES him. What you should do is just nto bring the thing about your dad up ( sorta let her think its over ) then just stay out the house. if she says anything about it be like yeah i know. lwt just forget about it and have a good time.
i hope i helped.
my sn is miikela says xx
if u want to talk about it more feel FREE to IM me
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is there a dye thats red, but not the fake looking red, just red that looks like i was born a natural red-head....?
miikela says:
of course there is.! herbel essence always makes really pretty reds. what i did was use the herbel essence stuff then dye it brown. that only gives you the PRETTIEST hair color ever
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ok i have this guy friend...but...HE ACTS LIKE A GIRL! i mean this kidd has hearts and smilies in tha same sentence!....quit frankly...im scared for himm....one of his favorite songs is CATER 2 U!
this is serious!!!
help me AND himm
miikela says:
hmm you sound very worried about your friend. maybe its about time to open your eyes to the truth. GAY PRIDE . its perfectly okay to have a gay friend it doesnt mean anything..i mean besudes the fact hes gay. but it doesnt mean hes a different person. but i heard of some classes you could take with your gay friend. they should help him discover his gayness if he hasnt already
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well me n my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years now, we became sexually active last year, and sex was JUST GREAT, but now....tha sex just aint sizzling...u knoe?...is he cheating on mee? or am i not just keeping his attention!
WHAT SHOULD I DOO!!??
it would be uncomforatble to ask him!
miikela says:
Threee years congrats! I dont think hes cheating on you. i mean if he did i think there would be more obviouse hints then just..sucky sex. Maybe hes getting tried of doing the same old thing. i mean maybe you should try being more exsotic. try different places or different ways. i wouldnt jump to concluetions just yet.in the mean while. see if he stays at work exstra late or cheak his collar for lip stick stains. lol but what would i know im just a 7th grader.
i hope i helped.
keep me posted.
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heyyy mikela!!.. just to let you know i love you like no other!!! :) yeah well.. I NEEED a new sn!! you know who this is! ;) ok well.. PA LEEEZ! help me think of one plz!
miikela says:
this is an advice column not a screen name service.
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dear miikela, i have a couple q's. ok #1. there is this guy who lives down the street from me. we always hang out,litteraly! he has a g.f but her rarely talks about her and me and her r prety good friends. i DON'T like this guy at all.maby as a friend but that's it!so..do you think he likes me. + he is always callin me to go and do stuff with him. we even went 2 shannon's(sk8 shop ) 2 gether then 2 tacobell and i had money but he said his dad would pay...
#2.there is this guy named ryan wo is always trying 2 proove 2 me that he isn't prude. like we will b on aim and he will say hey sexy.look i said ur sexy i'm not prude. and it makes me and my friends laugh soo freekin hard! and he always calls me. always talks 2 me online. about randome stuff. and i have this quiz thing in my xanga and it said. "what would you do if i died?" and he told me in a comment. "if you died iwould feel sick, and commit suacide."now me and ryan have gone out once. but i broke ^ with him. do u think by the things he does and says that he would want 2 get bak 2 gether...?¿
(my sn: crazysk8rsrule)
miikela says:
well the first problem is simple.i would just leave it alone.if he likes you he will tell you.and if she doesnt he wont.if you dont like him it shouldnt matter.am i correct. of course i am.
next.
uhh the 2d one..the dude sounds like a fag. maybe he does like you maybe he doesnt. i mean i dont know. but the whole "im not prude thing" makes him sound like he is trying to prove a point or maybe he dosnt want yall to break up and u think hes prude. the whole commit suidside yeah he probally does like you..but im not going to lead you in the wrong direction. try asking him.
i hope i helped.
keep me updated
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hey mikela..well i like this guy..but so does this other girl..and like i guess we both want him alot..what should i do..becuz ive tried to forget about him and just let her have him but i like him too much..what do i do??
miikela says:
read what i told the person before you
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there's this guy, and he is like my best friend, and i want us to be more than JUST FRIENDS...but he is c r a z y about some one else, so i feel like ill never get a chance with him
wat do i do?
i feel like he is the only guy for me!!
=(
miikela says:
yeah that sucks. i know how you feel. but there are other guys. Maybe you havent noticed them yet but their there and im sure there are one or two that are crazy about you. but if hes ur friend you wouldnt want to interfere with his love life if HE has a chance ya know. let him exsperience love even if you cant.
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ok mikela im soooo confused about what to do because i have a gf that lives out of reach and ive only seen her a couple of times and i dont think its right but she doesnt think its really a problem but i want to see me gf you know and i know if we break up there will be u know girl reactions and then we wont want to have a friendship and she ends up hating you and then i will feel really bad so i need your advice...
miikela says:
Long distance relationships never work out in the end because either one person cheats or the other complains about never seeing each other. that would be you. i understand where your coming from. going out with some1 out of reach is like having an imangenary friend. As hard as this might sound i would try talking to her and sorta give hints as too that it isnt working out. basically i think it would be better just breaking up with her. cause id you kept going out with her you would be like lieing to yourself and her.and im sure you n her dont want either. tell her you want to be friends even tho at first she will probally hate you. but shell get over it. but after you break up with her give her a break sorta sit back and wait for her to get over it.
i hope i helped.
tell me if it works out or not
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well, i have this dogg and she is MY WORLD. but somtimes..she can ruin my world though, i know u may not be a dog expert but..any ideas on how i can spend more time w/ her...but let her knoe that my life doesnt revolve around her??
HELP ME!!
miikela says:
well. you sound a little obsessed with your dog. which i mean it isnt wrong to love an animal. but dogs arnt human.yeah i know its great to play with them and love on them and so forth. but when you give them soo much attention that they think they are the center of your world thats when you know your obsessed. accuatally you know your obsessed when you think your dog acctually thinks about that sorta stuff. but if YOU feel like your giving ur dog too much attention and he ruining your life try disiplining him. (how ever u spell it)and just sorta tell it. NO. i mean its not that bad of a word. or how about the all famouse "Go AWAY"
im here to help.
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