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Hi. My name is Kaylin. But I'd prefer if you called me Captain Hitsugaya. Please and thank you!
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Well I am 14.
15 in March.
But anyways
I haven't had much fun,I know its sad but I am 14 and I haven't even made-out yet. And like every girl when they are like my age always have fun,right. Well I know this is like a hard question but how do I start having more fun. Like going to party's and all that stuff. Bcuz I am suck of being like being doing non-fun stuff.
you know what i mean.
can anyone like help me?

you should try to calm down more. if you don't take life so seriously you won't worry about the outcome of something when you do it. think resonablely but don't sweat things too much. and find a guy who really flips your switch.
and when you do,start really slow and then it will just come naturally.

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Ok i've been trying not to call my boyfriend and see if he would ever call me,but he never had except once. But that was awhile back

So does he still like me are not????
How can I make him like me more to????
I'll rate 5's on a good response

He's prolly just as confused about were the relationship is going as you are.
Try spending more time with him and talking to him more deeply. Like about intelligant stuff. And have long conversations.

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ok so i've been talking to this guy online. and he goes to a different school then me. im 15 and he is 16. im gonna be a freshmen and he is gonna be a junior. we talk all the time. we get along great. he is always saying im beautiful. and last time he said i reall do mean it. and he is always saying im here for u if u need someone to talk to. and earliar he just gave me his number. oh and he is my ex best friends ex boyfriend. they went out for like a week and a half. i was wondering if he likes me? or has feelings for me?

sry its so long. please help.
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Chances are that he does like you.

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i used to like this guy ( lets call him bmiller) for 4 months. he was a flirt sweet sensitive knew how to treat a girl really well charming and had really nice blue eyes but then he started being a jerk to me and i regret liking him sort of

so my question is why are these kinds of guys irresistable to us girls and what is it about blue eyes that we love so much

the blue eyes are just so deep that we can't resist them.
women are all about romance and we like attention. it makes us feel special and we need that. women have naturally low self esteems and when a guy gives a women a compliment she thinks he reeally cares.
your friend bmiller sounds like a jerk. he prolly just wanted to get laid.

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When I was little, my parents never spent time with me, never talked to me unless it was about something i did wrong, and really brought me down.

Now I'm 16, and I'm used to living without my parents basically. They're there, but not there for me.

I think my childhood led up to the reason why I don't have any esteem at all.

I'm trying to make up for those years by hanging out with my friends- and they're calling me "clingy".

I need to try and make up for those little positive moments i never had as a kid, I need to get my esteem past the level of zero.


Any advice on how I can do this?

Well your problem is mental. I'm not saying your crazy but growing up like that must have made you depressed all the time. You never had a real escape from it so it became your overall attitude. But now you are so miserable you just want out.
I suggest you just hold back on the clingyness. Your friends are already your friends cuz they like your personality.You don't have to hold on to them,they aren't going anywhere.So it's ok.
You also need to find a close friend or girlfriend/boyfriend who really understands you and helps build your confidence up.
tell yourself you are ok.it wasn't your fault your parents did that. just be you and people will love you for it.

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