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dear fran,
i want to kiss this guy very much but it will be my first time. On your first kiss was it good perfect and was it the right guy? And what i make the move i dont want him to reject me what should i do (link)
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hey hun,
my first kiss was pretty good but it wasnt with the right guy but im not regretting that i kissed him cus i really liked him at the time! so if u really like this guy go ahed! my advice about kissing him... him he looks at u and its the right time jus! idk! kiss him!! i REALLY doubt that hes gunna reject u and if hes a good guy then he wont! good luck i hope i helped!
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dear fran...
i have a problem, thats obviously why im writing... well my problem is... my bets friends, fro 1st grade to 8th is leaving.. she moving away... well theres a going away party for her, and i dont no wat to get her, yet alone to be able to say goodbye to her! i moved to my town at the end of 1st grade, everyone was mean n rude, but she came up n was soooo sweet n nice, n made everyone like me... shes been my best friend every since! i dont want her to leave,even if she is only moving 15 min away! shes going to another skool, n another county!wat do i get her, and how do i say im gonna miss u but ull always b my bestfriend!?! i dont wanna say good byebut i have to! please help!
sincerely,
afraid to lose a friend! (link)
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Dear afraid to lose a frend,
wat i think u should get... actualy its more like make! make a collage of every picture or movie ticket or anything that reminds u of times and things uv done together! make it really pretty and personal! she will love it!
wat i think u should do... bleve it or not almost all of my frends dont go to my school! i jus get along with ppl outa my school better for sum reason... anywho the main key is just to keep in touch talk on the fone, IM, and see eachother wenever possible sum of my frends live 20 minutes away and i stil manage to see them a ton! good luck! hope i helped!
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hey.. im 12 and 5'0 and i weigh 102 im not sure if thats like fat but i mean im a 14 jeans (girls) and ihave very muscler legs.. sadly and its my stomach like i can suck it in and be fine but the sides like poke out! and all i want it to not have to suck it in! like just breathe out and still be thin! all my friends r! and its sooo not fair i think! plz help me lose my extra weight! ill rate! (link)
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hey hun! i dont no if ur fat or not cus hoo am i to judge?! but i think that it doesnt really matter wat u look on the outside its all on the inside! but if u wanna lose wait... here my advice... exercise a ton!!! run rollerblade! do anything thats fun to u!! excercise is a great way to lose watand hav fun! also try not to snak eat ur 3 meals and nothin really in between if u do get hungry eat a apple, a banana, sumthing like that!hope i helped a lil!
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Hey,
i like to finger myself but i cant orgasm unless i think of something that makes me horny. Like in Eurotrip i have to imagine the naked girls while fingering myself so that i can orgasm. Does that mean im a lesbo??
-Lesbian? (link)
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it might... do u actualy like girls that u no or is it just that? u mite b bi?
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im a 14 yr old girl who needs the feeling to be horny. sometimes i get a few pillows or stuffed animals and hump them pretending they're this guy i like. how can i get horny with out using pillows or stuffed animals? (link)
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finger urself....
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ok, well i play a lot of sports... from soccer to paintball, to tennis, swimming, weightlifting, etc... pretty much anysport youll find me watching or participating... n i wear my uniforms all the time to skool in stuff! i dress comfortably, not the way everyone else is! do guys find girls that play a lot of sports attractive, and would they ever go otu with them? i mean i havent had a bf in like a year, n that lasted 2 days! guys! ugh cant live with em, CANT live with out em! lol neways? do they, i mean i just wanna no, im not gonna quit my sports, but should i dress like a total chik freak at skool n wen im at home dress the way i norm do, just to c wat happens? i really like a couple guys, but im afraid that theyre intimidated! please help!
signed, sportaholic! (link)
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Hey Sportaholic,
this is my advice or at least my thoughts about it if u like sports thats awsome! and most guys like athletic girls! they think thats really cool and stuff... about how u dress i say dress how u like!! i mean i gues theyll like u mor if u dress a lil more girly but personally y dress up for them! jus b ur self! excep a lil more flirty!! lol if they dont like u! wel then screw em!!! on a ending not tho if u think u itimidate them lay off talking about sports sum mayb and talk about other things for instance music or movies! good luck with those guys hope i helped! write me sum time!
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Ok, Well, my boyfriend is 19 years old and he*s in the military..I*m still in highschool..we write letters to each other often and i think about him every single day, but most of my friends say that i should break up with him, I really love him, but he's going to be gone so long! I have 2 years left of highschool, and if I stay with him that means i have to be faithful for 2 years! I dunno what i should do...
I hope you can help..xox (link)
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Hey hun,
heres wat i think u should do... dont listen to ur frends... if u love the guy stay with him mayb it wont work out for the hole 2 years but until U feel like it isnt not ur frends... stay with him! as long as u keep n touch and everything is going good yall should b fine... hope i helped! write me sum time!
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Does black really match with anything? (link)
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ya!! basicaly it matches with everything besides brown and navy!
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wat izza orgasm? (link)
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its a feeling u get wen ur umm realy horny and u finger urself
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There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away? (link)
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REBEL DUDE GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!!!!!
lol sry im a lil hyper today but seriously they should bak off u can make ur own decisions! its not like ur asking to hav sex with the guy which by the way i wouldnt do cus its considered stachatory rape!! lol good luck with the guy!!write me sumtime!
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Dear Fran,
hey,I'm having a ton of trouble with my mom.I do everything for her,but it's never enough.Everyday it's don't eat that you're already fat enough ,yes you have to take this medicine,I don't care if it makes u sick,and u have to do swimming,I don't care if u like it or not.It was kinda of ok,but then the other day she old me she ruined me(like raising wise),and that I was a BIG mistake.I'm already having trouble with depression/cutting and I really want my mom off my back.She knows nothing of my emmotional state,and I won't tell her.It's just that she bring my self esteem down so much and I'm really sick of it! (link)
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Hey hun,
this is wat i think u should do...
me and my parents are also going thru somewat of the same thing currently... wat u should do is tell ur mom that she needs to stop treating u like that cus its not fair to u at all. also STOP CUTTING! its realy realy realy bad for u i no it seems like it helps but it doesnt u hav to stop!!! u need to find sum1 to talk to a frend a councilor a teacher sum1!! and also DONT let ur mom get to u!! shes not worth it and U R!!! u definantly need to talk to sum1 and find better ways to get ur feelings out. hope i helped a lil.
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what is a Blow job? (link)
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its wen u suck a guys dick
aka head
aka bj
aka 3rd base
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fran,
wat do u do wen u hav the most annoying sister in the world and bugs u evry 5 seconds.
from anthony
lol (link)
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lol u move
thats my bro yall n case u dint no
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umm ya its me again and in my thing i was saying that sum 1 told me that yur friend was really popular and so yur thing didnt help me any i was asking how i could make her not jealous or will she always be jealous of me beacuase all of the guys ALWAYS like me more
> popular 1 (link)
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Okay hey that was really mean and i hav no idea y guys like u more cus u must b a slut or really pretty or sumthin cus that was really really really x1000 bitchy! my advice tell ur frend shes way better then u and that she should get nice frends! good luck :-D hope i helped ya!
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hey fran, my best friend and i like the same guy.. i mean we really like him.. he just asked me out, so i asked my friend if it was okay that i went out with him, she said no so i had to tell this guy NO!! but guess what! its not over.. he just asked her out and she said yes, without even asking me about what I thought??
signed
p.o.ed by friend (link)
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hey hun!
U NEED TO DITCH THE FRINED!!!!! WATA BITCH!!!! lol no offense but GOSH that is SSOOO mean!! u need to tell her allllllll of that and then u need to tell the guy that and that he should realize wata biatch hes dealing with... i no its a lil harsh but that is really mean. hope i helped a lil! lol sry but ur frend made me p.o.ed to cus u wer very considerate and she jus like ugh! lol hope that guy gos bak to u! write to me sum time!
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hi i need yur help im really popular and pretty and my friend is a loser and not that pretty. every time we hang out with guys they all like me instead of her sum 1 told me u were in the same boat with 1 of yur friends so u might no about this topic pleaz help me so my friend wont be jealous (link)
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Hey hun,
i hav nooo idea hoo told u i was in the same boat!! mayb on the loser side lol!! im pretty i gues but i DONT think that im popular! thanx for the complement tho! umm heres wat i think u should do anyways... mayb find sum guy hoos more like her? to invite also sum1 hoos not so popular and more likely to go for her, then she wont feel so left out and on the outside. idk wat els to say cus wel i jus dont lol! hope that helped a lil! write me sum time!
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Dear Fran,
hey,I wrote earlier about being the girl who has never been asked out.I read your advice,but I have no guy friends,and I don't really see how I can get any.I'm really a tomboy at heart,but that drives them away.What should I do to get a guy? (link)
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Hey not as confused,
ud b suprised how much guys really do like tomboys! jus they dont like ppl so much hoo dress like them so dress normally like abercrombie and shit unles ur more of the pac sun type and then jus b ur self! believe im a tom boy at heart to! if u asked any of my frends wen i grow up which would i choose... beer or like a cosmopolatin or champagne(dont even no how to spel those!)i would choose beer!lol in my opinion its 10000 times better! anyways guys will like u for hoo u r and if they dont then ther jerks! B UR SELF!!! ask sum of ur frends wen u hang out to bring guys i met like half of my guy frends through one person! it works! also jus try to talk to ppl even if ur shy talking never hurts and niether does laughing! lol i do both of those alot! hope that helped a lil!! write me sum time!!
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do? (link)
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Hey hun,
heres wat i would do if i was u... as i was reading this question i was talking on the fone and i was reading it aloud and my best guy frend was like OMG that sounds exactly like wat jus happened to u... cus i like him and jus kinda broke up with my bf for him and so on and so forth...but wat i would do is break up with the bf. if u havnt talked to him n that long thers a major communication problem and that NEVER works! and i say go out with the best frend he seems like a great guy and like u hav a sure chance with him! about the frend... explain ur situation and tell her the truth about everything... u dint call her a slut u dint tell him anything bad about her etc... she should understand and get over the fact that u going out with him if shes a tru friend. lastly jus remeber to b happy... the fact of ur happiness is the most important thing here. hope i helped!! write me sum time!
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okay listen, you see my friend is depressed and is getting help.. but it doesnt seem to be working... she is never really happy and is taking medicine for her problems, shes afraid of alot of things like when her parents go out of town she freaks out! i really dont know what o do anymore.. she has hurt herself multiple times and she thinks her parents dont love her.. i love her very much and have talked to her abou these things.. i just dont know what do do anymore! bucuz she already has phsyciatrist and i talk to her all the time about things like this.. she worries alot and im afraid shes going to end up hurting herself sometime.. but way worse than bruising and cutting.. :( im so afraid she is my best friend in the whole world!! why is she so unhappy whith herself? she has the looks the guys like her,her paretns spoil her to death!, theres like nothing seeming to be wrong with her so i dont see why she is so unhappy.. if you could help me out it would be great! thank you so much if you can! (link)
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Hey hun,
i feel really bad for ur friend and u bcus u hav alot on ur hands. i no that its hard to understand y she does that stuff but its probly not cus of the ppl around her its probly jus sumthing in her head that she cant get over its not her fault or anyon elses for that matter. jus try to help her if u can but thers probly not much u can do. i hope i explained her situation a lil for u but i doubt i helped that much... o wel.. hope i helped a lil! write me sum time!!
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dear Fran,
i think i may like older guys.. im not really sure though!! im 13 and when ever im around this one guy that im really good freinds with( hes 22) i always feel super happy and like i know everything about him and hes so nice and sweet!! i dont know if i like him like him.. or if i... i just dont know:-/!!!
signed,
confused one! (link)
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dear confused one,
heres my advice... going out with older guys i understand but 9 years older!!! i dont think thats a good idea! hes probly jus like a really good frend and thats it! also if u think u like older guys jus bcus u like one doesnt mean u only like older guys go for any guy near ur age u will probly hav more things in common! hope u consider my advice! write me sumtime!
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