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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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15/F virgin
ok ive heard from lots a friends that oral sex hurts a lot. is that true? or does it feel good for a girl? bc i havee been thinkin about giving it to my bf but i am scared please help!!!
thanx in advance!

no oral sex doesnt hurt. unless you like use your teeth or something. it is supposed to feel good. maybe you meant anal sex?

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Whats feels better clitoral or g-spot stimulation? THANKS!

it depends on the girl. try both.
for me clitoral feels better.. i dont think you really know until youve had sex though.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two months... and we love eachother a lot!

Im 15 and im a virgin. And he's not! He had sex with his last girlfriend (he says he regrets it because they werent ready). He hints at it sometimes, and i know he definitly wants to. He also said he wouldnt rush me into anything.

We make out a lot, and he feels my boobs and what not a lot. Its usually just fun...

But sometimes we get really passionate and i get really aroused and i want to have sex with him...

BUT im not on birth control yet, and ive never been to the gynocologist. And i dont want to because of its awkwardness and im really self concious about my body...

I have a few questions, answer me what you can...
sorry that theyre sorta rude...but i need to know.

1. My vagina has a lot of skinny flaps in it. And they sorta stick out and they look wrinkly and wierd. They remind me sortof of brains! It really grosses me out... Is this completely normal!?

2. My buttcrack has som hair on it...and i cant get at a good angle to shave it or anything. is this really gross or important at all?

3. Im scared to have sex with him because i know it will be akward and i have no idea what im doing. I dont think hes had sex too many times but i know he has. I want to make him happy but i dont know anything about sex! give me some tips!

thanks in advance. the more info the better

1) normal
2) normal
3) you arent gonna be good at sex your first time. he probably isnt very good either. its an awkward experience when youre this young. just go with the flow and follow his lead. do whatever hes doing.

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Heyy

I was just wondering what lads get out of fingering a girl, like why do they want to do it?

thankyou xx

it makes the girl happy. guys like it when their girlfriend is happy. [=

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Ok, so, whenever I finger myself, and I don't have to pee, when it starts to feel really good, I pee...I think. It looks like pee. I don't know why I do it. And when my boyfriend does it, I feel like I'm going to, but we stop before I do. [That could be embarrassing] Is that normal?
Thanks.

OKAY YES THAT HAPPENS TO ME TOO.
haha i thought it was pee at first too. but its not. thats totally normal. its not pee its like cum. like how guys cum. totally normal [=

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ok does it hurt to get done up the butt?
or does it feel good?
please help!!! thanx

ew. i think thats gross.
a lot of girls say it hurts
guys like it though
i still think its gross.

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Like I always wondred what goes on in the girls locker room...like i know the guys like are in their boxers and no shirt...but are the girls like freaken in their thongs and training bras?....like i know us guys like wanna be in there when they are getting changed and stuff...but what really happens in "THE GIRLS LOCKER ROOM" (with a voiceover announcer)

okay nothing really goes on. all the girls just change together. most of the girls are in bras and underwear. yes, a lot of them do wear thongs but theyre not prancing around in them, making out, and touching themselves and eachother like they show in movies. they just change and some put on perfume or makeup, fix their hair, whatever. nothing that great.

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Ok, so for one, i think i know how to give blow job, but please give me something on how to so i know for sure.
and 2, for people that have done it, isnt it kinda weird and disgusting? what do you do if the guy cums while its in your mouth?!?!?!

please just give me all you knw about blowjobs. Thank you!

i havent done it. but ive heard that its fine. i mean it might be a little weird at first, but it gets better. if you think its disgusting you shouldnt be doing it. if the guy cums while its in your mouth you either swallow it or spit it out. some girls think it tastes bad so you might wanna take that into consideration and have some food or something nearby in case its like really nastyyyy.

hope i helped [=

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15/female

lately i've been really horny. i try fingering myself but that doesn't really cure it at all. how do i stip getting like this, or how can i satisfy myself better if you know what i mean?

THANKS.

haha you cant really stop yourself from getting horny. its just like a natural thing that happens to everyone. especially when youre a teenager. um i would try doing it in the shower or if your bathtub has jets.. idk thats just what works good for me.

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Ugh. I can't stop! I want to, but I always can't!! I need tips on how to STOP!!!!

umm theres nothing wrong with cybering. unless its like taking over your life. then its unhealthy. i mean obviously youre just a little horny. if youre like talking to people that you dont even know.. thats a little pathetic and i would really try to stop. get a boyfriend/girlfriend. like seriously.

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ok well when my bf and i like watch a movie or sumthing we get really close and cuddle and he rubs my side and stuff and we kiss some but i get reeeally wet. i dont like this and it bothers me cause i dont like being that wet. anything i can do?? thanx so much :]

you cant really prevent yourself from getting wet. its like a natural thing. that means hes turning you on and you like it. its a GOOD thing. it means youre attracted to him!

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and now I can't do anything else. I've tried, but I need my toothbrush. i'm a virgin.

15/f

umm theres nothing wrong with just using a toothbrush. why do you have to change?

i mean if you really want to though..
try using the showerhead.. or if your bathtub has jets in it [=

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what are some games like this.

http://www.funny-games.biz/coffee-shop.html

theres another one like that called lemonade stand. search it on google.

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So basically I'm pretty uncomfortable with my body...just like most girls but I don't feel proportionate.
Is there a way to get bigger boobs without wearing a big padded bra and getting surgery?

Thanks

wearing a push up bra would help. it makes your boobs look bigger without soo much ridiculous padding. also if you gain a little bit of weight your boobs will get bigger.

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Alright so cat has stopped cutting (Yay) but now I'm using runner bands to keep myself in order. I haven't cut for about two weeks but now I have a new problem the marks made by the rubber bands...How long does it usually take them to dissapear and is there anyway I can hide them? I don't want people to come here and tell me how bad it is because without the bands I know what I would do. Right now I just need to know how to cover the welts that the bands make. Any help?
I'm not now nor am I planning on seeing a shrink...I don't think I need that.

why are you putting rubber bands on your wrists that are too tight? just wear rubber bands that arent as tight and you wont have a problem with welts. unless youre using the rubberbands for pain instead of cutting..? and in that case you shouldnt be doing that. you need help. you need to talk to someone about what is making you feel so depressed. if you need to talk..drop a msg in my inbox. i would be glad to help.

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i have a really long forehead and my hair starts pretty far back. i have a cow lick too. if i don't have bangs my face looks horrible because my forehead is so big.. what kinds of bangs would look good? i have a heart shaped face. i tried to get bangs straight across but the would NEVER stay and i've already had side-sweep that didn't work too well. if not bangs, any hairstyles that would be flattering... thanks!

i think side bangs look the best on someone with a long forehead. i suggest long side bangs. if you blow dry them they usually will stay to the side. make sure youre parting your hair to the side too. you should go get your hair cut and then ask the stylist how she did your bangs and made them stay.

hope i helped [=

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how can i make my butt grow bigger? and boobs bigger?

gaining a little weight will make your boobs bigger. thats basically the only way for your boobs. or you could wear a push-up bra. that wont actually make them bigger but it will make them LOOK bigger. for your butt.. you just need to do exercises that focus on that area because then you will gain muscle in your butt and your butt will get bigger. you wouldnt really want to gain weight in your butt. muscle looks better.

hope i helped [=

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16/f
i have ALWAYS wore my hair really long, like down my whole back, and i really want a change so i was thinking of cutting it short, like at my shoulders

does short hair make you look younger though?
i hatee when people say i look younger then i am so i dont wanna look like a little girl, does it depend on the person?

well yeah short hair does usually make people look younger. maybe you should leave it like a few inches past your shoulders. that always looks good on almost everyone!

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Hm..i was just wondering how would you give yourself a hickey? Without telling other people to give them for you. Because most people think i dont like them thats why i dont get them. So any ideas please help.

um its kinda impossible. you cant like kiss your own neck or like any other place that people normally get hickeys. but like its not that people like hickeys. i dont think you really understand the concept. it sounds like you just want to show off that someone was kissing you and thats not a reason to get a hickey. when a guy like kisses your neck or somewhere else and he sucks kinda hard it feels good. thats why you want it. not because it leaves a mark. if youre like kissing a guy or something tell him you want him to kiss your neck or something and then it will leave a hickey.

hope i helped

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i have only gone tanning once in my life and starting next week im going tanning. so i dont really want tan lines so would it be okay if i dont wear a bra in the tanning bed and just a thong? would that be okay or would that be bad?

tanning is HORRIBLE for you. it can give you cancer. but if you still wanna do it and risk your life so your skin is a little darker.. then yes its okay to just wear a thong in the tanning bed.

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