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Gender: Male
Location: England
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: September 10, 2006
Answers: 66
Last Update: January 22, 2008
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14/f
i wanna loose some weight or just tone up some areas: thighs, lower stomach/abs, and my butt.

what are some exercises that will tone up these areas?

thanksss (link)
aerobic exercises to lose overall weight:
Skipping
jogging
walking (power)
dancing

Toning your abs:
Sit ups
but also press ups as back muscles help you to tone your abs alot more easily.
crunches

Thighs/Butt:
cycling is useful
power walking
going up and down on one step is very useful.

p.s: try not to rush into it all of a sudden gently ease yourself in and then try to beat personal targets.


Okay, so I do gymnastics and I was talking to my friend and she told me that gymnastics stunts peoples growth. Is that true? (link)
nope..maybe s/he is trying to "extract the urine" :P


This weekend I am going to the movies with my boyfriend, but technically this is our first date. Any ideas of what I should wear?? I want it to be cute but hot at the same time, without being trashy.

Thanks (link)
jeans n a cute top :)


i have a mop head, and when i try to spike it up, my hair just sinks(using gel) is there any product out there thatll help me spike my hair (link)
Yeah...
CUT IT :)


hi, 15 year old guy here. well i want to have this wrestling room in my house, when im older, with all stuff wrestlisg in it, like you see people having on tv. and i dont want to sell my playstation 2, because i have like 7 wrestling games on it, and i want to keep them for this wrestling room of mines. im i stupid for wanting a wrestling room? i want some extra cast so i can buy the playstation 3, so i was thinking of selling my playstation2, but i have all the wrestling games on it, and i really want to keep it. any advice? should i let go of this "dream room" or have it?? (link)
you need a girl mate..
no offence.
From...
Sparky :)


15/f. i like one of my guy friends and i don't know what to do. i want to tell him but i'm shy and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me then it will be ackward between us and we couldn't be friends anymore.

also a lot of other girls like him too. like i know of 2 girls that have already told him that they liked him and he didn't feel the same way and then he doesn't talk to them anymore.

what should i do? and if you suggest that i tell him that i like him how should i do it?

thanks! (link)
I think you need to have a little patience give it some time..in the words of take that

"Patience"

Just have a little patience
I'm still hurting from a love I lost
I'm feeling your frustration
Any minute all the pain will stop.

Just hold me close inside your arms tonight
Don't be too hard on my emotions.

[Chorus:]
'Cause I
Need time
My heart is numb, has no feeling
So while I'm still healing
Just try and have a little patience.

I really wanna start over again
I know you wanna be my salvation
The one that I can always depend.

I'll try to be strong
Believe me I'm trying to move on
It's complicated but understand me.

[Chorus]

'Cause the scars run so deep
It's been hard but I have to believe
Just have a little patience [x2]

[Chorus]

Have a little patience
My heart is numb, has no feeling
So while I’m still healing
Just try and have a little patience

hope i helped :)
sorry for being so breif and not going into too much detail.
just give him some time?!


i am from australia, im 16. my name is alice.
well, i met this boy a couple of months ago. he works with me.

i went to work one day < i wasnt working > just syaing hi, and he was there and i hadnt normally seen him there before because he works in the day and i work weekend and arfternoons.. i introduced my self and we started hanging out in the arfternoons when i would go there after school. and then i fell for him. a couple weeks later he moved out of home and moved in with a couple of his friends. and he decided to go back to school for a year to finish year 12, ( i am only in year 10 ) so he stopped working for a bit and we kind of lost touch because he didnt have much money so he couldnt call me or anything. that was about 2 montsh ago.. then i saw him again recently because its holidays,, we hung out and had lunch and just caught up. he has these gorgeous blue eyes that i cant stop staring at, and blonde hair. he's the sweetest guy i have ever met and i really love him. we started workign again toegther recently and we flirt alot. things like tickling me all the time! and calling me cute names. but i dont know whether he just wants to me friends with me or he likes me mroe than a friend. i really want to find out before we go back to school beacuse chances are, we will loose touch again. someone please help me out i just dont know how to tell him how i feel. i cant stop thinking aboout him. when i'm with him i feel happy and secure, but when im not with him i miss him so bad and cant stop thinking about him. please could someone help me out here?

Alice. (link)
Well basically..your meant to speak and usually words that you choose will come out. so if you say i love you..undoubted he will know you love him. its as simples as that :) Don't hold back..you only get one shot do not miss a chance to blow..this opportunity comes once in lifetime..You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better,

His soul's escaping, through this hole that it's gaping
This world is mine for the taking
Make me king, as we move toward a, new world order
A normal life is borin, but superstardom's close to post mortom
It only grows harder, only grows hotter
He blows us all over these hoes is all on him
Coast to coast shows, he's know as the globetrotter
Lonely roads, God only knows
He's grown farther from home, he's no father
He goes home and barely knows his own daughter
But hold your nose cause here goes the cold water
These ho's don't want him no mo, he's cold product
They moved on to the next schmoe who flows
He nose dove and sold nada
So the soap opera is told and unfolds
I suppose it’s old partner, but the beat goes on
Da da dum da dum da da

[Chorus:]
You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo

You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo, you better

No more games, I'ma change what you call rage
Tear this mothafuckin roof off like 2 dogs caged
I was playin in the beginnin, the mood all changed
I been chewed up and spit out and booed off stage
But I kept rhymin and stepwritin the next cypher
Best believe somebody's payin the pied piper
All the pain inside amplified by the fact
That I can't get by with my 9 to 5
And I can't provide the right type of life for my family
Cause man, these goddam food stamps don't buy diapers
And it's no movie, there's no Makai Pfeiffer, this is my life
And these times are so hard and it's getting even harder
Tryin to feed and water my seed, plus
Teeter-totter caught up between trying to be a father and a prima donna
Baby mama drama's screamin on and
Too much for me to wanna
Stay in one spot, another day of monotony
Has gotten me to the point, I'm like a snail
I've got to formulate a plot or I end up in jail or shot
Success is my only mothafuckin option, failure's not
Mom, I love you, but this trailer's got to go
I cannot grow old in Salem's lot
So here I go is my shot.
Feet fail me not or not this may be the only opportunity that I got

[Chorus:]
You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo

You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better,

You can do anything you set your mind to, man


as the great eminem said :)
sorry for being so breif..LOL
Hope i helped :)


ok this might be hard tounderstand but here it goes i want to get a cartilage piercing with two holes(one on the top and one close underneath it) where can i find barbells for that kind of piercing or can the ones for the regular barbell piercings work. (link)
are you on about scaffolding ?
like a piercing connected to another peircing with a pole..?


Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP

JANE (link)
Ok whatever you do, don't show your nervous, don't look down at your feet. Instead look past the audience. :)


So I began to fall in love with music with deep heartfelt piano in it.

i absolutely love the fray and i really want to get into some more artists like that.

what are some good artists? (link)
I know it's only a Instrumental..But it's called
Craig Stevens - Glasgow Love Theme.
Also this years love by David Gray Is cool.

Sparky



ohkay on my last report card these were my grades..
math, A-
science, A-
english, A-
social studies, B

I'm a smart girl and my parents consider a "B" failing in their eyes. of course i was grounded with no tv no phone and no computer for a week.

my parents think im not trying. the truth is i try my best. i work myself sooo hard i study for everything. none of my friends even study anymore but i study like crazy. i do all my homework i really try and get things done.

my grandpa my mom and my dad had a 3 hour talk with me about how my grades are slipping. okay wow i got a "B" but is it seriously the end of the world? they still think im in 6th grade when you could get an A+++++ without ever studying or trying. i wish they congratulated me when i get all "A's" and 1 "B". they make me so anxious all the time because if i get an 86 or 88 on a test they flip out. once they got mad when i got a 91!!!

i only got A+ in elementary school and a little bit of middle school because it was easy back then. now they expect more of you and you have to work for straight A's. how can i prove to my parents that i do try my best and im not very good in Social Studies and i should be glad a got a "B" (link)
Tell them there's more to life then grades. If your confident of your goals and that you will achieve them you don't need to be pushed by your parents.
Be harsh with them, i know they want the best for you, but maybe they need to cut you from slack.


hey boys, do you like it when a girl is a tomboy? would you rather have a girl who loves to watch the game with you and can talk about football actually understanding it, or a total girly girl who loves shopping and other girlish things? (link)
I guess a mixture of both...you need a girl to be someone you can chill out with but sometimes you need to feel she does care..
hope i helped


ok so i think collage and school is soo important to me
but there's this one girl who wants to fight me because i liked her rebound boy and she went crazzy so weve been fighting for days now and today she came up to my face and i called her a slut but see i dont want to fight her because it will show on collage records and im like a good student but not a nerd you know what should i do
helppppp?? (link)
Don't hit her. It's not worth it.
You'll get five seconds of pleasure and then months of aggro from parents, teachers, other pupils.
Instead talk about it.
You got to choose between whats right and what is easy..


well do they or not?just wondering... (link)
Only stupid ones do.


i really want to find inner peace but i have no idea how to go about it. im always impacient, stressed out, and rushy. is there any websites that can give me really good ways to find inner peace? (link)
No I don't know many websites.
But if you find you have too many thoughts in your head just think about one thing.
Like Think About Trees. Just trees, not branches or leave, or winter/summer.
Just Trees.
You'll soon get the hang of doing it with other things


hey im 14/m, i just like asked this girl i love out, weve been friends for a while and i think i do love her, either that or i like her beyond belief,i got the impression that she liked me to, which just built up false hope, well anyway i asked her out, and she rejected me, told me she only saw me as a friend
i was heartbroken, still am, my feelings for her havent changed, well heres my question, is there any way to make her see me as somthing else, like get her to see me in "that way"? please i love her. (link)
Just try and be her friend. DO NOT even mention going out or anything..when she's upset comfort her, when she's happy be happy for her. Just give it time, and she might see you as something more than 'just a friend'


MY BF of two weeks is coming over tommorow and i AM FREaKING OUT!!! I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT WERE GONNA DO. I need help from everybody! What are we gonna do? Im really really really nervous around him and clam up and am uncomfortable i need ideas on waht to do and what movies to watch (LONG MOVIES.ANY HElp on waht to do/ how to act/ ad how to relaz would be VERY MUCH APPRECIATED (link)
When he ges there, just chill out and walk t.v and listen to music, then let him decide, but give him options..say do you want to stay in or go out for a movie..:)


15/f

There is a guy in my grade who 'is like in love with me' according to his friends. However, we have never talked or been introduced and do not have any classes together. The only time I see him is when we are in the halls. I was wondering, how can I get him to talk to me?

I would really like to meet him and I know he likes me.

I have previously asked this question but it was too long. Sorry for the repeat.

Thanks so much (link)
Ok..so you see him in the halls right? Smile at him. Then after doing that for a couple of days, if he hasn't had the courage to walk up to you and talk to you, walk by him and grab his hand, and put a note in it...either with your email address or phone number.
I'm sure he's more confident when your not infront of him, and then, give it a couple of days and you'll end up talking to each other in person.
Hope I Helped


everytime i see a cute guy i wanna introduce myself and everything but i get so shy and i cant get up the nerve to speak to him. my question is what should i do and how can i be less shy next time? my friend will say like come on lets go introduce ourselves then i say no lets not i really hate that im not confedent so what ca i do to be better at talking to boys that i like. i mean i have no problem talking to boys that i dont like or think are cute but when i like them or think they r cute i get all nervous and shy please help!!! (link)
You've just gotta weigh up the options, if you don't ask..you won't feel embarassed, go red or anything like that. However, if you do ask, he might think your cute, you might swap phone numbers and even go out on a date, if he doesn't see you in that way, atleast he'll be a friend!

Hope This Helps,
Sparky


hey um im not sure if u can help me but id love it if you could , there is a movie called
"the fast and the furious tokyo drift" and there is this song on there and its where sean has just gotten intothe nightclub and is taken out back and finds that han has given him a new mistubishi lancer (red) and the song has somebody whistling in it.. if you can help thankyou so much but if not thts ok and thankyou for your time..
tyron.. (link)
Umm there's a few songs from tokyo drift, but i think the song your on about is
'I wonder if you know how they live in tokyo'
by the teriyaki boys'.

Hope this helps




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