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Hey, it's Ali...If you've got a question...go on and ask!!! Now here's some stuff about me....

The A-Z's about ME!

A~ Alina Langolf
B~ Birthday 11/26/90
C~ Cats~~~ Flik and Fidget
D~ Dead Poetic~ my favorite band!
E~ Emily~ my bff
F~ Family~ Dad Mom Me Bro
G~ God~ the most important person in my life
H~ High School~ I am a freshman this year
I~ I Love you!
J~ Jack my only brother
K~ kinda wierd....but it's ok
L~ Loving someone special
M~ Movie~ Alex & Emma, Chainsaw(lol)
N~ Nicknames~ Scubbbbaaa(hehe) Big AL
O~ Our Saviour Lutheran, my church
P~ Port Huron Michigan, where i live
Q~ quiet...sike!
R~ Right~ always do what is right
S~ Soccer, MY sport
T~ time, something i don't have alot of
U~ U Need to rate me
V~ Volleyball, MY other sport!
W~ Work? i am trying to get a job
X~ X-tra love...that's what i am ALL about lol
Y~ yesterday~ don't worry about it! it's a new day
Z~ Zodiac~ Saggitarius


Here to Help

advice

Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))

if you feel comfortable letting him go up your shirt than go ahead and let him. But it all depends on what you are comfortable with.

hope I helped.......Alina

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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him.

I think that myabe you love his sex not him....that's jsut the way it sounds. But the guy sounds like a jerk if he was using you for sex. And if you get him back he will jsut do it again. You are only an option with him.

Hope i helped.......Alina

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Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing

As a past cutter and from dealing with others that cut now, it is a very painful issue. There is no doubt about that. When i told my boyfriend he said the same thing. i suggest that you talk to your b/f and tell him that you would like to stop but it will take time and maybe with his support you can overcome the issue. But you REALLY do need to stop cutting, in the end it adds more stress you anyway.

And i can see why your b/f would want to keep his distance, losing someone to suicide is the worst way to lose them.

Hope I helped...........Alina

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Can you get prenaunt from fingering?

Nope, and you must not be ready enought o be doing stuff like that...if you think you can get pregnant from fignering

hope I helped.....Alina

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You worry me,
You’re face so dark and cold.
You must be ready to kill me.
This night is dark,
No one will notice this.
No one will care.
You wanted me to die for years.
You revealed it tonight,
The night of hell.

My night of torment was not like before,
So sweet and full of cheer
Your good mood turned into anger,
And it engulfed me,
This will never be the same as it was before,
You thought I was a toy for you to play with,
But I’m not a voodoo doll,
But so it seems I have acted as one for you.
My whole life was a lie,
The life I spent with you,
The one that was most precious to me.

My life was wasted on you,
Your face is the worst sight in the world.
If only I could trust you anymore,
We could live in a fairy tale.
But, your last lie to me,
Won’t make anything the same,
You said you would hold my hand through thick and thin,
But you never said torture and cruelty,
I’m an idiot to trust you.

Blood drips upon this paper as I write my last goodbye
Can't you see that all we ever had was but a lie
I sit here and wonder just how hard you tried
To sing me to sleep that night with your one cold lullaby
But to your pleasure it’s enough
Because you just heard the sound of my voice choke.


Ok, I know this was terrible, but please give me some feedback.

I am a poet and i really liked that. I think that you shoudl post this piece and maybe if you have some of your other work on www.poetictimes.com

i have a name there too so if you decide to do that email me at notaperfectgirl_99@hotmail.com and tell me what your name is!

Hope i helped.....Alina

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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Next time he brings it up tell him that you need to have a talk. You just need to explain that you are going to wait. Tell him that if doesn't like that then you don't want to be with him. And if he ever pressures you to do anything than end the relationship immediatly!

Hope i helped....Alina

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well I'm in love with a guy who is actually my friend ( but im strong/bff with his sister for 7 yrs) and I just feel strange because he's a friend of mine, but I really really like him as boyfriend material, we have alot in common i guess ( but i have more in common with his sister :D)I don't know what to do :(

--->Lilly

Can i just say for the record this is a difficult postion to be in, but once you figure it out it is wonderful!
If you love someone then you shoudlnt' let other people affect your relationship. Whether it is your friends or family...or his family. Don't let it affect you. There are many benifits to being close to his sister. B/c i assume that it means you are close to his family, which causes things to be easier if you break up b/c things will still be normal with everyone else around the two of you.

But if you do break up, it will be full of hurt. i have to warn you that your friendship will never be the same, b/c there will always be romantic feelings there.

But I know exactly where you are coming from. And the relationships are always really great, and it's nice to be with someone you can trust and that you care about.

Good luck......Alina

P.S. life is all about taking risks!

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i dont no if this is in the right catogory but anyways..i was wearing a wrist band because i thot they made cool braclets and i guess ny best friend thot i was cutting myself cuz i didnt want to take it off.she told some people and guidance one of the guidance councelers[not mine] told her students that my counsler saw the cuts on my wrist even tho there wasnt anything. rumors were over the WHOLE school and everyone treated me like i was some kind of freak.schools out now so i dont have to talk to all of them but i still dont have trust in my best friend and i dont no if people think i cut still even tho i never did! what do i do???
-rumors hurt-

Well it sounds like you don't need this girl as your friend. If she tells people a story before she even verifies her information. If anybody asks you about it, i suggest you take the wristband.

But eventually rumors will die and by next year a few people will bring it up to be "funny"! but nobody else will care and it will all be done with. But about your fried i suggest you call the friendship

Hope I helped.....Alina

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ok well my older brother has been out of town for like 5 or 6 days with his friend...hes back now and even before he left ive been noticing that my parents like him more than me it seems. like i would say a joke and my mom would just roll her eyes but if my brother would say it she would start cracking up laughing. both my parents think im a brat or something and ive tried to tell my mom i would be like "u like ____ more than me dont u"? and shed just roll her eyes. while my brother was out of town me n my mom went shopping and did all kinda girl stuff and yeah i know she wants to hear about my brothers trip and all but still. am i exagerating?

Well it sounds like what it going on at my house right now too. Just know that your parents love both you and your brother the same. It may be that your parents have trouble understanding you. Have you ever tried to sit down with your Mom or Dad and told them how they felt. Most likely they will deny anything. but when you feel that they are ignoring you or being rude, point it out to them.

Hope i helped.......Alina

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I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!

Well first off if you plan on having sex again, you need to use protection!!!!!!!

But if you don't get your period go to the store and buy a pregnanct test just to be sure.

Now about the abortion, just be careful b/c that plan may back-fire in your face. Eventually you will feel the need to tell your parents and also when you get older and have kids. YOu will wonder how you could ever kill one of them. But it is definelty your decsion. if you feel that an abortion is the right choice then go with it. But definetly go to a teen helath center and get some more info on all your options before you finalize anything.

Hope i helped..........Alina

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See i liek this girl but she lieks another guy and i always try to tell her but she never liek answers wat do I do?
signed,
confused

Listen....it may take time for her to realize that she likes you. But definetly don't push anything. B/c she might jsut get annoyed then. jsut know that she may not have feelings for you in a dating way. No one can control what we all feel in our heart. Espessially if you are any older than 14 most relationships are based on what is goign on in your heart. Also maybe try to jsut become friends with her, again don't push anything!

hope i helped, Alina

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