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Hey you guys. My name is Christina. I give pretty good advice. I give it to my friends all the time and it usually works//helps them out. Yes, I am preppy. I LOVE stores like Abercrombie and Fitch, Hollister, American Eagle and more, but those are my top 3 favorite stores. =D I love playing sports too, I'm very athletic. I love going online, talking to friends, helping people, hanging out with my friends,*&& hugging! I love looking for hot guys =] (I already love you if you give me a big hug! =D ) And more stuff. So ask away!

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so about two months ago i found out that my best friend basically was talking about me behind my back, so i told her off and we both got really pissed and just stopped talking. last week she apologized and it seemed like she meant it so i told her it was ok. so the other day she was at my house and she was on advicenators.com, and i guess she forgot to log out because today i came onto this site and clicked on "your questions" and saw that they werent mine so i was confused and i clicked on one. in it she basically bashed our whole group of six friends, she said only herself and my two other friends were pretty and she said one of them was only pretty "sometimes". then she continued to talk about another friend (who even though she used a different name, i could tell was me because she talked about the same stuff that she was using to talk about me behind my back) and how she thought that i COULD be pretty but im ugly right now and how can she help me. but she made it sound like im some person who doesnt know how to take care of myself, like i have no idea how to use a razor and i never wash my face so its all greasy, which is NOT true. i started shaving even before she did! and im not sure how i should react cause in one way its flattering that she cares about me enough to want to help me with my "problems", but in another way im insulted because she said that "no guys pay attention to her" which isnt true, a bunch of guys have specifically said that they thought im hot. and she said that i always wear the same clothes and that even when its really hot out ill wear jeans and a sweatshirt, but its really mean of her to assume that because she doesnt understand that im really self conscious cause shes like the skinniest person alive shes a size 00 and im a size 5, and she doesnt know that so she talks about how her friend who is a size 3 is fat to me. and when i first the question she wrote i was so mad at her, she was making all these rude accusations when she doesnt even know the truth. it makes me not wanna be friends with her anymore knowing that she thinks of me as like a little girl who doesnt know how to take care of herself and needs "help". but i cant confront her about it cause then she'll know i was snooping on her account, even though it was an accident. what do u think i should do to prove her wrong about all that? sorry this was so long. thanks!!!

Hey!
Wow, I am so, so sorry for everything that had happened.
Personally, in my opinion, I think that she's just really, really jealous of you.
Well, I would ask her about the site and ask if she had a username and if so, what it was and if she tells you say "Hey, I go on advicenators too, and I ask questions, so I thought that they were my answers, because I didn't know that you went on it,I was just really hurt about some of the stuff you said and I was hoping that we could talk about it."
You are not fat! A size 5 is perfect! And I, in my opinion, this a size 00 is WAY too skinny, it might be going through depression, or an eating disorder but I'm not 100% shure, only about half.
Well, if you don't want to use that one idea, considering you said you couldn't confront her, I'd start talking about stuff and use the stuff she used in her questions to maybe describe stuff and if she gets a little jittery then you should know what's up.


I'm really sorry if I didn't answer your question fully! If you need more help inbox me *&& I will answer the questions. Nothings ever to long!

Well Good lucky and I hope everything goes well!
♥Christina

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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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Dump him.
He's doing a really bad thing and he won't break up with the other girl.
If he really loved you [[I know he does]] but he wouldn't cheat on you
You deserve someone WAY better.
What if you want to get married? Are you guys still going to share him and live in the same house?
If it were me in this situation, I would've dumped him at the second.
If your going to break up, afterwards, go spend some time with your friends to get your mind off of things, friends can really help, and you will find someone much better

Hope I helped and Good Luck!
♥ Christina

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I noticed that the new movie Monster House will be playing in 3-D in select theaters. I was wondering how you find out what website you can look that up on. I know most of you will tell me to Google it and I really did, but does anyone know a specific website I can log onto to find out what theaters?

By the way: I live in Kansas City, Missouri incase someone from my area might know.

Thank you.

http://www.imax.com/ImaxWeb/theatresResults.do?country=code__.__US&state=countryCode__.__US__..__stateCode__.__MO&city=country__.__US__..__state__.__MO__..__city__.__Kansas%20City
Well, that's what I got..sorry!
I really want to see it to! A guy I like is in it. [[Mitchel Musso, DJ]]
Well, i'm sorry! I hope it gets played, you could keep checking back and see if it starts playing, but I dont think it's in 3-D that's the problem.
Sorry If I couldn't help that much
♥ Christina

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does anyone know what the average clothing size and inches around your waist or hips is for a 15 year old female??

Yeah, everybody's size is different and there is no accurate size. Some people go through puberty differently and at different times, so I don't think so.
If your really concerned about it, go talk to your doctor about it, he can help you and see if your overweight or underweight or fine.


Sorry I couldn't help that much
♥ Christina

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16/f

tomarrow im supposed to hang out with a boy i really like. but i dont know what to talk about with him. i know he likes me too, and we are on the verge of going out..but i dont want there to be an awkward silence or anything..i know his favorite sports and everything..so idk.. what strikes up a good conversation and how can i get him to ask me out soon??

thanks in advance

OMGSH, first of all I just want to tell you that I'm so happy for you!

Well, maybe get to know him even better, ask questions about him.

You could talk about: TV Shows, Music, Summer, etc. If there is an awkward silence [[what I do when theres an awkward silence]] I either laugh and they'll ask why [[guys love it when you smile]] and like, remember a funny remember. Remember the good times.
Hope I helped *&& GOOD LUCK!

♥ Christina

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i want to get my tounge pierced but i want to know if it hurts and if theres anything i have to do to my tounge before i get it pierced or after please help.

Well I think that it would really hurt and I think your going through a nerve. Yeah, i think that in advance they would tell you what you need to do to have your tounge not get infected,you'll just need to clean it afterward.

GOOD LUCK!

Hope I helped
♥ Christina

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im like really bad with cell phones and dont know much about the carriers and different types and blahblahblah. well anyway right now i have a verizon lg something, but i really want a new phone. i was looking online and came across the razr. well i always knew of it i just never really wanted it or anything. anyway. i was looking at everything it had and it really looked like a phone i'd want and i REALLY liked the magenta color.. but i dont want to switch to a different carrier or whatever, i want to stick with verizon. is that possible? lol sorry i seriously have no clue what im talking about, im really confused. if anyone understands me, can you please help me out! thank youu!! =]

hey
yeah you could! i have the RAZR for Verizon Wireless, except mines kinda a blue-ish grey and my friend has the light pink. I'm pretty shure you could, just go to a Verizon wireless company [[where the phones are sold]] and ask them what colors they have *&& the salesperson should be nice enough to help you with your phone.
They should, that's what they're there for!
Otherwise, I could help!

Hope I helped!
♥ Christina

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

However you think of it.
Love has a different definition to everyone.
I think that love is..

Love is seeing him how no one else does
Love is when you know hes not perfect but you see him perfectly
Love is thinking about him day & night
Love is when he means the world to you
Love is when no one else knows how you feel
Love is the best feeling you can feel

just some of that love is the closest thing to magic.

♥ ~*Christina*~

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i haven't made out with anyone, and i feel so alone. I feel like i'm ugly and no one likes me because guys make out with girls that i'm prettier and nicer than. how come no one likes me?

Awww! Don't think that!
Nobody is ugly.
Everybody get's prude once in a while, but after you kiss, it's like, I was scared to do that?
But everyone has somebody out there!
They must just missing out on a lot.
Have one of your friends hook you up with one of their friends that would be your type, so you might not be as nervious around them.
Don't change for ANYONE!!! Always be yourself NO MATTER WHAT.


Hope I Helped!
xO ~*Christina*~

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hey, well im 13/f and i recently just got a gift from my aunt. she bought me clothes from LIMITED TOO! EWW! well im not just going to ask her for the receipt so that i can get money back. so will the store let me return the items and get money back? also i just bought shorts from pacsun and decided that i dont like them anymore. i lost teh recipet. will i get money back? cait♥

Heyy!
Yeah, well you might most likely just get store credit if you return it without a reciept.
Maybe you could have a garage sale and sell the clothes, some other people I'm sure would be so happy to buy the stuff for less and you could make some extra money!
Or maybe you could tell your aunt they don't fit you, and she could give you the reciept, and you could pick out something from another store.
Maybe next time she gives you a present you could clue her in on what you want (Like if I want to get something like if I'm in Abercrombie I'd say "I want that!! Could you get me that for my birthday?" or "For my birthday I want stuff from here." Then just make a list.)

Hope I could help
xO ~*Christina*~

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Okay so i am nearly 200 pounds overweight...i know i need to lose weight but i have no motivation...does anyone know of anything that could really motivate at 15 year old girl? Thanks

Hey!
Whenever I felt like giving up, I'd picture myself in my new body, how I'd look and everything.
If I was on the phone, I'd work my legs, to pass the time.
If I was on the treadmill, I would put a picture of my favorite celebrity and look at them and think "I can do this!"
Just don't let the media put you down. They have photoshoping and everything which I think is seriously unrealistic
Keep a food diary, it could help you.
If you need motivation I'm here for you!
If I'd eat a certain food, I'd ask myself before "How would I feel about eating this afterwards?"
Inbox me and I'd be pleased to help//motivate you!

Hope I helped!
xO ~*Christina*~

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Hi Christina!
Well I really like this guy in my grade. He seems everything to me but i honestly am getting mixed signals.Its really confusing me ALOT!!! All my friends say that he likes me but i am not shure...I need to get him alone somehow and i read those signs for that other persons question and i really dont see any of those signs...well i have no clue what to do!!! i need help!!!! and fast the skool year is almost over!!! lol
-confused dilema

Well, listen to your gut//heart.
What do you think about this?
Is your instinct telling you he likes you (well re-look them and carefully evaluate each question, think hard and long - not too long! ha - and still see if you may have one
of those signs)
If your friends say it then it may be true, they usually don't lie, (well atleast the trust-worthy ones)
Like I said.
Have a group of people && invite him go somewhere. (Bowling, the movies, etc.)
Then just talk to him alone and get to know him better
And if it was meant to be, it'll come naturally.

Hope I could help
xO ~*Christina*~

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Hey Crissy-Tina!!!
I know you ....hehe
well there is this guy that i really like and i dont know if he likes me or not.How could i tell??? and how do i ask him to hang out???

Hey!
Uhm, I think I have a feeling who it is, so haha I (think) Iknow you too.
Ohkay well first think about it.
Does your gut tell you that he does?
Listen to your gut, if you think he does then go for it? Honestly, what do you have to lose?
It's better to know that you went for something instead of regretting it 5 years later, wondering what would have happened if you haven't.

Some signs that he may like you are:
~He could start talking loudly when you're by him
~He could become shy (yes, every guy becomes shy at one point or another even if they're the most populaur guy out there)
~You could barely hear him when he talks to you (He mumbles)
~His friends may be looking at you-watching what you do-when he's not there
~He smiles when talking to you//Looks into your eyes for a long time
~Flirts with you
~Hangs out with you when you're with a group of people

If you have any of these signs but your not 110% shure he likes you. Smile (try your best one, but don't act like nervous - you shouldn't get nervous around guys, there like you, sept not in some ways.Ha.) and see if he smiles back

EDiiT: If you want to ask him to hang out. Just do it. If he does it'll just come to you naturally. Get a group of people to go with you guys then talk to him privately. Ask him how basketball is and stuff. Or what he likes to do in his spare time.

I hope I could have helped

xO ~*Christina*~

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