Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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this is a very embarrising topic but i have a gf who has done numerous things to me (sexually) the problem is i truly dont know the perfect way to finger a girl.....very embarrassing but please help (link)
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From experience... don't just poke away... take it slow.... slide them in and out til she gets wet... do what was suggested earlier with the whole "come hither" motion... when she's really wet maybe slip in another finger because i knwo when i get really wet i don't feel just two fingers so my boyfriend uses a third... its best to read her face... watch... if she cringes or looks in pain slow down a bit... but sometimes a look of extreme pleasure can be confused with pain... make sure you communicate with her. Remember... she is a girl... girls like the whole communication and closeness of sexual activities... its the boys that don't liek to talk about it ususally...
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I was over at my friend's house today and we started fooling around and I gave him and handjob and he asked me to give him head. After a while i did but it only lasted a few seconds before he told me he was about to cum. He did so I guess he liked it but I started to worry because it didn't last long so I didn't get to do much. I'm afraid I didn't do well and he won't want to do it again. He kept touching me and stuff the rest of the day but..I dunno. advice? (link)
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He just lacks control... or you were so good he couldn't hold it back. If a guy gets off fast its not cause you were bad... its cause you were so good he couldnt' hold it back any longer
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hey im a guy and i always feel like my penis is small, i know its not but sometimes i just look atmy self and say that it has to be bigger but it doesnt is this bad? (link)
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how big is it? i'll give you an honest answer on whterh or not your small... but also remember... some girls like small dicks... they are easier to get all the way in and they don't hurt and they are 10X better for blow jobs
inbox me with your size and i'll let you know
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im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight (link)
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One experience doesn't "turn" you bi... you are bi by choice... its normal to experiment as a teen.
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Alright well I have this ex boyfriend that i was with for over a year...im only 15 right now so thats pretty long in my eyes. Well we fought alot and broke up but still remained kind of friends. Well we had plans last week that we were going to get back to gether, than friday i called him because he wanted to hang out that night and this girl answers his cell phone..then she was mean to me and he was like "I dont wanna talk to you right now" then saturday i called him and hes like "I really like this girl and I want to be with her". Ive never cried as hard in my life as I did this weekend..Now last night he calls me saying that shes missing something that he needs, and then he says that he misses me. IM so confused right now. I dont mind him being with some one else as long as hes happy but I think that girl is into him for all of the wrong reasons..because my ex is rich, really rich, his parents drive hummers and corvettes..he has a camero and all these different cars. I just dont want him to get hurt..ya know? but then again im hurting because i love him and hes a great person...ughhhh i dont know what to do...please help me!!!
I rate high im sorry for how long it is (link)
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I don't think he's worth your time... if he's gonna to toy with your emotions liek this then he's not worth you. I'd move on and find someone that really knwos how to treat a girl
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Has anyone switched from Lexapro to Paxil CR?
I was wondering about the transistion time.
I was taking Lexapro (20mg daily) & my Dr switched me to Paxil CR (starting w/25mg daily).
While I was on the Lexapro over the last 4 months, I just kept waiting for it to start working & felt hopeful - but it just got worse. I felt extremely hopeless, was missing work & had uncontrollable crying, to the point that I didn't want to get out of bed.
This is still happening & I was wondering how long it will take to start feeling the Paxil. My Dr had said the transition wouldn't be too bad since I was switching & not starting out fresh with the Paxil. He had me cut the Lexapro to half the dose (10mg) for 4 days, and then exactly a week ago I started with the 25mg of Paxil CR.
I not only suffer from depression, but also anxiety & OCD. If I'm not worried or obsessing about something then I go into a depression. I'm 48 years old and this has always been my pattern.
I've had many unsuccessful tries w/the other SSRI's over the years & am hoping the Paxil will give me some relief. At this point, my self-esteem, which has never been very good, is all but gone.
I see a wonderful counselor in addition to my Psych, and have tried every self-help & group therapy approach there seems to be. I feel very frustrated.
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My sister took Paxil for awhile... she seemed happier when she took it and you could tell when she forgot to take it. She decided to stop taking it though becasue of the whole suicide affect on teens.... it worried my parents. She's fine now that she's grown up... she's kind of grown out of her depression. I don't knwo about the whole switching thing... but if your doctor prescribed it i would assume they believe it will work for you without terrible sideaffects
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okay, im 17 and ive had sex before and ive been fingered but like..im to emabarrased/scared to let the guy eat me out. If i was a guy i would never want to do that..it seems so nasty, bc of like discharge and stuff. im scared of what he'll say or think...anyone who had this problem or has it any advice would be great. thanks. (link)
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Um... remember... boys are boys... for them ... shoving their face down there is like heaven... they don't mind discharge... and if they do i'm sure they just won't go down on you... just don't be self concious... but remmber... keep yourself well groomed down there... som earlier questions have addressed that issue... but don't worry.. guyz like get puwssy juice all over them...
have fun
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ok i need i guys point of veiw or a girl who has been with a guy do guys like ur *pubic hair* hairy shaved a little hair but not a lote no hair??? what do they like i no everyone has a different point of view juss plzz help me
plz no stupid ass answers
*i rate high* (link)
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I've been with my boyfriend while i've been groomed, trimmed, and then bald... he prefer's bald because he doens't like the mouth full of hair. But hey... some guyz have a fetsih for hair cooch.... its really a personal issue... i'd shave it personally... at least most of it... maybe leave a patch near the top... but at the very least keep it short so its not dirty looking.
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Since a year ago, I've always wanted to have lesbian sex. But, I don't know how to ask girls to "do it" with me! Please help!
I rate high ;o) (link)
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If you knwo lesbians then your fine... If you try to ask random girls then it might be harder. I think your better off finding someone who is openly les/bi. Otherwise your dealing with the backlash of offending someone or having themn tell other straight peopel your lesbian
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If I finger myself, how messy will my finger get? Because I seriously hate to get my finger all cummy.
I'll rate 5's for good answers!! (link)
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It depends on your personal body. If you have a lot of glands down there it could get pretty messy, if you have less, you could actually stay dry. But if you want to, its just one of the side affects. If you hate being cummy then get a dildo or a vib.
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My boyfriend and I are having a debate about whether or not sperm is still active when it hits the air. Sometimes after we have sex (we use a condum) sperm will be on me or him and he worries that it will travel into my vagina and make me pregnant. I've always heard that once sperm hits the air it's dead. Who's right? (link)
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Its not dead right away. You can pretty much assume its dead as soon as its dry and no longer sticky. But i'd wash off just to be safe.
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i wanna have sex so bad i finger my self everyday does neguy wanna contact me??? leave me ur # and ill call i dont care if you live in Missippi......ill drive i live in NC
P.S my holes tight so guys......it will feel GOOD (link)
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How did this question get approved... this is very unsafe. I wouldn't reccommend finding random guyz for sex.
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Hi, I shave my lower area but somehow it always get irritaed with bumps and everything. Is there any other way not to get these? Please help. (link)
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If you use a good body creme... like Olay... i put that on as soon as i get in teh shower down there and then i shampoo and condition and then i put more on down there and then i shave my legs, pits, and then wash off the Olay and then put lots of shaving cream on down there and then shave normal. I get very few bumps, and if any they are along the line where my underwear goes. If you have questions put one in my inbox
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13/m when i was like 5 me and my freind looked at each others dick and then when i was 7 this happened again i dont like boys at all i only like girls and there the only gender i want to have sex with does this mean iam gay or bi or none we were young i dont think it meant anything but lately ive been starting to think about it. (link)
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Its normal. Curiosity is a normal human function. I know someone, him and his friend gave eachother blowjobs when they were like 13... just experimental. They both turned out to be compltley straight. Curiosity can make you do funny things as a teen. Hormones too.
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my guy wants to try me being on top but i dont know how any advice? (link)
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Just get on top of him... one leg on each side in a straddle position. Rest your pelvic region on his ... thats pretty much all there is too it... not rocket science
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I know there have been alot of kiss questions lately so I'm sorry if this has been asked before. When my boyfriend & I are kissing, we don't use any tongue & I think that's because we haven't been dating for long & we're just getting used to eachother. Is there anything we can do to make the kisses more exciting without tongue?
Thanks,
Elle (link)
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You could try nibbling his lip... although this is dangerous because you could accidently bite to hard and piss him off
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months, and we havent done anything sexual yet. all we do is make out ALL the time. lately he has been asking me to give him oral sex, which i am willing to do. the problem is, i have never given head before and my boyfriend has never gotten it before neither. i know how to give it, im just worried that i may do something wrong and my boyfriend wont enjoy it. if anybody can give me any advice id appreciate it. thanks. i rate high =) (link)
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He'll be so excited that he;s getting his first blow job, he'll probably shoot no matter wehat you do... Just start slow... ask him if he's enjoying it every once in a while. Communication is key. If you can't communicate with him about sexual needs then you aren't ready for secual stuff.
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i am a girl that is very sexual with my boyfirend. and every time he eats me out or we have sex i always moan and etc but i dont cum.. he cums all the time when we have sex or i give him head.. and etc.. but why arent i cumming too? (link)
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Girls don't always like squirt liek a guy does... i myself have orgasim's and nothign comes out til a few hours later. And its more a an ooze then a squirt... Just make sure you knwo your orgasiming when he's pleasuring you... and if he's not make him keep goign til you do. Its not liek guyz don't like eating out their girlfriend so the logner you let him stay down there the more excited you will get. I woudl recommend him getting you off first because girls can have multiples voer and voer... whereas guyz have to recharge after one... so have him get you off.... how ever long it takes... then get him off and then go back to you. He;'ll love it. Put some in my inbox if you need more help.
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I still dont understand eating a girl out. How do you "eat a girls' vagina"? Can someone please tell me how a guy goes about doing it and what he actually does? Like how does he start to do it nd what does the girl do?
sry it jus doesnt make sense.
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Eating a girl out involves licking and sucking softly. Focus attention on her clit... and your good to go.
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me and my bf were messing around..i gave him a handjob and when he was ready to come he turned to his side and cummed in the grass...about 5-10 minutes later he fingered me..i know the chances are slim...but have any of you heard of a story where a girl got pregnent from a guy jacking off, getting some on his hands, and fingering the girl?
how long can the sperm live for...and its not like he jizzed all over his hands (i didnt see if he did but he probably didnt ..correct?) so i shouldnt be worrying right?
thanks to all who help!!! (link)
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Well it is possible... although chance's are slim cause sprem don't live that long. I'd watch your body carfully and if you see any changes go to your doctor. Also... you can't ask us how much he got on his hand... we were there
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