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I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP!

One... you are 14... guys suck ( and I'm not talking about oral) at 14... in fact they blow chunks well into their 16's... besides... most guys don't hit their growth spirt till 14/15 (they are slow like that.. not to mentially) so it'll be a while before they catch up.. until them, just remember that they are little pigs following their pointers through life, until they get some one pregnant.... so in short... don't worry about it, even if they don't grow mentally they will physically, they are just slower to catch on like that. You won't be the tallest one forever.

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okay i go back and forth between my moms house and my dads house. The day after i went to my moms house, my dad lost my cat. He said it got outside, and then i come back a week later and he tells me this! what should i do???

cry and scream and throw a huge temper tantrum, if it doesn' get your cat back, it might get you some other just as equally good stuff

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I have bitten my nails for as long as I can remember and now they are very short and small. I have tried absolutely every trick in the book to give up but I always give up and start biting again. I can't help it, I always set out with the willpower to give up but I'll get bored in a lesson and start to chew. My boyfriend and all my friends and family think it's disgusting and are always trying to get me to stop but I can't, what should I do?

chew on something else....maybe your boyfriend could volunteer a finger or other body part since he finds the habit so distastefull, and when he's not around, gum or candy will work fine.

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do u people think its weird if ur a girl and tell a gurl u luv dem like when they are about 2 get offline? cuz my friend online who is lez said dat 2 me and i said it bak cuz i have known her 4 a while and she is like 1 of my best friends. is there sumthin wrong with that?cuz now that i think about it it kinda seems weird i juss said it witout thinkin.
much luv people!!
holla

dude..... WHAT?! I hope your still in school, because with writing like that, you are gonna need it.......


Well, alright then, so sorry to have offended you.

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Hi, I'm a dancer and we are making up our own hip hop dances and I want a cool song to dance to. I also want a song that would be easy to make dance moves to. Any suggestions?

hands down the best song... Safety Dance

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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?

Thanks!

p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!

perhaps its time to buy a new pair of shoes... or perhaps its not the shoes's problem, but your feet's. I've found that light acid peeling reduces the smell by 100% of course its also eats away most of the skin to, which is whats causing the stentch... but which is worse... stinky shoes or no feet...

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My brother got in some mess with some people.They are the type that do drugs have gone through lost of shyt in life.Well my brother did something and they took it very personal and came down to our house and began yelling at the door.but we have a gate so he couldnt come in but he was real ruff he also came with his older brother; i guess thay wanted to fight.Well the younger one which is 17 busted out with im gonna kill you or something like that and that boy is known to have a dangerous background.im really scared i dont know what to do.im very confused my brother tells me not to worry but how am i not suppose to.plz help me!ive thought about calling the police but i dont think i can go through with it until that boy took some serious actions.

The next time they are screaming at your front gate, call the cops on their butts, its a potentially dangerous situation which could result in personal or propereity damage...CALL THE COPS, get over it and just dial the number, we pay the police salaries with our taxes, they are there because of us... its YOUR resource... USE them

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i have this dog who is two years old, and i love him sooo much. the problem is, he has gotten my other dog pregnant twice, and each tie we had a horrible time trying to give the puppies away. My parents are furious, and they want to castrate him. i just cant bear the though of him losing his gender! just in case any of you know, what happens when you castrate a dog? are there any side effects?

nope, after a few days they are fine and running around again... its actually more humane to have them fixed than to not have them fixed. Because once the puppies leave your home, there is no sure thing that is keeping them from the street or pound. The humae society is forced to put hundred of animals down each year because people don't get their animals fixed and there are so many unwanted offspring.

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I met a guy almost 5 years ago who was everything I could have ever wanted. He was perfect in every way for me...then we lost touch. We were too shy to keep in touch, but for awhile after we left each other...I can't stop thinking about how perfect it was. What do I do now?

Hunt him down... get back in touch, even if its just to smile and say I thought about you the other day and wondered what ever happened to you, being shy is cute and all that, but sometimes its that extra boost that locks things down.

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ok well me and this guy like each other. but im afraid to do anything about it because well, he is a bit... faster w/ girls than i am comfortable w/. and he also does drugs and drinks and im straightedge. so i dont know if it would work out to well. he said hes quitting smoking and drinking but i highly doubt it. i really like this kid and i cant seem to get him out of my head but i dont know what to do.

Cut him out of your head with a jagged metal spoon and move on.... drugs and fast paced guys are almost always a dangerous mix... he'll drag you down faster than a lead fart.

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there's this person at school that i really like... i mean really REALLY like, and i've felt this way for a long time. i've told a few friends only about this deep crush, and the chemistry me and this person have is very good... and i'm just wondering if i should at least tell them how i feel... i'm scared that it'll ruin the friendship.

~snickerdoodle

That is a toughy.... I think you should stalk them, then one day when they are least expecting it run them down and jump them.... for sex... not for a mugging.

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