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I come from a small town in New York called Fulton. not many people in our high school maybe 300 something. But I still love it here. I am most like any other 17 year old girl but I am not all that girly, I grew up with all guys except my best friend who I meet when I was 6. I love to dance, I also love the UFC! I am the biggest dork ever and I just dont care beucase I love it! There are very few people in this world that I love with all my heart. I still act like a little kid most of the time. I can't stand people who are fake and who casue drama. I get along with just about everyone and I tell it like it is.

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When a guy fingers you or when you give him a handjob, do you still keep kissing while doing it or do you stop kissing?

well its kinda 50 50 like you dont kiss all the time but do sometimes.

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My Grandma passed away on Tuesday, and my Dad asked me if I would do a reading for her... I'm terrified of public speaking... but I think I could manage reading a poem, does anyone know any suitable poems (preferrably ones I could find on the internet) I have googled "funeral poems"... but they're not really what im looking fo... I would like a beautiful poem, maybe about nature or god and heaven... (my Gran was a devout catholic who spent much of her time in church)... thankyou so much for your help x x x

I dont know if this one will help but i recently had to write a poem for school and i wrote my uncle and i wrote this one

When I was little, you were always there.
There were so many memories, so many years.
There were no byes, nothing it was unfair.
Thinking of you, eyes fill up with tears.
No one ever knew that it was your time.
As one day made a little girl grow up.
It was all like a horrible nursery rhyme.
Why did you have to go to the biggest walk-up?
I still expect you to walk though that door.
It's been almost a year since you left here.
Wishing you could hear as I lay on my floor,
trying to tell you how life has been down here.
When you left here you taught me something new,
you showed me strength and who I am now too.

(I don't know if that is gunna help any just thought it might)


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I've recently developed a crush for a guy in one of my classes. and i got his sn off facebook cause he and i were talking from wall to wall and that annoys me so i IMed him tuesday night. we talked all night..well till about 9:30 i think? and then Wednesday night he Imed me again and then we talked for about 2-3 hours (online) and then again last night he Imed me at 7 something and we talked pretty much non stop till 10:40. and i really have a crush on him. but i only see him in one of my classes. i mean sometimes i pass him in the hall but thats it. and they things he says makes me think he has a crush on me too, but for right now i'm not going to worry about that because its only been a few days so i'm working on just becomeing good friends and i really want his cell phone number so we can talk on the phone and text and such. but i don't know if i should ask for it and see if he has texting and everything or if i should i just wait for him to ask me for mine? and any suggestions on how i can flirt with him more but not make it tooo obvious?

thanks!

ask for his number guys are sometimes really shy to make the first move. To firlt when you see him in the hallway say hi to him and it doesnt matter how many classes you guys have it wont matter.

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well ive had problems with this boy not calling and he didnt call me for 2 weeks!!! then he randomly called me sat. nite n he was talking bout my b-day which was on mon>!! bout he said he wsa going to call me for my bday but he never did!!!! i love him n all but i dont think i can handle not talking on the fone b/c we dont see each other alot hes in high skool!! wat should i do???? also latley our longest fone conversation has been like 8 min!!! !! how lame!!!! help pz

well you need to bring it up and be like we dont really talk anymore and be like i miss talking to you so much.

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ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad???

Well i ddont think you would get sick but not really sure. But that is just gross seriously!

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Ok my BFF has another BFF which I hate!! I think my BFF is talking about me to her, but I not sure.
How can you tell? I can't stand my BFF's friend.
What should I do, Be nice to her, or be as mean as possible?

I think you should be nice you can still hate her just be nice beucase she is your friends friends and if you are a true friend you should just be nice to her.

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Okay can someone please help me. i'm trying to get on my edit profile but it kicks me out every time i click on it why????
i ask tom but he didnt send me a relpy yet. did that happen to you all before? how do it fix it?

its not my computer i try it on other computers and it still does it. my sister went to hers okay but mine is all scewed up!

It is proably your myspace site there are alot of peoples site that gets messed up like my friends he cant even go in it anymore and you cant even look at his or anything anymore. My best advise would be to make a new one.

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Do you think this will be ok for a grad dress for grade 8? Yes I do have black hair. Will it look ok with my hair just straight down?

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/se7en001ty4.jpg

http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/se7en002sa8.jpg

and give me your HONEST opinion! I'll rate each question honestly.

I think you should dress a little less formal and jsut more casual. still wear a dress just dont over do it. graduation isnt that big of a deal. hardly anyone was dressed up for mine.

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Well I'm on my 4th year of puberty and my breats didn't grow at all. Totally flat. Will it stay like that?

I mean, it's been 4 years..

And I never knew before that when your breasts hurt that it's growing so in the past when it did hurt I slept laying on my tummy so maybe that's why? Again, will it grow?

If you sleep on you stomach its not gunna cause your breast to be smaller. they wont grow over night. Im sure they will grow you just gotta give it time.

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ok im about to go to a b-day party and my crush is gonna be there. what should i do? i want to let him know i like him but not tell him. like how can i flirt with him? hes my best friend and according to my instincts he likes me back. everyone thinks its so obvious that we like eachother but he hasnt said he does. so how can i let him knoe im interested? its gonna be super fun with like tons of ppl and i just want tonight to go well since i never get to hang out with him outside of school. who knoes maybe even a kiss may happen! ahh cant wait help please. anyhting works! just please hurry befor i leave haha. im 14/f by the way.

Well you should just always be around him and mostly try and hang out with him just be yourself and he will like you since he is your best friend.

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Someone give me quick easy ways to calm down that works? I get A's on projects and eassys but right at end end before it's done I always go into a panic attack. i got everything there and point form notes, I just need to put them all together but I can't because I go crazy and can't think because I can't calm down.

and I can't listen to music or else I cant' think!

You should just take a breather at times when you feel like you are going to freak out take a 5 min break and just breath and go get a drink then after you have chilled out for 5 mins go back to it. like you said you know this stuff there is no reason to freak out.

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so i have this friend named alicen. and i consider her my best friend. however, she doesnt think im hers. how do i get her to think im her best friend? Pleaseee help this is so important to me. Thanks.

You should be there for her whenever she has a problem and you should be like how is my best friend? and just say stuff like that.

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I'm trying to figure out if a guy likes me. He's giving me mixed messages, and sometimes he sounds interested, sometimes he's not. I thought this part of our conversation was very weird. Let's call him "Bob."

MeTheGirl says:
My sister said I'm a loser and a dork because I'm single.
HimTheGuy says:
tell her u have a boyfriend

To me it sounds like he likes you. If he talks to you alot and takes the time to its proably beucase he has a thing for you too.

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how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks.

you should try a water bra the work wonders!

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i dyed my hair but since it was my first time the lady didnt want to use bleach so basiclly i have unbleached dyed hair will it turn orange if i wash it? if not how can i prevent it from turning orange? i dyed my hair yesterday

you shouldnt wash it until tomorrow or so about a day after. you dont want the dye to wash out. But you dont need to bleach your hair to dye it. And it shouldnt turn orange if its permanent.

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is it better to wait a while to make a move on a quiet girl and hope that she will eventually like u and trust you and be patient anf all or sholud u just move on??
please help me coz this is cracking mr up

You have to see how she feels. Talk to her alot try and make some plans to hang out with some with friends that are hers and yours. Hang out alot and make a little move and see what she does if she wants to go further you will see if not you will know by what she is doing.

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17/f.
well ive only had sex like 3 times and the last time the guy wanted me to go on top but i had no clue what i was doing.

can someone please tell me what to do when im on top.
thanks in advance.

There are several different positions classified as "woman on top." The most common is that she straddles his hips, taking his penis inside her, and then lies down or crouches atop him, either with her legs bent or stretched out. She may also choose to just sit straight up atop him, sliding up and down; this position is both visually stimulating for the man and allows him to play with her breasts freely.

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a hot jock at my school keeps iming me telling me that i make him horny and im hott. and hes like perverted i talk to him, but i mean i dont take him seriously. and hes like"i dont act like this around my friends. dont tell anyone im acting liek this to you" and im like "wtf."


whats going on?

I think he just wants to get with you and that is all nothing more. Im sorry but if he doesnt want you to tell anyone then yeah He doesnt really like you and he says you make him horny not really the most romantic thing to say to a girl he likes. So in all he want to sleep with you.

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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...

Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.

He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!

I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...

Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad...

Yeah I understand how you are feeling I grew up with guy and I took tae kwon do for about 4 years I got all the way up to my red belt. (Which is almost black) but then I just got really bored so i quit. well most of the guys there said they could beat and thought that they could at sparing but none of them did I always kick there asses. Yeah i never dated any of them but still they had pretty brusie egos that this "litter girl" beat them. I have also beaten guys in many sports taht they seemed to think they were so amazing at i said pff and proved them all wrong like me most recent boyfriend we joked about beating eachother up and the first time i pinned himm! I was so happy but he was really hurt and i saw that so we went agian and I let him win just beucase I saw how much he ego was hurt. I think its a guy thing. They have to prove that they are macho and what not. Im not saying that he should be acting the way he is he needs to be proud of you. And thanx for the compliment : )!!!! Hope he comes around and see this isnt the 1800's anymore! just kidding(about the 1800's)!

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I've asked many questions about this but I'm still confused. There is a boy who lives in Germany, and I really like him. I have never felt this way about ANYONE before, and I am just really happy talking to him.

I KNOW that I'll probably never meet him, and that we will definitely never go out. So don't tell me that, I know. But I still wish there was some way to tell him how much I like him. I want it to be subtle, and I don't want to freak him out. Sugguestions?

**Also please don't tell me, "He could be a 60 year old man." I'm not an idiot, and I am 100% positive that he's real.**

ok well you should be like i really like talking to you alot. and then see what he says if he says yeah me too then he probly thinks the same just tell him its not gunna be bad and say yeah i know its dumb and everything but yeah. Its a good thing you know it wont work and there is no harm in just telling him beucase whats the worst that can happpen he lives in Germnay after all.

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