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Now i know this will sound weird, but im in an online relationship. And i have been together with my boyfriend for over 1 year. I know he is the right guy. He stayed up till 3 in the morning just to chat with me. Suddenly he is different. He just writes me at least once a month, and i tell him, if he has no interest in me he dont have to write. But he tells me he doesnt want to loose me, and he if under a lot of stress and he will tell me all later. he tells me he still loves me. But everytime that happens, he writes HON, WHY DONT U WRITE? what the fuck???? i dont understand. Is he buissy? why cant he spend time with me? should i keep writing him, just like he told me too, just cause hes buissy? or whats wrong? please help I WILL RATE

Have you met him face to face? you should realize that this is a realationship on the net you can't tell if its him or not. you need to try to see if this is for real. call him,see him. but be safe. like i said it could be anyone. its best to have a face to face realationship.

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ok so i just got back from a trip to paris for a week and the whole time from the minute i got to the airport i could not stop thinking about my best guy friend. so yeah i like him alot but its alittle more complicated than that. me and him are friends with benefits but because we're best friends we've always said "i love you" but just as friend. so now i think i really love him. i havent seen him in like 2 and a half weeks and i miss him alot. then yesterday we were talking online and he told me how much he missed me too. i dont know how to tell him i like him and i cant tell if he is interested in me as more than a best friend or a friend with benefits.

Are you going to live far away? if not then see him hang out with him, show signs like sit close, lean on him, flirt, and play around too. ask him if he is intersed of anyone elus, tell him how you felt when you were gone. that "every night i think of you and wounder how you are" he might responed back with a good answer. just dont try and hold it back, cause you'll never know his answer.

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month.. and recently hes just been trying to get me to have sex with him. i dont want to. im 14 and just not ready. i like my boyfriend alot. we live next to eachother and hangout everday. but in school he barly talks to me when hes with his friends.
then theres my good friend, mike. he has a girlfriend but ALWAYS flirts with me. honestly, i flirt with him alot too. but usally we are always joking around. then today we started getting serious. today he texted me and i texted him back but he didnt text me back yet and i went to my boyfriends house and i was waiting for him to text me back. it was weird. then i started to think what if i told my boyfriend i think i like mike alittle. but i couldnt immagine breaking up with him. which i dont like, cause me and my friend told eachother scince were only 14 and got a long way to go, were not going to get attached to guys. and i dont want to get attached to him because what if we do break up? like i would not want to just cry and cry. =[ i have no idea what to do. should i try telling my boyfriend whats going on? but how? i dont know =[

Seems like your bf only wants your sex. if he loves you and wants to be with you no matter what he'll respect you and not try to get you in bed. As for your friend mike seems like something is going on here. first talk to mike see if he likes you too, if yes and you want to be with him but dont want to hurt your bf you have to make a choseic of who you want. its hard but if you seem sooo confused you'll blow up! belive me i almost did.

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OK... theres this girl at work that im REALLY into, and i know shes feelin me too. Shes currently with her girlfriend of about almost 2 years now, but their relationship has been on the rocks for awhile now. Before, i was giving her advice, and just trying to be there for her.. but things happened from there, and now i cant get her off my mind. The thing is.. we hooked up a few times, and yes... she is still with her girlfriend. She tells me that she doesnt know if she WANTS to be with her girlfriend, but she really does still love her. She tells me that she still wants me in her life, and i do want to be there... I know she has feelings for me... but shes just in a hard spot.
Now that her girlfriend is doing better, and her relationship "seems" to be doing ok... should i just find a way to drop my feelings for her and let her work on her relationship? Or should I keep things the way they are, and continue to be there for her?
I do want to be with her... but i want her to be happy..with me.. or with her girlfriend. I want to be here for her, to let it be known that im going to be here for her, but the way things are.. im the other woman.. and i dont like this feeling. should i back off?

You should tell her how you feel, keeping it on hold will not be good for you. she seems confused and doesnt want to hurt anyone. Take your time and let her have some space between you and her. but when your ready and the time is right tell her how you feel.

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