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Well. Lets start with my name. My name is Whitney. I'm 13 years young. I'm pretty cool if I say so myself. Most likely, I'll stereotype you, place you into a group, and judge you; So prove me wrong & show me who you really are. My favorite stores are Ruehl, Nordstroms, & Rearends; but, I'm not scared to be seen in a salvation army. It's kind of like, if I see something I like, I'll get it. I am my own person. I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet, or the meanest. My favorite color is brown. I'm allergic to cats, but I have three. My friends mean the world to me, and my sister is my major role model. If I'm having a bad day, watch out. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when people drop things in my inbox. I WILL try my hardest to answer your questions & give the best advice I can. I'm not too good with relationship problems, only because its hard to explain over the internet. I've gone through a lot through these measily 13 years, but I'm telling you, I've got some knowledge.

But anyways, I really hate talking about myself. So I'm done.
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i'm going to a teen night at a club, and i don't know what to wear. where can i go shopping at the mall?

what stores should i go to?
HELP! i'm expecting to dance and make out with guys, so i need to look good

14/f (link)
try going to forever 21.

great clothes;cheap prices.

www.forever21.com

have fun!


What are your opinions on Gauchos (the pants) ? (link)
They are kind of going out of style in my opinion and give girls major wedgies and camel toes-- NASTYY!


I am lately itchy down there and it is really annoying. why am i itchy and what is wrong with me? Thanks in advance.
*Christie* (link)
yo might have a yeast infection.

symptoms;

--itchy
--sometimes sore
--discharge is like chunky [gross i know]
--unusual smell


I am capable of putting eyeliner on the top and the bottom, but what i'm struggling most with is how do you put pencil black eyeliner on the inside of the eyes (the tear ducts, i think)?
Whenever I try to get eyeliner on the inside, it is easily smearing and sometimes goes inside my eye! how do you prevent this? and is there a better explanation of this?
thanx! (link)
It might be that your using a cheaply-made product. Maybe spluge a little and get a MAC pencil. They seem to work well.




My armpits are really red, I'm not sure what its from but i think it might be from a shower gel I got from a friend for Christmas. So, I stopped using that, and my arm pits are less red but its still there on one pit. Also sometimes theres bumps on that armpit. What can I do to make this go away? Its really annoying. (link)
It could be what the person below me said or it might be shave bumps.


Okay...So I have a stomach and I want it gone - FLAT!! Any suggestions?? (link)
eat healthy.
work out.
also, get some common sense :]


okay.
I'm a lesbian, so obviously my girlfriend doesn't have a penis. well, last night we were messing around and she started to finger me. It was getting pretty intense and I started bleeding, pretty bad.

I know that when a girl has sex for the first time she bleeds, but could it happen from being fingered?


It might be gross, and I'm sorry. haha.
But I'm just curious..

Thankyou for your help. (link)
yes.

its called breaking your hymen.. or also known as popping your cherry.


Hi, Im 15 I was thinking I would wear a mini jean skirt, brown leggings, brown uggs, a redish low cute shirt with a pink tank top under the shirt. I would wear this to school. Do you think this sounds ok to wear or is it to weird. If you think its weird can you give me advice on how to make it look cool. (link)
I think it sounds cute but maybe a bit much.

I think the jean skirt with the brown leggins is fine. maybe other shoes though, only because brown and brown might be too much.

I agree wth the girl below me. Wear a white tee shirt, and maybe instead of the brown tank underneath, maybe brown chunky strand[s] of beads.


my exboyfriend just left me, he says he loves me but he thinks its with his head and not with his heart. Hes really confused. Anyway, he's gone back to his exgirlfriend before me. she really doesnt treat him right, shes so mean to me too. Shes cheated on him a few times already. i really want to make him realise that he shouldnt be with her. i dont care who he goes out with but i really dont want to see him in that state again. hes so nice and everything, so he forgives easily, i dont knnow how to help him. apart from her cheating she doesnt treat him right anyway, thanks for those who can help me with this. (link)
say exactly what you just said to us; it was from the heart & truthful.


15/F

I have terrible luck with guys, but I know one through my best friend and we get along amazingly. He likes me back.

The problem is, my best friend likes him as well and he lives about an hour away and she would get to see him more often than me.

She knew him first, but I would have to say I like him more. And he likes me, not her.

Is it wrong for me to try to purse a relationship with him? And would she have reason to be mad at me over this?

Thanks! =) (link)
You cannot help but have feelings for someone. What I think you should do is be honest, and come out and tell her. I would rather hear the truth from my best friend than hear a twisted up story through stupid rumors or people.

Good luck.


i know discharge is really grose and stuff,

but is it okay if you get it everyday inbetween the days you don't have your period?

(everyday, besides the days you actually do have your period) (link)
yes it perfectly normal.

its the way your 'area' cleans itself and helps prevent harmful bacteria


Where can I find boots like these - http://shopimages-ll.alloy.com/images/products/6s8112_blue_large.jpg - in a size 10 or 11?

Please, any help is good for me! (link)
well, they have a catalog [alloy]
they obviously have a website.
maybe try delias?


i really want chanel earrings for christmas that look like http://mocouture.tripod.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/ebaystuds.jpg but i don't want to go to the store and spend like 500 dollars on them. my cousin bought hers at a flea market but they weren't real, but i really don't care if they're real or not. so my question is, where can i buy those earrings under 30 dollars? and does anyone know how much they would be at the flea market? thanks! (link)
there are sometimes stands in the mall [in my mall there are] that sell look a like designer jewelry; mostly an assortment of chanel. the earrings you want are only 20 dollars there.

good luck


why do people kiss when the ball drops??
haha random but yeah thanks (link)
its like the first kiss of the year/


which do you prefer on guys?

tattoos or piercings?

and if either or both...which part of the body?

thanks for reading (link)
niether.
clean cut is the best in my opinion.


which is the best hairstyle for guys?

spiky,skinhead,mohawk,liberty spikes,ponytail,long metalhead,shaggy skater,emo combover,flat and short,center parted,side parted?

also,is there a difference between emo hair and skater hair?

like both styles usually cover the eyes,but i heard that skater hair is more flippy and messy,while emo is just covering the eyes but combed to the side and looks more "prepared" if you get what i mean.can someone pls help to clarify.

thanks for reading (link)
http://www.celebrity-hairstyles.org/men-hairstyles.shtml

just google it.
theres tons of hairstyless out there
and its sorta hard to judge what would look best
because we dont know what you look like


what exactly happens when your water breaks? (link)
congrats, your going into labor.


which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?

thanks for reading (link)
eyes & smile


19/F

All my life I've had very fine, thick, straight light brown hair with natural blonde highlights.

All of a sudden lately, I've been getting coarser, wavy black hair coming in on my head. The overall texture of my hair isn't changing for the most part, but these hairs are driving me nuts!

Is this normal? Will my hair turn black and coarser, or is this just a temporary thing? (link)
If you didn't know, people go through puberty many times. Because all your life, your bodys constantly changing. You might be going through another stage of puberty, thats all.

I use to have pin straight VERY light brown hair, and now, my hair is VERY curly and chocolate brown.

I asked my hair stylist and he said your hair will change more and more, so don't get used to your hair now, because its likely itll change again


ok so my girlfriend im pretty sure she wants to kiss me....but she kissed other guys before and ive never kissed a girl before....and idk i need sum advice on a first kiss...i wanna seem like ive kissed a girl before (link)
Alright. A lot of people are or have been in your position.

Here are some tips.

1. WAIT UNTIL YOUR READY: dont rush it, if you dont think the relationship will workout, why waste your first kiss.
2. YOUR FIRST KISS IS SUPOSED TO BE ROMANTIC: dont kiss in front of people, rumors spread too fast. Make sure your semi by your self, so it can be romantic adna little moment afterwords.
3. STAY RELAXED: Just calm down, you'll probably be nervous, but dont let nerves take control. A kiss [especially your first one] is supposed to be good a memorable... and not from missing her lips and kissing her ear or something. so just relax


good luck.
& happy holidays




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