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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen. (us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)
You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?
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Well, I do have one friend. She's not in my grade so I barely see her besides weekends. & even then, she has other friends to hang out with as I used to...
Which brings me to the real topic. I lost all my school friends. They got into drinking & hanging out with people who do that & smoke & everything but.. I don't like doing that. Today I tried telling them that we're not even friends anymore & I feel stupid still acting like we are, when in reality I have none. They told me that they've changed & I haven't. & they wanna like, make the best out of high school. So I'm supposed to do what? One even told me to hang out with these other girls who I'm only sorta close with one of.. & I have social anxiety disorder so it's really hard for me to just ask people to hang out when I barely talk to them. This sucks. They made it worse by saying that I could make friends & stuff.. it just feels awful to know I have no friends at school. Even though a lot of people talk to me at school, they'd never think about asking me to hang out. Which is even worse than not having any friends besides a small clique. Now summer's coming up & I'm going to have no life.. I don't know what to do with myself right now. Should I say anything to my old friends? How do I make new ones without feeling like an idiot? How do I see my old friends & act like nothing happened?
This helps to get it out & I don't really know exactly what I'm asking here but if anyone can relate? shed some light? Please.
same here. That is exactly what happens to me. Now over the summer I'm taking summer school, I'll make some friends there, and I'm going to join clubs and sports to get myself in some clique. you should try asking someone to hangout, and try what I'm about to try. trust measking anyone this same question, you'll get the same answers, because not everyone has been through this without changing themselves some how. you should be more open and invite all those people over for popcorn and a movie, so when those people atre asked what did u do ova the weekend. they can say thjey were with you. to make you a noticeable friend
good luck, and wish me good luck
Okay i usually use secret deotorant, but lately it hasnt seemed to be working well. i'm really embarassed but i get really stiny and sweaty! is there any other kinds of deotorant i can use that will work better? i need help please!
use dove deorrants or even roll on deoderants that enter your skin the clean the sweat that comes out. Secret never works. I've used that for a long time and all it does is make your sweat smell like spoiled food.
where do you get hair extensions like the real ones?
and how do you take them out if you dont want them anymore?
Thankss
honey you have asked the right person. I'm black, native of the people who created hair extensions. So there are different ways to get hair extensions in you can braid them in, you can sew them in, and you can most definitely glue them in,
if you are caucasian, you might want to glue them in, in betweens layers of hair. When you no longer want them you oil it down. to remove the HAIR EXTENSION GLUE (what you should use) from your hair.
Professional extensions can be somewhere from $80 and up depends on how close you are to the person, and another thing. Do not put them in yourself. Trust me I've tried it, my blonde friend tried, she fucked her hair up :) Good Luck
P.S. I'm sure you don't want to wake up bald like britney spears so seek professional advice
so i said some things about this pregnant girl in my school and somehow the stuff i said got back to her and she wrote me a letter bitching me out and now i feel bad...how should i respond?
what should i do?
well let me just say this:
she's pregnant, yes, but you don't know her that well, and you say stuff about her.
did you say she was slutasish or something :)... sorry, anyway. if you don't know her story don't judge her, and talk to her in person, and explain yourself, and at the same time let her know you want to be cool wit her.
i can tell you know they are millions of girls that may have done the same thing it normal for girls to bitch, F**k... bitch is in the description, LOL.
That's the best I can hope. because by saying stuff that aren't true, or true to other people, even if you don't notice it you're starting a rumor, which explains her anger, she can't stop the talk so she has to blame you. she's not wrong.
talk to her, if she won't let go, let her be, and buy her baby a present or somethin"
ok well i sometimes use the water faucet to pleasure myself and i was wondering if like water in ur pussy is a bad thing. could it mess something up? after i do it water comes out so i dont know. haha k thanx
naw, its good for you, evry girl needs to pleasure herself but the bad thing about water up the pussy is the fact thaat it can get into your tubes, and work its way in other places. Its dangerous. Especially when you've got your period. but don't be ashamed of masterbation, youre not the only one out there
Hiya,
My mum has a vibrator & I reach climax with it ever time, I feel so bad because it's her's! I'm 13, is there anything I can you use in the same way?
your mom must be walkin' it out, like the cool mama she is :)
anyway do not use your mama's vibrator, thet like... i know it sounds nasty but having sex with you mom using the same dildo. Get your own before she finds out you used hers. I've heard spencer's got one
I have been having sex for probally about 5 years, but latley like in the past 2 months when ever I orgasm or even have sex, when I get up I feel real dizzy and I have to sit down for a while. Is that normal or is something going on that I need to talk to my doctor about?
having to many orgasms can irritate the rectum causing you to feel bloating. I would see your doctor, but at the same time... ;)brace yourself
that aberombie and hollister, is NOT fashionable AT ALL. i mean, when you think about it, all it is it says there name, and has a seagull on it. i mean if you love seagulls or mooses, then pshh its the store for you. but if not, then it freakin sucks. i mean, if you look at what they have, its like always the sameee. and i dont know, i just think its no longer nothing special. and im realizing that theres alot of other stuff out there. but ive shopped at abercrombie and hollister for so long, i dont know what are cute true fashion stores.
what are some?
since you are sick of abercrombie and holister, then honey you at the right eye point, i design fashion so i do admire styles of:
forever 21- less expensive
bebe- more expensive
H&M
Charlotte Ruse
DEB
Rainbow
Urban Outfitters
or if you changed into more of a punk rock type:
pac sun- mild range
Zumiez- mild range
or something like that
but you're a person who just came from old trend styles, so i would suggest forever 21, or h&m for you, good luck
14/f
this is gonna sound retarded, but what is masturbating? i dont get it. like what do you do? ive seen people be like, whats some good ideas for it? like what is it exactly? and when i asked my friend she just like started cracking up, and was like your kidding right. well i dont get it, what is it?
to basically have sex with your self to stroke yourself with fingers, andmake sounds of sex, and pleasure, it is often used in porno movies, and in some movie scenes. Its correct name is lust, which in the bible is bad, but the world has changed
What does everyone think are the major problems with school, and how we are with other teens and stuff like that?
talk about as much as you can
too much gossip, and drama between girls
and way too much competition, and then when you are away from school that all changes
very odd
my boyfriend doesnt want to cum in my vagina so i dont get pregnant, but what can he do to finish?
Have you learned about sex before letting it loose, honey you need to use condoms, and put a towel down. No matter what your man will cum, by not using a condom, you two can cause HIV/AIDS. Second of all, you will become pregnant, and birth control pills can't help you with this one.
Nobody tryna boss you around he just letting you know the naked truth before things go wild. Brace yourself, sex is an incredible ride :) :)
Does anyone know where i would be able to watch online the episode of Oprah which had the Duggar Family on it??
I would appreciate it soo much!!
Thankss!
To tell you the truth oprah shows are extremely limited to find away from ABC, so you must try youtube see if someone had gotten a hold of the episode and had posted it. Otherwise, try limewire, or wait for the reruns.
Alright, well, I'm going dancing with a couple of people this weekend and I need to figure out what to wear. It's not going to be a like, club club place but it's basically like that.
Now I don't really dress like whatever you want to call normal, I guess. I wear whatever I want to wear, but if you want to call it something, I dress sort of punky/artsy along those lines. Just a mixture of that. I basically don't wear the attire that people normally do whenever they go out to clubs. I asked one of my friends if a purple tube top and some black skinny jeans would look good [ I think it would ] and they said I'd probably be the only person there wearing jeans, every other girl's going to be wearing skirts and whatnot.
Does anybody have any ideas on some cute outfits I could possibly try and throw together? I have a jean skirt and tank tops and such, but I'm not too big on sandals and not high heels. I'm more of a flats kind of girl.
honey you are going dancing, wear a fit tunic, but loose at the thighs, use colors. red, black, navy blue, or a unique but not complicated purple.
What ever heels, or stilletos you wear make sure, they match your earrings,whtever lipstick you use must match the dress, and use aveeno moisturizing lotion, to lotion down the feet, and arms. all eyes wil be on you, if you are a little more heavy, I have slender, and plus size advice also. Good Luck. :) :) :) :)
Ok well when I always eat anything oily anf greasy my mom insists that I eat cucumber slices with it or after I eat it.
I found out recently that if I rubbed a cucumber slice on my skin, my skin will be oilly-free for a longer period. (Not rub but like the way how you would put blush on your skin).
Is cucumber for oily stuff? I thought I said it's a myth. What the part of the cucumber that gets rid of the oily-ness?
honey its a myth, the cucumbers do nothing but lightly lumb the pores until it is taken off, it doesn't change the texture, that's why they are only used on the eyes. search for moisturizers that actually open up your pores, to cleanse the dirty oil out of your skin, oil cause zits, pimples, and great acne, it needs to be taken seriously, Good Luck :)
cucumbers used to be the beauty tip, but today not as much. since times have changed
14/f. hey!!! ok, well, just about 10. min ago, i had my first kiss!! but, i don't know if i'm doing it right/good. he says i do it good, but i don't feel like i am. he was about to say something that i should change, but then someone called on the fone, and he didn't finish my sentance. so, yeah.. how do u know if your doin it right?? thanks!
You know what they say the first kiss tells you if your relationship will work out or it won't. Not to be the barrior of bad news but this could be a sign of relationship failure, or you guys had done it with question, not automaticly by heart. so it felt like nothing. The best kisses (hard to believe) are the unprepared ones.Just ask your man what he really thought about your kiss and work from there.
I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.
Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.
If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.
You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)
This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.
Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!
Everyone will receive feedback.
Thank you!
P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.
fried chicken'
fried rice
bistcuit
potato salad
mashed potatoes
gumbo
lasagna
i want to cut my bangs. My side swept bangs are getting long and i want to trim them or whatever.I dont know where to start cutting and where to end. im sure other people here have cut their own, so help?
you should cut in a diagonal line, towards the hair, on the bang. And make sure its in line with your nose that way it looks best, and balanced. no matter what color hair you have. work the new hair gurl, peace
So I really like this guy! LIKE SO SO SO SO SO SO SO MUCH! But here's the thing: I never actually talked to him, I never even said one word. But I was at this party and I was talking to one of my friends and he sat next to me but didn't say anything. It was during cocktail hour so you could sit wherever you want. I was kind of suprised cause i'm not even his friend and he just sat at the table. Also, we had assigned seats during the actualy party but no one was in a seat at my table and he sat there. But I think maybe that was because his friends were at the table. But theres some things that make me think he doesn't like me. He doesn't ever stare at me or try to talk to me. I mean if he tryed to strike a conversation with me or stared at me I would know for sure. I'm confused, does he like me?
you asked for the TRUTH.....
CONGRATS, GURL!! you have met SHY. the thing with shy guys, they just like to sit and look cute, and wait for a girl to say something.
next time you see him, be like. "have i seen you somewhere?" (even though you have), and continue the conversation from there. That way if he can tell you exactly where you've seen him its a leading clue to him liking you. Then get deeper in there, gurl.........i do mean talkin'
hey. ok. so i heard this song the other day on the raido, but idk what it is. this is what i remember, and i think it's the begining of the song. "i was always told that the deffinition of a true man was to never cry" or something like that. and there was another part that was somethin like "teach me how to love" or something. i know a guy sang it. please please don't tell me to google it because it came up with absolutly NOTHING!!! thanks a bunch!!!!!!!!! xoxo
ooooooooooooo, its called
"TEACH ME"
BY: MUSIQ
ok so we connected internet, road runner, on my computer. so now we dont have dialup we have a modem. which is way easier and better.
but now my dad bought me a laptop and i tried to connect my modem to my laptop to get internet but i cant what can i do to get internet on my laptop. it doesnt matter if i cant get it on my computer anymore because my dad is going to sell it but i want to use my laptop but dont know how to get internet. please help thanks!
you have to make sure your laptop has wireless, or bluetooth, if you don't it won't work. call the company of the computer, because i don't know the kind u have, and ask them about internet compatibility on your laptop