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As far back as i can remember, I've always wanted to be a gangster...

Well I'm latina, Guatemalan yo! Anyways, I like to surprise people. Which is quite easy for me, I'm very odd and awkward most of the time.
Randomness is do to my ADHD, I tend to ramble on alot sorry. >.< Well as my name clearly states I love anime, yay! I have an rp account in myspace, do you rp?:O
Add me my name is Shizu and yes I edited my df piccy that's my character you see in the graffiti, if you already know me somehow and have me added well wow... .__.
Weird...but anyways, I've been through much in the past years of my some what short life.
I've learned a few things,no matter how shitty everything happens for a reason.
So yeah feel free to ask me anything you need help with, I'll try to help and will answer to the best of my ability~
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i know ferrets need a buddy or they become lonely, so how do ferrets get along with cats, i cant buy two ferrets, so can mmy cat be its buddy? the cat is just a kitten right now, and the ferret im looking at is about 9 weeks old. (link)
if they are both babies then yes ive had ferrets b4 and my cats got along w/ it great!!:] but keep an eye on them 2 make sure they do get along even as babies ferrets are more likely to hurt the kitten then the kitten the ferret...:] hope i helped....

14 girl call me xuya!!!


im engaged to a woman who just doesnt like my 9 year old son. she has told me she doesnt like him and shows very little affection towards him. what should i do? (link)
fuck that tell her to try to get along w/ him!!!>:O other wise dnt marry her!!! look your probly an old guy that knows much more than me but theres something i do know and that is i know how it feels2 have a step parent that doesnt love you...it sucks it makes you feel sad depressed and the lowest of the low...so tell this woman to build a more affectionate relationship w/ your son or leave her besides whos more important her? your 9year lod son or that woman? well thats all i can tell you and think hard!!! this is no joke your a grown man you should now by now right from wrong...>:/


14 girl ayux...


this summer im going on a teen tour and im going to need to stock up on some good summer music because i wont be able to update my ipod :/. i really like alternative music, i have a lot of all time low, jack's mannequin and the rocket summer music, so anything like that would be amazing! schpanksssssssss! (link)
here are some great people bands and shit...

new found glory :familiar landscapes,kiss me,oxygen,basicly there whole albums...:p


postal service:sleeping in,such great hights,we will become silhouettes,brand new colony,and there whole albums..:p

death cab for cutie:google em cuz i cant remember there names...:p sorry:[

ima robot:lets talk turkey,dirty life,a is for action,dinomite!,black jedas,shit theres more but cant remember google...sorry

metro station:sky,i love-->shake it,n google em...

kid sister:switch board,pro nails,n beeper...:]

lily allen:LDN,smile,alfie,google her...:p

cool kids:mags,oscar the grouch,google...:p

maroon5:makes me wonder,wont go home,google..:]

the used:google the names cuz i cant memeber song titles sorry>>>;(

colbie caillat:bubbly n google..;p

the killers:read my mind,young,bones,tranquelizer,
shadow play,run for the hills,and more so google there album...:]

and thats all i can think of...:] hope i helped...

14 girl call me xuya...:]


okay the whole colored skinny jeans with the rocker shirts and the converse...I want to dress like that next year but IDK what it is called...
like example
dark blue skinny jeans
black converse
stud colored belt
with a white or black band shirts..

can you tell me what kind of style is this so i can know where to shop (link)
rocker,punks,emo,scene kid,and thats bout it i guess...idk....have fun :]....


my cousin might be comming over in a few weeks,and me and my mom dont know what were going to go to keep him occupied for a week. does anyone have any ideas that we might be able to do to have alot of fun? were both 14.

thanks so much!! (link)
the zoo!!!!:D the aquarium!!!:D
a movie!!! sixflags!!! an arcade!!! the beach!!! a museum!!!....hope i helped!!!:] xuya 14 girl...


my bf was "stroking his salami" so that when i sucked his dick, it'd be close and i wouldn't have to do much work. little did he know, it was closer than he thought and my head was right above it. so he "came" and it got in my eye. :/ is there anything bad that can happen from this? right now my eye is all red and small and hurts. please help. thanks (link)
OH-NO....Hun I think your pregnant...LOL...Sorry had 2 say that line 4rm the sweetets thing...any ways...i googled it and..."yes, it can honestly make you go blind, if you get a "face shot" and it gets in your eye, you need to wash your face and rinse out your eye. It is just like any other foreign substance in your eye. eyes are important. take care of them." well hope that helped...:]


carefull youll shoot your eye out!!! hahaha!!!XD

14 girl xuya....


i need to find out a sign if she likes me or not....likes what are some signs that she likes me that i could look out for while we are talkin on msn cause we both have it if you hav msn could we like...discuss it on msn here is my email addy : flamephysco@hotmail.com
plz ppl i need help btw im in grade seven. thanks alot if you know any other signs that she likes me not on msn like wen we are havin a normal conversation at skool or sumthin (link)
hmmmmmmmm.....idnt have msn...sorry but heres some stuff pet names cutie-pie if she calls you stuff other than your name...remarks bout you the way you look and shit...ummm...need any more feel free 2 ask any questions bout stuff she says ill answer them as best as i can...:D

xuya 14 girl hope i helped...:]


Im taking an in class final which is an essay. Our teacher told us it is about racism (8th grade btw) and i need some tips on what to use.
Please, i need help!
1-i need 3 groups who have experienced racism, what time period, and why
2-i need about 5 movies on racism.

THANK YOU SO MUCH! (link)
well im hispanic so we have that whole mexicans go bk 2 your own country and even if im guatemalan they book me as mexican...*sigh*

heres are other racis

hispanics blacks white people--->jew asians

movies ive seen crash, a place at the table,american history x,believe,and thats all i can think off hope i helped...:] so just google it and write!

14 girl xuya...:]


on tuesday i have to read out this booklet thing for my exam infront on my whole english class on my own! i am so nervous and scared. I really worried i am going to make a total full of my self and like stutter on my words for ages or something and i know i will go bright red with embrassment aswell , i am not very confident when it comes to stuff like this! theres no way of getting out of it either unless i want to get ungraded. aaah im really worried that like the guys and stuff will take the piss out of me like haaaaaaa you were so embrassed you went red!!!:/
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ive been there shit i hate speakin infront of classes 2 but this is wah i do and i think it helps...

1st breath in n out...chillax...:]

2nd look 4 an empty desk or spot i the room 2 focuse on....

3rd start reading or w/e look up at the empty spot 4rm time 2 time so your teacher thinks your giving eye contact....;]

4th dnt worry ull do fine...

any more questions feel free 2 ask!:D

14 girl xuya...


this guy i really care about and he cares for me
well. my boyfriend.
he lets me go at my own pace. he never pushes me to do things
but we've been talking about me giving him a handjob
and he wasnt being pushy really
he kept saying that i dont have to and that its up to me
so i finally agreed to give him one next week
and he was really really happy and kept saying how much it meant to him that id make a sacrifice for his happiness
well i dont do these things
and now i feel really uncomfortable about it
but i feel like if i tell him i changed me mind he'll be dissapointed in me

and i feel like i cant talk to my friends because theyre just going to say dont do it if he cares about you he'll understand

and he wont make me do anything he'll just be sooo dissapointed
he always does things for me
not physically, but to make sure im okay

i dont know what to do
please dont tell me that im not ready if im having second thoughts

i just

i need help
i think if i knew how to give one properly i wouldnt be as nervous
he offered to teach me (is that lame)
i researched some things online
but everything looks so complicated lol

any help would be appreciated! (link)
ive never done that 2 but heres wah i think...:]


keep in mind your in control here so if you dnt want 2 say not right now at this moment or tell him your not sure how to he cant tell or like you said show you how he likes it done...its not lame no girls born knowing how its something you do till you i guess know how....lol...but yeah and if thats wah is making you think twice then get past it and do it and let him know your kinda scared he sounds nice so hell understand so take ay sugestions he gives you...:]

and good luck (ps,be gentle...lol)

14 girl xuya....


so i have serious confidence issues when it comes to men. if i dont know them or are a bit wary of them or even just in an uncomfortable situation. i freeze up. i wont talk, make eye contact or even talk to my girl friends till they've gone.

if it gets really bad i will start shaking and sweating pretty much uncontrollably. i will usually make an excuse and leave. i fear being left alone with a lad.

that is my worst nightmare as i cant handle the conversation and make a fool of myself which just makes me feel even worse. i just want to be rescued.

its never the individual's fault its just cos there are male. stupid i know but i have very irrational and fucked up thought processes.

i have never revealed the extent of this problem to anyone although i have briefly mentioned it to a few people.

the reasons may be to do with the lack of male presence in my life growing up. (my dad left when i was 4.)

i want to overcome it as im restricting myself to half of the population. im also desperately lonely and would love someone to talk to and be at ease with. my friends are great but they all have boyfriends so i tend to get pushed aside.

i dont know how to overcome it. but i know i want to do it. its just that im soooo scared.

any help??
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ok ill keep it short and simple...1st slap your self in the face relax breath in and out ok your chillax now right...ok! now when you see a guy and want 2 talk 2 em or they talk 2 them but get the jidders just stare at the tip of their nose itll look like your giving eye contact...you juat have 2 realize youll never get a boyfriend or guy friends if you dnt even talk 2 the opposite sex so just go 2 the mall w/ friends and practice just look at a guy 4rm far away and smile then move on look and smile look and smile...then you can go 2 a look smile and wave hi look smile and wave hi! k! its no big deal just pretend youve know them 4 years and relax...when talking just use short sentences keep it short and sweet..:]
most important believe in oyur-self you can do it i know you can! so go get em girl!!!>:]


14 girl call me xuya...need any more help just ask!=]


My boyfriend has been perfectly fine all day, and just a minute ago he came back from the bathroom complaining that his eye was burning and itching. He also said that when he looked in the mirror there was pus all inside of it. He managed to get the pus out, but it has continued to itch and burn. My mom told us to put eye drops in it, and that it would more than likely clear it up, but it just made things much worse on him. Now his eye is just burning. He is also complaining of breathing problems and blurred vision. We have recently been to a creek with massive amounts of poison ivy, oak, and sumac, and I am extremely allergic to all three, so naturally I have one of them (or possibly all of the above) all over me. He claims to not be allergic to Ivy, but is unsure about Oak and Sumac. He also has a bit of what looks to be one of the afore mentioned on his...well...privates. Any ideas what this could be? I'm pretty sure its a poison plant of some sort, but mom says its probably just something in his eye. And, if at all possible could you tell me what kind of treatments could be used to help? I appreciate any advice.

Thanks. :) (link)
Im no doctor but looks like you should get him @ a doctor quick!!!!>:O



14 GIRL XUYA...


okay for about a few years now, me and my friend make eachother stuff for holidays and birthdays.so far we've both done collages in frames,bulletin boards, and scrap books. so basically her birthday is coming up and im so out of ideas on what i should do. any ideas!? (link)
how bout a beed bracelet neckles toe rings ancklet or a painting make her something out of clay or make her a scarf nit it...or go 2 the beach collect some shells make her a shell neckles that would be pretty!:]


hope i helped...:] 14 girl xuya....:)


Okay, So there is this Guy who I totally like. And I want to know if he likes me back. Here is how he acts.

1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"

So Does he like me? Also, It seems like he's kind of flirting. So when he is Doing all of this, what do I do back? Thankss(: (link)
nope...he dsnt like you...now thats wah a complet retard would say!!!:o look he so completly likes you its all the signs and the fact that he said ive never been 2 your house is the fact hes tryin 2 tell you he likes you so do me a favor and if you like him then ask him out!!!:]

and when he flirts flirt back duh!

hope i helped any more questions feel free 2 ask!

xuya 14 girl..:]


16/f
okay so.. in our youth group there's like 4 guys (it's a small youth group). but anyways, i've hooked up with one of the guys lets call him A. A liked me a lot i'm pretty sure and i kinda liked him back. then there's B. my best friend hooked up with B. they really liked each other and he wanted to ask her out but she didn't wanna go out with him. but anyways.. now B likes me. and he's gonna ask me out and he like got me this really pretty necklace and stuff (my friends told me this). my best friend says she doesn't care if i go out with him.. but he was her first hook up and i would feel bad. and also i don't really want to go out with him. but here's the question.. would it be wrong if i just hooked up with him? because he's a really great person and he's attractive and stuff but i just don't really want a relationship for the summer because there's a few other guys i'm interested in. but then again i don't know if i should because i don't want to be like the 'slut of the youth group' having hooked up with 2 of the guys. ya know? i'm mostly just worried about my best friend caring even though she says she doesn't. but here's the catch.. one of my other best friends has never made out before. so B told her he would hook up with her so she would get the experience. my other friend told her it was fine. so would it be ok if i hooked up with him too? she said it was but i still feel like she kinda likes him a little just because it was her first time and i dont know it just feels wrong.
THANKS (link)
i say if you dont feel something 4 the guy dnt guys can be just as emotional as girls they have feelings 2 so if its just 4 good looks dnt because what if some other guy or 1 of teh 1s you like ask you out while your w/ him you brake up w/ him and hurt hes feelings and use him...so just dnt accept the neckles and say i just want 2 be friends is that ok?...and if the hes like yes he might say i still want you 2 keep it you can choose 2 keep it or not...i wouldnt he might get the wrong pic and think you kida like him...so yeah...hope i helped :]


xuya 14 girl...:]


16/f
ok so my friend is leaving for camp on sunday and she told her other friend from camp that she wouldn't go back to camp without having made out. so there's this kid who told her he would hook up with her... lets call him A. but she was too scared to do it. so i told her i would hook up with a different guy.. lets call him B if she hooked up with A. and she said fine. well the thing is.. i actually really like B and he likes me too. but we're like best friends and i feel like it would be really awkward. i don't know if it will like ruin our friendship or not. i know it probably will once we stop liking each other but what about now? i just don't know if i should go through with it or not.. even though i really want to. this would happen today so i'm like freaking out and stuff. HELP! (link)
k look i like this guy 2 damn i wish i could be doin tat w/ him....;] sorry anyways! so look you like him he likes you so whats the problem? right now i think is th eperfect time 4 you 2 ask him out then if you brake up you say can we still be friends but well hit that when you come 2 that 4 ow just keep your focuse on him and just ask him out you be happy and itll work out 4 the both of you...:]


14 girl call me xuya!:]


I have a friend who constantly needs attention. It was my friends birthday, but she made everyone pay attention to her. She thinks she's above everyone, and is 'different' just to be 'different', rather than being herself completely. I know thats a complicated concept. Anyway, the other day she was being mad annoying and i told her to be quiet and she blew up on me. She just recently told me how boring I am, so I think its my turn to tell her how attention-seeking she can be. Any suggestion? (link)
oh god i kow wah you are talkin bout i have had friends like that and boy do they piss me off!!!
:[ this wah ive done and its worked 4 me...


when she wants attention or is tryin 2 be the center of attention bud i cut her off if shes talkin and say "so on 2 something else"...but if you cant be that mean then just say something at random aytihng i mean it!:] "bananas" people will be like wah? you say i like bananas then you say wah do you like? then itll be like a game and your friend will be out of the spot light....as 4 telling her off bout her stupid big ego....just..

look "name" your real cool and crap and your a good friend


15/f

ive recently realized that i have a hard time talking about myself and my problems to my friends. sometimes i feel like my problems are too boring or too weird compared to other peoples' problems.

for example, way one of my problems that i wish i could talk about is this problem itself. but i feel like i'll be judged badly and im scared that nobody will be interested long enough in what im saying to help me through it.

honestly, the only problem im comfortable with sharing is boy problems because there are so many diff ways you can go with it, and it is "socially acceptable" to have boy problems. everybody has them and boys are fun to talk about! but i dont really have that many boy problems, and its pretty boring to talk about one problem all the time.

ive never really let myself become vulnerable before, you see, so right now im trying to learn.so i just need advice on how to do this. thanks. (link)
k...i know its hard trusting people but take a chance go 2 your closest friend and tell them your issue its not like theyll ignore you trust me theyll b there 4 you when you mostly need it they always are...especialy if you listen 2 there problems so just be open and honest w/ him or her...practice on a stuff animal if you need 2 its ok alot of people have this issue i had it once 2...:] so chillax and go 4 it!:)

14 girl call me xuya!:D


i want to know if

1) a septum peircing hurts, and if it does; how badly?

2) same for getting your belly button peirced. (link)
both my sisters have there bellybuttons peirced n there septums....well they say bellybuttons hurt more because its skin soft skin...as 2 your septum thats part of your nose so its cartilage like your ears...so it still hurts but not as much and it also depends how well you hadle pain...:]

hope i helped...:)

14 girl xuya....


srry if its too long

14/f yeah ..
so i tried out for my high school cheerleading team and i made it. i trust my coach cuz i know her outside of cheerleading but idk if i should tell her about cutting.i dont want her to tell my parents and i dont want anyone talking about it on the team if you catch my drif with the cheerleader-cutter thing. the scars are kinda easy to see and i cant cover them with bracelets like usual soo what should i do?

HELP?! (link)
if you are still cuting then yes i think you should tell some 1 but if you realy are close 2 your coach then tell her if not you can go 2 a counselor or some other person your parents or even a friend...if you stoped cuting then i realy dnt think you need 2 tell any 1 if you stoped... just put a lil foundation on it...there are also so bleaching creams you can buy and use 2 make the scarres fade away...4 now hows a bout band aids?:]

hope i helped...:]

xuya 14 girl...:)




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