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i really like this guy.. and he goes to m school.. and he is in a lot of my classes, and i dont know how to tell him i like him what should i do? (link)
make sure you talk to him and get to know him before you decide you like him....maybe hes a total loser...if he isnt...hang out with him more/go to the movies...and then see how it goes from there...


I'm 13/f and I'm a little over 105 pounds. This is pretty normal, and I'm happy with my body, but my tummy has been a little pouchy lately and I want to know how trim it down because my uniform for track is spandex and is really tight and I don't like my stomach sticking out. If you have any ideas what I can do-----plz help!!!!!! (link)
SIT UPS!!!! that is the cure for any tummy...try different exercises like to the side and with your legs straight up...all you need is motivation and time...do about 100 a day...and if you really want to push it, use a weight on your chest..that works really well...listen to music too...it helps pass time...


i cant get it up, what should i do? (link)
think about your mom....that always works...


okay.. what should i wear with my tims so that i dont look completely ghetto-fied..? (link)
you can wear them with plaid pants and a polkadot top....then you wont look ghetto....you'll look like a clown....SAHAR!!!!


i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!* (link)
i personally like herbal products. natural remedies dont harm or dry out your face too much, but they still take away the blemishes. but we have different skin types. if you have ever heard of the store sephora, you know it is a huge makeup/ skin store. there are 2 things in that store that i think will help you the most. first is the Murad line of products. the best one for you would be the solution for Oily/Acne-prone skin. it has everything from a great clenser to moisturizing cream that doesnt clog your pores. this stuff worked really well for my friend who had a lot of acne. another thing that works well is the 10% Benzoyl Peroxide Gel & Sulfur 3% by Doctor's Dermatologic Formula (DDF). this stuff dries out your pimples. it is a miracle worker!! i hope ive helped, and you should deffinatly try one of the two.


theres this guy in my school that i like but i dont see him really often. We dont have any classes together and i only see him through the hallways. I really like him though. The only time i get to really talk to him is online. What should i do now?
Stephanie, 16 (link)
the best thing to do is to invite him to the movies with you and some of your, and his friends. make sure that they arent only your friends because this might make him uncomfertable. talk to him some more and get to know him...if he plays a sport, try complementing him...this makes guys feel good, take it slow, but make sure to flirt!!


Hey,

I have a friend who is having troble with her boyfriend.She told me about one time they were having sex and the condom got stuck in her vagina and she didnt know what to do so she just pulled it out and now she has herpys and it wont go away. she cheated on her boyfriend a few befor with his best friend what do you think i could do to help her? (link)
theres nothing you can really do to help her...you can tell her she isnt doing the right thing and that it isnt right...she is the one who is supposed to make her own decisions. as for cheating on her bf...i would tell him..it isnt fair for him not to know. you can tell her that cheating on her boyfriend isnt fair for him adn that she could put him and his best friends friendship in jeoperdy!! the most important thing to remember though, is that none of this is your fault...


hey
i have this guy friend that i like to talk to and get along with really well. ive liked him for sometime now but dont know how to tell him i like him. i dont know if the feeling is both ways, but we do flirt. what do i do? (link)
do you have any friends who are good friends with him??? if so...do what girls do best! ask her to ask him if he likes you...dont have her jump all over him, but have her act normal, if not, ask him to go to the movies with you...or hang out more often, tell him that one of your friends thinks you guys make a cute couple...see what he says...dont come off and tell him right away cause you dont know the sutuation real well...talk to him more and keep on flirting...that never hurts ;)


I decided to get a hair cut today but I don't what kind i want! I have dirty blonde hair and it's very long! I'm 17 and a female! Any suggestions? (link)
ok...i had long hair and i decided to cut it off and donate it...the thing that i did was i cut it so that its long enough to put in a ponytail, but the fronts are shorter. you dont have to get it cut as short...then i got highlights and lowlights to bring out my face...my hair is so cute and everyone else loves it too...hope ive helped!!!
~sara~


say you like someone, and they like you too, but they are already going out, and the guy is your friend, what do you do?

kill the guy?
kill yourself?
cry every day for five hours?
none of the above? (link)
its ok to like someone whos going out with another person...but out of all the answers you gave, none of the above is the best. stay friends with the girl, if you feel comfertable tell her how you feel. you never know, maybe shell break up with the guy cause she likes you more. on thing you dont want to do is tell her to break up with him...this could get both her and your friend mad. all i can tell you is once she breaks up with him...make your move
sara


ok last valentines day my b/f took me to buy a puppy. i wanted the first one i saw a little pekinese puppy. i was purebred so he paid 900.00 for the dog. i've never had a dog before just cats and i didn't know what i was getting myself into. now i can't stand the dog. i can't train it to go to the bathroom outside, its super hyper, jumps on my son and tries to hump him. i can't imagine how much it would cost to fix him. i want to get rid of the dog but my b/f doesn't. we're constantly fighting about it. any suggestions on what to do? (link)
dont dump the dog just because your having a hard time with it in the begginging. i have 3 dogs and all 3 took a long time to train...you just have to be patient and understanding. when you see that it needs to go to the bathroom, take it out right away. when it does go in the house, show him that he did something wrong, the more love you show, the more he'll give...




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