17/f
ive never had a bf and ive never had my 1st kiss. how do i get guys to like me or start to flirt with them without it been too obvious?
my best mate has a bf and every time she goes on about that she hasnt seen/spoke to him in a while it makes me feel low..how do i stop this from happening without her noticing im upset? x
there must be something wrong if your 17 and still nothing....anyway, has there been any interest from guys? if not you might need to show yourself up a little more from the "normal people". maybe you could laugh alot and look fun to be around. but dont act immature thats a real bad let-down. also if you like a guy, let him know. dont tell him straight up. get to know him a little, but act like you are just friends. make sure you have his number/aim. sometimes if you have a good friend, you can tell her, to tell him that you like him. also leave small hints like a smile while you pass each other in the corridor. your hair and your skin on your face are important things to a guy. nice hair and maybe a nice tan make all the difference.
also maybe "act" like your interested in something hes into. If he play football, learn some of the rules, pick a team. Go to his matches and tell him he played well after. also dont pick a guy whos the most popular in the school and has 100 other girls to pick from. If he says no it might ruin your confidence
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if i have music from limewire how do i get it into my itunes? i know you browse to add a new file but i cant find my limewire library. theres like a section of my itunes that has the limewire music on it but how do i get it into my library.
k thanks.
roysh click the song and click locate file. this will take you to a folder with all your songs. drag them all into itunes. but watch out, some songs will not b fully downloaded and you can tell if it says _ARESTA_ before the song. also watch out for movie files.
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what are some good things that i can/should do to hint this guy that i like him. like i know flirt but like i need examples of things. and i talk to him on the phone a TON. a little online. but latly i havn't really been able to talk to him in person.
to us guys its all about the way you act around us differently to other people. one major give-away is the eyes. if your walking down the corridor and you spot him, let him know your there.look in his eye as you go past him and maybe say hi or something. leave small hints like these and eventually he will catch on. also if he plays sport, go to his match and after tell him he played well. we like that.
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i recently fell in love with techno music. if you know any great songs that are techno please list ALL of them. I love techno! lol all good songs please!
Dj tiesto has some savage music. if you like techono you will love rave and dance. download any songs with techno rave or danced as there genre. Keep the ones u like and delete the others. Dj tiesto, cascada and paul van dyk are good artists. titanic rave mix by dj tiesto and nothing but you cirrus remix by paul van dyk. also everytime we touch by cascada.
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14/f (very developed and overly mature)
so i've had some abnormal things about my personality for my whole life and sometimes i wonder if it means that I have OCD or social anxiety or something else like that... I'll tell all here:
1. I'm so inhibited and self-conscious that I can't do ANYTHING around anyone else, especially eating (unless it's a meal where every single person is eating and i'm not around any adults of people who i don't feel 100% comfortable around) and if i'm having a snack at a rehearsal (aspiring stage actress) i'll usually feel so uncomfortable trying to eat it in the open that i'll have to go and run into a bathroom stall.
2.I never think about anything that's going on in the room that I'm in- for example if i'm sitting in a rehearsal and no scenes that i'm in are currently being rehearsed(but even if they ARE, i still do this a lot and i can't focus on it) i'll just zone out and think about something irrelevant (it's always a musical) and become so lost in it that someone has to startle me to get me out of it. And I do this very frequently.
3. I can't carry on a conversation. It gets too awkward and I'm so consumed in wondering about what the other person might be thinking about me that I can't say anything else.
4. i'm always upset/worried about something. even if there isn't a huge reason to be upset. my face naturally looks really sad, and when i look in the mirror when i'm off-guard i look liek i'm angry/depressed/bored. and i can't help it.
5. i'm always bored. very few things hold my attention.
so please just tell me what you think is up with my brain.
yeh, i used to have this..always worried about other people seeing you do normal stuff. Its basically because your anti-social. You dont let other people see you alot and you dont socialise with people. Make some new friends and talk to people. it helps. you seem like a quiet and very self-conscious person. you just have to get it into your head that other people are probably not judging you all the time, and if they are it doesnt mean a great deal.
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14 M: if im talking to a girl on the phone or on AIM(but aim is lame for asking out) what is the best way to actually ask a girl to be your GF...like and example of words ""
dont ask her out if u dont know her. talk to her over the phone and on aim alot and get to know her.....ask her out in person
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i get jealous of people easily, and it's really annoying. i wasn't like this before and nothing really happened to make me jealous of people. if my friends get a cute expensive purse from their parents, or if my friend gets a ring from her boyfriend, i'll get jealous. i'd want to go shopping and find something that nobody else has that i know they'd like. same with looks, if i thikn i girl is prettier than me, i get kind of upset and i wish i were her. it's seriously super pathetic and i dont' know why i'm like that now! how can i stop being jealous?
you will make yourself look like a complete idiot if anyone catches on. They are probably wondering why you copy everyone esle. The reason you are doing it is probably because you dont feel you are as good as them and ur always comparing urself to other people.
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i know this is a weird question to ask on here but ive tried googling it. how do you make your poop harder so its not soft all the time. does it need like calcuim or whatever to help harden it?
im not sure which one it is: eat more or less fiber
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umm i know this might be gross but i need help. on some clothing i wear i sweat sometimes..and i get stains under the armpit area. but what i dont get is i use deoderant and i keep trying to use more and more to prevent it but on some fabrics it just doesnt work. this stinks because im embarrassed to wear my favorite clothing because of this. can anybody help?
anti-prepirant, dont run any where, drink water, wear light loose fitting clothes, dont wear jeans if you, can dont wear vests, no cotton especially underwear.
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k i really like this guy in my class and hes in all my classes but i cant tell if he likes me or not. we usually walk home together because we live near eachother and when im not walking with him or with him i always see him glancing in my direction. we get along really well and all that stuff but he hates my two best friends because they purposely annoy him. also i dont know what to do because im pretty sure one of my best friends are jelous because she knows i like him and she keeps telling me that he keeps msging her for some reason and she told me that he asked out this one girl but im pretty sure its a lie because when i talk to him he says that he hates her and my bestfriend didnt hear it from him either. but it still bugs me because i really really like him. any advice please help me!!
Hey im a guy and I know that if you ask him to the cinema he wont turn you down. Just make sure you have a deep conversation before and after asking. It would seem rather weird and strange if you went right up to him and asked him out. also leave loads of hints guys love them. look in his eyes with your eyes wide open. if he looks away he isnt confident. make yourself look interested but NOT desperate this is very important. also try and get him alone..like that time your were walking home to ask him. start asking him out by saying something similar to where you are going for example of you are going to the cinema ask him has he seen a new film. if he hasnt ask him would you like to go see it.
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To start off, I'm a guy in college. I have easily had 15 crushes in my life (one one true relationship) and I can usually talk to the girl even though I'm really shy. But this girl in one of my classes has the most beautiful smile and I am extremely attracted to her. Like more than any other crush I've ever had. She is always looking over in my direction, and at first I didn't think it was at me, but today we made pretty brief eye contact. So I think she may be looking at me. But I am just so amazed by her or something that everytime after class, I get cold feet and can't get up the nerve to talk to her. I have even seen her coming down the hall twice, and I freak out so much I can't look her in the eye and smile. I know I'll regret it forever if I dont talk to her, so is there anyway for me to get up the confidence to just go talk to her? I dont really have the opportunity to leave a note so that way is out of the question. Sorry its soo long but I need help, this is killing me that I can't do this. Thanks
hey man... just get the courage to do it. shes probably in the exact same position as you are just go up and start a conversation with her. some topic that you both like. ask her for her phone number when you get to know her better. ask her to the cinema or out to eat. If this fails at least u tried and shes not going to go around to everyone called you a loser. when you go up to her for the first time look her straight in the eyes blinking normally not to fast or to slow and talk to her about something
its difficult to start the conversation but once you get into it there are many things you can talk about like music, movie, sports anything you both like
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