well, ive thot about my exes while with other guys before...and learned my lesson.
the fact is that you want what you cant have, end of story. you probably are in love with your current bofriend. but you cant help but recall certain things about your old bofriend. as much as its hard, you hav to stop comparing them tho. chances are, there's dif things you like about each of them. but you're broken up with your ex now, and he also is with someone else. so if you're thinking of breaking up with your current and trying to get back together with your ex, its not gonna be pretty.
plus, you're going to say the same thing about your current bf if you break up with him. but right now you dont feel that way, because,well, you've got him right? nothing more to try for kinda-thing.
also think about: if your ex knocked on your door right now...would you take him back and ditch your current? idk wat you think, but im pretty sure you would not...

the other thing why your probably feeling that way is becaus you never talk. its hard to get closure with someone you never ever talk to. its all open-ended and unsolved feelings flying in all directions. but trust me, you will get over this feeling eventually. just ignore it. the grieving process over your ex will come to an end sooner or later...focus on your current, but if you're feeling like you like your ex more, then maybe its time to be single for awhile to figure out exactly what you need? just a suggestion.

happy christmas by the way!! hope that i helped you out some...

um yea, he likes you!! just flirt back a lot. but let him make the first move. dont worry about anything. its the guy's turn to take a little control of matters...

i didnt get my period until i was 14 and a half. believe me, i thought there was something wrong with me... haha. but the fact is: everyone is different and develops at different rates, thats what makes us all unique. and be thankful you dont have your period yet honey, cuz its just annoying. im not sure exactly why you're eager to bleed every month and have to wear pads and shove tampons inside you every month for about 30 years, but hey, everyone does their own thing. im just joking, and just so you know, you cant feel tampons at all, they're comfortable. ( i hope i didnt scare you or anythin, but the longer you get to not have it the better)

axe or tag are both awesome colognes for guys, i think u can get them both at walmart or kmart or w/e. but also the american eagle cologne for guys rocks if you hav time to get to a mall b4 x-mas. (im assuming thats wat you need this for...)

i went out with this one guy who was classic bad-boy material. im not sure why i fell for him in the first place, but he sounds a lot like this guy. and i think the only reason i got over him was because he was so hott. but yea, you're only in 7th grade, so you'll get over him and find someone waaay better(i hope. haha) there's other hott guys out there who are nice too. you want the whole package, dont settly for anything less than the best!!

um, you need to give a little more information about the circumstance that youre in.lol. it all depends.
1. your ages
2. are you friends? close friends? friendly? or nonexistent to her?
3. how do you know her?
4. how does she act? awkard? flirty? smart? is she pretty? what does she like to do?
5. what signs of liking you has she given?
6. do you think she wants you to tell her you like her? and wher do plan on going afterward? ask her out or just state that you have a crush on her??

if youve deleted all of it then no. they cant detect your internet sources i dont believe. you need to make sure that you go to TOOLS, the DELETE BROWSING HISTORY, then choose DELETE ALL. and even if they did, it doesnt matter, chances are the person who is fixing your computer is a computer geek who sits in front of their computer all the time looking at porn...haha

well, i had kinda the same thing. i went out with like my best guy friend for about a month and a half and im not really sure what happened either, but he just got on my nerves so freaking much so it didnt work out. i dont like him any more, but im stil pretty attracted to him, and sometimes get pretty strong physical feelings for him once in awhile (just in time for us to arugue again. lol) we are stil like really good friends too and hang out all the time but we very subtly fight quite a bit...

so anyway, i think that you should decide if you like him at ALL mentally. if not then, no, absolutely not friends with benefits. im sorry, i just think that that's not the right move. chances are if you agreed to something like that, you, being the girl, will become VERY emotionally attached to being with him and when it all ends again, you will regret it. you need to find someone that you like both physically and mentally. also, this all depends on how old you are. if you are still in high school, then that is exactly what i think about the matter. However, if you happen to be already graduated from high school and feel mature enough to handle it then i suppose it is really up to the both of you but i still would not do it in my opinion...hope that i helped you!

alright, well, it kinda sounds like he's not really sure what he wants. but if he knows that you are interested he's probably taking any opportunity to be all over you. trust me, guys LOVE attention. but it doesnt sound as if he like you back to the point of crush-mode. i dont personally know him but if he knows that you like him and hasnt done anything by now then i really dont think he is because most guys will go after what they want if they know they can have it. this is not for ALL guys mind you, just many of them, so dont get your hopes up. but at the same time, dont worry about it. you may like him a lot. i definitely know what it is to really like someone. but hey, i may sound pathetic saying this but my first bf was last year during my sophomore year of high school...plenty of people i know have never even dated yet. there's nothing wrong with that and there's still time for you yet!! haha

ok well... if you know me, then this is my expertise...let's see...

well for one, high school is shaky for relationships. in my opinion, there's no need to rush and people have really big heads in high school with all of the cliques and whatnot. try as you may to ignore them, they're still there. also, as a good friend once told me, when you date in high school, you earn a rep with the people you've dated. think about it and you'll know kinda what i mean.

ok so about this girl. its good you guys are friends. thats definitely a start. you should always get to know the person b4 dating to see if you are truly compatable.

do you know if she likes you? maybe find that out before you decide anything more. you dont want to make things akward but im sure if you are close to them then your friendship will be fine.

ask another friend to find out for you possibly??? like me!!

okay, its going to be difficult to lose 3-4 lbs a week, healthily that is.

just eat healthy. thats the key-no sweets. at least try to cut them out. and only eat one plateful of dinner. dont go back for more. unless you are hungry of course. but DO NOT eat just to eat. i know that its hard sometimes. food is yummy.
and 155 isnt that heavy. how tall are you? thats another question to ask yourself. becuase i am 16 and about 97 lbs. but i am only 4' 10" so thats normal for me. but its not doing to be impossible to get to a weight you are comfortable with.

but yes, cutting back on cal.s and working out more will work. but make sure you are still eating a healthy amt.

i would say eat about 3-4 pieces of bread or pasta servings (the hard carbs) every day, 1-2 fruits and 1-3 veggies, drink a couple glasses of milk and maybe one of those 60 calorie yogurts for breakfast? thats what i eat usually. along with about 3 bottles of water is healthy, and a small piece of meat/fish.
it sounds like alot when im writing it down, but thats it. a day would look something like:
breakfast: yogurt or fruit
lunch: pbj sandwich with little carrots and apple slices
dinner: small steak, 2 veggies on side
all day: 3 waters, milk somewhere during the day

then try to work out or some form of exercise every day. i run pretty much every day for anywhere between 20 and 40 min. but i enjoy going running so its different for everyone. find an activity that you enjoy.

1.black eyeliner on the tip of your eye lid and underneath-thick.
2. take dark grey and cover just your eyelids
3. light blue or light greeneyeshadow(whichever color looks better on your skin color/eye color. go all the way up to your brow
4.take bronzer and brush the skin under your brow with it. lighter at the top then darker as you go towards your eyelid-but dont go over your eyelids.
5.mascara:2 coats. black. both upper and lower lashes
6. curl your upper lashes, make sure to hold for at least 6 seconds to get the full effect. then go over them again with another coat of mascara

1. how old are you honey?
2. im 16 and trust me, I've had my share of liking boys.

you should get to kno him and find out if he is at all interested in you. if not then its not gonna happen. but why not go for it if you want it b/c its just high school or middle school or elementary school or w/e the heck you are...so these people really will just forget about all the stupid drama later.

but if it doesnt work out, you will get over him. even if it doesnt seem like you ever can, trust me you can. cuz there's ALWAYS other fish out there for you to catch...

Okay, I'm 16 so I dont know if that helps like make you more comfortable or not. haha. But well, this all depends on the entire situation. I'm going to assume that you havn't ever talked to her before...or at least that much anyway. But before I go on I need to tell you: don't ask for her sn. Big no-no!! I went through hell with a guy who i first really started talking to over IM. We went out but when eventually it was a total crash and burn. It makes it more awkward in person and well, just don't do it please. okay. here we go: there's a couple dif situations and since i dont know you then you can pick what your's is...
1. You're pretty popular and she's the hottie you've had your eye on from afar but she's not really in your group but would definitely fit in: so if this is you then

A)if she has the same lunch, invite her to sit w/ you. shes GOING to say no, so don't freak, but then she's got the hint...and see if she gives you anymore attention? maybe some looks or smiles?

B)just go up and make up some fake gossip about a teacher or something. something funny, not bad or mean. then be like "I'm (insert your name) by the way."

C)give her a compliment to start things off. anything. ex:"nice sweater" short and to the point. then tell her your name, ask her what class she has and tell her wher you're going. maybe a couple days later, try to get next to her and be like "hey again!" and tell her something interesting. make her laugh...and make sure to say hi to her in the hall if you see her. but just every couple of days. dont be like a stalker.

2)if shes the popular one:wait, on second thought...no offence but dont talk to her. im sry, she's probably stuck up and not interested. just gonna clear that up for you

okay, listen to me...if your bf is hot. he's hot. there's no getting around that. so chances R that other girls may have little wishes that they were you. but really, just b/c 2 girls like him doesnt mean the WHOLE school does! its totally just chance! dont be so paranoid about it.lol. thats just ridiculous. you should be proud that your bf is well liked!! (just dont get a big head about it of course.haha) o, and you should have kept that in the book about you being mandy or w/e cuz that would have been hilarious...dont be so uptight. who cares about other girls. youve got him and hes got you and thats that.

hey

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