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I'm not sure what to think. This guy that I'm kinda friends with imed me a little while ago and said that he was taking a survey, so I was like..ok.. then he goes, it's just one question. so, I was like, ok, go ahead. he said what would you do if i asked you out? (and he said he already got 2 other girls to take it)and so I go maybe..maybe not.. lol. I don't know if he was really doing a survey or not though, cause he wentaway after I said that. What do ya'll think? Should I im him back and say something else?
Thanks for your help! I rate 5's for nice answers!
*confused*

just ask him about it if hes a nice guy he wont be rude about it sounds like he does like you though in one way or another




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hey,
ok my boyfriend, Ben told me to call him in a half hour like, 45 minutes ago. His ex *who is my friend* Grace told me that she knows Ben and that i should play hard to get. Funny thing is, they broke up so i dunno if i should listen to her. She said just wait for him to call me, but i dont want him to think i'm dissing him. should i listen to Grace? PLEASE HELP! I'LL RATE HIGH!!!

deff dont listen to her but before you get involved to far make sure he doesnt have feelings for her anymore if you want to call do it be confident and dont listen to what other girls tell you unless you can one hundred percent trust them

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How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon!

first kiss' are the best with every new person you meet or date with my boyfriend right now who ive been with for six months i just did it went right in and kissed him signs just werent working with him he didnt realize how dying i was to kiss him so i did it some good things that let him know your thinking about it might be like lots of kissing on the cheek. and if you want to kiss him get your fourheads real close as your talking and when your ready kiss him and can be a peck first then see what his reaction is then you can kiss him again




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ok well me and my boyfriend have been goin out now for awhile but he still eyes other girls like we were on the phone and he was like oo shes soo hot I was like wtf?! and i told him i didnt like it but he cared for like two minutes I know he loves me and he tells me so. that just gets me I really dont see him were in seperate grades hes one grader younger hes my age but he started late.but he knows I box and fight and if theres som1 else i'd kill them same with me if I was with som1 else he'd beat the shit out of them and we love each other we play games on the phone and we see each other like on a daily basis like i go over to his house and we hav lots of fun weve known each other for almost three years and idk if we should go further in our realationship I dont want him to just think i'm here for a kissing partner or A booty call help me i'm totally confused
I'm 13 and i'm female(obviously) lol

if you really love this kid tell him its normal for him to look at girls if hes only 13 but tell him to keep it to himself. and as for going further is you mean sex of some sort you should wait thirteen is realllly young and sex realllly mess' with stuff if you getting mad about him looking at girls and if hes doing it you two are not mature enough no offense but although it doesnt seem it it is alot easier to wait











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ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!

watch full house telling is the right thing to do

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I have a guy friend and I think we mutually like each other. The thing is, I won`t see him next year. What's an easy way to give him my # [don`t say email address/instant messanger] and what`s a way to do it without looking awkward.

when your engaged in a conversation just say i love talking to you lets keep in touch next year and it will go from there

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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!

Haywired Body??

deffinitly talk to you mom it is normal however you make skip your period all the time i knew someone who had two periods a month for a little while. so dont worry let your mom and it will probably be something stupid.


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how long is a good amount of time to give a guy a blow job for? i've given them before but i dont know when to stop .. so i wanted to know like how many minutes or just until he cums?

till he cums but if you get tired just let him know im sure hell understand

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this is so typical it kills me.....

i have liked this guy for the whole school year, we became really good friends and he found out i liked him and it brought us closer.. then he liked someone else. she broke his heart and now he hates her.. we became friends again and i thought things were going in the right direction and now i just find out my friend likes him and she didnt tell me , when she knows i have liked him for a long time (supposedly shes like him this long too) and now he has a "crush" on her, but he doesnt like her.. i dont understand..

what should i do?

thanks

id be soooo mad but ignore that confront them ask your friend what is wrong with her i had a friend who always copied everyone finally we just told her to be her own person it works. then i would make sure the boy knows you also like him if he goes out with her however i wouldnt let yourself be sloppy seconds cus then the dumping is all the harder on both parts


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when it comes to swimming i get very self concious! people think im skinny because at school i squeeze in all the time. but i love to wear2 peice bathingsiuts because if i weara 1 peice ill be the only oneand look like a geek. i have a little flab. what should i do

if its a constant dislike of your body just start exercising regularly its hard at first to get a rythm but youll learn to love it because it makes you feel better about yourself and if its just during swim,,,,,its your time of the month:)

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I have a blushing problem. Whenever I think about blushing or see my crush, I start blushing. My friends are like "your face is always red!" It's become like a habit now. How can I stop blushing like this?

when you think about it youll do it make it into joke. one time i got really embarressed when my fly was down but instead of showing it i said its the new trend and i let it go until noone was looking everyone laughed


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Well, I met this boy through a friend..and me and him went out. I was shallow and wouldnt stay with him..it was about 3 years ago. and then we stopped talking and then started talking again..he was having problems at home and moved in with my family (hes 17 now). We became the best of friends..then all of the sudden "poof" he left out of NO WHERE. and now we are talking and stuff and i really miss him. i told him i didnt want him to leave and that i miss him. but do you have any ideas on how to really hit him on how much he hurt me? i need the help. That boy means alot to me, and i dont want the only person that was ever there to go away..

thanx

what you said up there is what you should say to him ive found (through experience) that when you love someone that much theres a good chance they love you back just as much be totally honest and express yourself at any point in the convo if you feel things are going wrong just say the phone got disconnected hahaha it does work tho goog luck i know how hard love is

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ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!!

okay well personally only you know if you would be messed up. when i decided to have sex my mom told me that it well metally screw me up i knew it wouldnt so i was fine with having sex if you think for even a second he is going to hurt you in a way you cant take then dont do it but if hes hurt you before it could happen again

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