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i like this person and i think he might like me back to some extent, how can i tell if he does or not?

you can never be completely positive if someone like you, but you can try to pick up on some hints. when this guy i happened to like liked me he'd always smile when we saw eachother in the halls and find excuses to procrastinate after class so that we would leave at the same time and have to walk most of the way together. some other ways to tell are if he tries to find excuses to be near you or sit next to you, if he picks on you especially(guys are always in that kindergarden crush flirtin mode) or if he is especially nice to you. when this guy liked me every single day we volunteered at this school together he would buy me a soda but not any of out other friends one and then we'd go to the same teacher to volunteer. i hope my tips helped and good luck with this guy!
lotts of love,
kiki

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theres this guy thats a year older than me (he=8th grade).. he likes me a lot. I get nervous around guys... but he got really nervous aruond me. Were going to skate nite tonight and I have to teach him how to skate (mind you this guy is amazing). He gets so nervous and I'm just wondering some good tecniques to break the ice. If we do, than he's gonna actually ask me out tonight. (he already told all of his friends that know he likes me a lot that we were going out and i really don't have a problem with that) lol

So please help me..
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lucky you! i think that you need to calm down and know that things like conversation just come naturally(mostly), talk about eachothers interests, aspirations and hobbies, jus play it cool. here are some handy tips: try not to talk about yourself too much, if you're holding hands while skating dont start to panic if you know your hands are getting sweaty most likely it is a majority of his sweat, and finally just be honest and sincere, guys like to know their girl isnt a liar or well trashy lol! let me know how it goes good luck!
lotts of love,
kiki

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me and my boyfriend went out for 9 months and it was great until the last 2 months.. all we did was fight and we spent more time fighting than being happy so we broke up, and it was kinda both of us. anyways he's with someone else and it's so hard because i know we'll never go out again and i cant seem to get over him. i just need to know how to get over him because i know it'll work out again? needing advice on how to get over him.

hey, ive experienced the same thing, if your like me its going to take some time. at first i was really sad and it was all i thought about then i was ok with it and told myself it was time to move on and even though that sounds impossible you can do it, finally i started to get chrushes on other guys and now im ok. you will be fine in all good time jus enjoy some big bowls of ice cream or what ever your junk of choice is and try to vent your emotions by doing something productive and kinda fun like poetry or music. good luck
lotts of love,
kiki

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I'm 5"4' and 160 lbs. That doesn't sound that 'fat' but I'm also 13 years and my doctor thinks it's too fat and that was the cause of my 'monthly's' stopping for 4 months early last year! I really need an appropriate diet to lose some pounds because I feel fat and since I have to maintain school and homework, chores, etc. it's tough to not eat.
Recently I've been on a diet with food and water and no snacks but I did eat a few snacks and after 4 bottles of water...I felt reallly bloated! So How Do I use my water and food (lunch) diet without the snacks...the temptation of the snacks? Does anny one know how to avoid buyin em?

ok i am exactly the same like height/weight(no really) what you need to do is first start deiting in a better way, try the following:
1. eat 6 SMALL meals a day and make the biggest one breakfast not dinner. these meals HAVE to consist of a protein such as chicken and a fruit/vegetable. try to only eat carbs in 3-4 out of the 6 meals.
2. replace "fat" with muscle(it weighs more but also better for your body and metabolism)try to WALK not run a few times around your block or neighborhood. walkin is the easiest/quickest way to lose weight and it is also is not a high impact(hurts your knees/bones) workout.
3. drink more than 8 cups of water each day and do not drink soda!
4. lastly do like Oprah does dont eat after 7:00 at night this way you arent eating before your body slows down completely
i hope my advice helped and good luck but remember that being heathly is the most important not weighin the amt your docter wants.

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