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Ok, so my parent's have been devorced for a long time and my dad is re-married. my mom has hit rock bottom, and now I have to tell an investigator ware I want to live. I am stuck in the middle, both parents think I wana live with them but I really havent decided. please help me! I'll rate 5's for none stupid awnsers.
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Well.... tough choice huh? From an outsiders point of view I have a few questions...You might want to get a piece of paper and write down your thoughts to all of these.
Does your dad and his wife have any kids (step brothers/sisters).
If not, are they planning to have a family? Would you want to be a part of that?
Does your mom need you or does she need professional help? I think your mom might need you but if you think she is in need of actual help, I would consider that.
Who would you rather come home after school to?
Who could you ask the most personal questions to?
Also if it an option, see if you can spend like the weekends or one week/weekend a month at the persons house you don't choose. And if you can do that, make sure the person you would pick for weekends would be willing to take you places. (sports events, school stuff, friends, etc.)
If thats not an option, then don't stress over it.
And ask the investegator for an extension of time if you can it might give you more time to think.
Just pick whoever you think is the right choice and once you do, call the one you don't choose often. It will brighten their day.
Hope I helped! Good luck!
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I always have trouble on picture day, I have wide shoulders and a large bustline, and not many styles of shirts look flattering, tank tops make me look like a football player, and halters are even worse. I look too busty with a v-nack, but simple shirts seem to just make everything look worse. Does anyone have any shirt ideas that can flatter or disguise my flaws?
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I think what would look best on you is either a polo shirt or a shirt with vertical stripes.... also wear your hair down but not where it covers up your face! Hope I helped! Good luck with pictures!
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Lately I've found myself eating less and become more selfconcious. My boyfriend pokes my stomach a lot in a joking way and I'll think he's poking my stomach fat. My friend called me fat, but he was kidding, but I got very defensive over it. If I skip a meal, breakfast, lunch, or dinner I wont think anything of it. I'll lie sometimes to my mom and say that I did eat when I know I didn't. I'm always hungry, but I never want to go eat anything. Are these signs of anorexia? (link)
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Don't be self-concious your great how you are. You need to eat regularly or your going to become tired (because you don't have enough calories) and then that will make you not want to do as many things and then people are going to assume you are boring including your boyfriend. SO in other words EAT REGULARLY! and do not skip meals.... your perfect the way you are... life is good you have a boyfriend and friends. Hope you listen.
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so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here. (link)
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In my opinion, you are basically just admiring them from afar. I have three things to say about all this popular kids stuff.
First of all, you have no idea what is going on. I know you know whats going on in there lives, BUT you don't know whats going on in there heads. They are just like you in some ways, alot of them have low confidence but they FAKE high self confidence.
Second, maybe you could start your own group. Something that yall could be "popular" for ya know?
And third, if you REALLY want to be in there little group... TALK to one of them, form a friendship. If you want it that bad then dont sit back and watch, DO something.
Hope I helped!
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