Hey Yall My name is Blayre !*! Im A Georiga Peach all the way, i love to hang out with my freinds, talk on the computer, and run my mouth on the phone. The reason i made this advice column is bc like every other average teen i have problems that i need advice on too!*! So i thought i would pay it foward and thats why i made this column to give adivce to people like you!*! So if you need adivce give me a holler and i would be glad to help!
Luv Ya,
Blayre
H
O
P
E
I
C
A
N
H
E
L
P
!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Member Since: November 2, 2004
Answers: 69
Last Update: October 29, 2005
Visitors: 3705
Favorite Columnists
xokaylanicoleox
|
| |
|
i have been crying lately soo much bc i feel like im losing my man.. i kinda broke ^ with him idk what to do anymore... when i think about it i cry bc it makes me sad i love him 2 death man.. idk what to do anymore can somebody help me!! (link)
|
Hey well well if u love him ask him back you only feel taht way so many times in your life and when u do try to hold on to it as long as possible! Tha only reson not to go out with a guy taht your inlove with is if he has hurt you adn if soo then you need to moveo n and wait to fall in love again!
Well hope i helped
|
|
Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me. (link)
|
OMg never cut your self there is plenty of ways to get attention liek take a pice of tolit paper and glue it to ur shoe and sturt your stuff jus dont cut your self people out there care about you and dont want u to get hurt!
Well luv ya jus dont doin anyhting sutpid
Blayre
|
|
I've become pretty good friends with this guy and he's recently been dumped by his girlfriend of two months. Things had been deteriorating for a while but he still liked her. He's kinda into 2 of my best friends but still flirts with me too. One friend doesnt like him and shes gonna say no to him if he asks her out. The other friend wants to her him out but doesnt wanna hurt my feelings. I've been working up the courage to ask him out as well but I'm really confused. The friend who wants to ask him out doesnt really like him but theyre best friends and I really think theyd ggo kinda far. With me, I think he'd say yes but I am not sure and thats kinda being retarded, and I dont wanna be afraid of anything like that as I learned from the last relationship I was in. I dont wanna hurt my friends' feelings either but she wont give me an answer whether its okay to ask him out or not. I really like him and feel happier than Ive been in months when Im with him and he seems pretty happy too =/ Thank you =( (link)
|
All i can is you cant explan love when it hits it hits like a brick it a feelin you get where it feel that things couldnt feel any better and when ur in love all u wanna do is be with that person and u cant stop thinking about him all i can say if true love is tha best gift so once u get it dont let it go!!
Blayre
Ps: your never to young to be in love soo no matter whut people tell u go with your heart bc you'll kno when u r!
|
|
im a 13 year old female. I went out with this boy "Sam" for about 2 months, which i know isnt very long, but i have also been freinds with him for over a year now. he is really a great guy. and he really liked me but i ended b/c it was just to weird. im not prude or a jesus loving "goody goody" but i wouldnt make out let alone kiss him along those 2 months.(in fact i am eagerly waiting to get my first kiss) but anyway, now he has another girlfreind and well...she is the kind of girl that has already lost her virginity, comes to school stoned...just not exactly a model citazen. and i know this girl too and she is SOOO SWEET, but im just really worried that this girl may change "sam" and he may start making horribly wrong choices. supposedly, they have already made out and have been going together for 2 days. i just dont want to lose him to the wrong people. can anyone give me any advice on this situation? (link)
|
Hey girl well if u are really good freinds with sam tell him how u feel but dont interfer with him and this girl bc say you say somin and it bothers him u might end up lossin him as a freind and u dont wanna do that do you ! soo jus tell him once look i liek ur g.f and all and i would love for yall to go out bc im very happy for you i jus think that if she trys to persudae u to do rong things dont listen to her! and leave it at that!
good luck
Blayre
|
|
ok im not really excited about christmas and i dont know why? i mean i feel like something is missing in my life or is it that im just getting older but i dont think that is true bc i like christmas and all but it just seems like it doesnt matta anymore. (link)
|
LoL its a part of life everyone grows out of christmas! Dont worry bout it ur gettin older that lil stuff doesnt matter anymore jus look foward to tha gifts and all tha brgiht stuff and maybe it'll bring back a smile!
XoCountryCutieXo
|
|
Okay my friend always is setting me up with people well last night she did that to my best guy friend but the thing is i do want to go out with him but i kept saying i didn't want to! But how can i tell him this? I feel kinda strange telling him I like him cuz I mean hez my best friend! so what should i do? (link)
|
TELL tha guy look i realyl liek u as a freinds and all but this was my freinds hookin us up i dont mean to be mean your a really great person and all taht but i jus dont see you in that way and i want us to be freinds b.c your absoulty AWESOME! but i jus dont see you in tha boyfreind way! hopefully he'll understand
XoCountryCutieXo
|
|
My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :) (link)
|
LOl hey well have u ever seen tha show boy meets world well if this helps try watchin shawn on there he CERTAINly knows how to lol! Jus move your mouth back and forth with some tongue aciton and itll work out!
XoCountryCutieXo!
|
Blayre
I have a problem what do u do when a person u really like is dating a really mean guy and she wont listen to u about him.Then who should i ask to the dance now i go to ur school.im 0-3 for this year in asking people out.
love
??? (link)
|
Hey well if u already tried tellin her he is really mean and she wont listen to u le t her make her own mistakes obvisouly she likes him a hole lot and dont interfer with taht jus wait for tha day to come for them to break up and mean while go out wiht some gurl u liek i dont kno who u r so i couldnt really tell you oo go out with her or her lol i jus couldnt do taht if i dont kno who u r ! so if u wanna tell me on aim or somin privatelly maybe i could help u but for now jus go with tha flow and hit on tha next gurl u think u might like
Best wishes
Blayre
|
I just got a new girlfriend and I'm really confused..I don't kno what to do next! I've been out with girls before, but this is soo different...she is really different. Plz HELP ME!
***** (link)
|
Lol well if it is a good diffrent and u have all these great feelings around her then dont be scarde its normal u oound ur tfrist really rru girlfrind! if it is a bad feeling maybe u dont really like her and u should call things off its really left up to u and how u feel so follow ur instencts!
Well hope i helped!
Blayre
|
hey blayre
i am in 2 stickky situations. 1 my friends think i am turnin into someone i am not. when really this is me. i am just not myself round themb/c they dont like that side of me. wat should i do? 2nd situation is i like this guy. he is older than me by 1 grade.he said he would go out with me, but i dont no if he was joking. he tends 2 du that alot. plz rite back!!!!
signed sticky
(link)
|
Hey well TELL UR FRIENDS TAHT , TAHT IS UR SELF THEY ARE GONNA HAVE TO ACEPT IT! and if they say welll u werent liek this b4 say well i have always been liek this i jus wasnt around yall bc i was afraid yall wouldnt like tha real side of me so i tried to be someone elce and i was right bc when i tried to be tha real me look whut happened u didnt liek it! im sorry yall but this is ma\e u can shoose to liek this me or move on its yalls chocie1 and if tha \y r frinds they'll stay with you! and this guy u liek well most likely he likes you jus get one of your friends to meake sure b4 u make a fool of ur slef and aask him out! lol well best wishes
Blayre
|
Thanx for answering my questions...
....BTW I know someone that was making fun of u and I stopped them...!! YAY aren't u happy for me?
Luv,
Joe Dirt...long time no see....lol
U HAVE AWESOME ADVICE...! (link)
|
lol thank you for sticking up for me! Well im soo glad i could help you if ya need anyhitng else let me know !!
Luv
Blayre
Ps:oo ya and im sorry but im slow i kno who joe dirt is but you are you lol!
|
|
Hey blayre Im trying to fing my g/f the perfect christmas present but i just cant think of anything. Will you tell me what you think would be the best present you would want from ur b/f Thankx! (link)
|
Hey lol well if ur gf is anything like me then she'll be glad jus to be around you but to be on hta safe side incase she aint, get her somin simple like a braclet or a neckless girls love that!!! I think tha better question is whut tha heck do u get a guy ??? lol
Well hope i helped,
Blayre
|
I am failing two classes and I don't kno how to bring them up because u can't get extra credit and progress reports are tomorrow! My parents are gunna kill me! What should I do...I tried my hardest but I bombed to tests! I'm soo worried I won't be able to do anything forever!
Luv,
Joe Dirt...lol (link)
|
Hey joe dirt long time no see, well if u think ur gonna fail but u tried hardest and worked your but off thers nuthin you can do is there? soo ju tell ur parents look u have no idea how hard skool is and how hard im workin to get good grades but i jus cant and tell them look i pormise to try tha best i can and i am and maybe get them to get your a turtor or somin! jus tell them u really did try and hopefully thwy'll understand and if it makes u feel any better u wont be tha only one with bad grades! lol
well good luck,
Blayre
|
I have these friends that get mad at me when I sit with different people at lunch because they think that I am trying to be cool and I'm not...I have other friends...I don't kno how to spell it out to them! PLz help me...
Your Friend,
Joe dirt (link)
|
Hey joe Dirt , LoL, well all i can say is tell them LOOK I HAVE OTHER FRIENDS YALL ARE MI FRIENDS AND SOO ARE THEY! and if they cant except it move on dont waste your time on them find new freinds taht'll understand!
Blayre good luck people these days lol
|
Hey Blayre!
i dont knoe y but rite now im really pepppy and i shouldnt be............. well u see last year alot of the guys liked me prolly bc i was new and so this year the only guys that like me or think im hott are the nerds. and now guys think the gurls are "hot" well i think pretty better descibes a gurl bc a gurl can have huge boobs but an ugly face anyways the guys that i hang out with r like brothers so i cant ever like them our anything but u knoe all the guys dont understand i may be tuff the "il beet the crap outta u way" but they dont realise that i am an emotional gurl and that i have feelings so they can tell me that im not hot er pretty but all they r worried about is wether i hurt them or not they dont care if they hurt mi feelings
Blayre plz help rite back soon
Luv ya Girl!
byes,
???? (link)
|
Well girl guys are guys who knos whut goes thorugh their minds now a days lol. Guys tend to be jerks and they dont think b4 they say somtimes u have to realize that all tha guys rnt gonna lieks u but its not ur ugly or that ur not good enough but everyone has differ taste in people like hmm u kno how u think some people are cool to be around but u dont liek them like them but there popilar and all that u jus dont liek him that way but as the years go by and pople change so do other things and it all gets better adventually ur compeators change and so do guys minds and things will get better so give it time and why u waitin tel guys that look i have feelings to you kno and say look u dont have to think im hot but u dont have to tell me im not! soo dont worry bout them they'll wake up sooner or latter!
Well hope i help,
Blayre
|
|
Hey Blarye, it seems like my girlfriend kind of acts like fake around me. She always just acts stuppid or dumb and i know she isnt that way. i dont know wat to do to make her act herself. Will you please tell me wat to do? Thanks! (link)
|
Hey well its proble jus this girl is nervous about how to be around u ! Its a girl thing most girls are nervous about how to act around their boyfreinds its a normal thing give her time to adjust im sure she will and if she doesnt, maybe she has adhd or some desase that makes her act taht way and you would have to learn live with it! soo give her time and hopefully things will calm down!
Best Wishes
Blayre
|
hey im am some 1 who u kno and u go 2 skool with me and i juss want 2 say that i like u alot but im not goin 2 tell u who i am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo ull have 2 find out some time and maby ill tell u later but 4 now heres a lil hintim in one of ur classes
(link)
|
LoL well thanks
Love,
Blayre
|
Hey I'm on the basketball team at skool and its realy taking up alot of my time and muh coach makes us runn constantly all day...Imean we have practice all week and being on this team i thought was gonna make me happier but its realy making me misserable.Can you give me some advice on what i should do?
Signed,Mistery Chick (link)
|
Hey nustery chick !
If you dont like bascketball dont do it, unless your parents are makin you! dont waste your time doin somin u dont wanna do life is to short for all taht u have one life so live it well!
Singed,
Blayre
|
Umm...I like someone and I've been talkin to him for ever and I don't kno if he likes me or not and I don't want to ask striaght out..but I wish he would tell me...I don't know what to do!
(link)
|
Hey if u think u liek this guy give it a chance ask him out! Bc if u ask him out you kno u have a chance for him to say yes or no and if u dont then u kno that the chance is no unless he asks you out and u kno how shy guys are now a days soo give it a chance and if he says no then there are more fish in tha see!
Best wishs,
Blayre
|
I have rumors being sent around the school about me and I am want to stop it, but I don't kno who's doing it and If I try to stop it then I will have to stop hanging out with some of my friends...I know it's not my friends because I don't think they would lie to me..I've known them forever. One of them is that Im hangin out wit certian people (not saying names) to get popular...but they don't understand, I'm not and I don't want to be popular..they are just my friends and I've known this one person longer than anyone knows, but i didn't hang out with her a lot until like 1 month ago. It's not fair!
*you might kno who this is by the rumor I described...
Your Friend,
*******
*Plz help me Blayre (link)
|
Hey im really sorry about tha hole rummor thing jus tell people, look im not hanging out with them to be populatr iv known this person alot longer than you know soo stop sayin this stuff about me get tha facts b4 u go and tell people stuff taht aint true!
Sorry hope i helped,
Blayre
|
|