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Hey! I sent you this question (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=604634) a couple weeks ago and you gave me good advice so I wanted to come back and ask you more!
My mum told me the other day that my ex messaged her on FB a couple days after we broke up. He kept apologizing to her and saying how sorry he was for breaking up with me, and for hurting me and hurting me was the last thing he wanted to do. He also told her that he hopes that her and my dad do not think any differently of him, that they do not view him any differently, and that he hopes they don't think he is an asshole. My mum told him that they do not think of him any differently, they still think he's a great guy and hope to see him around and to keep in touch. He said he would and if he is in town he will definitely stop by.
I was talking to him the other night because I had a horrible week and he is the only one that knows how to calm me down so I talked to him and at one point he said "I don't like when you think I'm lying. It makes me feel weird" and I said "Why does it make you feel weird? I don't think you're lying. I know you wouldn't lie to me" and he said "I don't know I want you to believe me with everything.. and I don't know it just does I feel just weird.." and I said "well I always believe you and it scares the shit out of me but I always believe you. You're the first person that I truly trust" and he said "I know and I'm always gonna be here, you know that.. alright?" and I said "I hope so" and he said "You know it." and I said "I hope so, I really do" and he said "I know. No need to hope"
I just don't understand it. I really don't. None of my ex-boyfriends ever treated me this way after the broke up with me nor said these things and certainly none of them messaged my mum. :/ I don't know what it's supposed to mean, if it even means anything or if I'm reading much too far into it.
His messaging your mother: It means he cares about what your family thinks, which I find as "respectful." It says a lot about his character, that he is going out of his way to impress the ones that are close to you. However, some COULD view it as "clingy," but not necessarily. It DEFINITELY means that he is still thinking about you a lot. A lotlotlot because if a guy is fb messaging an adult/close relative of the significant other, it's not like he just type out a quick message and sent it on the first draft, ya know? And if he did, than he is impulsive. But I bet it involved a lot of analyzing, which definitely means he's still thinking about you.
If this is the same ex in the other question you asked, than I remember saying it's good to keep him as a friend..as in he knows how to "calm you down." If someone is important to you and they never did something major that hurt you (such as hurtful cheating, etc), than it is totally normal and ideal to keep your ex as a friend, in my opinion. Like you said he's the first person you trusted, and if he hasn't broken your trust than he is a good guy. You didn't exactly ask me a straight up question, so I don't know what I'm specifically supposed to 'answer", haha.. I'm kind of assuming that it was what I thought the fb msging your mom was about? It's also a good thing that your parents think he's a great guy. He sounds respectful and the fact that he makes effort shows he is not another lazy, untrustworthy guy like I know so many of haha. So if I answered your question, then I hope I helped!! Otherwise, you can ask me a straight forward question and I'll try to do a better job to answer:) Or let me know if you and your ex have any new installments!
Best, dolphina xx
When i send you a question like this does this mean its getting sent to your inbox? sorry im new to this site!
Yup, just received your question in my inbox!
WELCOME!!! You will enjoy this site:)
Female - 21 years old
I'm nearing the end of my first semester of college (I took a break from school for a little while), one thing that I've noticed is that the textbooks that I carry to tend around a lot have become damaged; the situation is to the point that pages have fallen out of all of my paperback textbooks. I have not been able to find hardcover textbooks (although I know that they exist), and paperback textbooks are already expensive enough - I'm currently unemployed and most of my school stuff is taken out of my own money, I'm currently unemployed, or my mother's who is on disability. I want to be able to take good enough care of the textbooks that I can't find available for rental, so that I can sell them for cash.
I know that I'm not the only one who is in college, or the only one who has had problems with the quality of her textbooks. Has anyone ever dealt with the same problem before, and do you know how I could possibly take better care of my textbooks?
YES! I just finished my 2nd year of college.
What helps with paperbacks is to keep it INSIDE a 2-3 inch binder, such as when you're putting it in your backpack.
Also, my freshman year I spent about $350 on textbooks from buying them through the school, which is ridiculous. That was just one semester too! The next semester I specifically emailed each teacher whose class I was enrolled in and asked them which textbooks were required and which textbooks were recommended/optional. Then, I bought them off AMAZON!! It's insane how much money you can save. Fall 2011 (the previous semester, I only spent about $110, and Spring 2012 was only $70, because some of the textbooks carried over.
In terms of selling back, you can get ripped off. For example, my $200 chemistry book got bought for $18!! That is maddening. What I have found is best is find someone that is going to take the class next year, and sell it to them for ~$50. That's a win-win!
If you have any other questions, just ask! I hope you have been loving your new college:)
What is a good nickname to give to your boyfriend?
What's his name?
(either ask in my inbox or in the feedback areas...)
Otherwise, there's always generic names like honey, baby, babe, sunshine, smiles, sexgod, etc haha. you can get real creative!
13/f I need advice! If I were to go to a private school instead of the public school I'm going to now, would I have a better chance at receiving a scholarship for a basket-ball or soccer college or university?
You have an equal chance of receiving either. All that matters is HOW GOOD you are at one sport. If you are set on receiving a scholarship, you should focus *most* your efforts into one sport. I say most, because it is always good to be versatile and have a broad understanding of sports...schools will also take this into consideration and view you as overall athletic. For basketball, height is important, and soccer, speed and foot skills. Since you're still very young, you have time!! For now, just play both and see which one you are truly better at, and then when you're sure which one is your true passion, begin to concentrate on that, and sending tapes to schools. GOODLUCK!!!!:)
I want to get fun and cool piercings on my ears but I can think of any fun ideas. Any suggestions?
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If you do not have an account & you're not able to view the pics, just write in my inbox and I will either re-upload the pics, or send you an invitation to pinterest (because it's invite-only).
Let me know which piercings you decide on!! :)
So, this is kind of long, for those of you who have time to read. It's a little bit of different things. So, in a nutshell, it's family, school, and sex. Here we go:
I am 21/f, by the way
Family: At the beginning of this semester, I lost my 19 year old cousin to cancer. My cousin was more like my little brother. We grew up together and lived very close. He was my best friend. We were extremely close. So, this has taken a huge toll on me. In fact, he didn't die from cancer. He had a bone marrow transplant done to cure the cancer, and then he died of complications with it. So, it's even worst because he died of what was suppose to cure him. I have a lot of faith and come from a very religious family. So, I am holding on to my faith. However, one cannot deny that it is extremely difficult. So, this situation has impaired me from doing too good in school this semester. It's just been REALLY hard! Then, during finals week, my kitty passed away. And those of you who have pets understand how special they are and how much that hurts.
School: At the beginning of the semester, I thought of changing my major to education because I thought I wanted to be a teacher. Then, I started to do field hours in a school and realized that being a teacher wasn't for me. So, I switched back to psychology and I should be graduating in December. But, going to classes that I hated made school even worse! If I were going to some classes that I enjoyed a little bit, I wouldn't mind school as much. But, I hated these classes. So, it just made it harder. I am taking a larger load of classes now, but I figure it's worth it for graduating a little earlier. It's just that I still have like this depression inside of me, and I don't know if it will go away.
Sex: So, I also lost my virginity about a month ago. So, I started up on birth control. Since I started taking it, I started feeling SUPER sick, MORE depressed, and a super low sex drive. It's like I've been living in a daze. But, it's hard to blame it ALL on the birth control because look at everything that's happened to me in this short period of time. I don't blame the pills for feeling sad once in a while, because my cousin passed away just in February. Of course I'm gonna be sad. What I am blaming the pills for is feeling sad periods of depression for hours on end, being tired all the time, oversleeping. It's like a desire to do nothing. I blame it for the cravings I've been getting and for living in a daze and for feeling sick. Today was the first day without it. I did not take it this morning. And I felt fabulous today. I haven't craved weird foods. I'm not as moody. And my sex drive is a little better. I'm not feeling paranoid every second. I haven't felt like throwing up today, either! My question is... has anyone had this experience with Loestrin 24? When I was taking it, the blood in my period when I was on the placebo pills was BLACK. it was very scary. And will I be okay with just using a condom?
Thank you!!!
One thing to keep in mind is pretty much everyone takes time to adjust to new medication, and most of my friends, including myself, experienced irregularities with periods & emotions once we started taking bc. You're body has to adjust to the medication. I think you should be fine! I experienced a few months of bad, bad mood swings and really messed up and worrisome periods, but it has straightened it out. On the plus side, I have been on bc for over a year, and my period is VERY regular! Just make sure you are taking it at the SAME TIME everyday... It really can harm your cycle. This is something that I didn't do till a few months in that I would suggest doing: Set an alarm on your phone for when to take it, because I would always just sorta forget! Also, take it in the early afternoon if you are a drinker. For example, I used to take mine at 9pm, but if you're drinking on the weekend if doesn't mix well with alcohol, AND it lowers the effectiveness of the pill.
You should talk to your dr to see if it's normal, but I think your body is just adjusting to the new hormones! Good luck:)
I really really need to loose at least 10 lbs.
yesterday i had vegetable juice (i use a juicer and juice raw beats and carrots etc.) coffee with skim milk, salad with some tuna, and dinner was half a steak, i also had some grilled chicken and broccoli
today i had vegetable juice, a large coffee with skim milk, lunch was half a cup hoop cheese (sometimes called pot cheese- similar to cottage cheese but different) with some fruit, then mid day snack was 2 40 calorie vegetarian sauces with some avocado, then dinner was tuna salad and i had some of my mother steak. not a lot but a couple of bites.
i also walk as much as i can.
if i continue like this will i loose weight?
should i eat more or less or what? please help. i really really need to loose weight as soon as possible.
You will lose weight if your:
caloric intake < caloric expenditure
Now, a caloric expenditure for a day is about 1800 cals (now- AVG...if you want an idea what your would be for your age/height/weight, I can calculate it for you-just ask me in my inbox). Now this 1800 is WITHOUT exercising, from doing daily things like showering, studying, walking to class, etc. Now if you work out, it'll be around 2100, again AVG!
So, if you want to lose weight HEALTHILY, I suggest eating around 1500 cals for days you don't workout, and 1800 for days you DO workout. If you eat below this, your body may permanently lower your resting metabolic rate, which = you won't be as efficient with burning calories, and after you diet your body will put it back on.
Aim for eating 6 ~300 cal meals throughout the day. This keeps your metabolism active all day!
If you have any more questions, drop one by my inbox! I am a college student and my major is "exercise science," which is the equivalent to "kinesiology" at some schools. Good luck with your weight loss:)
after ovulation is your egg still there
YES. Ovulation is the release of the oocyte (egg) from the ovaries to the uterus, via the fallopian tubes or uterine tubes, which ever you wanna call them. So, after ovulation the egg is released, where it matures and travels for a few days through the tubes, before finally reaching the uterus.
I hope that answered your question, if you have any more similar questions about the reproductive system/fertilization/etc, drop one by my inbox! I'm in college, pre-med, and am in Anatomy so I've got real answers, not "wikipedia" material haha:)
My boyfriend broke up with me on Tuesday, about a week ago. Things were kinda like different like 2 weeks before that but we weren't fighting. We never fight. He just told me he wasn't happy but it wasn't me and not to worry. But it ended, unfortunately
He said he was so nervous to come over and do it and he was shaken up. He said he has been thinking about what to do for a little bit and even when he said he wasn't thinking about it, he was thinking about it. He said he made lists, wrote things down, cried at night, read my notes that I gave him, but he said he thinks it's best that we be done right now and if it's meant to be, we will be together.
It didn't end bad for a beakup. I said "I can't hate you, I can't be mad at you, I can't call you a dick or a douchebag or an ass. All I hope for you is that you find happiness because you deserve to be happy and you deserve the very best. And if you need anything you know I'm here for you and my door is always open for you." Then we hugged and I gave him a kiss on the forehead. He said that killed him to hear that and he doesn't deserve it and I deserve to he happy.. he was crying a lot .. He kept apologizing and saying he is sorry. He hates hurting me. I know he is hurt by it.. he said he will always be here for me and if I need him to call or text. He said he will still bend over backwards for me
He has only had 3 girlfriends, including me and I know his last two ended up bad. The first girlfriend was a psycho apparently and the second one cheated on him, and then there was me. I know he has been hurt in the past and it kills me that people hurt him because he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in my entire life. I keep thinking that maybe since I was the first person to actually give a damn and who actually cared more about him then about herself, that maybe without knowing it, it freaked him out. He has been confused lately. And something is telling me it's because he was scared because he found someone who really and truly cared about him.
He said to me like a month ago that he was falling in love with me and it scared the shit out of him. He would ask me if I could see myself with him in the future and I said yeah I can, can you? and He would say "Yes I can. I can see us going to my cabin, the beach, a bunch of other places. I can see a lot with you down the road." And he said to me before that we would need like 30 air conditioners in our house because I'm always sweating and hot.
I keep thinking that maybe this summer when we are both at home and we have time for ourselves, space, and everything, we come back to school and we can work things back out. He said that it isn't me, that I never did anything wrong and that's why deep down I feel like we can work through this. We have an online class together next year and he said that we would study and whatnot together.
That makes me think that maybe we can try and work things back out. But I don't know.
I told him that I still want him in my life and he said I know and I want to still be in your life too. He said I was never a bad girlfriend and to never think that. He said he is always going to worry about me and he still cares an awful lot. He said he didn't mean to make me feel this hurt, not at all. He kept saying he's truly very sorry for everything. Idk something is telling me deep down that we can work through it. But I don't know if that's wishful thinking or me being stupid.
I went out with my friend on Sunday night it was her 21st birthday. My ex-boyfriend didn't come along cause he had a lot of work to do and honestly who goes out on a sunday. hahah Instead, his roommate came with us. Everything was fine until my friend and I were going to go back to another friend's apartment to have more drinks and whatnot and our guy friend who came out with us asked me what I was doing. and I said "what does it matter? I have no one that cares anymore" and he said "yes you do" and I said "he doesn't care anymore, he doesn't care so what the hell does it matter what I do now" and he said "he does care. he does" and I said "no he doesnt!" and he said "stop it! yes he does. if he didn't care about you why would he be texting me all night asking me to make sure you are okay and to make sure nothing happened to you."
Well then I started crying. You know how that goes. You have one two many drinks in you and sometimes your emotions go crazy. My guy friend was like "he does care.. he's just being a confused guy right now. you just need to be strong." I forget what else he said but it was along those lines.
We still talk and whatnot and we see each other in class, but now that classes are over and summer is rapidly approaching I'm freaking out that it's gonna just be done.
I've been getting many mixed signals lately. I don't know if he might be realizing he made a mistake or maybe it's just me wishful thinking. :/ It's just really confusing. :(
I'm so sorry this is so long and I appreciate it so much that you took the time to read and respond. I honestly just don't know what to think or do or anything. I was just hoping maybe you would have an idea or some helpful advice or something. :) Again, thanks so much for your time.
ps we are both 21
Well I definitely think that there is a possibility for a future, since you didn't bring up anything about being cheated on or such things that could be considered "unforgivable." If the relationship kind of just died out, then I would say, yes, give it time over the summer so that you can focus on yourselves and see what's really important to you. I would also suggest to still see him every now and then, like maybe go to the beach with him a couple times throughout the summer... the reason I say this is bc I myself am going thru a break up, and the hardest part is that he's my best friend, knows more about me than any of my girlfriends, and so that makes it hard to think that I'm losing a love AND a friend. So, for the summer that's what we're doing, space & such, and we'll see what happens at school in the fall, but were are still going to hang out because we have a friendship that's really important.
You guys seem like you need some space to sort out your feelings, and then maybe have a couple "talks" once you know what you want. Good luck!! I'm sure everything will work out for yall:)
I'm a teenage girl and I want to get a clear face :) I've tried many different things such as; proactiv, salt water, clearasil, garnier,tea tree oil. None of them have worked!
If you know any thing that actually helps get a clear face! (and please not just 'drink lots of water and have a good diet' because i already do that)
I want like products or natural remedies that actually work please!! :)
Thanks! :D x
I have really really clear skin, and what I do is use Vaseline overnight, and by the morning it dries and feels SO soft and moisturized. You only have to do a thin layer, as if you were putting on lotion.
I would suggest NOT using things like garnier or tea tree oil, because while its a great oil, it doesn't have MOISTURIZING properties.
I would suggest using vaseline. You would be surprised at the wonders, and like I said I have nearly perfect skin, and only get like 3 zits amonth around my period. I attribute it to vaseline.
Let me know if you use it! I would love to know how it worked for you:)
my nipples have been really sore and really itchy could that be a sign of pregnancy
I would say no, usually pregnant women don't feel breast changes until several months as the body is preparing for infant nursing. During the first few months, the reproductive organs are mostly working on GROWING the site of the embryo/fetus, and then as delivery approaches, breasts begin to change to prepare for lactation.
Your symptoms could just be a side effect of hormones, such as birth control, or just reacting to changes in your body, as puberty is continuing.
To be safe, you should get a pregnancy test. But I think you're in the clear:)
SOURCE: Reproductive system + organs, college anatomy & physiology course
Okay.. been going on far long enough and yet only happens on day a week of course and i know it waste of time even worry a bout it but i just got so tick off now i just need to vent. okay I go to church with my boyfriend and we been dating for 3 years and well i been going his church and sometimes there friendly people some not. well they mostly nice to me but one girl is like weird. okay. thing is i go up and shake her hand she dose never say hi or nothing. so when she shakes my boy friend she be like hi how are you doing. and like never talk or say a word to me and two. she always staring where were sitting, always. and annoyed me.. yes i talk to my bf he tells me ne not notice or you know how guys are. just wish nezt time i see her or shake her hand i like find away nice way way what is your problem why you keep staring at me and rude to me
I wouldn't say: just wish nezt time i see her or shake her hand i like find away nice way way what is your problem why you keep staring at me and rude to me
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I would give HER a weird look and say "Why don't you take a picture, it'll last longer..?" Hopefully she'll get the message! Haha I just personally think that's a badass comeback:)
The title of your question is "try not to be a jealous person", but I think it's HER that's jealous. She probably is crushing on your boyfriend! She seems annoying and weird, but don't let her get to you..you are the one with the man, afterall:)
I've been talking to a guy since around January. He asked to me to hang out with him twice but we ended up not hanging out. I asked him to come hang out with my friends once but he didn't want to. We talk on the phone at least 4 times a week wland we text all the time. About a month ago I found out that when he texts me he also texts other girls. We were at the mall and all 3 of us received the same text saying hi. He lead on my other friend before and take to her all the time but said she was just a friend. The thing is you cant talk on your cellphone with one girl and be hitting on other girls at the same time,its not possible. He listens to my problems but then again he does that to other girls. He calls me sexy. About 2 weeks ago I decided I was done with him and that I was in the "friendzone". I started talking to this new guy and I let him know he kind of just said ok and changed the subject. I told him I had to go because the guy was calling me. He got offeneded and said "Oh so you dont want to talk to me?" I told him no I did and ended up just talking to him. He never tells me how he feels and he always talks to other girls. Should I go for the second guy? I mean he won't do something so I might as well move on.
I was gonna say maybe YOU should try to make a move, but then again...he isn't exactly a "total catch" if you will. Like the mass text saying 'hi' at the mall. It DOES sound like he's leading you on, and I would go with your second guy. It's never good to be led on.
GOODLUCK:)
I'm known in my family for "Putting salt on my salt,", or having an excess amount of salt on my food. It's awful; I know. My family and I make jokes, and they've become accustomed to the way I eat my food. What I do is, I'll be eating with a fork or something in one hand, while I use my other hand's pointer finger to eat salt. Like, I'll wet it slightly with my tongue, and dip it in a large pile I keep on the side of my plate. I dip my finger in the salt on average about once or twice per bite of food. If I'm eating steak or Chinese food, it can be up to four or five. I use my finger, as well as load salt on the actual food. And I put it on everything. I even have to load up my Ramen noodles with salt.
As I mentioned earlier, my family is used to this. But if a guest comes over or something, they can get quite appalled. My older sister's friend, who is an extreme health nut, ate dinner with us, and we were having steak (Well, my sister and him are vegetarians, but the the rest of us ate steak). He stared at me as if he were watching a train wreck, haha.
The point is, it's really getting out of hand. It's been this way since I was about 5. When I was younger, I would even pour salt on my hand and lick it. I can sometimes get these excruciating pains in my calf's at night. I hear that can be caused from a lack of Potassium, which in turn can be caused from excess sodium. I looooove food. Problem is, I love salt on like, 80% of my food. I've tried having a meal without salt once or twice, and I couldn't make it through two bites. Everything tastes teeeeeerrible without it!
I want to live a long time. I don't want to leave this earth from a heart attack. I want to enjoy my life, be a grandparent, die old. I know I'm slowly killing myself with salt. But, even with this in mind, I cannot stop. I've come to terms with it: I'm totally addicted. It tastes sooooooo good. So I suppose my question is... Is there anything I can do to stop this? I don't want to be that dependent on something that can be so lethal. Can anyone help me? Thank you for reading this painfully-long question.
I understand, I used to salt & pepper EVERYTHING, and then became a health nut, realized the serious serious consequences of excess sodium, and now only put black pepper on everything. I basically channeled it all into black pepper which I'm obsessed with:)
But this would be my approach for you, a 2-step process:
1) STOP ADDING SALT TO THINGS!!! Get used to this as an action, but still choose food that have salt so that you meet your cravings. You just first need to learn how to control yourself & not add salt. For example, prepared Ramen has about 40% of your daily sodium requirement, it is extremely salty and doesn't need any more added... being a health nut, the fact that you add more does sort of disgust me the way you said it disgusts others haha sorry:)
2) Once you master this, start choosing foods that are lower sodium so that you meet the 2300mg/daily requirement. Back to the Ramen example, I actually buy these "Herbox" packets which are essentially the exact same packets that Ramen has, without salt or MSG. Sure, they're not as good, but being the health nut I am, it's a sacrifice I make for my body:)
If you don't start making changes, you're body will begin deteriorating, starting at your muscle level, and put yourself at risk for cardiovascular diseases and diabetes.
Listen, food without salt DOES NOT TASTE TERRIBLE!! Come on now, that was a ridiculous statement:) Just like someone with a heroin addiction, you need to make lifestyle changes because your addiction is going to start taking its toll on your body.
If you need any more support, ask me a question! Like foods to try and such. My example is eat edamame soy beans, and yes you can lightly salt them! ***LIGHTLY****:) That way, it's a healthy snack that'll meet your cravings!
I wish you the best of luck with your lifestyle changes, and if you need any more help let me know!! I would love love love to know how your progress is going & if my tips helped you, so please drop one by in my inbox with some updates if you have any:) GOODLUCK!!xx
13/f
I have a pretty important interview this weekend for a position on the leadership team for band. It's the first real interview I'm doing and I really need some tips for a good interview. Thanks in advance for all answers :)
-Keep eye contact
-Try to not fidget with yourself, that will make you look nervous
-Take 5 slow, deep breaths before going in
-Allow 2-3 seconds before answering the question so that you can think it out a bit
-Be respectful, polite
-Don't be obnoxious
GOOD LUCK!! I'm sure you'll do great:)
My boyfriend and I are very much in love. I feel very comfortable with him, and have no issues when it comes to my body with him. My only issue is that I cannot dance in front of him! When I go out with my friends I have no problems but whenever I go out with him I just freeze up. We're going out tomorrow night to see a DJ we both really like and I want to be able to enjoy it. How can I get over this?
20/F
Alcohol. jkjk...
I think the best thing to do is practice a bit at home, loosen up and get comfortable you know? That way when you go out, you won't be in a "deer in headlights" situation.
I had a friend who had a very very similar prob, and what she would do is actually dance with me and pretend I was her bf while we were getting ready and doing makeup. It was a bit weird for me, but it did help her sort of prepare and prevent her from freezing up. If you have a silly best friend I would suggest doing that because it worked for my friend who was in the same dilemma.
Just relax and HAVE FUN! Goodluck:)
I twisted my ankle really bad back in August. My doctor said I could have issues for up to a year depending on what sort of activities I did, and so far I've pretty much always had issues! It's still noticeably bigger than the other one. Its for the most part just a little stiff but not painful anymore. Except when I wear heels! It hurts so much! I'm going to a wedding in about two and a half weeks and I'm going to have to wear heels and also be moving around in them so I was wondering if there are any good stretches I can do to make wearing heels hurt less. I know most of you probably aren't doctors so I'm not about to sue if your advice doesn't work or anything but I'm sure some people on here have twisted an ankle!
I'm pre-med but not doctor, but I would suggest doing GENTLE GENTLE GENTLE ankle rotations for a few minutes, a few times a day. Such as when your watching TV, rotate both counterclockwise & clockwise, SLOWLY and gently!! You don't want to strain it and cause further injury.
Also calf raises (like standing straight, stand on tippy toes, repeat) because this will activate the posterior leg muscles that wearing heels would wear. Again, nothing strenuous.
If you have any more questions about exercising or anthing, that is my forte, so drop one by the inbox. Otherwise I hope you enjoy the wedding:)
Has anyone ever been in love before not middle school love but real true. I am and i am real confused because i love my bf to death but i am still in love with someone else and sometimes i picture what it would be like to be with and marry the other guy so how do i choose which one... and should i tell my bf that i have feelings for someone else or will it just hurt him more than it will make me feel better pl z help and i need advice soon
I have been in love... there is a saying that:
"You can't be in love with a new person if you are still in love with your ex," which I think may be true. I would stop thinking about marriage and thinking about which one makes you happier, which one treats you better, etc.
Good luck:)
Hi, so recently my bf fingered me n we both r very safe ..we clean our hands after that ... n i was suppose to get my periods last week but i didnt get it ... i think its late cause i mite be thinking bout it too much ... additionally i have heard that girls r unable to go any exercise ... but i ran 4km after soo long so yes i was tired but i dont feel horrible .. i havent vomited yet ... could i be pregnant or am i thinking too much .. pls help me out cause i have my final exams next week n i dont want to die with that thought of me being pregnant!
Well you definitely cannot get pregnant from being fingered... In high school I went 3 MONTHS without menstruating, due to hockey season and lots of working out. Also, stress may offset periods so I would suggest relaxing, I'm sure you're fine. Now if you had sex, that may be different & maybe you should get a pregnancy test but otherwise you are in the clear!! :)