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okay, this might be a stupid question but i just have to say something.
there's this guy i really like, i actually talk to him so i know a bit about him and stuff.
i see him in school and at the ice skating rink on fridays.
last friday i went to the rink with my friend. we were together for practically the whole time.
anyway, the guy i like, he kinda sorta flirted with us [i'm not sure if it was with my friend or me] and since i'm a flirt myself i most likely flirted back.
its just any guy i've liked has never liked me back. is it possible this time its different?
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most def. maybe, some friday tell your friend to just be with u for support, but let you do most of the talking to him because u really like him. then laugh a ton and make flirty comments!!! eventually online just take the plunge and ask him who he likes! that way, even if he doesn't like you, he can't accuse you of liking him because you never said you did. i'm sure he likes you though, and let me know what happens!
hope i helped,
Jen
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Give me a list of your favorite slow,love, sad kind of low beat songs I can put on my ipod.
Some of my favorites are
Pieces - Sum 41
Hey There Delilah - Plain White T's
Iris - Goo Goo Dolls (link)
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you're beautiful-james blunt
bad day- daniel powter (not really love song, but you'll probably like it anyway)
you'll be in my heart-phil collins (yeah it's from tarzan, but it grows on you!!! :-D)
yellow- coldplay
tears and rain- james blunt
taylor- jack johnson
someday-nickelback
far away-nickelback (THIS ONE will be ur fav out of these, i'm pretty sure)
my heart will go on- celine dion
how to save a life- the fray
boston- augustana
collide- howie day
chocolate- snow patrol
chasing cars- snow patrol
haha, hope i helped!!
Jen
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my lil sis is worryed and trying to gain wieght. im telling her, she just needs to go throught puberty a lil more.
shes female, 12 years old, about 88 pounds and like mabie just about 5 foot.
is she underwieght, or normal?
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she's totally okay. she's on the thin side of average, but that's generally what most people WANT. congratulate her on trying to gain wait, that's a really healthy way to look at it! she's definitaly not un-healthily underweight, but it's refreshing to see that some girls out there aren't starving themselves!
hope i helped,
Jen
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notice that look guys get when they are horny?
Why does that happen? (link)
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haha lol!! i have noticed! it happens because they can only focus on what they want to do, and while trying to hide it and making their face look normal, they're really making it obvious to everyone else that they want on!! lol, hope i helped,
Jen
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im a virgin and i have been fingered 2 times and ate out 2 times will the doctor be able to see that? (link)
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it's possible that your cherry was popped during one of those occurences, but it wont be clear to the doctor that you were fingered or eaten, i promise. cherry's can be popped through intercourse, blow jobs, masturbating, and even sports, so there's no way (s)he will be able to tell what you've done. don't worry!
hope i helped,
Jen
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i've been talking to this guy on myspace. he goes to my school,, but we don't talk and i don't mind. so we've been talking for about a month. and i currently like him. since the first day we talked i liked him. so about 2 weeks ago i told him that i liked him. he just brushed it off like i never said anything. then he kept on shoving it in my face that i liked him. so last week he told me i didn't matter anymore and he's taken by a girl who doesn't play games. so on friday, i went to a skating rink and i saw him there, unexpectedly. he kept on staring @ me. at one point he even blew a kiss at me. and around sometime in the evening there was this contest thingy, so i just stood there an watched with my friends, all of sudden he just stood there, he was literally on me and he kept on flirting with me. if he's taken, why is he doing this? and he's always talking dirty to me,[i don't mind] then again, if he's taken why is he talking dirty to me ?
1) why is he doing this if he's taken?[my friends think he likes me, but he's fooled me way 2 many times to think that.
2} i was thinking of not talking to him, b/c i don't want things to get messy w/ his supposedly g.f. i don't really think he has a g.f. do you?
3}what is your opinion on all of this? what would you do? (link)
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haha complicated!!! this is what I'd do:
It's pretty clear that he likes you. or at least, he wants you to think so. in other words, he wants you to like him. the weird thing with guys is that often times they do like girls and not even realize it, funny huh? since he stares at you, and umm...stands on you??? and blows kisses to you, he obviously feels some connection to him. do you still like him? if you do, make him jealous, girl! i know he said he's with some other girl that doesn't play games, but who says flirting with other guys is playing a game!! just talk and laugh really loudly with guys when he's around, and that way even if he DOESN'T like you, maybe you'll find a new guy to like! and if he does like you, he'll go nuts and definitely ask you if you still like him, and he'll probably tell you he likes you too!! and to answer your questions;
1) he might be playing a game with YOU. telling you he's taken means either a) he is taken, b)he wants you to think he's taken to make you jealous, or c) is insecure about being single and wants to seem popular or something. my guess is that he's trying to make you want him even more, and trying to make you jealous. fight fire with fire! make him jealous right back!!
2) well, if he's talking dirty to you, and you're doing it back, morally it's probably not the best thing to do IF he has a girlfriend. i think you should keep talking to him, but if you're talking online, wait a while to respond. or be kind of cold and act like you're talking to a ton of other people, make him think he doesn't control your life. just don't innitiate conversation, unless you reallllllly want to, then just start by asking a question about some guy in your grade (again with the jealousy), or about homework or something. then when he answers just say "ok" or "cool". make HIM take it further.
3) basically everything i said earlier. good luck, hunn!!
hope i helped,
Jen
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i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ? (link)
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well, theoretically, you can have sex at any age. How old are you? if you're like younger than 16, it's probably not the best decision...you may regret it later even if you think you are in love with whoever you're thinking about having sex with. and about your period. chances are, you wont get pregnant. but there's a very small chance that you can. even though you aren't fertile (able to get pregnant) until you start your period, if you are about to have your period like in the next week, you could get pregnant. i wouldn't recommend it, but it's up to you. if you have anymore questions, just ask :-)
love,
Jen
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