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ok.. i am overweight and i eat like.. unhealthy foods.. well.. i want to eat salads when i am in school.. but i mean.. since im overweight people might make fun of me for eating a salad.. or anything healthy.. so i just dont eat.. i want to eat something healthy.. but i dont want people to laugh and dont say.. 0h.. just be happy with urself.. bla bla bla.. only if u know what to do.. write back.. ill rate you go0d

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who cares what people say, if thats what u want to eat, eat it. they may give you crap for it for that lunch pd,but they'll get over it...promise

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hey i need help. i like this guy, but only as a friend with benifets and i said a joke and it made him mad and now he wont talk to me. please help!!

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appologize for the joke and if that doesnt help, ask him straight forward why he's still not talking to you! thats just rude! haha good luck

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School is starting soon and that means yearbook pictures! im so nervous mine is gonna look bad...is there any way to like practice to make sure u look good or what?

look confident in ur pic and u will look great!

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ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we arent going out. so he tells me he loves me and i say it back, and it becomes a regular thing. so then today, hes leaving and i say i love you and he doesnt say it back. i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to come right out and say why didnt you say i love you too like you always do...any ideas to hint to him?
thanks

being straight forward is always the best way to do it. jsut ask him flat out... all the extra stuff just confuses things

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how do i know if i need a bra?

if ur thinking about getting one, then u prob need one

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Ok i got my period and i have really really bad cramps. i had such bad ones that i threw up 4 times and i had just taken medicine so i threw it up. Also when i sleep i wake up like every hour because it hurts so bad. What is something i should take or do??

try heating pad...or go to the doctor

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Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches!

Well, if he is dating your friend, its probably not best to flirt with him too much. Some people, once they are good friends with someone, they dont want to date them. Try dating other people or try to get over him. If its easier, just try to stop looking at him as more than a friend, jsut look at him as a bug...good luck!

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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


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boy in denile

sounds like this girl is a bitch and u dont need her. you are way to sweet to try to take that from her

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i feel so dumb..anyways..what am i suppose to do? like when my b/fs givin me a hickey or kissing me somewhere other than my mouth or doing other things..yah you know..umm like i dont know how to describe it, i just sit there like "duh"..what are some things to do to actually acknowledge what he's doing, show him that i like it, or idk..lol anything so that i'm just not sitting there..
please help..i'll rate :)

wow, isnt this the most awkward situation? if you dont know how to react to it, then that obviously means ur not too into it. if u were, u would know what to do! talk to him, and if thats too weird, then when he goes for ur neck, go for for his lips...good luck

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Im sorrie to bug you, kuz i dont know you or anytihng but i was reading your columns an you have helped alot of people out, so i was wondering if you could tell me if i did the right thing here....I lyked this guy for a relle long tyme, an we were koo friends buh not anything more...we saw eachother lyke every weekend an stuff..an then he started lyken mai twin sister, so i stopped lyking him. well the middle of this skewl year he transfers to my skewl, an we became closer friends, an i started lyking him alot. me and him were always together an everyone would ask about 'us' and if we were a couple or anything, an he would be lyke yah this is mai lady an stuff...then he started going out with this girl from another skewl, an i was relle bummed...so i juss gave him his space, buh lyke we became closer an stuff kuz he'd always kome kikk it wit me lyke after skewl an stuff. he always talked about me 'sharing' him wit his gf an i was always lyke no ur either mine or ur hers u kno? well he finally understood that, an after not talkn to her for a week thought she would get the point that he didn't want to be wit her, an told me that they broke up. me and him started talking, and i kind of new that she thought they were still together but it didn't really bug me. me and him were together 24/7 an to everyone we were a couple...well one day one of mai friends tried to commit suicide and i was relle messed up. i was talkn to him through text messages, an he told me that he finally officially broke it off wit that girl. it made things better, kuz he juss kept telling me how much he wanted to be wit me an that when we saw eachother that night that we were gon get together. well that night i was kinda all quiet an juss sitting with one of my friends kuz i was still sad about my friend that tried to commit suicide. he came over an asked to talk to me and with an attitude asked what he did and i told him it wasn't him. then he was lyke ok w.e. got up an left...well that was the last tyme we really talked...things were soo hard for me to watch him walk through the halls an not notice me anymore, buh i started to act lyke i didn't care. he started being really mean to me, an then one day it was lyke he was the nice guy i knew before...then he hooked up wit this girl, an i was really depressed about everything in lyfe so it juss brought me to tears. he came over to me an gave me a hug an ask'd if i wanted to talk about it not knowing its bekuz he had broken my heart. an i wouldn't talk to him. he kept trying to make me feel better throughout the day, buh nothing worked. he later broke up wit that girl and wanted to be all over me agen an i wouldn't let him...then skewl was over an i guess it kinda juss put me in a hole...the beginning of summer i was depressed all of the tyme. i knew i had to get over him, buh i always thought things would be soo much easier if i just had the ballz to talk to him. i tried to find the streangth to do so but never could. im sorrie this is soo long, buh i juss relle want to know what i should do...juss get over him completely, or try to talk to him!? sorrie for bugging you, an thanks for your tyme...

Well, it sounds like this kid has some serious problems with making up his mind. I was once in your position. I know how u feel when u say that u get upset about it...its not easy to let someone that u cared about so much go. but heres what u have to do..u gotta let go. even when he says he likes you, you still seem upset. if you want, talk to him about it, but make sure you are completely open about it. dont hold anything back. they best advice that someone has ever given me, was to just do what makes me happy. and thats pretty much what u have to do. he sounds like a jerk to me, but i know how easy it is to fall for those jerks...good luck, and let me know how things go!

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