I am currently a college student. I am studying Psychology and plan on getting my PhD or PsyD to become a counseling psychologist. I am also minoring in music because I love to sing. I have been singing and playing the piano since I was about 5 years old. I also love to ride horses. I have the most perfect boyfriend in the world and I love him so much.
I have always had a rough life growing up and that is why I am going to be a Psychologist because I think I can help people cope with the things that I had to deal with.
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Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: student: Psychology major and music minor
Age: 20
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16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
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This is a good way that you tell if you are straight or gay. Picture a guy naked and then picture a girl naked. Which do you like better and which could you see yourself doing things with and being more comfortable with?
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I'm a female and is 22yrs of age.
Well I've been talking to this guy for 7mos now and I really don't know if he's ready to be serious. He always introduce me as his lady friend. How tell him that i want more than just a good friend with benefits and how do i know if he really wants to be with me like that? (link)
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Just sit down and tell him. Tell him that you don't mean to hurt him and that would be the last thing you wanna do, he should understand.
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I'm going to the beach with my sisters, mom, and boyfriend for the day, and don't really know what to do. My boyfriend and I can only hold hands, so no romantic stuff really. But any ideas on games or anything different to do at the beach? So far we've got:
-Swimming in the ocean
-Digging a hole
-Looking for sand crabs
-Photo shoot, haha
-Going running
But we can't really think of anything else. Anything really creative or weird? :P Also, money's kinda tight, so no boardwalk. Hah. (link)
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Playing football or frisbee are really fun to play on the beach!
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ok me and a friend were talking about how to get your butt to get larger. and she said she heard like a teaspoon of peanut butter and a piece a bread before bed would eventually make it bigger.
is it true? (link)
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the only thing that will make your butt somewhat bigger is exercises. Try laying flat on your stomach and raising each leg in the air by doing sets. Your thighs and butt should feel tight as you do this. You can also do some ballet moves too like grand battements to the back. This will give you a nice muscular, sexy, and nicely rounded and shaped butt.
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16/f
i have had sex a couple of times now and there are like 7-17 day intervals, and when we have sex it is painful. apparently chinese people have really tight vaginas, and that is why it is painful everytime they have sex, i don't want painful sex for the rest of my life, i understand that guys like the tightness and all, but i don't!! because everytime we do it it is so sore!! and straight after the sex, my vagina is still kind of sore, i don't know what is going on and WHY!! makes me so frustrated!
thanks though.. :) (link)
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It may take a while till the pain goes away. Your body has to get used to it. Make sure you and your guy do a lot of foreplay before you actually have sex so you are lubricated enough and make sure he goes in slow. Not to give your hopes up or anything but it took me at least 1/2 a year till the pain went away and it still wasn't even enjoyable. Just give it time, it will get better.
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I play piano and sing.
Heres my problem: I always hear these songs in movies and on the radio and stuff that I want to learn how to play and sing. Well, if I download or buy the sheet music at the store, Its like how to play ALL PARTS of the song all like combined in one line of music. What I want is JUST the piano part, with the vocal part seperate. I dont want the vocal part intertwined with basicly what is the accompaniment. Thats what I mean-- I only want the accompaniment. Because obviosuly Im going to sing the vocal part- I dont need this peice of super complicated music with a ton of crazy chords. I just want the piano part seperate. So first of all where can I get just the piano accompaniment to peices of music that are just piano and voice? [peices I am thinking of in particular are "Imagine" by John Lennon and "Thank You for the Music" from the movie Mamma Mia] Where can you find EXACTLY what to play/sing so it sounds just like the origional recording/performance?
Another related problem is I cannot find like whole band music. What I mean is like for example, take any Beatles song. What exactly is each guitar part, what did the drummer play, and especially, what exactly did each person sing because I want to be able to have the harmonies! I mean, not each person sings the exact same part-they harmonize! (I play piano/sing, and my brother is a mind-blowing guitarist, and we have plenty of friends who could back up on drums. We want to cover other bands songs, but where can we get all the exact parts??)
Any advice on where to get my hands on this type of sheet music is greatly appreciated! (link)
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Try sheetmusicplus.com they usually have a lot of songs in different varieties.
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i have very big legs. they're not fat but they're just really muscular. i really want to slim them down before school starts but all the exersizes i see in magazines just work on getting rid of fat and they only make my legs more muscular. any tips on exersizes i can do? (link)
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I have had the same problem. Strong legs can be sexy though. I used to hate mine but a lot of people find it very attractive so now I flaunt them. If you feel good about them you will begin to appreciate them. You should feel more sexy that you have muscular legs because a lot of girls would die to get rid of their fatty thighs and have nice thigh muscles.
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16/f
i've been friends with a guy named chris since i first moved here 2 years ago, we went but since i had no prior experiance with guys or my feelings for them, i confused my friendship feelings for something more, so i had to break up with him.
After breaking up it was real auquered for him since he still liked me so i stopped being friends with him all together....
then in january of this year we started talking again, just as friends, it wasnt as aquered as b4 so i decide to be his friend again. ive always liked him in a way, he's one of the kindest and sweetest guys i know.
And wen i thought i mightve been pregnant i talked about it with him, and no one else.
i never even considered of asking him to do this but the next time i saw him, he gave me a pregnancy test....thankfully was neg........
for the longest time i thought he'd gotten over me but since that day i was no longer sure.
Since then ive randomly asked guys if their gf asked em to get em a preg test wat wud they do, not one of em said they wudve bought it.
so ive been thinking well chris wasnt even my bf we had barely started becoming friends again....
from your opinion does he LOVE me?
and if so wat do i do about it? i really like him but not in that way, i wish i cud but so far i havnt been able to....
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It sounds like he loves you but don't let that ruin your relationship. He may just love you as a friend and really care about you.
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I'm 16 and of course I know my size, but i was talking to my friend the other day, and he asked me what size I was. (no, he's not a creep like that, he has a gf and I have a bf, he is like a brother so I talk to him about everything) And when I said a 36C, he was surprised I wasn't a D, because his gf is a D and i seemed her size. I was just wondering, besides trying them on at a store to see what fits better, it there a way I can tell what cup size I am at home?
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it really depends where you get your bras. Victorias Secrets bras run small... I'm a D there but a C in a lot of other brands. It also depends whether you get a push-up or not. They add cup sizes to your actual size. Ex. my roommate was an A but a B in VS push-up bras. You can get a tape measure and measure yourself. First measure around right under your breasts to around your back. If you are a 36, you should get a 36 measurement. You dont want the tape measure to be too tight though when you measure. Next, measure your bust (the center of your breasts going around to your back). It goes up by numbers from the first number you got. So if you got a 36 for the first measurement and a 40 for the second, you would be a D cup. If you got 36 for the first and around 39 for the second you would be a C. You may be in between sizes like me though meaning it depends on the bra you are wearing, in that case it depends on your bra. I work at a department store in a lingerie department so I have to measure womens bra sizes all the time. Hope I was some help to you. Good luck.
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how do you get the v's on your stomach? some guys have them. like where your leg connects to your abdomen. how do you get that defined? (link)
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crunches and sit-ups!!! Do them in sets like 50 regular crunches, then 50 side crunches to the right then 50 to the left.
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Okay, so since i was little , i always leak abit in my underwear. Not period wise, but urine.
My underwear always ends up hard on the part the vagina goes, and it goes brown.
I thought it was just something that happened when your little, but im 15 now and its still there.
I can never feel it, but if it never goes, i dont want boys to see it if i ever sleep with them
Or even in the future if i get married.
What is it? :S
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haha so did I... I never knew that other girls got discharge until another girl said something about girls having discharge one time. But yeah, it's completely normal. If it is urine that is leaking, you may have something wrong with your bladder or something and should see a doctor.
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I have this problem in me that is negative thinking mind. I keep thinking of the past experience with my ex's and how they betrayed my trust in them.
I am in a love relationship now and i keep thinking that my boyfriend is also like my ex's when he has not even hurt me before.
He knows about my negative thinking and has helped me to put on a positive mind always.It doesn't seem to work.
Can you help me out here? What should I do to keep this relationship to last forever? (link)
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Every girl that has had an awful relationship goes through the same thing that you are going through. It's totally normal for you to feel and act that way. The only thing you can do is have him express how he feels and see if he feels the way you do and wants to stay with you. If he does, you just have to slowly learn to trust him. There is nothing you can do to prevent someone from breaking your heart.
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there was a movie that i have seen but i cant remember the name and i need help.
i think it was in new york and there were big trucks going in a tunnel that was under the river and the trucks had gasoline in them and somehow blew up. the entire tunnel collapsed and there was people trapped in it. i remember a character had to stick a bomb in like clay or something to blow up a wall to escape. i think its called sunshine? or something like that?? (link)
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It was definitely called Daylight
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Okay, so I have some like yellow, thicker than pee stuff coming out of my vagina? Is that normal? (link)
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It may be from starting birth control or from switching to a new kind, or you might just have some discharge either before or after your period. Discharge is totally normal for a girl. If it's really gooey, sticky, and yellowish white then you may have some kind of yeast infection.
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