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Q: so i guess the title for this question wasnt a very nice one haha but it got you reading it. well i do love my boyfriend to death we have been dating for 6 months. im 16 hes 15. theres just a few small problems. everything will be going fine, then sudenly a few weeks ago he wanted to take a break. all the lovey dovey stuff stopped n he really didnt seem to care about me anymore. well now we are back together and all the lovey dovey stuff has started again. he says he loves me more than anything. thats what he said before the breakup too. most days he is great and i love him so much. i couldnt imagine being with another guy. but some days he is in the worst mood and he will practically ignore me. i really try to help him out and i put up with so much stuff just for him. he is very outgoing so its not like him to be quiet and i always think its something i did. but he gets in different moods all the time. is he bipolar? he acts completely normal other than the mood swings and is captain of the football and lax team. hes popular and a really funny guy. but he also has told me that he hears voices in his head. he doesnt act like its a big deal and yesterday a voice told him to jump off a building. he obviously didnt listen haha but he doesnt act like his mental problems effect him much but the break and his mood swings make me think maybe they do. i dont want him to start listening to these voices in his head or go crazy one day. and i dont want his bipolar watever you want to call it mood swings, to effect are relationship either. i know he has suffered from depression and possibly still is. but he acts like hes the happiest guy in the world. you would never guess. does he have schizophrenia or bipolar or something else? any advice?

he might just have an anxiety disorder. mood swings and hallucinations are caused by it even though anxiety disorder is hard to deal with he will be ok just go to the doctor n theyl take it from there. btw he doesnt sound schizophrenic or bipolar and please dont call him psycho..

Q: 15/f
Im going to a party this week and i know there's going to be drinking. im scared if i get drunk ill let my secrets out that i dont want people to know. will that happen? even as small as they might be?

thaanks

when your drunk and people mess with you as in asking questions or tricking you then you mightt tell some stuff. but usually not cause thats the only way u would. youl be fine just dont get totally wasted n have funn. although you have even more fun soberly..

Q: what event in track makes u lose the most weight? throwing, sprinting, long distance, or hurddle?

for stong arms, throwing you gain arm muscle and a very little bit of leg. for most weight loss, sprinting you gain alot of muscle mainly leg then abs then arms and loose alot of weight aNd long distence you gain muscle legs then abs n a lil arm and loose most weight. for leg, hurdles you gain alot of leg muscle and loose some weight. so long distence you will loose the most but you will be very skinny, sprinting you will loose alot of weight, be toned and look natural. my advice is to go with sprinting

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everything happens for a reason. im a survivor of skin cancer since birth, my life revolved around MMA but repeated concussions ended that career n caused me permanent chronic pain, cheated on from a two year relationship with my 'perfect guy', iv had ptsd for a few years from attempted rape. im artistic, in lovee with guitar, singing, and writing music for friends' bands. i have expirienced many horrible things in my past, but its called past for a reason so forget about it. lifes a lesson learned and i love it :) im the type people say they can never forget, im loveable to all and the chick always smiling friends come to me for everything. -peace