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E-mail: ellie_krystof@yhaoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Occupation: Life is Hell
Age: 15
Yahoo: ellie_krystof@yahoo
MSN: Monica_Klee@hotmail
Member Since: April 7, 2008
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Last Update: May 9, 2008
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For a few years now, I have suffered from paranoia. It has been controlling my life, and it is annoying. Some examples are:
1. I am terrified of germs. If I leave a water bottle in my room even for 5 minutes, and I come back to get a sip, I wont drink it- in fear that someone else has sipped out of it. This even happens when I am home alone.
2. At night, I wake up and go to the door and turn the knob twelve times, and then I push the lock back and forth for one minute.
There are also other odd things I do, but that is beside the point. I was wondering, is it paranoia? How can I control it, so it does not control me?

well this might be over compulsive disorder but dont worry its completely normal

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ok, i "used" to be a cutter, please dont go on telling me how wrong it is.. i know and have heard it all before.. i have been cutting myself since i was 11-12 years old.. im 19 now.. and i have been really good lately with the whole cutting thing.. not doing it and having the will power to get over the feeling to do it.. but lately.. i feel so AAAHHHHH and just feel like i need to do it, i really dont want to.. i have been doing so well, and dont want to be that person anymore, but i just cant get it out of my head. i am fighting the urge to do it, and i just feel like i cant fight it anymore.. i dont know what to do.. most poeple dont know i do it, and those that know about it.. think im better.. so i really have no one i can go to.. without putting dissapointment on their faces.. i have no where to go, no one to turn to.. and i really want help, because i dont want to do it anymore.. but i dont know what to do.. everything is becoming a mess again in my life.. and i feel like i need it, and im afraid i cant fight the urge anymore..

and thoughts or ideas of how i can deal with this.. anything.. just any little thing you can think of? would be most gratey appreciated!!

well it jus soo happens that i had the same problem and im 15 i mean its a stress helper and it really helps but no matter what or how much stress you MUST find something else to do weither its playin with an animal or pacing back and fourth. Make a list of coping skills or things that help you jus keep your self busy with theriputic things

write how it goes

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what does friends with benefits mean?

you get extra benifits like kissin hugin and holdin hand and even if ur ready then touchin.without it meaning anything

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13 f
well i wanna babysite kids cause i like doing that so what age do you think i can babysite at?i already have experience with my neice and nephew

to show your parents that you are ready by doing your chores,cooking and show that your resbonsible.

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for a while now i have been getting really horny and all i want is for someone to eat me out. like i am almost tempted to ask some random neighbor hood boy to eat me out and i dont even talk to him. so should i go for it? or should i try to fight the feeling? and also how can i fight the feeling?

talk to your friends and even family even your mom would understand your feelings..

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There's this one guy I know and I have had, like, the MAJOR hots for him...I know that he knows that I like him...But there's a problem. I get super nervous around guys that I like. Most of the time, I'm outgoing and bubbly, as my friends say, but like I said...It only happens when I'm around guys that I like.
I can't seem to get enough courage to talk to him or even stand by him! I need help, fast!
Does anyone have some tips that I can use to get around this obstacle and make my move?!?

*Abra Apocalypse*

F/15

dont ever let your..um problems with communicating distract you from the one you love.Practice with a brother,doll,dad or even a picture or mirror of him and if that doesnt work try writing him a note

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17/f

I really really like this guy at school. I haven't even talked to him yet coz i'm too scared haha.

I haven't dreamed in about 5 years until a little while ago and just lately I dream every night and I wake up quite frequently. Every single night I dream about him. What can this mean?

well it could mean various things maybe your obsessing a lil bit too much.Jus chill for a lil while and try to stay away and if the dreams keep happening then maybe you should actually try to tlk to him

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ohkay well i have this boyfriend and i have been with him for a year and i really do love and care for him but i ran into my middle school crush the other day and it turns out he is a major hottie. and i was up talking to him almost all night. i think i kinda like him.

i love my boyfriend now, but how do i know if i wouldnt love the other guy just as much?

what should i do? jeeez....


17-f

well i think it all depends rate on a scale of 1-10 and you will know your true lover also try to think who would be there for you the most

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Hi, i haven't started my period yet, and i am really worried it's going to start in the middle of a school day, or even worse PE!!! I know to carry a pad with me, and i do, and i were thin panti-liners just incase, but i was wondering if there is any signs i may be starting soon? I have a feeling i might be starting soon, but i dont know whether it is just me being silly! Also i get a monthly discharge, just like a period, but it's not blood. I'm 13

hi umm i think that wearing black helps me and it might help you also you will notice it comming when you start getting like really bad cramps and your really hot

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