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All through high school I had this friend. We had a lot of classes together. I was pretty much her only friend but we were close! We even sat beside each other on graduation day. I went to her graduation party afterward. I totally knew all of her secrets and I thought we would be friends forever! When we graduated we ended up going to the same community college but didn't share any classes together and, so, rarely saw each other. We stopped talking after awhile and drifted off on our own paths. Well, the other day I was at work (cashiering) and she came through my line! I was so excited and tried to make conversation with her but she would not say a single word to me! I don't know what to think about it now.

I really want to be friends with her again though. I miss our old funny times we shared. She was a good person and a good friend but I don't know why she has no interest in talking to me now. Should I persue a friendship with her and message her on MySpace (I found her's recently)?

Well.. ya know.. some people just fall out. There's nothing you can do about it.. I know you miss her.. but people grow up and they change. and sometimes it's not for the best.

In life, people are like Trees.
-Some are like leaves, they come and go
-Some are like branches, they stay for a while but eventually they break off
-And others are your roots.. there forever.. no matter the time they come into your life..

I think you should try and persue her.. BUT only because if you don't.. you'll always wonder what if.

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More than 6 months ago I dropped something on my foot and it smashed my toenail place very good. It hurt REALLY bad and instantly bruised up underneathe the nail. It hurt for the first two weeks really badly and was difficult to wear shoes (had to anyway because of work). Well, it's been awhile now and my toenail has grown out quite a bit. This week it has start to detach from the toe itself (the toenail is still black/purple looking...nasty). Should I go on and pull/clip the rest of the toenail off or let it fall off in time by itself?

I say, let it fall off it's self.

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me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and i found a new guy but i dont no if he likes me or wants to be with me. should i ask or should i go back to my ex who is like heartbroken because of the break up? help me i dont no what the right thing to do is?

The "Right thing to do"
is what makes YOU happy. You can't make someone else happy at your expensense. Don't worry, everyone has they're feelings hurt more than once in this lifetime! But what it really comes down to, is what you know in your heart. Don't go back to your ex becuase you feel bad or because your comfortable around him..Venture out. Do what you need to do to be happy for YOU!

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Ok so i had sex with my bf almost 2 weeks ago and i am due on my period this weekend. I take birth control but the past 4 days i have had real bad stomach ache, lower back ache and just dont feel right. I know birth control isnt 100% effective so i am worried. If i come on my period at the weekend should i still take a pregnancy test? or do you have to wait a while longer? thanks

Generally, the only time you are ovulating is with in 10 days before or after your period. If in fact he did get you pregnant, you may still have your period.. or just spot blood the whole nine months. Don't stress about it, that will only cause your period to be even later. Take a pregnancy test 7 days..after your period was supposed to come on. Take it in the morning right when you wake up. If you are pregnant, the part of your belly between your belly button and where your panties start.. should be hard as a rock. But your probably just stressed.. been there done that!

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okay so this guy from my work is driving me insane i know that he really likes me.. and i have a boyfriend ive told his countless times i am NOT interested and yet he comes up trying to hug me and almost trying to kiss me at times i am constantly puching him away and he wont leave me alone. then he took my phone and started texting my boyfriend pretending to be me... and made me sound like a huggeee bitch. my boyfriend is sick to death of him and would love to beat him up but i dont want to start a huge conflict between my coworkers and me so i told my boyfriend i would take care of it... What Do I Do!!????

Cut it short before it gets out of hand.
People are crazy.. You have to be mean, hurt his feelings if you have to .. make sure you know that your not down with the games he's playing.
If it starts to mess up your relationship, find another job!

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well i've been talking to this guy for 3 months now, and we have sex all the time , our parents know each other... i like him ALOT, and i feel like he likes me too. BUT he has a problem making commitment to me . i know he's being loyal to me, but he just doesnt want to be my boyfriend, and everytime i come up on that issue, he says " whats the rush " i get annoyed alot because i like things when their set in stone. he also doesnt talk to me at school, and when we're around certain people he barely pays attention to me . he says that its not me , that thats' just the way he is , and he's shy. i reallllly need him to step it up because i'm getting tired of waiting around but i dont want to lose him either. what can i tell him or show him, so that he'll decide to finally ask me out ?

Well, my opinion..
It sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it to! Your better than this.. anyone is.
He's right it's not you, it's him. You can't keep sleeping with him and then nag him to change his ways.
You have to change your ways.. I know you like him..but you have to show him that you have standards and you respect yourself. Or he'll never respect you.. Put it out there that if he wants anything of you.. it's all or nothing! And stand by your word. If you lose him then he really wasn't meant for you. Don't " down grade" because you think he may be the one. If you have to down grade yourself for anyone.. They are in fact NOT the one!

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