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Hey guys I am Emily. I am a person who always tries to be her best and loves giving people advice. It comes natural to me. So I really hope you ask me a question because I know I could make a great effort to help you. I have already helped many and have seen really good feedback. Alright I hope to hear from y'all soon. :):):)
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i've been tasting a bitterness in my mouth for 2 days now.. has this every happened to anyone else before? (link)
Yes this has happened to many of my close friends, but never to me. It is common, normal , and yes it goes away. It couldn't last forever! I hope you feel better soon! GOOD LUCK!!!


does anyone know some really sad songs,
like ones that you listen to by yourself when your sad and sometimes even make yu cry?
just for a friend who likes sad songs
thanks (link)
Well there is that one song at the end of the Narinia "Prince Caspian" movie that made me very sad. There are many sad songs on the internet. Look on Youtube, or even Google. Trust me I look for sad songs often. ;) GOOD LUCK!!!


18/f - 19/m

Two weeks ago I got my period two weeks early. I thought it was just because I had gotten my first pap, but I don't know. So, I'm expecting my period this week. Except it's already two days late. My boyfriend and I sleep together on a regular basis, so I know I'm at risk of pregnancy. I just don't know if that could be it. Twice now the condom has broken, and twice we haven't used one. One time when we didn't use one, we were both intoxicated and I don't know if he pulled out on time, although I know he did pull out. I guess what I'm asking is: Can my missed period just be because I got it two weeks early, or .. am I pregnant (only a test can really tell that. And if I don't have my period by Christmas Eve, then I'm taking a test then)?

Thank you. (link)
Well from what you tell me, your missed periods,and since you have unprotected sex, condoms breaking,and sleeping with your boyfriend frequently I think it is a great possibility that you are indeed pregnant. But like you said only a test can proove it. For surely take the test. HOPE YOU GET THE RESULTS YOU ARE SEEKING!!!


I am studying abroad in China for college... I need any tips or suggestions for going to China.

Can I use my phone?
An adaptor/converter for electronics?
Certain colors to wear or not wear?
Is there a variety of american food to eat there?
Friendly?
Clean?

Those are just some ideas, any tips are welcome (link)
Well I am sure not any China expert but there are sure to be many books,phone apps,and internet links,that could help you pick topics and write them. GOOD LUCK!!!


I have known this guy on my work. We became very close friends and we were like always together during our work. Our coworkers are always telling us that we're hiding something from them. They thought that we were lovers but we are not. They always tell me that this guy likes me because he always look at me and that they can see it in his eyes. But I'm not thinking that way because I know that he's just sweet to everyone. Sometimes when he is talking to my friends, he is calling them by my name like "Hey Dahlia, oh sorry I mean Katie".. I want to believe that this guy likes me but I don't want to expect. I can feel it sometimes that I am special to him but I just don't want to misunderstood what he's doing. He was always talking to me, always making me smile when I'm sad and just sweet.
I resigned on my work last week. After that he didn't talk to me again. He said that I'm just too rude. Our workmates told me that he's mad at me. Until now, he doesn't talk to me. I miss him and I just realized by now that I have already fallen for him. I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same. Help me!! Thank you so much in advanced.. (link)
Well first of all your co-workers may not ALWAYS be telling the truth, but then again they could be. I would maybe just walk right up to him and talk to him yourself. It seemes like he is a sweet guy, and if you have really fallen for him, it should be worth it. GOOD LUCK!!!


I'm with this guy, and he's pretty much amazing, hasn't made me feel better then any guy. ever. Things are going great, when we're together. Many things keep us apart.

Having to do with his mom, who is a alcoholic/drug addict, and always wants total control over him. He's almost 17 yrs. old. Has a curfew of 9p.m. or sooner all the time. She always wants him to do stuff for her. No matter what. And she loves me, she thinks I'm a sweetheart and is happy he found me. Just seems she doesn't care so much that we are together. All she cares about is money, herself, and everything surrounding her own life. And marrying a massive old man for his money.

On top of that, him and I got wasted last night. I mean wasted. And he was with me, his mom said it was alright he stayed the night and such. I saw text messages from his "soon to be sister" that's 17. And she flirts like crazy with him! Stuff like, oh sweetie I'm gonna get you this for christmas;)" Just a bunch of flirting and stuff, and it upset me. Because that's absolutely wrong! She has a boyfriend on top of that too. And she's just flirting with my boyfriend insanely. It made me a bit upset. I mean you can't blame me, right?

Well anyways, I texted her and my exact words were polite and courteous: " Hey this is Annabelle, i heard you been flirting with my boyfriend, and i find that really wrong if you are, look i have no problem with you, and i'm just asking, but if you are please stop, and thank you." exact words.

5 min. later his mom CALLS. Not me. My boyfriend. She says you need to get home now, I'm coming to get you. I heard every word. She said if your girlfriend wants to be a smart ass. I can be a bitch. I was like OMG. What did I do? I started bawling my eyes out, then she started accusing us of being drunk, and I apologized to her and everything. She just kept saying more things that were out of line. And she was drunk herself!! So I drank more, so much more, and passed out to the ground. I was done with. Just everything was incredibly messed up because of me. It's all my fault. So now, my boyfriend's mom made him go to the cop shop get a breathalizer and stuff. He got a minor consumption. Got his phone taken away.

Haven't talked to him for 2 days now. EVERYTHING is ruined. His mom is insane. Literally. I am so stuck, I don't know what to do. Never felt like this before. I'm so confused, I need him. It's all my fault. Someone please help me. Thank you. (link)
Dearie it is so sad what you have said. I personally think you have every right to feel this way. Nothing was your fault hun. I really don't have any advice that will make this all better. I don't think many people do. I would suggest to ask for some expert help. I am very sorry. GOOD LUCK!!!!


I go to school in Indiana, so there is always some snow in the winter...soo I am looking for a good pair of shoes that are CUTE but are good for the winter. suze 10 ish...No heels, and not boots, perferrably black...i'm really just looking for a style of shoe..i really dont know what to wear! (link)
Well, I ain't any shoe expert, but I know that there are many out there! Give them this description and they could help you! ( I actually just had a brainstorm. Uggs. They are cute,come in dark and light colors , no heels, and are great for winter.) GOOD LUCK!!!


Is it normal to worry a lot about someone when you're in a relationship with them?

Been around 2 years and I worry a lot about something happening to him...like if he's not with me and stops texting me for an hour or so I worry that he got into a car accident or something (not ridiculous, he drives really fast sometimes and often drives very tired).

It's under control, I don't like call him freaking out or anything, but I still worry. Is this normal or not? (link)
Well yes , it isn't like it isn't human to worry! When you worry about your sweetheart, it just goes to show how much you love him. Maybe he is just busy when he isn't texting you. I'm not really sure what else to say on that topic, but maybe he would understand if you talked to him about it. GOOD LUCK!!!!


16/female

so, last time i had sex was halloween. two weeks later i got my period right. and then now this month i was late for my period 2 weeks late, but i had it for like half a day now its gone? and i been on bc for 2 months only if that helps? idk man im scared cause i don get why this is happening!?!?!?!? please help (link)
Well no one can really tell you what you are going through except for a doctor. But if the last time you had sex was halloween and your worrying about a strange period schedule now, chances are you may not be pregnant. But if you are concerned ask a doctor that you know could help. :) GOOD LUCK!!!


Does anyone know where I can watch seasons 5 and 6 of Judging Amy online for free?

Thanks!
*I've already checked youtube (link)
Well I would check Google or even Youtube again. Most people have links in the description box where you can watch what you want. GOOD LUCK!!!


14/m

There is this girl in my 1st Hour Class. She seems like a nice person and all but i wanna be her friend and maybe more. How can i start a conversation with her to lead us to friends and them maybe more? (link)
Well this is a common situation to be honest. The best thing to do is to just break your shell and talk to her. If she seems like a nice person, then it should be just fine. Good luck!!!




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