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O.K. My problem all started when someone was prank calling my house. I then found out it was one of my best friends. I got mad at her twice. Once for doing. Twice for lieing about it. I'm in junior high and it's so hard for me. Then, my closest best friend took up for her. Then, my other close best friend took up for her too. I don't know what to do. I live in Deer Park and I'm illegally going to Laporte Junior High. My close best friend is threatening to kick my butt and I don't know what to do. Should I switch to my legal school or continue illegally going to a school where EVERYONE hates me. I rate 5's for anyone who can really make a difference in my life! THNX TO ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!! XOXO

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
~~~KaYlA

Sorry So Long But I need Help ASAP

I'm not sure whether you should go to the legal or illegal schooool. But If you go to the one where every one supposedly "hates" you then go back looking and feeling great! Go back CONFIDENT dont be afraid to sit down at a luch table where all the whorres sit...even though i strongly dont advise to do that...even though they could give you a few good tips...no just kidding!!...but dont be afraid to stand out and be daring. people will LOVE you (boys in a good way- girls in a friend way!! dont be grossed out)for being yourself!! You have the right to feel FREE to say and think and act any way you WANT!Dont care if people say something behind your back, they obviously dont have the brains or heart to be a good person, so dont feel pressured to be some body you AREN'T, you will find a bunch of friends who think you are Insane!!!...in a good way of course!!

just remember to be yourself, and dont hold any long term grudges against people who say bad things...they might become a friend.

hope I've been of some help!

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I'm 16 and I'd like to try out for the school musical, but I'm really nervous. what should I do to have a good audition?

I am in love with theater! I could live my life out on stage!! and it's GREAT that you want to particapate in your school play..

SOme things that are DEAD IMPORTANT that will make you stand out are:


#1 Projection- There are going to be rows and rows and rows etc. filled with people with sucky hearing, great hearing, or there might be people who even have to turn their hearing up to 100, ok, and they ALL nead to hear you! If they are sleeping, YOU need to be the one to wake them up and get into the story. If the director ( or who ever is doing your audition) cant hear you, or their clothes dont blow off them ( GOD hope that it wont!) then you wont stand out and have a better chance off not mking it...sorry but yeah..its true!!

#2 Artuculation- Not only do people nead to hear you,but they need UNDERTSAND you. I mean, whats the point of hearing anything if you cant even decipher what is crawling out of your mouth! A good excersize to help you with this is going
"OO-EE-OO-EE-OO-EE..." over and over again. Its ok if you friends think you are a fire engine because they will be able to understand you when you apologise for being on crack or what ever :)..jk

#3 Be the charater!- very very very important thingy. If you cant feel what the character is feeling, then people with fall asleep drooling and then the person that they are drooling on will jump up screaming(!!!!) and every one else's attention will be lifted off of you and then...all is lost :(


#4 facial expressions- Last but no way in hell is it least! If you don't look like youre CRYING, or you dont look HAPPY SAD ANGRY EMBARSSED RETARTED ITCHY NAUSEOUS and so on, then they wont leave like they just saw the BESTEST play ever in the history of life!!

GOOD LUCK!!

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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.


I apologize for the length.

I know the pain you are feeling like no other. My mom died of date rape. I felt as if i had killed her for schedualing the teacher parent conference. (Scary to believe the horror that my tearcher was the villian)I didn't care if I stayed sinking into the bed forever. I didn't care about my school work, and soon my grades began to slip. Then I thought, "would my mom want to see me wasting away and ruining my life?"
No. She wouldn't want to see me acting so rash and blaming myself for something I couldn't control. Something not a single person can TRULY control...just like your friend. Life rolls fastly outside of the gates to your life. The traffic blurrs as you step out and see that every one is alone in your life. Yes, are surounded by the warmth of love from every one around you...but every one is out for themselves. You cannot blame yourslef for the death of your best friend. I could not imagine losing one of my best friends agian like my mother. You must awaken to the morning sun shinnign around you. The moon and stars my have desended around your friend, but it is still day light for you. You must live on and forgive youself, your friend, and even your ex boy friend, apologise to him for being such an evil person. You must feel pround and live on.


sorry for the length

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