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my name is emiLy mostly remixed as emMa ,eM, or eMmy.. i love gymnastics, cheering,soccer,basketball , football & baseball ( but i dont play those 2 lOL), hanging with my friends, and of course giving advice ..you can ask me anything =).. X0OX

my life is ever so messed up, i know you think that I`m head-over-heels in love with you but its just a crush..a crush thats crushing me.♥
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high

-confused (link)
Its your choice.. but go for it. ( ask him out )


ok well my friend really likes this kid, and i think he likes her but im not sure. he has a web page and on it it says in a relationship but it never said who so i think he just wanted to put it in there. they talk on the phone and all she talks about is this kid but i dont want her heart to be broken if he does have a girlfriend, cause she really likes him. i have a strange feeling about him cause he smokes and drinks but she said she doesn't care. What should i do to help her? (link)
I would just tell her your worried or what you think about him. Try to get her to meet or hang out with other boys. See if any other boys liek her , help her get to know him , an make plans with him . I`m sorry I can`t tell you exactly what to say* I hope i helped you in some way tho.

♥emMa *X0OOXXOX
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me n my friend have been friends for 6 yearsz n she starts hangin out with othah ppl. im worried bout her cusz all those kids r bad n use drugs. ive tryed to talk to her before but she jus doesnt wana hea it. n im scared if i tell her im worried then she wuld beat me up cusz shesz getting violent . help! (link)
you can just talk to her and I think she will understand you are worried about her! I mean she shouldnt kick your a*syou`ve been best friends for 6 years!! She prob. wouldnt do that but then again I dont know who you are talking about. If you are still scared then talk to another friend about it, ask her to talk to her with you , your other freind ( the one of 6 years ) cant beat up everyone and if more than one person talks to her she should get that every one is worried and what she is doing or what her new friends do is bad and she needs to get away from that. If she doesnt listen you could talk to your mom or her mom about it .. or a gaurdian anyone who you can trust and is older. You could even go to a teacher.I hope I helped..Rate honestly hun!

♥ emiLy* X0O


i lyk liz but i dunt want newun to noe n evrywun thynks i do should i keep away frum her or tell her wut if she tells the skoo i dun noe i thynk she pretti i would of got her sutin for vtines day but i didnnt noe wut
i am not gun say hoo dis is or ne1 (link)
you dont have to say who it is. Dont care what other people think. If you have feelings for her you cant change them. I would tell her , or have a friend find out who she likes, or you could talk to her on the computer and ask her and then she most likely will ask you adn just take the chance and tell her hope I helped.. rate honestly

♥ emmA *


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In an advice page?


well I heard my friend ( who did'nt tell me this ) thinks I have an eating disorder because I dont get hungry a lot because my body takes a long time to digest my food and i dont get hungry easily i feel that if she really thinks that she should talk to me because it's really rude to say that to someone else and it makes me feel uncomfortable about her saying stuff like that behind my back (link)
She is probally worried. But I would talk to her about it. Or in time she will come to you. but I understand you dont liek her saying those things, So I would see if she doesnt say them or talk ot her about it . Hope I helped Rate honestly

♥ emiLy *


Hello. Ok, well I'm 13 and around 5'5. I used to weigh around 125lbs, now I weigh 100lbs. My mom is really worried about me. She's saying my legs are getting thinner, and so is my butt (no, she's not a sicko & checks me out, she's my mom). I freak out over what I eat. I am like obsessive over food labels, but to be honest, I really don't even know what they mean. And I got my period Ocotber 2003. I haven't had my period since July 2004. I know if you lose weight it can totally screw your body up. Idk what to do. I'm scared I'm gonna hurt myself =\, but I just can't get myself to admit that this might not be normal... (link)
I`m sorry but I dont think that this is normal. I would really try to start gaining a little weight back and your period should return. I think the reason you are not getting it is because you dont weigh and are not eating enough. I dont want to scare you but this could become very very serious. You need to gain some weight back only if it is a little you need alottle moer weight. If you cant I would talk to your mom or friend, or go to the doctors. I know its hard to admit you ahve a problem and I think you are doing the right thing by kind of realizing this isnt right and you need some help. Or to gain some more weight. I hope I helped if you need more advice dont hesitate to ask. I`m here to help you.

♥ emiLy*


Heyy emily iitsz Desiree wats up babe? well quess what! i lost my virginity =/ i had sex! but i really like Sam! Me Katie Nicole all had sex we met mexicans n we did it! i regret it! Katie *&* Nicole can be such hoesz! they made me should i styll be friendsz with them? help me Outt! Desiree Ooxx (link)
Are you serious ? and no one can make you have sex with someone else it is your choice but.. someone can make you have sex with them but that is rape. I seriously hope this is a joke. And I dont knwo Nicole, but Katie isnt a hoe.


okay there is this girl that i no nd she really likes this kid that doesnt like her.
she gets all pissed at everyone for talking about Him and i really like him..
I Wanted to lose my Virginity to him but im not sure if that would be the right thing to do?
My friend that really likes him is moving soon so should i hook up wit him then?
i am really confused because i dont no what to do and its going to be vacation soon And than thats wen i want to do Stufff with him.

Thanks for Ur Time,
x o Me o x (link)
I`m not 100% sure what you should do ,I mean it`s your choice if you want to lose your virginity with him but you may lose a friend too. ( If she finds out ro if anyone else does.. how old are you? because you might be to young and want to wait anyway, ) I also think it is sort of wrong because your friend likes him. If you want to do stuff with him .. I would wait until your friend loses feelings for him or until she moves. ( well atleast wait to have sex with until one of those things happen ).. thats what I think is right. But its your choice.. I`m sorry I couldnt tell you exactly what to do. But I hope my opinion helped you in some way.. I really hope I helped you. Rate honestly

♥ *emiLy


Well. Me and a bunch of my friends are having a bunch pr0blems because im g0ing 0ut w. this Guy that My friend Likes. and he cheated 0n her w. Me.. Anyways.. Everyone is takeing the other chics side because she d0esnt have any0ne else that has her back [sisters,cousins].. And everyone says that im a bad friend for g0ing 0ut w. him ..but i d0nt really care as much as i use t0 because i've liked that kid l0nger then her. and knew him l0nger then her.. .
Anyways. Thankss f0r y0ur tiime (link)
I dont understand what your question is. lOL.. write another one with the question. Sorry..

P.S i know who you are lOL

♥ emMa *


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first off, im sure your not ugly dont think that hun!.. next , I would write him a note. and just be like so did you think about it yet? do you want to go out with me. Only write him like one note saying that and asking him other wise he may tink you are pushy and pbsessed just be patient, he may need a little time to think about it because he has never had a girlfriend before. and you have had boyfriends, so he might be shy and is afraid to be unexperienced. Hope I helped. Rate honestly.

P.S > Don`t listen to your friends even if he isnt the cutest boy that shouldnt be what its all about and they should be happy for you , if I was your friend I would be =).. *( do I know you ? )*

♥ emiLy *
X0OXO`


My hair is semi-straight and I wnat a really good straghtner. Where can I find one, what kid is good and how much should I spend on it? (link)
you can get them at target ... Sally`s beauty supply. A hair dressers, umm some at walmart or walgreens.. i would go with target or sally beauty supplies tho. I heard "Chi" straighteners were reaLly good!.. but I think some are kind of expensive.. but I think you can get some for good prices.. I have a conair right now and I like it. It depends on what kind of straightener from that brand. Conair is cheaper in price I think. and I think Chi works a little better but I havent gotten one yet. Hope I helped .. Rate honestly.

♥ emiLy *
X0OXO`


Okay well im not a stick i have a little extra baggage if you know what i mean. I really like this kid and he likes me but we have never met, but my friend told me everything about him and i want to meet him but i'm really scared that he won't like me anymore because of the way i look. should i take the chance and get my heart broken, or just forget about him? Please help! (link)
If he cares about just your looks then I personally dont think he is worth it, and in the end you could get moer hurt if thats all he cares about. I would meet him becuase if you dont you will always wonder "damn what it?" and you`ll never say "aww I remeber..." , and if it doesnt work out you will still learn from the experience. hope i helped.. rate honestly

♥ emiLy*


this is emily.. to the person who asked me for the code that makes the words move its.. (link)
(marquee)TEXT(/marquee) change ( to arrows.. like < or...the oppostie arrow from that and where it says text that is where you put what you want it to say

sorry it took me so long to answer..
hope I helped
Rate me honestly *

♥ emiLy*


do u lyk nikki grassa ? (link)
No affense to whoever this is.. I`m not going to put who I like on a site for everyone to see. and why? if I know you i/m me and if I dont send another message..

♥ emiLy*


Ok well me and this kid have been talking for like 2 weeks.My friend introduced us and we have so much in common, but the problem is he was dating another girl when he asked me out. I knew about the girl, but he said he was gunna dump her for me. Well he never did instead he dumped me and now they are broken up and he keeps telling me he loves me. We both still have feelings for each other but he doesn't talk to me like he used to.What should i do? (link)
He might be leading you on or using you. I would talk to him and ask him if he still likes you. Or take a chance and ask him out =).. hope I helped.. send feedback be honest *

♥ emiLy*


my hair is staticky .. how do i make it not staticky? (link)
I would try to straihgten it .. thats what I do then I put in a straightening spray called Stay Straight. (( mine is pink )). Or you could use this gell I used for awhile it is called Citre` Shine - get smooth.. hope I helped

♥ emiLy *


sum girl is talkin behind my back and sayin im annoyin..i thought she was cool but now she aint..what shud i do?? cause all my friends r still her friend .. s4L (link)
... I would just ask her about it. or have one of your friends tell you if hse continues you to talk about you
hope I helped..
♥ emiLy*


how dO i make one of these advice things?
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go to advicenators.com


What is 'popularity' but a social disease? (link)
It`s when you have alot of friends =)




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