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Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help.
I LOVE ALL JUDY BLUME BOOKS! THEY ROCK AND THEY ARE LIKE SO TRUE!!
There is this girl at my school(we'll call her sally) and she is really creeping out me and my freinds latley. She ALWAYS follows us around. i think she is just trying to make freinds but the main problem is is that she NEVER talks...EVER!and when i say she follows us i mean everywhere. we were on the bleachers today for this NJHS meeting, and we moved down a row...then she moved down the SAME ROW!! Plus, she thinks that we are best freinds or something-and best freinds with all the popular kids. i really dont know what to do. what is a nicer way to tell her how we feel and to help her make freinds?? thanks.
ask her a question... then shell talk
example: WHY THE F*CK ARE YOU FOLLOWING US?
ok here is the thing...im in 9th grade and so are my 2 friends..i know one of my friends since 7th grade and one since last year (8th) and well they went out from like 01/06/04 to yesterday (11/04/04)...she broke up w/ him bc he wasnt a boyfriend type person who didnt do much..they basically acted like friends who kissed (pecked) nothing else...anyways she broke up w/ him in front of me, my friend kevin and becky outside @ dismal...and after this happened becky was trying to get them back together..and it didnt work and he walked off w/ our other friend matt and she started crying as the 4 of us (me, her..becky and kevin) were walking to the busses..and we took turns holding her and all..then i was talking to her on-line and all last night and she said how she was still crying and i said well you made a good point and all about dumping him..dont keep saying to your self "why did i do that" ...and all..today she came into english crying, and my friend and i were just holding her and all....and we stood there for like 5 minutes and all..she showed me a note he wrote to her and inside was a poem of goodbye and all..and the teacher sent her and my friend to the time out room *basically guidence but all they do is listen to ur problems and thats basically all* and they came back after like 5 mins and she was all calm and etc..then 6th period lunch i was talking to my friend about what was gonna happen 9th period bc we all have study hall etc...it came to 9th period..we didnt even sit at the table...we sat on the floor in the corner of the caf..and after the others decided to ask to get a table open they sat at the table and i remained on the floor w/ her..and at one point i got up and went over to him and asked if he was mad at her bc she wanted to know..so i asked and he said "yeahh bc there was no good reason for why we broke up" and i came back and i told her and she says "yeah there is he didnt act like a bf!" and i said "yeah i knoww i agreeee" then i went back and i asked him why he didnt want to be friends w/ her anymore and he said " i didnt say that! im just steamed i need time to cool off" and i said "then?" he said "then we may become friends again" and i asked "like a month?" and he said " i just need time to cool off" and i went back to her and told her..and she told me to tell him something i dont remember what and that she stilled loves him and i went and told him..and he like "i dont caree" and i went back and i told her..and she was holding a braclet in her hand that she always wears and i know she wasnt trying to cry and i could see it her eyes that she wanted to but she didnt want to do it in front of him..and im not quite sureee...
any advice anyways ways of helpin her??? thx
your story is too long... but if ur friend broke up with this kid why is she crying? ahh im so confused. tell her he told you he was for a fact homosexual and maybe she wont like him then
hey guys.... ok... i have sorta been going out with this guy... like... he introduces me as his girlfriend but he wont officialy ask me out... lol... ne way... this past saturday... at a party... i was REALLY drunk and kissed another guy... my sorta boyfriend (ben) got really mad and really wants to beat the guy (JJ) up... but ben and i were talking on the phone rite after he found out (i was going to tell him... but some bitch beat me to it) and he kept on saying "i dont kno y im not breaking up with you..."and kept saying how pissed he was... but then he didnt call me all weekend... so i am really afraid he is gonna break up with me... this is the first boyfriend i have had tat i really truly like... and yes... i totally fucked myself over... i kno... but i guess this leads to a couple of questtions... (1) do you think he will break up with me? and (2) how can i talk to him and work this out?... i really like him not only as a boyfriend but a really close, good friend to... it would totally suck to lose him... help me please
how can he break up with you if he has another gf? he is stupid.
Hey, srry I didn't kno wat to put this under. Anyway, well first of all Im 14/f and Im a mexican.Well this guy that I used to go out with called me a wetback another name for a mexican, but before that we used to be friends and he is goin out with one of my bestfriends and she isn't doin anythin about it. And today I was walkin with my boyfriend and my friend from lunch and my b/f and my ex r friends,and when I was walkin with them to class my ex says "look at u and ur wetbak girlfriend" u kno but in a really really mean way. And for like 2 weeks now alot of my so-called friends have been insulting me and sayin mean stuff about mexicans or just say to my face "u need to go bak to ur country" and "mexicans are taken over Virginia, we might as well kill them all so they won't take over" stuff like that. I try to make it seem like it don't bother me , but it really does. Everytime that they say sumthin like that I just want to kick their asses, and thats everyday. I want to say sumthin to the counslor but I kno that she just won't say anything to them, she will only say to ignore it, but u can't ignore sumthin like that. Please help me, I don't kno wat to do anymore.
let me just say.. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP BEING RACIST!!!!
I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!!
it doesnt hurt that bad plus they dont use needles they use the scutal earing with a gun to do it.. i have had percings and they dont hurt for me.. just squeeze something really hard
ok my mom and my sister tryed too hurt my brother bye browing up his car and i broke my sister noes and my mother wind sheild and i have no one too talk too about it no one understands help me and tell me what to do? im so lost i can't live with out my brother i dont have a father he killed him self. .
u def need help! go to a counsler or something... u have the crappiest life ever and you shouldtn have had sex with ur bf.. that wasnt smart. but yeah go see a specialist or something
Well you know in school how there are groups (preps, loners, etc) well im a new kid at this school and im in a group, but none of them are labeled, but i have known the people in the group before i went to this school. Now there ignoring me, and leaving me out of a lot of stuff and trying to get me pissed off, I'm also friends with some other people, and i told them how nice they are, and they said that their a bunch of sluts, and i shouldnt join their group. But my friends are leaving me out. Should i join a different group ( the slut group, even though i know their not sluts, my friends are just jealous.) Or just be left out, but still in my group that i am already in. If you have questions or if you're confused please leave me a not in my inbox or just ask for advice. I NEED AN ANSWER BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
I AGREE WITH THE OTHER GIRL!! YOU DEF NEED TO JUST BE YOUR SELF AND SCREW LABLES. @ my school there used to be all sorts of cliques and stuff like that but then we all decided its much easier if you just be youself and be friends with everyone you wanna be friends with. keep that in mind forever!!!!
Aright well last Friday, before Halloween me and my friends had an idea of gettin ppl to dress in black and I made flyers and handed them out. And sum how one of the teachers found out about it cuz sumone said my name infront of the teacher and said that I made the flyers (wich I did) anyway she told the assistant principal that I did it and he came up to me and told me to give him the rest of the flyers. So I did and he starts given me all of this bullshit on how it's gang related when he has organized for us to wear red shirts, and there is sumthin else to. Aright there is this one gurl that she came into school and she was wearing a short short skirt that when ever she bends over her ass literally is showin, and the assistant principal saw her but he didn't say anything at all and she came in with a short black skirt and long knee hight boots lookin like a hooker and the assistant principal didn't say anything. So the part that really pisses me off is that we wore black lipstick and he said that it was not aloud when last year we wore black lipstick and he didn't say anything. So it pisses me off that we can't wear black lipstick and sum hoe can some in and look like a prostetute and come in with her ass showin. And they say that guys can't wear anypink wich is wrong, I mean guys should be able to wear anything they want. Please help cuz all of this is just wrong and they kno it!!
your school is gay and thats all i have to say besides that you should tell the head of your school borad or something and talk to him about ur problem
well see, my friend Ricky like just broke up w/ his gf. And he was really into her. I mean REALLY. he loved her more than anyhting in the world. And now she broke ^ w/ him for another guy and hes soo fuckin depressed now. he started to cut himself again ((which he hasnt done once since they went out)). And hes attempting suicide. Im so scared idk what to do. And im mad cuz mad becouse i cant do anything. so if u guys have any ideas please tell me. im desperate. i dont want him to die.....
you need to tell an adlut and def tell his parents. believe me you dont want to lose a friend from something like that. i know from experiance.
ok my best friend got her nipples priced by this guy (not a professinal) but the thing is his done alot of pircings on ppl...o yeah were all 15...but she doens't know if he did it right or not my boyfriend is suppose to look at it n let her now..but wat should she do to keep it clean n stuff like that...
NIPPLES!? why would you ever get those things peirced?!?! gross! also ... ur okay with ur bf looking @ ur nipples???! u are crazy i think
ok one of my friends came over and she was like come with me and i went so we went too this kids house i met him be for but i didn't really no him and my ex-boyfriend was there that i went out with for 6½ months and he was going out with his new girlfriend for almost 5 months and so we were their and he was stoned and i started to get stoned and me and him started too do sexual things and we had sex..=/ and then the next morning he woke up with his hands down my pants and this kid we slept @ told his g/f !! and now everyone knows? what do I do!? - from my friend not me!!! =o)
YOU HOEBAG! i cant believe you had sex with someone before you were married!! annnd they have a gf you are a dumb slut and i hope you get stds>>btw how old r u ? ui bet ur to young to be getting stoned neways