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hey dennis, well ive been having problems with my best friend jamie. shes been my best friend since 2nd grade and we have never EVER had a fight. well i recently moved back to new york again as you may know and i told myself i really would see her no matter what or where i lived. and we hung out the whole summer and had a great time and now we are slowly drifting apart. its not that we want to or were becoming different its that the distance is holding us back like my mom doesnt wanna keep driving me over there all the time and its hard cause both of her parents work alot. i really need to be with her sometimes because my new friends here are nice and all but they dont know me like she does. what do i do?? (link)
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Theres nothing you can do besides talk to as much as you can on here. Distance pays a big toll in friendships... All I can really tell you is talk to her on the phone or online. Keep conversations with her to keep your friendship going!
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Hey,at the beginning of the school year i asked out this guy i liked because ive been friends with him for a few weeks and i thought he liked me. he turned me down and i wasnt sure how he'd act around me but hes so nice to me and i think he tries to treat me like he did before i asked him out. its been super awkward now though. im sort of friends with him again but i get this weird feeling like its not going to go any farther. i dont mean like bf/gf but as better friends. i dont know what to do. im not sure if i should stop talking to him as much or something but i still want to know him. its so confusing and i dont want to mention it to him. should i just give up? (link)
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Do Not give up! Just wait things out im sure you to will warm up as friends again, and if not tell me more about whats going on...
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well, i have a lot of problems. i'm never happy with the way i look (my body, hair, face.. etc) even though everyone constantly reassures me i'm very pretty and thin. i don't have any real friends, well, i barley have friends outside of school at all now. i push everyone away constantly, i'm confused about religion, and both my parents hate me. today i stayed home from school because i didn't do homework and i didn't want to fail, and because i'm tired of taking my school's bullshit every day, it's awful. people call me a whore and a slut a lot. and i don't mind..
i have a younger sibling that's perfect, and my parents always compaire me to her. everyone calls me anorexic. i get fucked over a lot by boys. well, i'm really mean to them a lot, actully. there's never a day that someone doesen't like me. i get asked out a lot but i always say no. i get attached waaay to easily. i have a crush on my myspace friend, and he doesen't really want to talk with me anymore. i'm easy. i meet people off myspace a lot, and i've hooked up with all except one of them. people always come to me for advice and i always lie to them and act like i've been through their shit when i haven't. my relationships tend to be completly sexual. i'm a bitch. i make people's lives miserable. i cry a lot. i think everything is very unsettling. i go to the mall to sit by myself and watch people, and read. my life is plastic. when i was younger i got raped. i'm really smart but i don't apply myself. my lungs don't work properly.
i don't like being left alone, and i don't want to be forgotten. i have a list of goals that i want to accomplish, that i know i'll never take the time to do. right now i should be doing a fucking report, but i'm not in the mood. i hate girls most of the time. i don't talk much anymore.
i miss you like you'll never know. (link)
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I know who you are, and dont be ashamed. No worries, I will make things ok for you even if its just me doing it!
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um just that how do i tell if i am wasting my time or if its worth it with out lettin this girl know i like her? (link)
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For a girl you like, its never wasting time. Well there are many ways to talk to a girl without showing you like her. If you talk to her already, talk to her more. If you notice shes open or happy around you, flirt a bit, she might like you (esp. if she laughs alot). Or just talk like an average friend
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hey there Dennis,
yea its brittany..wow a lot of people are afraid to talk to you, but i dont know why ur such a funny boy! lol (link)
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Thanks lol
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Hey Dennis
i go west and i've had a crush on you for about a month or two. all my friends say to not bother with you but it bothers me cause i've liked you for a while now what did you a nice guy ever do to them some pretty cool people.idk if you want to know who i am you can e-mail me at HollowHallway@yahoo.com
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I think I will email you!
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sorry i deleted you on myspace.
mom was going through the friends list the next day so i deleted everyone i've never met.
i'ma add you again though. (link)
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It's Ok
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hey dennis your pretty amazing. want to be my new best friend? (link)
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Of Course!
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dear Dennis.
see theirs this guy [named dennis]
and hes TOTALLY sexsii.
and i talk to him alot..
acutally im talking to him right now.
and hes like amazing
and idontkno what to do..
pleaseeeeeee
send me some lovin back (link)
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Hehe ;)
Mmm your more amazing
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Okay. So, I always seem to get really attatched when I like a boy and right now there is this boy that I really like. I've told him that I like him and when I asked him who he likes, he just said he didn't know and that he needed to figure it out. I go to practice everyday with him since we are on the same team and when it's over, he always comes and talks to me and gives me hugs and flirts with me. I don't know if he likes me and I don't want to get attatched and get hurt again. Should I keep liking him? Should I stop? I'm really confused. Oh and I'm 14, a freshman at Shen, and you know who I am. =] (link)
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Well there are many ways you can take this depending on how you feel. One way is you could tell him how you truely feel or you could play hard to get and play with his heart ;) It could be that he might like you but doesnt want a relationship, or is playing hard to get, or is just a big flirt. Think about it
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I'm fourteen, I'm a freshman at Shen, and I'm a girl. So, I have this ex-boyfriend and he cheated on me, he didn't lie about it, but, like, he didn't tell the truth either. We had hung out the entire weekend after he cheated [on the friday] and he didn't tell me. Once I got to school that Monday my best friend ran up and told he what happened and I cried the rest of the day. I haven't talked to him in nine month now and now I have to see him everyday after school. He always looks at me and tries to talk to me, but it stil hurts and I fall for him everytime i talk to him. (link)
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Well its gonna hurt, I understand where you are coming from. But if you are that hurt and hes trying to talk to you, your gonna have to toughen up or get someone to tell him that you are still very hurt from what happened and you really dont want to talk.
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i trusted someone and told him pretty big secrets about me and one other person and now they said if i ever got them mad they'd tell people. im really nervous. what can i do? (link)
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You really cant do anything. Just treat them well and build trust up with them because what they are doing is downright dirty to do...
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hey dennis,
i heard bout ur wedsite from some gurl i no, anyway i have a band and the lead singer is a gurl and she cant sing 4 crap in need help, wat shud i do? email me bac @ allisonprev@yahoo.com
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I will deff get back to you! If I were you I would pretend like your getting rid of the band because its causing too many problems. Or just tell her in a nice way that she could do something else or your changing your style of music the band plays.
But hey if you live around here, id be happy to tryout for your band. Ive been looking for one. What kind of music genre do you play?
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my name is magi and if you wanna im me my sn is DevilChild42291 (link)
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Id love to be your friend :)
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Dennis i really like this kid hes really cute and i think hes amazing but he has no idea i exsist.i'm rteally shy to talk to him cause when i'm near him i feel like a totl loser. everytime i try to talk to him i just cant get the words out.what do i do i really do like him but to him i'm not even alive.what do i do???:( (link)
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Well maybe get some friends who know him and start a convo with him even if its a word. The more and more you talk, you will open up to him and work off from there!
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Dennis i'm just a girl who goes to west too but the only different thing aboutme is i like you alot.i've liked you for a while now.you probably don't know my name but u've seen me before i really dont have the nerve to come up to you and say hi without being a nervous on the inside. i can't stand it. this probably doesnt make cause to you i'm just a girl like i said. (link)
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But you wouldn't be just a girl. Talk to me a little and build up more and more. Id be glad to be friends with you and im not like some mean guy who will ignore you, I promise!
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basically i think that you and i should talk. (link)
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I think we should too, if I knew who you are ;]
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What should i do, I have crush on this guy and he is really hot but i dont think he even knows that i exsist. What should i do? (link)
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Get to know him better by talking to him a little more and more each day even if you start out by saying two words to him... That will improve into a friendship and maybe something even more :]
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i have thought it out dennis and i like u more than the other guy so wat should i do? (link)
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Just tell me who you are :]
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So here it is a while ago me and this guy were going out. I have been friends with him since 7th grade and have always liked him.One day me and him were together and I made the biggest mistake ever by loosing my virginity with him. But Im not a slut or anything im normally very shy and im not close to many guys... Well after the whole thing happened He completly stoped talking to me and started ignoring me. I tried talking to him but he wont talk back... I feel totally used and hurt and I totally regret everything...I thought I could trust him... What should I do? (link)
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Theres nothing you can really do if hes not talking to you. I know where you are coming from... Just keep attempting to talk to him and if he doesnt, its not you fault.
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