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Q: Sometimes, my friend Liv tends to make a huge deal out of things that don't really matter. It's also hard for me to talk to her because she doesn't talk well, she yells and gets mad and is mean. What can I do?

I've gone through that.
At first I would get mad and tell her it wasn't a big deal, yet it made it worse --

If you two are really good friends, then you should get her calm and sit down and talk to her about it. But if that doesn't work, there really isn't anything else that you can do. Some poeple are just like that.

A*xo

Q: i have to meet my boyfriend's parents tomorrow. and tips on how to make a good impression?

Just Be Yourself, and try not to embarrass him =]

Q: I need some things I could talk to my boyfriend about on the phone. He's really shy on the phone and I wanna bring him more into the convo so its not just me talking.

Ive tried talking about ..
-school
-music
-his family
-things that happened that day
-things he likes ( skateboarding etc.)

but he's still not talking much. What should I do?

My friends always have trouble with that. guys say that they have nothing to talk about, so give them something. Luckily they had me and I can easily start a conversation, try to have a friend call him with you [3 way maybe?] and you will have a better conversatioin. after a few of those phone calls try talking to him by yourself. it worked all the thousands of times i had to do it.

Q: my cell phone was droped in the water and now i press a button and somethin else pops u like if i press menu it starts to dial a number if i press 3 it shows up the menu is amy where i can take it to fix it or should i jsut get a new 1 its a virgen moblie slider

Hey, the same exact thing happened to me at a party. It helps if you let it dry out for a couple days, it might work then. On my cell phone the radio transmitter broke so I couldnt revieve or send calls. It's probably best to buy a new one. That's what I am doing

...daddysgirl...

Q: I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;

I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..

Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...

and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!

I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??

What should I do?!

PS. Sorry for the lengthy question

Hey

Well one thing that you ahve noticed is that you want to stop, and thats the first step to stopping. You really should tell your parents or someone you trust, because they can help you a lot more then you realize.

...daddysgirl

Q: 13/f

ok my friend and I are going to babysit together. What would be a good price to have parents pay for our babysitting? there is 2 of us and we both need money. but also we cant charge too too much cuz then we wont get any bizness. also, is there anything else about babysitting i should know?

♥

Hey
When I baby sit, I usually get 5-6 dollars an hour, sometimes 7. A really important thing about babysitting is keeping the kids in control, but also not being too strict

...daddysgirl