hahaha i read the answer to the tease question....thats freakin hilarious! "yeah too bad you cant please any"
haha, yeah. thats probably one of my best. thats how i flirt though, and if a guy is going to tell me that im being a bitch? well then thats too bad. ill find someone who can keep up with me. that guy is obviously not worth my time. i do, however have a sweet side, so im not a TOTAL bitch....lol.
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hey well i want to know ways that i could tease a guy to make him want me oven more.
well hell, easy. be a cocky concieted bitch. blow him off for other people. say things that are always related to sex. bust his balls. tease him. make fun of him. call him "punk, loser, brat" sounds odd but it works. play hard to get. not TOO hard, but hard enough. example of something i said last week
guy: so when i get your legs in the air, will they still be tan?
me: and what the hell makes you think youre getting my legs in the air?
or this -
guy: as soon as you see my dick, your mouth will be its second home
me: and whats its first? the palm of your hand?
and last but not least, my personal favorite:
guy: hah, i could get any girl i please
me- yeah.... too bad you cant please any
lol, something along those lines. also - talk about plans with other guys. make him work for you. youre young. hope this helps.
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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?
bring condoms, because if hes not thinkinga bout it, then he wont have them, and thinking about how to get htem will fuck it all up for you. and you dont want to NOT use them. anyway - while youre there, be intimate, be kissing, and then just be in the moment, take some clothes off, and bring them out and say " weve been together for a while, and youre the one i want to lose it to" im pretty sure if his dick isnt hard already itll go "SH-UH-WOING" and youll be all good....lol. thats just how id do it.
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Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him?
i think you should talk to him. guys are different in every relationship. you dont know his reasoning for not telling you, you dont know his reasoning for having sex with these other girls. all you know is that it happpened and youre judging the complete situation before youve even talked ot him about it. TALK TO HIM. the reason he didnt ell you was probably so you wouldnt react lke this. in all honesty if he hasnt tried anything before, i dont think he cares about sex with you. he probably likes you too much as a person. but dont let someones past discourage you from being in their future. people change. and people are different in different relationships. you dont know. he could compltely regret what he did. you need to sit him down adn tll him how you feel, not neccisarrily that youre disugsted, but that youre scared and dont want to do anything with him. if he gives you alot of crap answsers that you dont like, then dump him. but ou really need to talk to him first. i fetl compelled to write this becaue everyone else told you to tak teh easy way out and just break up with him. bu tlike i said dont let somesones past chase you away, because if you do? youll have a HARD Time finding someone.
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i asked that question...not the next question, the one right after it.[thanks for answering lilly_pads79 ,charmed3fanatic, and sublime_burritos(by the way, i love ur name)]....anyway... i want to know, how can i tell if im in love or not. there's another guy i like, but he's good friends with my b/f...i dont no y, but im always going out with guys who are friends with my last b/f...and im just....i guess im blindsided by the fact that i might not love my b/f the way he loves me.
thanx 4 ur help!! i really appreciate it!
if you are dating around all these guys, youre not in love. too many people in this day and age that are like 13-17 think theyre in love with their boyfriend, when in reality its just something to say before you hang up the phone. in all honesty - i dont think youre in love at all. i thnk you mean "i dont LIKE my boyfriend as much as he likes me" im prtty sure if you have to ask this question than you dont klnow what love is. let me give you breif run down of what love is like, because ive been there. with the REAL thing. not the "lets say it before we hang up the phone"
you cant breath when you talk to him.
your stomach gets butterflies everytime you see him.
no matter what, you can never stop smiling,
reality is better hten a dream.
your heart literally hurts. you have a sinking aching feeling to it when youre with or when you think of him.
you dont mind working hard for money to buy him presents. or at chores so you can go see him.
no matter how sad you are, if he just holds you? all your problems go away..
those are just a few of the thigns ive experienced, and they are absolutely wonderful, until you feel things along those lines, youre not in love. sorry. so dont say it. save those words for somoene you really care about.
hope this helped
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alright well i got into a fight with my best of best friends last night and he was yelling at me for something i didnt do, and he said some stuff about me to my friend that was really sweet and she thinks he likes me and i dont.. he was like, "i appologized [i didnt see him appologize cuz it was in a chat and i wasnt looking] and she didnt even say anything i guess im the one who cares and she doesnt" and then he was like, "i know i guess we treat each other bad sometimes but your not with us every second we dont treat eachother that bad" and then i was talking to him and it was when i was super mad and i was like, im starting to think you never liked me in the first place" and hes like, "yeah thats right _ _ _ _ _ _ _ i hate you and i always have? if i hated you why would i spend almost all my time either with you or talking to you online or on the phone?" so then he started talking to my friend and he started talking to me again and he was like, "i appologized" and i was like, "no you didnt" and he was like, "yes i did, in the chat why dont you start listening" and i was like, "im sorry but i wasnt listening in the chat" and he was like, "w/e" and i wa slike, "tell me now, im listening" and he was like, "i said 'im sorry', i said [my name], im sorry. and you just left." and i was like, "if i would have known that i wouldnt be pissed right now would i" and he was like, "im sorry(again)" and i was like, "im sorry too" and he was like, GOOOD were okay now.
well my friend thinks he likes me.. what do you think?
i think he might have a thing for you - if you have a thing for im too, then start analyzing his movements towards you - when he doesnt think youre looking, look at his facial expressions towards you. does he lean over to pick fuzz off of you or something? thats usually a sign. does he secretly smell your hair when you guys get close/ little stuff like that could be big. also - does he tease you? if he teases you in a fun way - thats it . he likes you. also - start noticing if you talk about other guys - is he indifferent, or he is more like "oh... yeah.. great" you know what i mean? hope this helped.
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alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do
and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image
i KIND of agree with what was already said, but not really... you need to be CONFIDENT. and you need to be sort of cocky and funny, but you should not have to change your image. make girls laugh, they love that, but be sweet sometimes. i got something that will probably work for you - if you want to know what it is just email me or something.
x0strawberrywine@yahoo.com
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13/f
I have dandruff and whenever I wash my hair, my hair is all moisturized and great. But when my hair dries my scalp gets all dry and itchy. I have tried all the shampoos but they do not work. My question is: is there any kind of moisturizer (besides something where you have to get your hair wet) to use when my hair dries?
maybe try a leave in conditioner? its a conditioner that you spray in when your hair is wet, and then you blow dry - you dont wash it out. try that? if that doesnt work then i would suggest you go to the doctor to get a prescription shampoo.
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alriight well i have this best friend, hes a guy, im a girl. we've been best friend for a pretty long time. i guess you could say were not your ordinary guy and girl friendship. we sit with each other at lunch, we call each other alot, we hang out every other weekend or so, we tell each other everything, etc. Well, yeah you know how i said i sit with him at lunch. well we whisper, like mostly whenever we talk we whisper, just because, we dont know why. well anyway i sit next to him and were always whispering and stuff. and the one day i was tired and i was resting my head and he put his arms around me and started shaking me.. then the one day they tried to stick pizza in my face and they know i dont like eating lunch, so i tried to like get up from the table but his shoulder was in the way so i ended up throwing myself over his shoulder and i just laid there and then i got off.. and then he was like, im not feelin to good and i was like.. ew throw up that way and hes like, ill be fine let me use your arm as a pillow, and he layed on my arm but then he got up like 10 seconds later.. alriight so i guess my question is, are we really flirting? my friend keeps saying that we would be really sweet together and even my teacher think were going out.. because this one time my math and science teacher were talking and he was whispering to me and he said something weird so i straightened up and looked at him with a suprised face and slapped him lightly on the shoulder and he started laughing and pulled me back down so he could finish and i looked over at my teachers and my science teacher looked at us all weird and my math teacher said something to her and she was like, "aw".. it was really weird.. well anyway are we really flirting?
yeah, um i know exactly how this is and its so cute and fun. youre def. flirting. ALOT. you need to sit down and think about if you like him or not. chances are you will fall for him sooner or later. i gurantee it. ive been in this situation before. so be ready.
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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem.
Okay. im going to give you quite honestly the best advice i know how. im not going to tell you dont love her, im not going to give you a shitty thing to follow. it is quite obvious you love her. but here is the thing. she doesnt know you feel that way - she thinks yorue only friends, so when you push all this on her, ( getting jelaous ect ) you know it as love, but she doesnt. she thinks youre just being an over protective asshole. so what you need to do is when youre having a moment, lke looking at the stars , you need to tell her " i need you to knwo something, i know i come off as over protective sometimes, and i just need you to know how i feel, i like you so much more then what you think. your personality, everything about you is just perfect" something alon those lines. but i warn you my friend DO NOT tell her you love her right away, tell your LIKE her alot. if you tell her you love her, it will scare her away. you need to wait until you guys have been dating for a while, for that one.
now - another thing you need to keep in mind is this. it sounds a little bit to me like youre jealous, and over bearing. if you start dating her. you CAN NOT. treat her like a prisoner. she is right, she IS 16 she CAN Make her own decisions. it sounds to me like if you were dating her she wouldnt be going off with other guys. so you need to trust her. because you sound liek the kind of guy who would get super fucking jealous if she hugged another guy friend, when thats bull. girls can NOT STAND that. i had a boyfriend who got mad at me for two weeks nas wouldnt speak to me because i said that a celebrity was hot. do you know how ridiculous that is? no offense but you sound so obsessed with her that you just may be like that. im just warning you, youcant be over jealous and un trusting or else it wont last very long between you two.
hope this helped.
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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?
okay - well, unless this guy is coming on to you, or anything of the sort. i would wait to see what happens. highschool relationships are a joke. you like a guy and the next day you dont. so if this keeps going on, sit her down and explain the situation, but tell her that you do NOT like him. then you hsould probably not talk to him as much just so he can get over you. but i wouldnt worry too much in the beginning. hope htis helps/
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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
at first it may be difficult, but wehn youre in class im sure you will have to be partnered up and such. just be genuwine with all of them. maybe after you get talking to some people invite them to the mall. invite them to work on homework together if you understand something that someone else doesnt. just show them youre amazing. alot of people are very judgmental, so you have to show and prove them wrong. good luck hun.
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What are some good acne-removal treatments that work??? Please help me because I have acne all over my nose really bad! I will rate well to anyone who tells me a working-treatment. Please don't make it prescription treatment, as I can't get that yet.
i will tell you the best thing to use right now. alot of people said proactiv, and yea that is the 100% best thing to use. the only problem is that you have to order it and its really expensive, so here is what you need to do - go to walgreens and buy this stuff called Klear Action, it is basically the exact same thing as proactive and about 60.00 less. its at walgreens and its like 25.00
http://wonderfulbuys.com/klear.asp?source=googleI&prod=kwd_klear_action theres a link so you know what it looks like, but dont buy it online. i used to have HORRIBLE acne, and NOTHING i tried worked, this stuff? worked in a week. face was awesome. you just have to make sure that you use it three tiems a day.
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ok, so i went to my friends pool party, and it was 4 hours long, so i got soooo sunburnt that i look like a giant tomato!! and it really hurts!!! but that's not what i'm concerned about. i got like sooooo tan!!!! is their anything that'll make me get whiter again? WITHOUT surgery?!! i rate high!!!
why would you want to be white again!? darling, do you know how many teenage girls and guys would KILL to be THAT tan? its a fashion statement, and its hott. i know where youre coming from thoug - i get very tan my self, and i used to HATE it. i love it now - but no, there isnt anything you can do. you can use a lighter toned make up, but you have to be sure you do it the right way otherwise youll just end up looking lik a retarded clown. otherwise, just enjoy having beautiful bronzed skin and stay out of the sun for a while, it will go away with time if youre not in the sun - hope this helped.
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